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I am looking for a man who can become a soulmate for me. With whom I can talk and share any secrets. In a man, such traits as kindness, generosity and decency are important to me. I am looking for a man who will take care of me and protect me. I dream of meeting a man who will be able to become for me not only a loved one, but also a good friend and mentor. I want to be a real lover for my man.
ISO tall, muscular, masc. jocks, military, college, fit and clean cut types into showing off, size play, comparing, measuring, j/o, and oral. Love to play with guys hung bigger than me. ISO guys who are alphas everywhere but the bedroom. Also Fit/muscular guys with small cocks are hot too. Plays nice w/Str8 curious & Bi-guys. Am laid back and non-judgmental. I view vulnerability as incredibly sexy and ultimately value what's inside a guy over a hot exterior. I don't need to be in a committed LTR to express love and kindness and realize that powerful connections are healing for us both. I'm spiritual, but not religious, kind, funny, well traveled, cultured, smart, and creative. Professional/business owner who splits his time between Seattle and Atlanta. Drug and disease free, a light drinker and have been called handsome by people other than my mother. Not really looking to jump into another LTR at the moment. That said, FWB would be cool as lean toward being with one person at at time vs. multiple partners, and don't really enjoy meaningless or impersonal hookups. I value powerful/intense connections, good conversation, and genuine friendships with trust - even in a casual relationship. Most of my LTR's have been with men, but I've also had some significant M/F relationships too.
I am a cheerful, loving, and optimistic man who finds happiness in the small moments of everyday life. I enjoy sharing laughter, having deep and authentic conversations, and creating genuine connections that nourish the soul.
Male (44) Dodgertown, California
i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.
Male (55) Los Angeles, California
I know who I am and I'm comfortable in my skin and being myself. Just give me true love and never hurt me that's what I'm looking for. I'm a fun, passionate and intelligent someone who enjoys fine dining and having a good time. I love photography, dancing, movies, music, the beach and the gym and I enjoy spending time with family and friends but I lost almost everyone and I'm left all alone now. I just want to find someone that'll love me for me and someone who'll take me to the dream land and take away the growing *** of loneliness.
Male (41) West Covina, California
Hey there! I’m Derrick a 38 -year-old Medical doctor . I’m all about enjoying life, making memories, and finding someone who values kindness, honesty, and a good laugh. Whether it's exploring new spots in town, binge-watching a series, or trying something out of my comfort zone, I'm always up for an adventure. If you're looking for someone to share moments and build something meaningful, let's connect!
Male (38) Dodgertown, California
I don't have premium so message if your interested. I'm a little I'm looking for a big bro/daddy type to hangout with and maybe do something kinky from time to time. if you like to wear diapers too my daddy wouldn't mind if I host. I can be pretty kinky I'm into abdl, verbal, wedgies and spankings. also looking for any gay events in the area
Male (27) Stockton, California
Dancer, Intellectual, Improvisor, Lifelong Learner and autodidact, looking for partners open to learning with and/or teaching me the ropes, so to speak.
Male (37) Oakland, California
5'6", 190, Uncut 6.5, brown hair and blue eyes. Adventures, outgoing, kinky, and dominant
Male (51) Poway, California
Single man Who has a dominant side but don’t mind being submissive. honestly I’m looking for singles & couples to have fun with. maybe in a regular basis. As far as exploring kinks… Sounding, Fisting, Pegging isn’t off the table. Bi couples? why not? but I am Gay, Tap in.
Male (32) Stockton, California
looking to explore my sexually submissive side with men. open to most. bondage, restraints/rope, leather, blindfolds, bdsm, gear. orally motivated
Hi Jay here and first time using this since other apps are dry and boring. Mainly here for friends and fwbs. Open to gym buddies, foodies, and botanical enthusiasts.
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Male (18) Palo Alto, California
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Male (74) Van Nuys, California
180 LBS 5’ 9” verse/ switch for bondage play. I have gear. gags are one of my favorite parts about bondage.
Male (23) Downey, California
I'm just here to meet new people and to chat and make new friends. please don't be shy I'm an open book. I enjoy chatting with new people. if you want to message me go ahead I'll reply. maybe not as fast. I promise I won't bite well not hard at least😜
Male (24) McClellan, California
A classy seductive single Dominant Top who loves to spoil anyone submissive to him…I want a sub whole sole intention is to be completely submissive to me
Male (49) Dodgertown, California
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Male (30) Upland, California
Smooth Asian boy hole loves taking daddy cock and feeling them unload deep. Blindfold me and breed this slutty, boy pussy. HMU for room number if I’m close.
Dom masc here. looking for a man to degrade. I need you to give yourself up to me mentally and physically. Into choking, nipple play, poppers, stroking, oral, and making you completely and utterly obsessed with me. Let me be your best worst mistake ? Also looking for popperbate bros and some one who matches my energy. top on top play. let’s wrestle.
Male (36) Fontana, California
My main goals are to meet a few guys as friends (maybe a little more?) but primarily as friends who are onto some of the same "strange" things I am and some of the less "strange" things, as I've realized a lot of the people I went to school with have moved since graduation. 100% down for people to talk with and just share life. Only things I ask is that we don't only talk about kinks and that you be around my age (34 or younger). Because this is a kink site, I know I gotta post these: 1. Briefs (you in them) 2. Boxers (yours, on me) 3. Chastity (you, in a cage) 4. Childish clothing/diapers (mostly you in them) 5. Edging 6. Post-cum *** (you) 7. Wearing other guys clothes! 8. Kissing 9. Dom/Daddy/Big Brother role-play (with you as the sub/little) 10. Service (you serving me/cleaning my house/cooking, not a live-in slave - though I don't mind cooking for a good boy!) 11. Viagra play Curious: 1. Electro 2. Sounding In terms of sexual-escque interests, I'm mostly into lighter-skinned guys. I apparently have a weakness for fellow red-heads. Blue eyes are a huge plus. Mostly attracted to lighter-skinned guys. Really love blue eyes and blond or red hair. Literally any height. Outside of kink, I have a number of odd interests: 1. Building computers 2. Cocktails (making, drinking) 3. Cooking 4. Gardening 5. Gay literature 6. Simulation games 7. Strategy games If I'm not in San Diego (UTC area), I'm likely on vacation or just visiting. If we hit it off and I'm not at home, I might be down to meet if time permits (or we can keep up on ***am!) Lastly, the all-important BDSMTest: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Daddy/Mommy 94% Rigger 93% Brat tamer 93% Switch 91% Degrader 90% Dominant 85% Experimentalist 85% Brat 81% Boy/Girl 80% Owner 79% Ageplayer 78% Master/Mistress 77% Rope bunny 75% Submissive 68% Voyeur 54% Vanilla 46% Masochist 45% Primal (Prey) 43% Sadist 37% Degradee 36% Non-monogamist 31% Primal (Hunter) 21% Pet 19% Exhibitionist 13% Slave http://bdsmtest.org/r/vBZ9GExK KinkTest: 90%Rigger 89%Daddy/Mommy 72%Degrader 68%Brat Tamer 65.5%Sadist 65%Dominant 60%Ageplayer 59%Switch 50%Girl/Boy 45%Experimentalist 44.5%Rope Bunny 42.5%Submissive 40%Owner 40%Primal (Hunter) 37%Vanilla 37%Master/Mistress 36%Degradee 35%Brat 27%Masochist 18%Voyeur 17%Non-monogamist 11%Primal (Prey) 11%Slave 9%Cuckold / Cuckqean 8%Pet 5%***me 4%Pay Pig 3%Exhibitionist 3%Swinger
Male (27) La Jolla, California
Dom that loves to cuddle and kiss, head is a massive turn on, I’m a dom with rough fantasies and a free use foot worshipping twink is the dream. Cat daddy and yours too ;) Feet are another huge turn on 13.5 Foot Size
I’m new to this whole thing and still kinda nervous but i wanna try and make a genuine connection.
I've owned subs, houseboys, and slaves since I was in my mid 20s. I met my current husband, online, he was a 21 year old virgin from Arkansas. He sold his car and bought a one way greyhound ticket to Vegas just to meet me and be my sub houseboy just like this. We fell in love. We've been married for 10 years. I have a 20 acre private Ranch with a Lake. You will take care of my home, lite landscaping, be used as desired, disciplined as needed. Plenty of benefits like Vacations, Day Trips, Vegas, Camping, etc.. PM if interested
Male (58) Yermo, California

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I am looking for a man who can become a soulmate for me. With whom I can talk and share any secrets. In a man, such traits as kindness, generosity and decency are important to me. I am looking for a man who will take care of me and protect me. I dream of meeting a man who will be able to become for me not only a loved one, but also a good friend and mentor. I want to be a real lover for my man.
I am a cheerful, loving, and optimistic man who finds happiness in the small moments of everyday life. I enjoy sharing laughter, having deep and authentic conversations, and creating genuine connections that nourish the soul.
Male (44) Dodgertown, California
I know who I am and I'm comfortable in my skin and being myself. Just give me true love and never hurt me that's what I'm looking for. I'm a fun, passionate and intelligent someone who enjoys fine dining and having a good time. I love photography, dancing, movies, music, the beach and the gym and I enjoy spending time with family and friends but I lost almost everyone and I'm left all alone now. I just want to find someone that'll love me for me and someone who'll take me to the dream land and take away the growing *** of loneliness.
Male (41) West Covina, California
Hey there! I’m Derrick a 38 -year-old Medical doctor . I’m all about enjoying life, making memories, and finding someone who values kindness, honesty, and a good laugh. Whether it's exploring new spots in town, binge-watching a series, or trying something out of my comfort zone, I'm always up for an adventure. If you're looking for someone to share moments and build something meaningful, let's connect!
Male (38) Dodgertown, California
i always thought i was straight until i met a Master online who informed me that i am a sexual submissive who craves to be used by Dominant Men. He made me his "hotel bitch" the very first time we met. summoned me to His suite, and without even a word of hello, ordered me to strip down to the lacy lingerie He required me to wear for His Pleasure. He complimented himself on finding "such an obedient slut", as He pinched and twisted my nipples, making me squirm. Then He bent me over a chair, lubed me, plugged me and fed me his Cock, chuckling to Himself as i gagged on His Girth. When He was ready to use my "pussy" , He demanded that i beg Him to bareback me, even though we had agreed in advance to only have safe sex. Surrendering to His Lust and accepting four loads of His Cum over hours of raw pounding made me feel used and humiliated. And now all i can think about is Cocks. And submitting to the Men who wield them.
Male (55) Los Angeles, California
ISO tall, muscular, masc. jocks, military, college, fit and clean cut types into showing off, size play, comparing, measuring, j/o, and oral. Love to play with guys hung bigger than me. ISO guys who are alphas everywhere but the bedroom. Also Fit/muscular guys with small cocks are hot too. Plays nice w/Str8 curious & Bi-guys. Am laid back and non-judgmental. I view vulnerability as incredibly sexy and ultimately value what's inside a guy over a hot exterior. I don't need to be in a committed LTR to express love and kindness and realize that powerful connections are healing for us both. I'm spiritual, but not religious, kind, funny, well traveled, cultured, smart, and creative. Professional/business owner who splits his time between Seattle and Atlanta. Drug and disease free, a light drinker and have been called handsome by people other than my mother. Not really looking to jump into another LTR at the moment. That said, FWB would be cool as lean toward being with one person at at time vs. multiple partners, and don't really enjoy meaningless or impersonal hookups. I value powerful/intense connections, good conversation, and genuine friendships with trust - even in a casual relationship. Most of my LTR's have been with men, but I've also had some significant M/F relationships too.
I don't have premium so message if your interested. I'm a little I'm looking for a big bro/daddy type to hangout with and maybe do something kinky from time to time. if you like to wear diapers too my daddy wouldn't mind if I host. I can be pretty kinky I'm into abdl, verbal, wedgies and spankings. also looking for any gay events in the area
Male (27) Stockton, California
Smooth Asian boy hole loves taking daddy cock and feeling them unload deep. Blindfold me and breed this slutty, boy pussy. HMU for room number if I’m close.
Single man Who has a dominant side but don’t mind being submissive. honestly I’m looking for singles & couples to have fun with. maybe in a regular basis. As far as exploring kinks… Sounding, Fisting, Pegging isn’t off the table. Bi couples? why not? but I am Gay, Tap in.
Male (32) Stockton, California
Hi Jay here and first time using this since other apps are dry and boring. Mainly here for friends and fwbs. Open to gym buddies, foodies, and botanical enthusiasts.
hiiii :3 be nice to me and we'll get along fem trans guy - not a girl, dont bug me about it looking for bi guys who r mostly dominant :)
Male (18) Palo Alto, California
looking to explore my sexually submissive side with men. open to most. bondage, restraints/rope, leather, blindfolds, bdsm, gear. orally motivated
chastity faggot on the journey to become the best fuckable faggot, a fag could be! work and go to college so def a busy fag, but can make time for an ALPHA MAN. hiv undetectable
Male (30) Upland, California
I’m new to this whole thing and still kinda nervous but i wanna try and make a genuine connection.
I’m 5’11 267lbs half Mexican half Native American. I’m a bottom who likes hairy vanilla men I like tall and masculine men who take control and who would throw me on the bed and go wild. I like touching, kissing, cuddling and hugging. whispering “I’m bout to cum” in my ear gives me goosebumps i like giving and receiving massages and I have a foot fetish please no smelly feet it’s a turn off
Male (43) Olivehurst, California
friendly and curious guy here. very new to the bdsm scene but looking for a dominant guy to show me the ropes (in more way than one 😈) based off the tests I’ve taken I can be bit bratty 🤷‍♂️. I have several fantasies I’m open to sharing. the one thing I do know is that I’m a major cum slut. love swallowing and receiving facials
Male (30) Culver City, California
I’m open to meeting dominant men. I’m looking for a partner I can build trust and a real connection with — someone to experiment with and just have a great time together.
Male (24) Los Angeles, California
Dirty pig bear 🐷🐻 very few limits to me always open to trying new things with the right communication Looking for dom friends as well to help me explore more of my talent send me a message!
Male (25) Santa Clara, California
kinky guy in SF. Looking for other men, gay, bi, or straight, into bondage, feet, sneakers and more. Also looking for friends and gaming partners. New to this app and haven’t figured out when I can send messages or not. if you can, say hi.
I’m just a quirky brat who has never been successfully tamed, I will also curse your ***line if you’re a weirdo
Male (20) Monterey, California
Hiya✨ What excites is being very sensual and sultry with my partner and I want to explore the different realms of pleasure
Male (21) San Diego, California
My main goals are to meet a few guys as friends (maybe a little more?) but primarily as friends who are onto some of the same "strange" things I am and some of the less "strange" things, as I've realized a lot of the people I went to school with have moved since graduation. 100% down for people to talk with and just share life. Only things I ask is that we don't only talk about kinks and that you be around my age (34 or younger). Because this is a kink site, I know I gotta post these: 1. Briefs (you in them) 2. Boxers (yours, on me) 3. Chastity (you, in a cage) 4. Childish clothing/diapers (mostly you in them) 5. Edging 6. Post-cum *** (you) 7. Wearing other guys clothes! 8. Kissing 9. Dom/Daddy/Big Brother role-play (with you as the sub/little) 10. Service (you serving me/cleaning my house/cooking, not a live-in slave - though I don't mind cooking for a good boy!) 11. Viagra play Curious: 1. Electro 2. Sounding In terms of sexual-escque interests, I'm mostly into lighter-skinned guys. I apparently have a weakness for fellow red-heads. Blue eyes are a huge plus. Mostly attracted to lighter-skinned guys. Really love blue eyes and blond or red hair. Literally any height. Outside of kink, I have a number of odd interests: 1. Building computers 2. Cocktails (making, drinking) 3. Cooking 4. Gardening 5. Gay literature 6. Simulation games 7. Strategy games If I'm not in San Diego (UTC area), I'm likely on vacation or just visiting. If we hit it off and I'm not at home, I might be down to meet if time permits (or we can keep up on ***am!) Lastly, the all-important BDSMTest: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Daddy/Mommy 94% Rigger 93% Brat tamer 93% Switch 91% Degrader 90% Dominant 85% Experimentalist 85% Brat 81% Boy/Girl 80% Owner 79% Ageplayer 78% Master/Mistress 77% Rope bunny 75% Submissive 68% Voyeur 54% Vanilla 46% Masochist 45% Primal (Prey) 43% Sadist 37% Degradee 36% Non-monogamist 31% Primal (Hunter) 21% Pet 19% Exhibitionist 13% Slave http://bdsmtest.org/r/vBZ9GExK KinkTest: 90%Rigger 89%Daddy/Mommy 72%Degrader 68%Brat Tamer 65.5%Sadist 65%Dominant 60%Ageplayer 59%Switch 50%Girl/Boy 45%Experimentalist 44.5%Rope Bunny 42.5%Submissive 40%Owner 40%Primal (Hunter) 37%Vanilla 37%Master/Mistress 36%Degradee 35%Brat 27%Masochist 18%Voyeur 17%Non-monogamist 11%Primal (Prey) 11%Slave 9%Cuckold / Cuckqean 8%Pet 5%***me 4%Pay Pig 3%Exhibitionist 3%Swinger
Male (27) La Jolla, California
(I don’t take this app serious.) Hello Sir thank you for looking at my profile it’s a Privlage that you even considered me to be your sub. I am a very different sub then from all your regular subs I do not do anal or oral. I am a body service slave I love to worship and be your boy for pleasure.. I will be your human dildo and human chair. Turn off’s Anal/oral, fin, girly, liars Limits: No *** No cum eating No crazy *** No sharp objects No family stuff No exposure No *** stuff No *** No *** No public No body alter No cross dressing No women action No making content No *** No over controlling doms My interest: Feet (ripe) Socks (ripe) Ass worship (ripe) Fart 😶‍🌫️ Edged Ass play Body odor Verbal *** Dominate Control Trample Foot rest (ripe)
Male (29) Etiwanda, California
Dom that loves to cuddle and kiss, head is a massive turn on, I’m a dom with rough fantasies and a free use foot worshipping twink is the dream. Cat daddy and yours too ;) Feet are another huge turn on 13.5 Foot Size

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