Find kinky women in California

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (36) Camptonville, California
a virgin but I know some stuff, I read a lot of interesting things… which is why I’m on here. No I’m not going to lose my virginity to you, stop asking. Sorry.
Female (19) Sacramento, California
I am just a girl🤭. I like to nerd out about a lot of things like hair, music or food. I will be respectful if you are respectful (unless we have inside jokes).
Female (24) Moorpark, California
I'm new here looking for my soulmate, i am ambitiuos and very kind lady with sense of humor,, juxtkom At Gm-il,, i am ready for a seriouse relationship.
Female (48) Oakland, California
I’m here just looking to have some fun and for someone to dominate me. I am a bit shy so I need someone who can be sweet but still able to handle my bratty side (;
Lost in my own thoughts, I’ve become a voyeur to life—a quiet observer, drifting through moments. I say hello, exchange a few flirtations, then vanish into the ether like smoke. If undeserved rejection fuels your fire, well… maybe I’m your perfect storm. Still, nothing turns me off faster than a man who approaches with clumsy, overtly sexual remarks—especially here. Mystery is foreplay for the mind, and I crave the tension of a slow burn to awaken my desires. Traditional sites are littered with lies and hollow performances, but here, at least, there’s space for honesty. A different kind of freedom. Even with my Cowboy, I’m caught in this strange limbo—watching, waiting. There’s a sadness he says he sees in me, a shadow I can’t shake. Life-altering stress will do that, won’t it? It seeps in, dulling even the most delicious of connections. But I hope… I hope for the spark to return. And if you’re intrigued by me, you’ll need to accept—or enjoy—that I already have an older, dominant man in my life. He knows how to lead, and we play 1-2 times a week. He’s open, generous, and we’ve shared our world with men, women, and couples alike. For now, I remain a watcher, aching to feel alive again. Maybe you’ll be the one who reignites the fire. -——-.•.•*✨💞💘✨*•.•.…-——- I am a sultry bondage Barbie with cascading blond locks and generous breasts that never fail to captivate. My preference for older men who can embrace the role of Daddy adds a thrilling element of taboo to our encounters, igniting the flames of desire within me. Despite my intelligence and successful career, I find solace in the shadows of discretion, where secrets are kept and passions are unleashed. Eager to surrender to the right man, I sought a dominant figure who can be both stern and fair, guiding me with a firm hand and a loving heart as his little brat. Role play is not just a pastime for me; it's a cherished sojourn into a world where fantasies come alive and inhibitions melt away. Light BDSM activities such as spanking, flogging, estim, and ropes excite me, each touch and sensation adding to the symphony of pleasure we create together. In the delicate dance of submission and dominance, I am a willing participant, ready to explore the depths of my desires with my partner who can match my intensity and passion. Together, we navigate the realms of pleasure and ***, finding ecstasy in the union of our darkest fantasies and deepest longings. My ideal man—a true connoisseur of the fine art of delicate dominance— I refer to as the Cowboy or in kinky company, Daddy. He is a man seasoned with wisdom, his silver fox allure radiating an irresistible charm. He’s got that sophisticated, daddy-like presence that makes my inner princess swoon. He’s an expert in the delightful dance of role play, effortlessly slipping into the role of the nurturing, authoritative daddy while I embrace my inner brat with playful defiance. He not only understands but revels in the brat mentality, knowing that my feisty spirit is a testament to a vibrant strength and character. Beneath my dominant exterior, he recognizes the submissive desires that I hold dear. He knows how to gently ***l away my layers of control, guiding me into a space where I can surrender completely, all the while ensuring that I feel cherished and safe. Aftercare? Oh, he’s a maestro of that symphony. He lavishes me with the attention and tender care is deserved, enveloping me in a cocoon of comfort and security. Every touch, every word is a testament to his devotion, ensuring that I feel like the treasured gem that I truly am. This is a man who balances strength with sensitivity, authority with adoration—a sophisticated master of the heart, perfectly attuned to the rhythm of my desires. He is an older, properly groomed gentleman that I adoringly share with other women, couples and TG. Our couples profile is xxxkinkycplxx. I am not available for singles play with other men.
I am young, but fairly experienced with kinky stuff. Really not interested in hearing the same old lines from 50 year old Doms telling me how they will teach me to be a proper slave, and acting like I'm clueless because I'm still young. I am into submissive things, but am not very submissive. Call me a bitch, because I am a bitch. Don't be surprised if you get bitchy responses from me. Especially if you try feeding me the same boring lines every "Dom" on here does. Lover of bondage, impact, and electroplay. Fuzzy cuffs and boring simple rope ties don't excite me. If you tell me you are going to tie me up good, you better have some actual skills, and not just some boring wrist tie that your average boyscout could out-do.
Female (26) Hollywood, California
Hypersexual BBW princess with an attitude. looking for a Daddy Dom that’s local and able to host for an ongoing exclusive dynamic.
Female (39) West Covina, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I'm into Face Slapping, ***, Foot Play, Gaping, Mouth/Face ***, Foot Fetish, BDSM, Bondage, ***, ***, Water Sports, Brutalization, and extreme play. If that’s your vibe, we might have something in common. I’m open to chatting, but I don’t do online play or roleplay. Also, I don’t refer to anyone as "daddy"—I’m a pretty independent person, I'm not on here for a relationship or any type of "play", but I will have a good conversation should it catch my attention. Let’s keep it real and respectful.
Female (32) Concord, California
I think I’m just here to see what goes on for the most part but you know I do believe anything is possible so if I think I feel a romantic connection with some guy I may start dating him. However, it’s not very likely because of how picky I am. Not going to mention what I like in guys because you know people can be cruel and take advantage of it by lying and stuff. I don’t plan to make friends here and just online in general because I think it’s best if I make friends in person especially after what happened that I mentioned after this sentence. It's funny how that one guy who lied to me was right (btw I didn’t meet him on this website). Believe it or not, I didn’t even talk to him on a daily basis because he had what I was looking for but rather because I was willing to give him a chance, and boy was I so wrong for it ( good thing I never him met in person). I have Autism so it’s going to be hard for me to talk to someone but it’s not the only thing that makes it difficult for me because I do have trust issues and have always been that way tbh. I’m a virgin who can’t drive :jumping: who knows when I’ll freaking learn to drive and be great at it. I don’t often shave so I’m probably not for you if you like hairless women. I never been in a relationship. Idk about anyone else but I prefer someone who shows their face and not hide it with an object or a drawing or something. I’m aware catfishes are also people that “show” their face (I say it loosely because you know obviously they aren’t actually showing their face when it’s not them in the picture) but you have to understand the ones who don’t show their face are usually catfishing (keyword: usually so don’t say I’m calling you a catfish just because you’re hiding your face) and honestly I have brutal opinions on faceless accounts but it’s best I keep it to myself. If you say you can show me your face you might as well not I’m not wasting my time like that. I don’t know why but I’m not really attracted to the guys that are around my area. All the guys I seem attracted to are over the seas, over 5000 miles away lol. I’m sensitive maybe too sensitive. Just something about me. Please no nudes I don’t like that I prefer those things shown in person and when I’m married to the individual guy.
Female (20) Los Angeles, California
I am a charming and good-natured Ukrainian girl, proud of my roots and origin. Light and warmth live in my soul, I am open to the world and people, but at the same time I can sometimes be shy. My work is connected with the jewelry world, but I know for sure that the true value is not in precious metals, but in sincerity, warmth and those warm feelings that we give to each other. It is important for me to feel harmony, I do not like vanity and ostentatious luxury, and loud words mean nothing to me without real actions. In life, I value honesty, comfort and inner light, which makes a person truly precious.reach me by my usenme is my g myal
Female (43) San Diego, California
Since childhood, I love to come to the seaside and dream. Every year my dreams became more mature and more conscious. I grew up, but there is one more dream left, to meet my better half, a man who will love me. In my eyes you can see a very romantic, sensual and tender girl. I enjoy every moment of my life. I like spending my free time on the beach or play sports. I think that every girl should look good and well-groomed. Therefore, I intend to succeed not only in beauty, but also in the search for my love.
Female (41) Oakland, California
I am married very well and happily. Thank you, this has been a PSA ****** I'm looking to attend classes and events in the pursuit of becoming a professional Dominatrix, one day. I'm seeking educational aide volunteers. ****** Let me know if you're interested in having someone to ask questions of and learn from in terms of what I know, which is Astral Projection, self defense, and art.
Female (34) Sacramento, California
Life has taught me to be a strong woman, but a very weak personality lurks within me. You will understand this when we start communicating. I love the truth, whatever it is, it is important when you tell each other the truth. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship between a man and a woman, probably you yourself know about it.
Female (47) Sacramento, California
Looking for someone to have fun with! I am a sub, but I am also a troublemaker (Kind of a diva too, so enter at your own peril). I Want to get to know people before any type of relationship is established. Let’s Chat!
Female (31) Moreno Valley, California
Looking for a man who knows how to be my master in all things. want to build trust to the point where I’d do anything for him, no questions asked. trust me, the loyalty and skills I’m bringing to the table more than warrant what I’m expecting and asking for. Ultimately this will have to be a monogamous LTR, because I cannot be with a man who cannot establish that kind of deep connection. that kind of connection requires monogamy. literally do not even bring up the concept of non monogamy, that’s not gonna happen. I’m very submissive, a masochist but more for *** than ***. That being said, I’d do anything to make my man happy. I’m trainable, I want to please my man. side note, no polyamory under any circumstances.. I don’t share. If you’re poly or “ENM” don’t waste my time by messaging me.
Female (30) San Francisco, California
I am a romantic and mysterious girl. Caring, loving, and passionate, it is all about me. I love to smile and enjoy this life. I am a very positive person, I am always in a good mood and I can cheer you up on the worst day. I am in the status of a single lady that is why I am here, I am sure I can find my second half and show him my inner beauty, my rich inner world. I am a very feminine and sensual woman.
Female (46) Larkfield, California
I am a fiery little redhead I can be sweet at times but most of the time I'm pretty demanding and bossy and I really just enjoy being pampered and showered with gifts treated with respect and it's basically worshiped
Female (36) Sacramento, California
Hi there, I am a full time Mistress, looking for a long term submissive slave to own and use as my property. I intend to give my slave the proper training that would be needed for him to be the best slave I want him to me. If you are the slave I seek, HMU and let get kinky. I would give your life on earth a purpose.
Female (36) Bakersfield, California
Find someone who shares the same goal with you, who is patient and loving. When dawn comes, we will all return to normal, and all the wildness will be left behind in the night
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I am ready to live, work, travel and look for my love further! I am fluent in English and love to learn other languages, so communication with foreigners is not a problem for me! I am a calm person, very positive and cheerful, I always like to solve problems, and not walk away from them! I dream of meeting someone who will fill the void in my heart! I have often been betrayed, and having come here, I hope that this will not happen again with a more mature, wise person! I like to communicate and tell stories from life, I always keep up the conversation! a little bit with a sense of humor, but within reasonable limits! I will be glad if you ask me what you are interested in, I am like an open book, I will answer sincerely! love, passion, sex and trust come first! I wish you all a peaceful sky over your head!
Female (35) Los Altos, California
Looking for an adventure with like minded man, who's communicative and easy going type, ready for a matured and stable relationship.. I want Friends with benefits
Female (44) San Francisco, California
I am a sub/middle/babygirl. I am not a masochist but I do like spankings. I am wanting to test my *** tolerance but slowly. I wanna be owned and collared eventually. I'm very into the soft dom dynamic. I also adore pet play. I'm a cute little bunny or kitten depending on the situation. I am looking for a soft sensual primal DD that has a smidge of sadism in him that he springs on me unsuspectingly. One that encourages and plans. Also one that helps me become an overall better me in the process (mentally, physically and emotionally). I am naturally a sub and for me I prefer the 24/7 dynamic because in my everyday life I am in a position where I have to operate in a very masculine energy. For me it’s something about coming home and no longer having to make decisions knowing that your Dom has your best interest at heart ( physical, spiritual, and emotional). I also love, love, love the fact that your wants, needs and requirements are known up front so there is no misunderstanding.
Female (45) Los Angeles, California

New members in California

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (36) Camptonville, California
Fun-loving and easygoing, I’m all about good vibes and great company. I love music, movies, and spontaneous road trips. Looking to connect with someone who can make me laugh and enjoy life’s little adventures together.
Female (42) Fresno, California
"Looking for someone who values deep connections and meaningful conversations. I believe in kindness, honesty, and a good sense of humor. Let’s create something real."
Female (35) Dodgertown, California
My personality traits are: serious, confident, purposeful, smart, responsible, honest, kind, loyal, flexible, sociable, communicative, sensitive, gentle, cheerful, optimistic, romantic, considered, responsible
Female (44) Hazard, California
I am a romantic and mysterious girl. Caring, loving, and passionate, it is all about me. I love to smile and enjoy this life. I am a very positive person, I am always in a good mood and I can cheer you up on the worst day. I am in the status of a single lady that is why I am here, I am sure I can find my second half and show him my inner beauty,
Female (44) Los Angeles, California
I can hardly say that my temper is hard. I think I'm calm, positive, active. I am an interesting conversationalist and I think I can be even the soul of the company. I do not like noise, I like to rest with friends in quieter places, drink coffee, talk and dream a lot. I am a romantic nature, I like to make surprises, to give joy in small things. I know how to behave with dignity, I know how to control emotions, I never give in to bad emotions, I don't stir up conflicts, I don't build intrigues.I love to read, and I also write my own books on psychology. I attend different conferences, where I continue to gain experience in the field of my work. I like to learn new things, even though I am not as young as I used to be. But still I have a great craving for knowledge. Also, every morning is not without exercise. I always warm up to wake up my body for the day.
Female (59) Garden Grove, California
I'm easy going woman with a great sense of humor and am here to meet interesting person also who is also great and good when it comes to communication and also willing to explore life with me being love, relationship or friendship if interested reach out to me or a way to reach out to you soon.. You can reach out to me quick on Lindalovely090 at g m a i l dot com
Female (54) Los Angeles, California
I am single and ready for a long term serious and loving relationship
Female (34) Hayward, California
Maybe it sounds too corny, but I believe in love. I have no secrets from my loved ones. I am ready to tell you everything that you would like to know! With me you will find out what happiness really is, and I will show you how to look at the world in different ways. I am sure that at my age there are many opportunities to receive pleasure! I know that I will bring bright colours and a lot of fun into your life. I am a very gentle and sympathetic person. I have a gentle character.
Female (39) Hazard, California
I am a charming and good-natured Ukrainian girl, proud of my roots and origin. Light and warmth live in my soul, I am open to the world and people, but at the same time I can sometimes be shy. My work is connected with the jewelry world, but I know for sure that the true value is not in precious metals, but in sincerity, warmth and those warm feelings that we give to each other. It is important for me to feel harmony, I do not like vanity and ostentatious luxury, and loud words mean nothing to me without real actions. In life, I value honesty, comfort and inner light, which makes a person truly precious.reach me by my usenme is my g myal
Female (43) San Diego, California
I am active and positive looking for something very intimate and long term with someone trustworthy and calm with lots of compassion.
Female (40) San Diego, California
I am a cheerful lady, very active, very passionate, people find me friendly and helpful with a big heart and inner fire. Charming lady, open-minded, tender, self-confident that she knows what she wants from life. I am caring and gentle, and at the same time I know how to have fun I firmly believe that the relationship should be based on trust, loyalty and passion!
Female (44) Saratoga, California
Im excited to meet new people on here to share my lifestyle with. If your a pathetic little finsub dont be afraid to approach my dms with tribute. Love to please and be pleased.
Female (21) Century City, California
Life has taught me to be a strong woman, but a very weak personality lurks within me. You will understand this when we start communicating. I love the truth, whatever it is, it is important when you tell each other the truth. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship between a man and a woman, probably you yourself know about it.
Female (47) Sacramento, California
How are you doing now...… My name is Casey and I am willing to be with you handsome man I ma very caring and also honest cant wait to make you happy consider me as you guardian angel
Female (38) Hazard, California
I am here to find a soul mate
Female (55) Santa Clara, California
Since childhood, I love to come to the seaside and dream. Every year my dreams became more mature and more conscious. I grew up, but there is one more dream left, to meet my better half, a man who will love me. In my eyes you can see a very romantic, sensual and tender girl. I enjoy every moment of my life. I like spending my free time on the beach or play sports. I think that every girl should look good and well-groomed. Therefore, I intend to succeed not only in beauty, but also in the search for my love.
Female (41) Oakland, California
I also have a wonderful attitude about life. I have a wonderful sense of humor.. I can easily find humorous in most situations. I love to travel, explore new things, catch a movie, or read a book, I love to listen to variety of music, I enjoy in sharing a meaningful, intimate conversation with my partner.
Female (34) Los Angeles, California
I love to have fun and laugh. I love shooting pool and darts. I love taking trips and long walks. Online dating is a whole new thing to me and i am as much as ready to get to know you more.
Female (51) San Carlos, California
I am a wonderful woman for a relationship and here's why. I consider myself a very attractive woman in appearance, whatever one may say, and this is what everyone pays first attention to. If you get to know me more deeply, you can see in me many qualities that characterize me as a good person: kindness, mercy, willingness to help and not abandon in trouble, tolerance, intelligence, and honesty. I am gentle, affectionate, able to get along with a partner, make contact and seek compromises. I know how to give my love and open my heart completely to my loved one, share my feelings, thoughts and sensations. I am neat, decent, a good housewife, creating coziness and comfort in the house, and to make my man feel good.
Female (49) Elk Grove, California
Hypersexual BBW princess with an attitude. looking for a Daddy Dom that’s local and able to host for an ongoing exclusive dynamic.
Female (39) West Covina, California
I'm an experienced dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner to explore my dominant side. I'm beautiful and all my fluids taste good for those brave enough to enter their sub space in my cruel and dictatorial presence. Intelligent and handsome subs who desire full attention to all their fetishes must apply.
Female (41) Los Angeles, California
I am ready to live, work, travel and look for my love further! I am fluent in English and love to learn other languages, so communication with foreigners is not a problem for me! I am a calm person, very positive and cheerful, I always like to solve problems, and not walk away from them! I dream of meeting someone who will fill the void in my heart! I have often been betrayed, and having come here, I hope that this will not happen again with a more mature, wise person! I like to communicate and tell stories from life, I always keep up the conversation! a little bit with a sense of humor, but within reasonable limits! I will be glad if you ask me what you are interested in, I am like an open book, I will answer sincerely! love, passion, sex and trust come first! I wish you all a peaceful sky over your head!
Female (35) Los Altos, California
Looking for someone to have fun with! I am a sub, but I am also a troublemaker (Kind of a diva too, so enter at your own peril). I Want to get to know people before any type of relationship is established. Let’s Chat!
Female (31) Moreno Valley, California

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