I'm a bbw 215lbs I'm 5'3 I'm thick woman. I am a soft sub with a bratty side that can be a switch if I need tpo be.I'm kinda I'm new to the lifestyle.I've always been interested in it for yrs. I'm looking for a soft Dom who truly knows about the lifestyle,not someone that just wants to be over controlling. Not into being degraded or horrible name calling.i'm ok with light spanks, hand necklace, I'm a soft sub with a very bratty side alot I am a switch as well and be a Dom if I need to be .I have no problem be in control either for a sub if I need to be.. I'm very honest, caring, romantic person.i don't show any nude pictures or videos. weather I'm my Dom side or sub.I'm all about the safety, health, well being of partner.if yr are truly interested pm me.