I'm a bbw 215lbs I'm 5'3 I'm thick but I'm kinda new to the lifestyle been interested in it for yes. I'm looking for a soft dom that knows what that means not someone that wants to be controlling. i'm not into *** or being degraded or horrible name calling. light spanks, hand necklace, I'm ok with I'm a soft sub w a brat side alot at times. plus I can be a switch if I need to be. I'm very honest, I don't hide nothing I don't show nude pics or vids. i don't mind if u do.the more I push my doms buttons to get the actions or reactions the more it does for me.i want to keep exploring this side of me w the right done who knows how to be one dm me if yr interested.