*** I am looking for real people I can actually meet, within 20 miles. A regular fwbs situation to get needs met during the week ***
I cannot host, but I am up for creative solutions.
I am independent and strong willed in almost every aspect of my life.
That being said. I am also a submissive with the right partner(s).
Things you should know about me, if you take the time to message I take the time to respond; even if it’s to tell you I am not interested. I also look at your profile, your profile gives me a sense of knowing something about you. I don’t chase, we are all grownups. If you can’t handle a conversation then you really have no chance with me.
In most circumstances I need an emotional connection before there is a physical one. It’s how I am wired and it is super rare if I just consent to casual sex.
I dipped my toe into kink years ago and started exploring myself. I ended up in a vanilla relationship where I was promised I could still be me and get my needs met, and ever so slowly I changed myself to meet his needs and not mine, I stayed longer than I should have for many different reasons.
Trust and Communication are key. I really try not to not have any expectations. But I do expect you to be a Dominant of your word. If you cannot keep you word you will never earn my trust and that in and of itself will then be the demise of whatever relationship you and I had.
I ask questions, A LOT of questions, especially if you want things I am hesitant to provide. Right now I need to understand the whys and what’s of everything. I am not questioning you, your actions or any requests. I am trying to understand the entire picture and not just a moment. When I am more experienced as a sub there will be less questions and more things I will be less hesitant about.
NoughtUrAvgGrl on FetLife
*** I am looking for real people I can actually meet, within 20 miles. A regular fwbs situation to get needs met during the week ***
I cannot host, but I am up for creative solutions.
I am independent and strong willed in almost every aspect of my life.
That being said. I am also a submissive with the right partner(s).
Things you should know about me, if you take the time to message I take the time to respond; even if it’s to tell you I am not interested. I also look at your profile, your profile gives me a sense of knowing something about you. I don’t chase, we are all grownups. If you can’t handle a conversation then you really have no chance with me.
In most circumstances I need an emotional connection before there is a physical one. It’s how I am wired and it is super rare if I just consent to casual sex.
I dipped my toe into kink years ago and started exploring myself. I ended up in a vanilla relationship where I was promised I could still be me and get my needs met, and ever so slowly I changed myself to meet his needs and not mine, I stayed longer than I should have for many different reasons.
Trust and Communication are key. I really try not to not have any expectations. But I do expect you to be a Dominant of your word. If you cannot keep you word you will never earn my trust and that in and of itself will then be the demise of whatever relationship you and I had.
I ask questions, A LOT of questions, especially if you want things I am hesitant to provide. Right now I need to understand the whys and what’s of everything. I am not questioning you, your actions or any requests. I am trying to understand the entire picture and not just a moment. When I am more experienced as a sub there will be less questions and more things I will be less hesitant about.
NoughtUrAvgGrl on FetLife
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