Kinky women in California

5,556 Kinky women in California

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.

Fun, funny and always horny. The weirdest things turn me on. I like being watched and want to fine someone who wants to just watch me *** and squirt and orgasm all over myself. If you’d like to join that’s fine with me too☺️???

Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure as a sub but it’s funny because I’m a brat?

Hi I'm a slut whore who is looking for someone to degrade me like the whore that I em Love being called names The nastier the better it is Love being spanked ***ed on all over me love having *** in my cunt then plugged up and ***d to crawl around with it in me like a dirty whore. Love getting dirty and real nasty degrading texts messages and voicemails (USA) Only You can call me any name that you want Cunt Whore Bitch Cum Dump Skank Trash Ugly Dog Piggy Cow I'll take it like a Hoe I love to *** outside in the backyard lay at daddy's feet sniff his ass be like a table sometimes drink out a water bowl being leashed to a car Livenbeing in a car with no panties on ***d to have a foot on the dashboard showing my nasty cunt Love to have a small rabbit vibrater to sit on the small part in my asshole and the other in my xunt having it turned on Being told not ro cum or I get spanked for it My favorite is being being called a piggy and laughed at when I start to squeal and oink like a piggy Being a dog and barking like one Being bitch slapped when I start jumping like one I won't touch myself unless told that I can I love to suffer and be able to cum cause I'm worthless For Now Online Only Also I do have Kik and Snapchat

I'm a fun, adventurous soul with a love for life. Whether it's discovering hidden gems or soaking up the beauty of the outdoors, I'm always ready for the next little adventure. Oh, and I've been told I'm quite the catch too. Let's take a chance, explore life together, and see where the journey leads us.

I think I’m just here to see what goes on for the most part but you know I do believe anything is possible so if I think I feel a romantic connection with some guy I may start dating him. However, it’s not very likely because of how picky I am. Not going to mention what I like in guys because you know people can be cruel and take advantage of it by lying and stuff. I don’t plan to make friends here and just online in general because I think it’s best if I make friends in person especially after what happened that I mentioned after this sentence. It's funny how that one guy who lied to me was right (btw I didn’t meet him on this website). Believe it or not, I didn’t even talk to him on a daily basis because he had what I was looking for but rather because I was willing to give him a chance, and boy was I so wrong for it ( good thing I never him met in person). I have Autism so it’s going to be hard for me to talk to someone but it’s not the only thing that makes it difficult for me because I do have trust issues and have always been that way tbh. I’m a virgin who can’t drive :jumping: who knows when I’ll freaking learn to drive and be great at it. I don’t often shave so I’m probably not for you if you like hairless women. I never been in a relationship. Idk about anyone else but I prefer someone who shows their face and not hide it with an object or a drawing or something. I’m aware catfishes are also people that “show” their face (I say it loosely because you know obviously they aren’t actually showing their face when it’s not them in the picture) but you have to understand the ones who don’t show their face are usually catfishing (keyword: usually so don’t say I’m calling you a catfish just because you’re hiding your face) and honestly I have brutal opinions on faceless accounts but it’s best I keep it to myself. If you say you can show me your face you might as well not I’m not wasting my time like that. I don’t know why but I’m not really attracted to the guys that are around my area. All the guys I seem attracted to are over the seas, over 5000 miles away lol. I’m sensitive maybe too sensitive. Just something about me. Please no nudes I don’t like that I prefer those things shown in person and when I’m married to the individual guy.

I'm a woman of great character who knows how to open her emotions and feelings to the right person. I do not pretend to call your attention because I just hope that I get to me that person who knows how to value me as a woman to help enhance the best of me.

Would love some female friends one here:) *Absolutely no daddy doms or people who are only dom Looking for a gf to learn shibari with:) Other than that not really looking for anything just here to learn and explore. I’m a bisexual domme leaning switch that loves to be worshipped, spoiled and treated as a Queen/Goddess. Male doms you’re in the wrong place. As for getting me to respond keep in mind I get a lot of messages. Be thoughtful and creative and generous. Be specific about who you are and how you want to be treated. DO NOT message me without reading my limits! Be respectful! If you don’t think we’re compatible then don’t message me it’s as simple as that. Let’s not waste each others time.

I am a tomboy on the streets and a femme submissive in the sheets 😉 I am doing a remodel to flip a house right now, so I spend a lot of time in Carhartts keeping my guns swole, lol. I was raised by two Moms, one Mom was a jet and helo mechanic for 22 years in the Navy. I started changing the oil in the family cars when I was 9. If you aren't comfortable with a punk rock girl artist who keeps her head shaved as tight and clean as her pussy, don't knock on my door. I expect to be escorted about proudly. I am a cultured and educated anarchist. I choose this gender bending because I love it. I am not anyone's back up fuck. I am first fiddle, full stop, at least when we are on a playdate. I am handy AF, and I love showing my friends and lovers my affection through acts of service and DIY repairs 😁 Whose house needs a fresh coat of ***t? I can be topped by almost anyone I find attractive, but... I am a demisexual who loves to do it the way He wants it to be done. If He expects the real thing, HE HAS TO BE WORTHY of my submission. I love words of affirmation that I am doing it right, and if I get it wrong, I will bend over backward and forward to make it right again. Once He has my loyalty, my filial piety is unshakable. So, I choose my Dom carefully. I am looking for fun play and/or true friendship right now, but I am open to a soul mate. I enjoy women, too. Very much. Anyway, that's me in a nutshell 😆 Oh yeah, and I am a wig officionado, I love wigs! I often show up to dates and events in various costumes and hair. It is my favorite absurd pastime, and I like to delight my playmates with novelty and variety (I have heard it is the spice of life).

I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.

READ BEFORE.YOU MESSAGE ME I CRAVE to be your virtual seductress. I want to explore your fantasies and fetishs. I find pleasure in pleasing. I want to cater to and fulfill all sexual desires. I love to share photos, videos, virtual chats and if everything aligns maybe more. I want to be treated like a queen, i enjoy mutual gifting, public affection, words of affirmation. Take care of me and I will be your ride or die. I will not disrespect you unless that's what your into. I do not tolerate Cheaters, Liars and Narcassistic behaviors. RED FLAGS will be blocked. I am an open book and I will communicate if I am not comfortable, so I expect the same. I will respect, love and shower you with attention. But please keep in mind schedules can vary and life can get busy. I will not tolerate negativity, slandering, bullying, acts of *** to hurt or harm others.Too many people have taken advantage of what I have to offer and my boundaries are set in stone. I will no longer empty my cup for someone who won't fill mine. Lastly, I refuse to spread myself thin. If our vibrations match, you'll have my devoted attention. I'm selective and will not respond to every message I recieve. If you catch my attention your one of the lucky few. I can't wait to make your fantasies become your reality.

i’m an inexperienced subby brat, pillow princess and would like to explore with someone who can take care of and teach me. also potentially wanting a sugar mommy/daddy 😛

I'm not sure that's what I had in mind, but I'm open to seeing where things go! Friends can be a great way to get to know each other and have some fun, but I want to make sure we're on the same page.

i am sexy lol, i am up for anything , just be smart Stephanielesser43 Att Gmalee Do Tcomm let get to know each other

I am a multifaceted person with an attractive appearance, a sincere smile and a warm heart. I have a pleasant, simple character. I am active and like to try many new things. I am a very kind, sweet, honest and communicative woman. I like to work and live abroad, it is interesting to learn new things, new people, new cultures. I am sure that soon I will find my happiness with a good and honest person. I'm not looking for anything strange, I'm looking for a classic, natural relationship. I'm looking for a real meeting, a real date and I'm not going to stay here for long.

I'm a bit hard to handle not for the reasons you might think... Never say sorry to me

just a red head who happens to be a major brat. if you’re not an experienced Dom with rope/restraints don’t waste my time. I’m a recent release needing to be collared.

I am a bratty sub that's been without a Mommy Dom. If I'm handled correctly, I'll even kneel to you. I might not even fight you at times and accept my fate. other times, I might go breaking every rule on my way. I like to be praised and pampered. Spoiling me is good too but I also like getting touched.

Lost in my own thoughts, I’ve become a voyeur to life—a quiet observer, drifting through moments. I say hello, exchange a few flirtations, then vanish into the ether like smoke. If undeserved rejection fuels your fire, well… maybe I’m your perfect storm. Still, nothing turns me off faster than a man who approaches with clumsy, overtly sexual remarks—especially here. Mystery is foreplay for the mind, and I crave the tension of a slow burn to awaken my desires. Traditional sites are littered with lies and hollow performances, but here, at least, there’s space for honesty. A different kind of freedom. Even with my Cowboy, I’m caught in this strange limbo—watching, waiting. There’s a sadness he says he sees in me, a shadow I can’t shake. Life-altering stress will do that, won’t it? It seeps in, dulling even the most delicious of connections. But I hope… I hope for the spark to return. And if you’re intrigued by me, you’ll need to accept—or enjoy—that I already have an older, dominant man in my life. He knows how to lead, and we play 1-2 times a week. He’s open, generous, and we’ve shared our world with men, women, and couples alike. For now, I remain a watcher, aching to feel alive again. Maybe you’ll be the one who reignites the fire. -——-.•.•*✨💞💘✨*•.•.…-——- I am a sultry bondage Barbie with cascading blond locks and generous breasts that never fail to captivate. My preference for older men who can embrace the role of Daddy adds a thrilling element of taboo to our encounters, igniting the flames of desire within me. Despite my intelligence and successful career, I find solace in the shadows of discretion, where secrets are kept and passions are unleashed. Eager to surrender to the right man, I sought a dominant figure who can be both stern and fair, guiding me with a firm hand and a loving heart as his little brat. Role play is not just a pastime for me; it's a cherished sojourn into a world where fantasies come alive and inhibitions melt away. Light BDSM activities such as spanking, flogging, estim, and ropes excite me, each touch and sensation adding to the symphony of pleasure we create together. In the delicate dance of submission and dominance, I am a willing participant, ready to explore the depths of my desires with my partner who can match my intensity and passion. Together, we navigate the realms of pleasure and ***, finding ecstasy in the union of our darkest fantasies and deepest longings. My ideal man—a true connoisseur of the fine art of delicate dominance— I refer to as the Cowboy or in kinky company, Daddy. He is a man seasoned with wisdom, his silver fox allure radiating an irresistible charm. He’s got that sophisticated, daddy-like presence that makes my inner princess swoon. He’s an expert in the delightful dance of role play, effortlessly slipping into the role of the nurturing, authoritative daddy while I embrace my inner brat with playful defiance. He not only understands but revels in the brat mentality, knowing that my feisty spirit is a testament to a vibrant strength and character. Beneath my dominant exterior, he recognizes the submissive desires that I hold dear. He knows how to gently ***l away my layers of control, guiding me into a space where I can surrender completely, all the while ensuring that I feel cherished and safe. Aftercare? Oh, he’s a maestro of that symphony. He lavishes me with the attention and tender care is deserved, enveloping me in a cocoon of comfort and security. Every touch, every word is a testament to his devotion, ensuring that I feel like the treasured gem that I truly am. This is a man who balances strength with sensitivity, authority with adoration—a sophisticated master of the heart, perfectly attuned to the rhythm of my desires. He is an older, properly groomed gentleman that I adoringly share with other women, couples and TG. Our couples profile is xxxkinkycplxx. I am not available for singles play with other men.

I'm a really fun person to be around. I love meeting new people and trying new things. I need someone who knows what they are doing.

People who communicate with me say I have a great sense of humor. I appreciate people who are reliable and responsible and I try to be the same. Optimism, activity, good and honest relationships with people. These are the main things in my life

Athletic hippie chic up for any adventure. I love all sports and am healthy and athletic. I am an exhibitionist and enjoy showing you my body especially outdoors. 420 all day everyday Looking for like minded people to chat with

i'm fairly new to the kink community, however i do know what turns me on and what doesn't.. so experimenting is always an option!! because gosh there are so, so many things i'd love to try.. ________ CNC, masochism, bondage (shibari, handcuffs, etc..), dd/lg, somno, dress-up, biting!!, praise/degradee, slave, teacher/student... ________ so many more!! 😣

pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!

Fun, funny and always horny. The weirdest things turn me on. I like being watched and want to fine someone who wants to just watch me *** and squirt and orgasm all over myself. If you’d like to join that’s fine with me too☺️???

*I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.* ** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*** Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources. I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll. In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me! In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers. Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤ **Desires and Fantasies** Someone who can read a profile would be a good start. All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.

Do you know what loneliness means? I have had this feeling here. And I could make nothing with it. I did not meet the person with whom I can share happiness, family life and such fine feeling as love! Therefore I am here. I understand that we need to get to know each other better. After all, every woman subconsciously knows what kind of man she needs. I am a very supportive woman. I like to always be the center of attention in my family and I do not like to have secrets.

All I can say about myself is that I am a good girl! I love nature, relaxation, singing. Deep down, I am a romantic. From the side I am a tigress. My family says that there is no one in the world whom I cannot love. I am a very open girl. I try to follow my lifestyle. It is very important for me to understand how I will spend this day. After all, every day should be special.

I’m looking to meet a genuine partner.

i’m an inexperienced subby brat, pillow princess and would like to explore with someone who can take care of and teach me. also potentially wanting a sugar mommy/daddy 😛

I'm here to find a deep, meaningful connection. I value honesty and respect above all, and I dream of a long term relationship where love, trust, and support flow both ways. I believe in being loyal, nurturing, and attentive to my man, and in return, I hope to find someone who can lead with strength and kindness.

People who communicate with me say I have a great sense of humor. I appreciate people who are reliable and responsible and I try to be the same. Optimism, activity, good and honest relationships with people. These are the main things in my life

I'm a woman of great character who knows how to open her emotions and feelings to the right person. I do not pretend to call your attention because I just hope that I get to me that person who knows how to value me as a woman to help enhance the best of me.

I'm not sure that's what I had in mind, but I'm open to seeing where things go! Friends can be a great way to get to know each other and have some fun, but I want to make sure we're on the same page.

i am sexy lol, i am up for anything , just be smart Stephanielesser43 Att Gmalee Do Tcomm let get to know each other

I'm a natural submissive looking for true kinky fun. I'm not interested in cyber, subbies need real-time affection! I'm interested in Dominant older gentlemen. Short- term or long: please be respectful, creative, and real. I have a long list of fun things I love to do... how about you?

I am a charming, mysterious, seductive, charismatic woman. I am always positive. I can get through the most turbulent times of my life in a good mood. I am used to trusting my heart, and I am able to overcome any difficulties in life and, having achieved my goal, move even further.

Im very loving, caring, loyal, kind and sweet to be with

I'm a fun, adventurous soul with a love for life. Whether it's discovering hidden gems or soaking up the beauty of the outdoors, I'm always ready for the next little adventure. Oh, and I've been told I'm quite the catch too. Let's take a chance, explore life together, and see where the journey leads us.

I am a multifaceted person with an attractive appearance, a sincere smile and a warm heart. I have a pleasant, simple character. I am active and like to try many new things. I am a very kind, sweet, honest and communicative woman. I like to work and live abroad, it is interesting to learn new things, new people, new cultures. I am sure that soon I will find my happiness with a good and honest person. I'm not looking for anything strange, I'm looking for a classic, natural relationship. I'm looking for a real meeting, a real date and I'm not going to stay here for long.

Love is the flame in my heart that cannot be extinguished, burning with the desire for the future and the call for each other's souls. I am willing to cross thousands of mountains and rivers, and use every heartbeat to get closer to you, until the moment we meet, the world will stop turning for us.

I am a bratty sub that's been without a Mommy Dom. If I'm handled correctly, I'll even kneel to you. I might not even fight you at times and accept my fate. other times, I might go breaking every rule on my way. I like to be praised and pampered. Spoiling me is good too but I also like getting touched.

I do not consider myself an extraordinary person, only special in the right eyes and who knows how to listen while maintaining a good conversation. I consider myself as an outgoing, funny, passionate person, capable of loving myself in order to love another person. I like ***s, I like nature. I like good company and of course the peace of mind that they can offer.

I'm good, responsible and temperamental. I like to be in a company of my friends. I do not like loneliness. I lead an active lifestyle. I like to visit new places.

I am the woman who has the courage to make life better. I am the woman who knows how to do something special just for the sake of making life worth living. I am the kind of woman who has the ability to be positive all the time and believes in the purpose of life. I am very funny and I love ***s I love life and it is a blessing to be here.

.It is not a secret that every little girl dreams of big love, the one that last for a lifetime. I am a grown-up already, but I disagree to believe that such love exists only in romantic movies and in reality everything is much more prosaic. I believe that a word "soulmate" is not just a nice word. Every successful relationship requires a lot of work on both sides, but love is always a team game, and if there is only one in the field playing his ass off, it always fails. Some things come to us only with experience, but this is how we learn to distinguish true from false and to appreciate certain things in life. I am at that stage of my life when I know exactly what I can and what I want. Let it sound a bit old-fashioned, but I am looking for big love. If you are charismatic, willing to care, if you treat women and people in general with respect, you have very high chances to win my heart. If you are self-sufficient, generous, passionate and witty as well, you are very close to being my ideal match. I am a hardworking woman. I am very sociable and a good friend. I like to share a lot with my family. I am responsible, loving, attentive and faithful. I wish I could have a good partner and thus have a family. I really like to take care of my physical appearance because although the heart of a person is the main thing, I think that maintaining a good image also speaks of how who we are as person in terms of organization.

just a red head who happens to be a major brat. if you’re not an experienced Dom with rope/restraints don’t waste my time. I’m a recent release needing to be collared.

I enjoy being gifted and spoiled. It might seem a little strange but i also enjoy being praised for everything i do and showered with compliments, aswell as being asked to do things and showing them. I enjoy rough and *** while also enjoying gentle and soft. I am chubby aswell, not too chubby but probably not too skinny either. You can see more when you start talking to me :3