BDSM Dating in Birmingham

I'm a very nerdy guy who's recently gone through a divorce and am hoping to eventually find someone to help take my mind off things, I play a lot of games in my free time, though my free time is really just early after noon due to my work schedule, I love all kinds of ***s, and love majority of the fantasy and sci-fi genres of movies and anime.

I'm hoping to find someone I connect with as a friend as well as sexually.