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I love to submit as I find it so sensual, erotic and sexty to be told to strip down to full nakedness, then bow down and await the commands. Love sph, cbt and mastrubation

Hello my name is Spencer Shrader and I'm looking to move in with anyone preferably in or near Ventura I will do anything you want plus pay rent up to 800 a month please contact me asap.

Loyal communicative submissive looking to work hard to fulfill my Superior's desires and be walked all over

We are new to the lifestyle and interest in soft or full swaps with other couples or female unicorns.
Please no single men

I would like to meet people that want to help me explore my kiny side. Women and Couples with a Bi male preferred, but i am open to talking to anyone

Hey, I’m somewhat new to the scene but not the lifestyle. Looking for a submissive, open-minded woman to play around and experiment with. Sluts and cumdumps are always welcome as well. Hit me up! I’ll be waiting

Need a sub who can serve me. I’m sadistic and a huge experimentalist so I can make your darkest fantasies come true 😉

I'm known to be a switch. I'll happily play any role you choose for me. I've got limited experience as both but am confident enough to be both.

Looking for a woman dom, who wants to take me out on a date and see if things "vibe"

Well… I am learning that I am probably not the typical sub although I can perfectly fit into the ideal image of one… (I’m very obedient if I want you)

I’ve learned I won’t be that sub that will kneel in the middle of a Subway sandwich if you snap me at 7 PM at night telling me to kneel right then and there (by the way my neighbors kid works there…that would have been interesting), I’d much rather you get back to me when you want to hear all about my *** fantasy instead, or to get to know me first… or hear about my occasional desire to be all Vanilla and sit on top of you with you inside me while you tell me not to move, slapping my ass every time I twitch.  There has to be some kind of connection before I start taking orders… I have to be earned, and I’m realizing that may not be typical, but neither am I. The right Dom will adore this.

When is the last time you tried something new?
You may be amazed at what you discover about yourself!

And what does the unowned sub need? She needs to hear and know your wildest, deepest, darkest fantasies, talk to her… she needs to know exactly what you desire, she hopes what she does instinctively is exactly what you want, she wants to give you absolute pleasure no matter the sacrifice on her end and to know that you adore her for it. She wants to be owned, she wants to be used for your pleasure, she wants to know that you crave how she feels to you, her touch, what her filthy little holes make you feel, and to know that she drives you wildly insane bringing out the beast in you. She wants that veracious, unrelenting hunger of yours to show, she needs it, she craves it, she loves it. 

This unowned sub is not promiscuous and vets her Dom By listening and observing. Tell me exactly what I can do for you. Be raw, be unforgiving, be honest and let go of all your inhibitions. The greatest Dom will still have some reserve… let go of that when you talk to me. Let me know what’s hidden inside of you so I can learn you before you take exactly what you need from me, that’s what I am here for… for your pleasure, for you to control, to be your good girl, for you to own me.

This is how I vet… I need to hear you and I need to see you. I won’t unread your messages, I won’t ignore you, I won’t block you, I won’t deny you access to me in anyway, I will always respond and give you the respect you deserve. Even if we are not a match I will be respectful to you.. I know your place and I know mine.

I'm BDSM educated rope rigger.

Looking for a rope bunny within driving range in Los Angeles county.

Feel free to message me with any questions.

Let's get the fun started

Looking to hold chastity keys in San Francisco/bay area

I like to be given jerk off instructions and I can send videos of myself jerking off and 💦 for you😩

I Need tall and extremely well endowed man to dominate me and disrupt my busy, focused daily life. (endowment 8x6 minimum preferred 😈)

I want a man who will take what he wants from me and use me like the only thing I’m here for is for his pleasure…. until I’m so aroused and uncontrollably hungry that I try to take him, he needs to know how to put me back in my place again just right and give me what I deserve.. He needs to know how to talk to me, and when we’re done he needs to know how to care for me. I am a newly found size queen on the hunt for what I know I need and haven’t had yet. I am not promiscuous and I am vetting just the right one to meet in person (So please, if you ONLY want me to get you off and chat don’t even bother, The intent and willingness to meet in person is a prerequisite.). I am dominant, intimidating and aggressive by nature, I live this every day of my life and I need that offset. I need a man who is more powerful than me, Stronger than me, more financially secure than me (Or at least matches me/financially secure) AND is not afraid to dominate that kind of woman. Ideally if we get a chance to meet, if I go that far, we should be able to enjoy whatever we want wherever we want in the world and have our experiences. I have no idea where I want this to lead right now. I am very busy, I just know I need it and I’m going to get it and figure out what to do with it afterward. 😈

Couple in the Bay area looking for a submissive or switch woman for play and preferably a long term situation. Have a variety of kinks and interests we would enjoy exploring. Hit us up to find out more!

I want to find someone who’s actually wanting to take the time to get to know me and have a good time with me

I am switch looking for an adventurous partner who is willing to explore together both our kinky sides trust and respect and safe words ais a must no bs or findom

Ebony bbw rope bunny. Rope. Hitachi. Steel gspot wand. Hmu.🤙

Lookin for a women for kinky fun if the kinky are in the right places

Cis and Trans welcome. Submissive and kinda short guy looking for a mommy/dominant woman