Ok, so my last profile was, I admit, bordering on hostility, and I don't want to come across that way. Just because I may be going through a rough patch, by no means should I come across as bitter. I've been through worse, and I've always come out the other side wiser and more self aware. We can't choose our lessons, or obstacles in life, but we can choose how to respond. I think many would agree, it's much healthier to do everything you can to avoid negativity, and things that pull your energy down. Best, even if it's just one situation at a time that we put on our big girl and big boy pants, and smile, even if ***d, think of positives when you start to spiral down, *** yourself to acknowledge, and be grateful for what you have. because, as we all know, like energy attracts. Even if just for one moment at a time, I am looking towards the light, smiling more, and focussing on what I do have!Radiating joy is one of my mantras!
So I'm probably showing my age atm, but need to say that for me, dating means getting together to spend quality time getting to know one another. A fancy dinner or a walk along a river, dating doesn't have to mean always spending a lot of ***. I mean I want to go out sometimes. I get the younger crowd has a different definition of date, but I want to share here that, believe it or not, I've got old fashioned morals, and although kinky AF, that part of me will not come out until I feel the intimacy, and connection required before I let my guard down, and allow my vulnerabilities to be revealed.
I really am an old fashioned girl. It's been so long since I've had a partner...
I'm interested only in soft Dom/hard bodies.
Nott interested in hookups and carving another notch in your bed post. lol. I'm down for the long haul.Always friends first. I find even asking me for immediate sex is disrespectful, and having sex without some history, a connection, a spark, I'm leaves me feeling used, unfulfilled and feel there to be no perceived value of me. I want to feel loved! cherished and feel touched that you are so loving and attentive to me. I wish for this or something better be drawn to me. Now.
I don't like ***; a hard boundary. Not one to push. I am hoping to draw to me a Dom, that doesn't need to inflict *** in order to create ecstasy. I have been a model and an airline attendant, I've run Marketing Depts and represented senior executives when they were out. I know how to dress well, and I guess I'm trying to say that part of what attracts me to a Dom, if off balance is the same thing that repels me. Such as ordering me to allow you to choose my clothing, or what to eat. To me that's a creepy kind of need to control me. Seems frighteningly identical to narcissism; I don't want to be controlled. I'm not a robot. I've got a brain. **so, please, no narcissistic Doms. confident: great. but controlling, no. If you're needy and super smothering we would not make it past dinner.
I'm an independent woman, and do not thrive in a power play of control. Submission is a gift, outside the bedroom, too. Being kind, showing respect, honoring my boundaries not pushing them, as tho thinking this will create the intimacy and trust required to move beyond being just friends.)
I imagine this is not a popular stance for a sub. However, if I'm not asking for what I need, how can I expect to draw to me the person I want!?
I heard something the other day that seems apprapo here: the definition of crazy is the act of repeating the same behavior and expecting a different outcome. Crrrazy!
Younger men (35+), tall men (6ft),confident men, men who are beautiful and generous and loving in their hearts, I love a 5oclock shadow beard, but if you do like to wear a long beard, d love it if it were nicely trimmed vs the pandemic/ZZ Top growth. ;) not bitter just trying to be funny. I would prefer if your most proud possession is not a Harley, it would be great if you're not a convicted felon, and are seeking a woman that will come to adore you, treeasure you, and do all she can to bring harmony and joy into your world; into our world, everyday.
I've put a lot of energy into drawing a really grounded Dom to me. I want to meet a wonderful man who always has treated his momma as the beautiful, loving Queen that she is. This is great insight as to how you'll treat me.
I'm certainly open to this being an ideal time to meet someone attractive and to put this out to the universe my heart's desire, and hope someone on here may feel the same way.
ps I don't mean to sound superficial.when I say I want someone attractive. It's just that,for the last 25 years I've settled. Now I want excitement, I want to feel really physically attracted to someone, and I want to be adored. Inner beauty is where it's at, and I think I've earned the right to draw to me someone I cannot keep.my hands off of!
I'm honestly hoping the Universe hears my my heart's desire.
May you be well, and find the match you're looking for.
Thank you for reading this entirely too long intro!
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Hello, Sir?! Are you ok? Sir? The movie let out two hours ago. ? Wake up!
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WildKat4u
