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sunny67
sunny67
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (55) Oakland, California
Trapselena
Trapselena
Hey there, i am a sweet yet daring young woman navigating my early 20s with an adventurous spirit and a heart open to fun and spontaneity. I am all about those casual hangouts that turn into unforgettable nights, sharing laughter and good vibes with someone who appreciates the same. I thrive on the thrill of the unexpected and love to explore new connections without any pressure. Whether we are diving into deep conversations or just enjoying each other company over drinks, I am here for it. Sensuality is my game, and I am all about living in the moment and seeing where our chemistry can take us. If you are someone who values genuine connection and playful banter, lets hang out and see where our paths might lead. I am ready to meet like-minded individuals who crave that perfect mix of excitement and relaxation. Lets make some memories together. Cannot wait to hear from you!
Female (23) Oakland, California
Lina67565
Lina67565
Independent and experienced adult entertainer available for private encounters , Offering Discretion and Professionalism
Female (54) Oakland, California
wmaryrink
wmaryrink
I am a beautiful blonde with blue eyes, who wants to bathe in your bottomless beautiful and loving eyes! I am a kind girl with an open, tender heart and calm character. I know what I want to find here. I want to meet my love and my beloved half. My heart is free and open to a worthy man. For me, the main thing is self-development and, of course, love and family!
Female (34) Oakland, California
ShaylaDreams
ShaylaDreams
🥰100% Fetishes & Dominatrix🥰 Party and Play Girl ready to rock your world baby and have a fantastic time. No CatFish 💯 Real Photos🥰
Female (32) Oakland, California
SecretSmiles
SecretSmiles
:kissing_closed_eyes: :kissing_heart: 9_9 :hearts_around: :clapping: :coffee_happy: :relaxed: :) :D
Female (38) Oakland, California
curvysub415
c*********5
New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.
Female (37) Oakland, California
stuffedore0
s*********0
I’m just a sub in desperate need of a dom to worship but don’t let that fool you i also really like pegging men ☺️I can be a good girl and follow instructions but i can also be a very strict dom I’ll train to be perfect for my dom. I’m really into CNC so I don’t mind being used and ***d Note that) I want an actual Dom that I can communicate with and have an actual Dom&Sub relationship with not just a quick fuck and that’s all. (bit of an anal slut🎀) (I prefer monogamy) ️️️️IN PERSON ONLY! I DONT LIKE ONLINE PLAY!!!️️️
Female (20) Oakland, California
yannababy
y*******y
Hiiiii! My name is Yanna and I am a sub looking for a male Dom to be fwb! :p I don’t like one time hookups and I really like reoccurring hookups! :) HMU :) Don’t send unsolicited pics! I will block and report your account!
Female (18) Oakland, California
msfortune
m*******e
I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo
Female (22) Oakland, California
oakland127708
o***********8
I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?
Female (36) Oakland, California
maiagirl
m******l
more details to come - but here's the basics: happily married for 15 years, dating solo, looking for adventures. I want your full attention - even if it's fleeting. I want to connect and be seen. I want to explore and experience new things and I want to feel cared for while I'm exploring.
Female (52) Oakland, California
soriveting
s********g
**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.
Female (40) Oakland, California
ogxoxo
o****o
goddess treatment is non negotiable ideally would like to find a special someone to match freaks with and motivate eachother to be the best versions of ourselves all in all pretty sexually fluid currently into exploring some of the following~ femme dom pleasure dom chastity milking pegging + more i can be switchy or bratty too sometimes i have a demanding libido
Female (40) Oakland, California
NotYourGoodGirl_
N**************_
5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.
Female (33) Oakland, California
malena918
m*******8
take me out to eat then eat me out 😛 looking for an emotional connection as well as sexual. ultimately am looking for a serious relationship w a lot of kinky fun in the bedroom switch, can give it or take it, but I have been playing a submissive role more as of late. I especially love fantasy and roleplay. corsets and courtesans, teacher/student, general societal gray situations excite me 🥴
Female (28) Oakland, California
flirtyfunfresh
f************h
i’m looking for casual, low to no commitment fun. trying to get into the BDSM community more. i don’t have much experience and i lean more sub, but depending on the partner/circumstances i would like to try my hand at being a dom. open to threesomes/being a unicorn
Female (20) Oakland, California
Akejsia
A*****a
Hi my name is Akejsia I’m looking for a serious relationship and friends I’m a submissive I’m pansexual so I love everyone Im shy at first but I open up So just message me Add me on snap @notyourangel333
Female (22) Oakland, California
LezBHonest
L********t
Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜
Female (37) Oakland, California
sara_somnambulant
s***************t
I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.
Female (34) Oakland, California
UniButterFly
U**********y
Bisexual Woman but also into Bisexual Man. Open minded, Exploring my sexuality and having fun doing it. life is too short to try to figure out which gender to be with, when you can have the best of both worlds.
Female (39) Oakland, California
oakland902742
o***********2
I’m a serious, assertive, executive-type, former lawyer, who works too much and cares too much about the state of the world. I workout almost daily and avoid sugar because I love sugar. To relax I like to surrender to a dom who will buy me dinner and talk about work and whatever and then take me to bed and build anticipation, tease, lightly restrain, withhold, edge, and *** me with pleasure.
Female (49) Oakland, California

New members in Oakland

sunny67
sunny67
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (55) Oakland, California
SecretSmiles
SecretSmiles
:kissing_closed_eyes: :kissing_heart: 9_9 :hearts_around: :clapping: :coffee_happy: :relaxed: :) :D
Female (38) Oakland, California
wmaryrink
wmaryrink
I am a beautiful blonde with blue eyes, who wants to bathe in your bottomless beautiful and loving eyes! I am a kind girl with an open, tender heart and calm character. I know what I want to find here. I want to meet my love and my beloved half. My heart is free and open to a worthy man. For me, the main thing is self-development and, of course, love and family!
Female (34) Oakland, California
Lina67565
Lina67565
Independent and experienced adult entertainer available for private encounters , Offering Discretion and Professionalism
Female (54) Oakland, California
Trapselena
Trapselena
Hey there, i am a sweet yet daring young woman navigating my early 20s with an adventurous spirit and a heart open to fun and spontaneity. I am all about those casual hangouts that turn into unforgettable nights, sharing laughter and good vibes with someone who appreciates the same. I thrive on the thrill of the unexpected and love to explore new connections without any pressure. Whether we are diving into deep conversations or just enjoying each other company over drinks, I am here for it. Sensuality is my game, and I am all about living in the moment and seeing where our chemistry can take us. If you are someone who values genuine connection and playful banter, lets hang out and see where our paths might lead. I am ready to meet like-minded individuals who crave that perfect mix of excitement and relaxation. Lets make some memories together. Cannot wait to hear from you!
Female (23) Oakland, California
ShaylaDreams
ShaylaDreams
🥰100% Fetishes & Dominatrix🥰 Party and Play Girl ready to rock your world baby and have a fantastic time. No CatFish 💯 Real Photos🥰
Female (32) Oakland, California
ogxoxo
o****o
goddess treatment is non negotiable ideally would like to find a special someone to match freaks with and motivate eachother to be the best versions of ourselves all in all pretty sexually fluid currently into exploring some of the following~ femme dom pleasure dom chastity milking pegging + more i can be switchy or bratty too sometimes i have a demanding libido
Female (40) Oakland, California
maiagirl
m******l
more details to come - but here's the basics: happily married for 15 years, dating solo, looking for adventures. I want your full attention - even if it's fleeting. I want to connect and be seen. I want to explore and experience new things and I want to feel cared for while I'm exploring.
Female (52) Oakland, California
oakland902742
o***********2
I’m a serious, assertive, executive-type, former lawyer, who works too much and cares too much about the state of the world. I workout almost daily and avoid sugar because I love sugar. To relax I like to surrender to a dom who will buy me dinner and talk about work and whatever and then take me to bed and build anticipation, tease, lightly restrain, withhold, edge, and *** me with pleasure.
Female (49) Oakland, California
soriveting
s********g
**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.
Female (40) Oakland, California
yannababy
y*******y
Hiiiii! My name is Yanna and I am a sub looking for a male Dom to be fwb! :p I don’t like one time hookups and I really like reoccurring hookups! :) HMU :) Don’t send unsolicited pics! I will block and report your account!
Female (18) Oakland, California
oakland127708
o***********8
I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?
Female (36) Oakland, California
UniButterFly
U**********y
Bisexual Woman but also into Bisexual Man. Open minded, Exploring my sexuality and having fun doing it. life is too short to try to figure out which gender to be with, when you can have the best of both worlds.
Female (39) Oakland, California
LezBHonest
L********t
Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜
Female (37) Oakland, California
flirtyfunfresh
f************h
i’m looking for casual, low to no commitment fun. trying to get into the BDSM community more. i don’t have much experience and i lean more sub, but depending on the partner/circumstances i would like to try my hand at being a dom. open to threesomes/being a unicorn
Female (20) Oakland, California
curvysub415
c*********5
New to kink so a lot to learn. I’m petite and curvy brunette with a small waist, thick thighs, full hips and a juicy 🍑. I’m a sub looking for someone to have regular D/s play sessions. I think desire starts in the mind so I want to be seduced. I Love lots of foreplay (verbal & physical), anticipation, tension, toys, dirty talk and ***fulness. I like to playfully resist and be subdued and overcome. discreet public teasing really excites me. If you lean towards being a pleasure Dom, enjoy the art of seduction, love to give more than receive and looking for a regular playmate then please reach out. I prefer an athletic build and no mustaches (beards can be sexy.) Please Send pics of face if not on your profile. Please dont message me, if you aren’t nearby or cant host. Im not interested in cyber sex, being friends or exchanging pics. Condoms, clear boundaries and good communication skills are nonnegotiable. I hold myself with respect and expect the same.
Female (37) Oakland, California
sara_somnambulant
s***************t
I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.
Female (34) Oakland, California
malena918
m*******8
take me out to eat then eat me out 😛 looking for an emotional connection as well as sexual. ultimately am looking for a serious relationship w a lot of kinky fun in the bedroom switch, can give it or take it, but I have been playing a submissive role more as of late. I especially love fantasy and roleplay. corsets and courtesans, teacher/student, general societal gray situations excite me 🥴
Female (28) Oakland, California
NotYourGoodGirl_
N**************_
5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.
Female (33) Oakland, California
stuffedore0
s*********0
I’m just a sub in desperate need of a dom to worship but don’t let that fool you i also really like pegging men ☺️I can be a good girl and follow instructions but i can also be a very strict dom I’ll train to be perfect for my dom. I’m really into CNC so I don’t mind being used and ***d Note that) I want an actual Dom that I can communicate with and have an actual Dom&Sub relationship with not just a quick fuck and that’s all. (bit of an anal slut🎀) (I prefer monogamy) ️️️️IN PERSON ONLY! I DONT LIKE ONLINE PLAY!!!️️️
Female (20) Oakland, California
Akejsia
A*****a
Hi my name is Akejsia I’m looking for a serious relationship and friends I’m a submissive I’m pansexual so I love everyone Im shy at first but I open up So just message me Add me on snap @notyourangel333
Female (22) Oakland, California
msfortune
m*******e
I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo
Female (22) Oakland, California

New personal ads in Oakland

bigbittygoth
Need submissive slave

I need someone that won’t say no to me no matter the request
NSA ● 18 to 79 years ● 500km around USA Los Angeles
Tossi86
Looking for a girl some my FWB can watch

My friend really wants to watch me with a girl. I'm fun and laid back, this would be something I think I would enjoy especially with him watching
Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Buena Park
whittleswillplay88
Looking for a couple to play with for Christmas Ev

We are both 37 and looking for a couple to play with. We are looking for hard swap and foot play.
Kinky Date ● 28 to 45 years ● 500km around USA Minneapolis
Sopsmith2000
I’m looking forward to found out my soulmate to sp

Im single woman with no kids and I have no kids and I live alone with myself
Kinky Date ● 40 to 69 years ● 255km around USA Loveland
princessjaz
Vixen looking for BF

in a stag vixen dynamic with my daddy, looking for men to have fun with online then in person.. and mustt spoil me while doing so.. dm to add m on discord to praise and adore your princesss ♡

i am not pay for play. no amount of *** will convince me to have sex with you
Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 5km around USA Clarkston
sleepingawake
I want a partner

Looking for a dom. Someone who is gentle yet stern when it comes to discipline. Someone freaky.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Burleson
ray_skull
Read up

Submissive men to the front only
Send a message to actually get a response
Online fun only
Prefer around my age but if your cute Try your luck
I am STRICTLY dom stop trying me and stay in your lane.
Thx u 😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 500km around USA Antioch
tamayaa68854
I need a daddy

I want a daddy

I am extremely shy in person honestly so idk why im like this

Inexperienced

Im willing to try almost anythinggg

Im extremely shy in person though but im better when u get to know me
Im also on the submissive side
Im plus size n insecure but i like being humiliated and degraded at the same time
I wanna be controlled and be told what to do and what to say
Im into breeding, and being d?
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 80 years ● 135km around USA Redlake
lexington30590
Fun date wanted

Looking for a bit of fun my last night in vegas
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Las Vegas
ljmitchell
Bored hypno domme

I'm a hypno domme who's looking for hot younger guys who wanna play with hypnosis in different ways. I do a couple different types and it's a lot of fun.

I'm into what I'm into so if you're into it too then hmu

Bonus points if you have a friend also interested in it as well. It tends to be a lot of fun.

Also please no flakes or weirdos.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 44 years ● 500km around USA Las Vegas
Mamadiva
Adventurous Spirit Seeking a Partner in Crime

I’m seeking a genuine, trustworthy man who’s ready for a long-term relationship filled with laughter, passion, and a little bit of spice. Someone who’s confident, communicative, and isn’t afraid to explore the more adventurous sides of life. Let’s create a safe space where we can share our desires and fantasies, and build a bond that’s both exciting and meaningful.
Kinky Date ● 20 to 25 years ● 405km around USA Portland
RarityRoxxxi
Jack of all trades

I’m a (L)ittle (G)irl who happens to be a brat, so I like to have my way . Some may call it a bit dominating to the right person .
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 60 years ● 165km around USA Cincinnati
DaintyDiva429
Letmepunishandpleasureyou!

Where are the fellas who enjoy being dominated! I want you on all 4s

face down zza up !! Can you handle it !!
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 40 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Washington
Dancinginthefires
Power to the women

I’ve been contacted by many women who wish to learn how to dominate .
I’ve been able to help three so far, but the holidays are coming up. I may not have as much time, but if you do need help to be truly dominant or to be a better submissive to your man, I’ll be happy to help you. It’s my Christmas gift to you.
In regards to what I’m looking for . I’m just waiting for nature to take its course cause .
I can’t even respond to the amount of request I get
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 48 years ● 480km around USA Bayonet Point
t_inke
Boreddd

Does anyone wanna meet up in Wi? Only 24-33
NSA ● 24 to 33 years ● 100km around USA Green Bay
Secret-Kink888
Seeking a Dominant Daddy to push my limits!

Craving a daddy who knows exactly how to handle a plaything. I’m looking for intense, rough sessions that last a long time— I want you to make me cum until I can’t think straight
NSA ● 25 to 59 years ● 95km around USA Palm Springs
bluebrat13
Looking for a ride to Ottawa

Someone with a car and that is willing to dive me from Newmarket to Ottawa.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years ● 25km around Canada Newmarket
ellevespertine
looking for a REAL Daddy

i want a full-time dynamic eventually of a Daddy and his little girl. im open to role-playing it as incestuous even if that's what you're into. please be at a point in your life that you can take on a full caregiver role. i need someone to take care of me. physically, mentally, emotionally, and eventually financially as well.

bonus points if you have dark(er) hair, tattoos, a beard, and are fit enough to pick me up and toss me around like a little girl.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 160km around USA Morganton
Ceelantro
Buy me dinner. worship me.

Im a spoiled master that gets what she wants. who will serve me tonight
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Independence
LittleSadFlower
29f Arkansas- babied over video chat tonight?

I'm looking for someone to do a mental regression abdl roleplay on video call with tonight. I'm still in a significant amount of *** from my tooth extraction yesterday and I'm feeling poopy (pun intended lol) I want a sweet, caring Daddy to baby me. Prefer this to be non-sexual roleplay please 😊😊🥺🥺🍼🍼

I've had an edible and they make me feel so babyish and blissful. Would any guys out there be interested in doing a roleplay scenario where a dad or teacher/professor must learn to care for their mentally regressed daughter/student and teacher eventually becomes Daddy. I love the idea of mental regression. 🥺🥺🥰🥰



I've always fantasized about being a brainless overgrown infant.



For Daddy I want a sweet, caring and teasing Daddy who's so in love and proud of his baby girl and brags and shows her off to his male friends who secretly think she's adorable.



And for the Professor one, maybe he's a widow who wants a baby so he's overjoyed when he gets to take care of a student that has a infants mentality due to an accident as the daughter he never got to have.



I really want to tonight but I will say I am shy though...



I'd love a British Daddy tbh...



I have Snapchat and Discord too.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 44 years ● 480km around USA Arkadelphia
Marysmith252639
Single woman 💃

Single men and widowser
Kinky Date ● 41 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Leesburg
Julie77224
Fuck me Tonight

Dm me 😝
Kinky Date ● 21 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Palm Beach Shores

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