I'm a bbw 215lbs I'm 5'3 I'm thick but I'm kinda I'm new to the lifestyle I've always been interested in it for yrs now. I'm looking for a soft dom that knows what that means not someone that wants to be over controlling. i'm not into *** or being degraded or horrible name calling.i'm ok w light spanks, hand necklace, I'm what they consider a soft sub w a bratty side alot of times. plus I can be a switch if I need to be. I'm very honest, I don't hide nothing I don't show nude pics or vids. i don't mind if u do.the more I push my doms buttons to get the actions or reactions the more it does for me.i want to keep exploring this side of me w the right one who knows how to be one dom me if yr interested pm me.