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*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (36) Camptonville, California
Fun, funny and always horny. The weirdest things turn me on. I like being watched and want to fine someone who wants to just watch me *** and squirt and orgasm all over myself. If you’d like to join that’s fine with me too☺️???
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Don't ask me what I'm doing here. I'm just curious, nothing else. As for whether we can build a relationship that suits each other, it depends on the connection between us. No foul language, we are all adults. If you don't even understand the principle of mutual respect, then I don't want to talk to you. You are not my type. But if you are a very polite person, I will enjoy talking to you. After all, no one doesn't like a gentleman. Don't look at me with tinted glasses
Female (37) West Hollywood, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. $TheSweetPrincess Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
I'm a little I'm 5'5 just looking for an online daddy Dom I'm pretty nice I like my stuffed ***s
Female (18) Merced, California
I think I’m just here to see what goes on for the most part but you know I do believe anything is possible so if I think I feel a romantic connection with some guy I may start dating him. However, it’s not very likely because of how picky I am. Not going to mention what I like in guys because you know people can be cruel and take advantage of it by lying and stuff. It's funny how that one guy who lied to me was right (btw I didn’t meet him on this website). Believe it or not, I didn’t even talk to him daily because he had what I was looking for but rather because I was willing to give him a chance, and boy was I so wrong for it ( good thing I never met in person). I have Autism so it’s going to be hard for me to talk to someone but it’s not the only thing that makes it difficult because I do have trust issues and have always been that way tbh. I’m a virgin who can’t drive :jumping: who knows when I’ll freaking learn to drive and be great at it. I don’t often shave so I’m probably not for you if you like hairless women. I never been in a relationship. I’m sensitive maybe too sensitive. Just something about me. Please no nudes I don’t like that I prefer those things shown in person and when I’m married to the individual guy.
Female (19) Los Angeles, California
I’m looking for someone who, like me, enjoys life’s variety and finds joy in discovering new adventures and creative pursuits.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
I'm a Dom who's Physically and emotionally incapable of posing for a picture with my tongue in my mouth hah aha... I love the great out door and I love to stay fit. Playful and I love the kinky lifestyle.
Female (45) Dodgertown, California
I am married very well and happily. Thank you, this has been a PSA ****** I'm looking to attend classes and events in the pursuit of becoming a professional Dominatrix, one day. I'm seeking educational aide volunteers. ****** Let me know if you're interested in having someone to ask questions of and learn from in terms of what I know, which is Astral Projection, self defense, and art.
Female (33) Sacramento, California
I’m humble, caring, loyal, trusted, kind, lovely, matured , happy, honest , respectful and passionate woman. I’m here to find love, someone to spend the rest of my life with . A man to love and be loved back . If you are interested, let get to know each other better ..
Female (57) Big Bear Lake, California
I don’t have much experience but I know what I like and I know that’s ***. I bite (apparently very hard) so either deal with it or leave. Bite me, mark me, make me bleed. Ideally I want a relationship.
Female (25) Simi Valley, California
Always open to finding friends. Looking for someone more submissive, maybe a bit of a switch. Leaning towards something more serious. Not really interested in just play or a hook up. Typically a soft/pleasure dom but curious and looking to do more. Open to being a(n) mistress, mommy, owner, degrader, etc. Poly and partnered. The little submissive side I have is for my partner. Online is easier right now as my life is pretty busy, but open to meeting later on if the situation is right.
Female (28) Santa Rosa, California
I dream of a man who shines brightly in the sky of my abilities, radiating deep passion and sincerity. He is a true master of emotions and words, always open and honest. His stability and responsibility make him a reliable support, and curiosity and creativity fuel a constant desire for improvement. This man is my equal partner, ready to share a life that pulsates with adventure and new discoveries, with courage and frankness. He not only supports my desire for new things, but is also able to realize our common dreams and fantasies , filling every moment of unity with deep emotional closeness, love and understanding.
Female (34) Stockton, California
I'm looking for a personal slave we can both share a mutual understanding, respect and I have a feeling that we would build something out of our respective wants. Basically, I've been practically aware of the kinky lifestyle and BDSM in general since I started my adult life. I enjoy fetish sex and the whole idea of having a man under my leash, I live for female supremacy and I do my best to practice what I preach! My understanding of BDSM is that it is a way of life.
Female (32) Berkeley, California
I'm looking for a fun long term relationship, someone I can understand, slowly develop a relationship where we can meet
Female (36) Compton, California
Im 21 years old with brown eyes with a few tats also, im a bbw thinking about sex with henny or dussi with lingerie all the time. If you are lucky, I might play house with you. if you don't have a face pic as a profile Pic I don't trust you ? the reason I don't have one because im not trying to get recognized so if you like a face pic just ask for one.
Female (21) Moreno Valley, California
First and foremost, for some reason I can't see friend requests, so message me first. I am starting from scratch and learning the right way. I just want to be a good girl and be right for Sir. I'd more so call myself a service sub. Wanting to test limits and push myself. I have a prey driven mentality I do know some and I know what I like and what I want. I'm not completely inexperienced, just wanting to explore. I like my men aggressive, dominant, almost ***istic. Love my piercings and may get more. Thought about a branding like tattoo. outside of that vanilla me is pretty chill. I like video games, animes, and watching stand-up comedy. Photography is my passion, and I love being out in nature. Sometimes I just enjoy a good jam out sesh. I'm trying to be the next great writer. And just all around be multitalented.
Looking for a man who knows how to be my master in all things. want to build trust to the point where I’d do anything for him, no questions asked. trust me, the loyalty and skills I’m bringing to the table more than warrant what I’m expecting and asking for. Ultimately this will have to be a monogamous LTR, because I cannot be with a man who cannot establish that kind of deep connection. that kind of connection requires monogamy. literally do not even bring up the concept of non monogamy, that’s not gonna happen. I’m very submissive, a masochist but more for *** than ***. That being said, I’d do anything to make my man happy. I’m trainable, I want to please my man. side note, no polyamory under any circumstances.. I don’t share. If you’re poly or “ENM” don’t waste my time by messaging me.
Female (30) San Francisco, California
I am a sultry bondage Barbie with cascading blond locks and generous breasts that never fail to captivate. My preference for older men who can embrace the role of Daddy adds a thrilling element of taboo to our encounters, igniting the flames of desire within me. Despite my intelligence and successful career, I find solace in the shadows of discretion, where secrets are kept and passions are unleashed. Eager to surrender to the right man, I sought a dominant figure who can be both stern and fair, guiding me with a firm hand and a loving heart as his little brat. Role play is not just a pastime for me; it's a cherished sojourn into a world where fantasies come alive and inhibitions melt away. Light BDSM activities such as spanking, flogging, estim, and ropes excite me, each touch and sensation adding to the symphony of pleasure we create together. In the delicate dance of submission and dominance, I am a willing participant, ready to explore the depths of my desires with my partner who can match my intensity and passion. Together, we navigate the realms of pleasure and ***, finding ecstasy in the union of our darkest fantasies and deepest longings. My ideal man—a true connoisseur of the fine art of delicate dominance— I refer to as the Cowboy or in kinky company, Daddy. He is a man seasoned with wisdom, his silver fox allure radiating an irresistible charm. He’s got that sophisticated, daddy-like presence that makes my inner princess swoon. He’s an expert in the delightful dance of role play, effortlessly slipping into the role of the nurturing, authoritative daddy while I embrace my inner brat with playful defiance. He not only understands but revels in the brat mentality, knowing that my feisty spirit is a testament to a vibrant strength and character. Beneath my dominant exterior, he recognizes the submissive desires that I hold dear. He knows how to gently ***l away my layers of control, guiding me into a space where I can surrender completely, all the while ensuring that I feel cherished and safe. Aftercare? Oh, he’s a maestro of that symphony. He lavishes me with the attention and tender care is deserved, enveloping me in a cocoon of comfort and security. Every touch, every word is a testament to his devotion, ensuring that I feel like the treasured gem that I truly am. This is a man who balances strength with sensitivity, authority with adoration—a sophisticated master of the heart, perfectly attuned to the rhythm of my desires. He is an older, properly groomed gentleman that I adoringly share with other women, couples and TG. Our couples profile is xxxkinkycplxx. I am not available for singles play with other men.
I'm looking for an ongoing connection (could be friends or more, depending on chemistry) Discretion is important
Female (36) Arleta, California
I'm not looking for a relationship, just some new sexual experiences with a variety of men. I'll consider friends with benefits if you're really good. I try hard to maintain a non-dairy diet and eat healthy most of the time. Because of this and the fact that I'm a petite woman and not your stereotypical Cali beach going sun worshiper, I really don't look my age. The fact is I'm a simple, low maintenance woman - a low key, drama free, calm, go with the flow-spontaneous type of person and have a tendency to speak my mind but won't talk your ear off. I like lots of things, especially when it comes to sex. I have some particular kinks that any potential partner should be aware of. I like to be naked in places I shouldn't, like driving my commute on the 405. I take off my bra and panties before leaving work, then my skirt comes off as soon as I get in my car. I usually unbutton my shirt all the way, but leave it covering most of my breasts while I'm sitting in stopped traffic, then I rub my pussy and finger myself. Once traffic starts moving decently, I slide my shirt down to my elbows so everything is uncovered and on display, and start pinching my nipples. I usually cum at about the halfway point between work and home. During the winter when it's dark by the time I leave work, I get completely naked before I even leave the parking lot. I like to go to some of the area parks late at night or early in the morning and walk around naked. I've also done it on occasion on hiking trails during the day, leaving the trail and finding a private spot to undress, and usually I masturbate while surrounded by nature. I'm not trying to show myself off. It's the risk of possibly getting caught that turns me on. I also dabble in self-bondage. I do it mostly at home, though there have been a few outdoor adventures after getting some of the bugs worked out. My son (he's 36), comes over every Sunday morning and we go out for breakfast. He's caught me a number of times, especially when I first started. The first time was almost ten years ago. I was sitting upright, blindfolded, naked, and tied to a chair, with a vibrator in my pussy making me orgasm all night. I was too exhausted to get free before it was too late. The second time, I was tied spread-eagle in a door frame, naked, with a blindfold and gag, plus an anal hook that was forcing me onto my toes, while a vibrator on a pole was in my pussy. I think the most embarrassing time was last year. I was trying out some new toys, two fucking machines. I was tied to a bench doggy-style, wearing a hood with the mouth open, with a fucking machine driving two dildos into my pussy and asshole, while a second fucking machine was pumping a dildo into my mouth and throat. It wasn't that I couldn't get myself loose that time, I was just enjoying it too much and didn't want it to end yet. DP gives me the most incredible orgasms, and I was in the middle of one when I heard the front door open and close. I didn't hear anything else for maybe ten minutes, until he pulled the toy out of my mouth and took the hood off. Then he stood by and watched after I told him I wasn't finished yet. I was moaning and shouting as I came several more times, begging for the double-fucking I was receiving. He had moved out of my view and was most likely behind me watching the two dildos pumping in and out of my body. When I turned my head and looked over my shoulder, I saw he had his cock out and was stroking himself while watching me get fucked by the machine. I was so horny that when I saw it, I begged him to put his cock in my mouth and let me suck it. He didn't, but if he had at that moment I would have sucked him dry, and a dozen more right behind him. It's not that I wanted to suck off my son, I just saw a hard cock and I really wanted it in my mouth. He did shoot his cum on my face. I've never been with two men at the same time, but I'm very open to the idea. Getting DPed with two real cocks would be a dream come true. Yes, I have quite a sex toy and bondage gear collection, including two fucking machines with various attachments, a restraint/sex bench, an assortment of floggers and paddles, nipple clamps, dildos, and vibrators I enjoy oral sex, vaginal sex, and anal sex. I enjoy a rough fuck sometimes, hold me down and use me. I also enjoy a guy taking control and dominating me, forcing me to take it any way he wants. I love it when a guy puts his cock in my mouth and rams it deep, not stopping even if I gag. I like the feel of a cock sliding in and out of my throat. Even when I gag, I relax eventually and take it all. I love a good throat fucking, and especially the warm treat when he cums in my mouth! I like to be tied up, spanked, flogged, and fucked. I like light biting, nipple clamps, pulling my hair, and even some light slapping. One of my favorite positions is getting tied up doggy-style while wearing a blindfold, then waiting to find out which hole the guy is going to fuck first, my mouth, pussy, or asshole. The good ones go for all three, even fucking me with toys. I'm not always submissive. There are times that I like to get a guy on his back, slide my pussy or asshole onto his cock and just ride the fuck out of him. I bounce hard on his cock while I pinch and pull on my nipples, usually cumming several times before he fills me with warm jizz. I can also get pretty aggressive when I really need to suck a cock, pulling it out of his pants almost any place that's mostly private and sucking it until he feeds me a tasty mouthful of spunk. BTW, yes I swallow;-P
Female (59) Tustin, California
I'm a romantic, and I'm looking for someone who's as interested in a long-term relationship as I am. Three words to describe me: adventurous, optimistic, spontaneous.
Female (29) Redwood City, California
daddy types are always the best a true slut by every definition of the word ? back on here again. looking for the real thing.
Female (24) Santa Monica, California
I am independent,loving, honest,caring, faithful woman who has my own busy life I am a woman of substance and presence, wise, open and kind, family is important to me,I am grounded and fun loving even though i had lost both parents when i was 4. I have the ability to create around me the life and the things that I want and the things in life we would want together…
Female (39) Sacramento, California

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Fun, funny and always horny. The weirdest things turn me on. I like being watched and want to fine someone who wants to just watch me *** and squirt and orgasm all over myself. If you’d like to join that’s fine with me too☺️???
Female (34) San Francisco, California
*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.
Female (36) Camptonville, California
Interesting souls looking for interesting long-term relationships
Female (36) La Mirada, California
I am an interesting person, with my values, principles, passion for people and for life, no matter what, I am experienced, I can think logically, find approaches to everyone and see a way out in any situation, I would also say that I am a purposeful, intense and strong-willed woman
I am a lively person, I love to laugh, have energy, new ideas, and have a strong determination to succeed
Female (36) La Mesa, California
I'm looking for an ongoing connection (could be friends or more, depending on chemistry) Discretion is important
Female (36) Arleta, California
I hope to get to know each other slowly and build a solid relationship of trust. I believe good relationships take time to develop, so I prefer to start with friendship.
Female (37) Ventura, California
I'm a Dom who's Physically and emotionally incapable of posing for a picture with my tongue in my mouth hah aha... I love the great out door and I love to stay fit. Playful and I love the kinky lifestyle.
Female (45) Dodgertown, California
I don’t have much experience but I know what I like and I know that’s ***. I bite (apparently very hard) so either deal with it or leave. Bite me, mark me, make me bleed. Ideally I want a relationship.
Female (25) Simi Valley, California
I’m looking for someone who, like me, enjoys life’s variety and finds joy in discovering new adventures and creative pursuits.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
My ideal partner: I hope to meet someone who is gentle and considerate, with whom we can share life and support each other's dreams and goals. If you are humorous, kind, and love life, we may have a lot in common! I value mutual respect and understanding, and hope that we can become better with each other's company.
Female (35) Los Angeles, California
Young girl into CNC and Ddlg taboos and needing a daddy to be straightforward & sext her dirty things
Female (19) Los Angeles, California
You can't always control external circumstances, but you can always control yourself
Female (37) Alta Loma, California
I am a free woman and am waiting for a man who will win my heart! I am ready to share all my sincere feelings, experience so many emotions and unforgettable moments. I can truly love and hope to meet a soulmate with whom I will share my whole life. I am loving, gentle, affectionate and I can share all these feelings only with one most worthy man who will win my heart. My weekends are spent primarily actively or with family and friends. I am a simple woman and I am looking for simple female happiness. For feeling happy, I need a loving man next to me, who will lend me his shoulder and warm me with his warmth, share with me all moments of my life.
Female (51) Moreno Valley, California
I am not opposed to talking about sex, but I like sex that resonates with people. When hearts are connected, sex is the most perfect.
Female (35) Los Alamitos, California
I'm a little I'm 5'5 just looking for an online daddy Dom I'm pretty nice I like my stuffed ***s
Female (18) Merced, California
I am an active woman8️. I love living life in a passionate way6️. My family and friends describe me as a respectful4️, loving8️, educated woman7️. I like to spend time with my partner4️. Sometimes I think that one of my weaknesses is being sensitive9️, however I know that it is also a virtue6️. My main contribution in a relationship is to make the person next to me very happy and allow that person to make me happy2️. Among my future plans I want to make my home homey and have ***9️.
Female (48) Bakersfield, California
I dream of a man who shines brightly in the sky of my abilities, radiating deep passion and sincerity. He is a true master of emotions and words, always open and honest. His stability and responsibility make him a reliable support, and curiosity and creativity fuel a constant desire for improvement. This man is my equal partner, ready to share a life that pulsates with adventure and new discoveries, with courage and frankness. He not only supports my desire for new things, but is also able to realize our common dreams and fantasies , filling every moment of unity with deep emotional closeness, love and understanding.
Female (34) Stockton, California
A travel enthusiast who thrives on exploring new places and cultures. Whether it's hiking in the mountains or strolling through vibrant city streets, I'm always up for an adventure. Beyond travel, I enjoy simple pleasures like hiking, camping, swimming, maybe try a boat tour, seafood
Female (37) Walnut, California
I'm looking and waiting for the one whom I will love with all my heart and my whole life. Someone who's tender, loving, caring, sweet and responsible. I want a man who will understand, love and accept me for who and what I am
Female (58) Dublin, California
well i am very calm,honest and lovely, i am single never been married , a friend told me about this site and i am trying my luck for the first time here, i hope to meet good people soon, well you can always check my profile out.. lets get to know more about each other and see what the future holds for us
Female (45) Tulare, California
I'm a hard working person, honest, caring and a good friend. I like to treat people the way I would like to be treated. I love who I am. I am a looking for a great partner. I understand that having an honest, authentic, loving lifetime relationship is not something that comes along easily, it needs the work of a two people to get to that. I'm willing to do my part with love, patience, trust, respect, honesty and communication
Female (37) Visalia, California
I am simple and easy going country girl. Growing up on the countryside has shaped me to be a compassionate person with a genuine love for nature. Whether it’s a quiet walk along the field of wildflowers or an adventurous hike up a mountain. Comping movies and karaoke night. I enjoy the outdoors just as much as I like being indoors with a special someone just enjoying each other’s company. I like to kiss and cuddle. I enjoy good romance for play time and also like to wake up to an early good morning kiss from that special someone. I am looking for a honest and a genuine man, someone who is not afraid of a new start. Someone to share some quality time together with getting to know more about each other as friends and possibly more
Female (47) San Jose, California
I’m humble, caring, loyal, trusted, kind, lovely, matured , happy, honest , respectful and passionate woman. I’m here to find love, someone to spend the rest of my life with . A man to love and be loved back . If you are interested, let get to know each other better ..
Female (57) Big Bear Lake, California

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