To begin to understand who I am and what triggers Me sexually, is going to take some time. I find that I respond differently to situations depending on who I am with and they dynamic of energy exchanged. PATIENCE is the key to getting to Me.
**# My sexual triggers:**
Sensory Stimulation: Mental Engagement, Words, Scents, Touch, Sounds, Music, Visuals, Photos, Video
Physical Stimulation: Attractive/Assertive (semi-submissive) Men, A Devilish Grin, Eyes that reveal dark secrets, Strong Physical Stature, Shoulders, Hands, An open button of a collared shirt, A well-dressed man in panties
Environmental Stimulation: Public (discrete) Play, Sexual Stimulation (public orgasm), Music, Lighting, Fetishwear, Play Parties, Voyeurism and Exhibitionism (modified)
Other Triggers: Desire, Lust, Intimacy, Spontaneity, Genuine Interaction, Obedience, Respect, Power Exchange, Control, Dominance, Knowing you are hard for Me, Knowing you are thinking about Me, Hearing/Reading your thoughts as you look at My photos, Reading the reflection of events/scenes, Interesting Conversation, Flattery (meaningful)
Fetishes: Shoes/Boots, Leather, Corsets, Bondage, Collar & Leash, Impact Play, Edging, Tease & Denial, Orgasm Control, Hypnoaudio, Chastity, Cuckold, Pushing Boundaries, Full Body Worship
**# What I seek in a play partner:**
Intelligence:
Excellent communication skills
Confidence (without arrogance)
Successfully employed and self-sufficient
Strong work ethic/sense of direction/purpose/goals/ambition/motivation
True sense of worth and self-assured
Character:
Interesting conversations (not all kink)
Men that are well spoken/educated
Men that are gentlemen/respectful
Special interests/hobbies that are intriguing
Good sense of humor
Caring/kind/committed
Organized/schedule oriented
Trustworthy (this is a major one)
Body:
Attractive/well-groomed
Personal care conscious/impeccable hygiene
Nice physique/healthy
Hands (I had a thing for hands)
Nice shoulders and chest (definitely a trigger)
A spankable ass
Attire:
Men in suits (ties in particular)
Well dressed/sense of personal style
Men in panties (this is a big one)
Combination of masc/femme clothing
**Desires and Fantasies**
Want to know more about Me...
Written by Her pet and Her property
So you have found your way here, either on purpose or by wandering accident. I am telling you now, that you are in the presence of a true Goddess as well as a unicorn. She is self assured and highly self aware. She has known who She is from a young age: a lifelong dominant sadist, a superior woman with a passion for control and an impressively creative and adaptive mind. She is this way because it is in Her very core, Her nature. It is genuinely enjoyable and exciting for Her. Her dominance is not a role that She plays, there is no performance, it is all very real. She is one to be admired, and not one to be trifled with. If you are lucky enough to catch a glimpse of Her bright smile, warm and inviting, it is only countered by the sting of the multitude of marks that She can leave, quickly and accurately with Her favorite crop...and She would do so with a satisfied grin. She quite enjoys planning things out on the long term, methodically guiding Her supplicant down the path She has laid out...but can also be inspired on the spot, with a spontaneous creativity, exuding a confidence and fluidity that will convince you that everything was to be that way all along.
She has Her own style, truly a Queen amongst royalty. She carries Herself as you would expect a classy, superior Lady would and is the whole package; a beautiful face, a body with all the right curves, a quick wit and an intelligent, creative mind whose dark waters run deeper than the deepest, darkest glacial lake. She does not deal in fantasy, Her world is ALL reality. Early on, my mantra quickly became “Be careful what you wish for”. She is on Her dark path, only those with the most courage and the most sincere of hearts should dare follow at Her heels. It will not be long before you belong...to Her. She can entrance you easily and convince you effortlessly, of whatever She desires. However, it is not all one-sided, She does believe in balance. Surrendering to Her will and allowing Her to entice your desires out of you, willfully handing Her the keys to your deepest, darkest locks will be rewarding, as She does reward Her good pets...when She decides the time is right...and in Her own unique way. But rest assured, you will love the cravings you have, the thirst you develop for any contact from Her. And She is well aware of that. She thrives in the details, the space inbetween and you will be required to tell Her everything that you experience and are feeling, as this is one of Her favorite things, Her mental sustenance.
I had asked Her several times if She was real when She first graced me with Her presence, before I met Her in person. She eventually granted me the honor of being devoted to Her. It takes time to be vetted, unless you are introduced through friends. She is HIGHLY selective. Be the best version of you without being dishonest. She detests liars, fakes and time wasters. If you ask to submit to Her, the first question She will ask is “What service can you offer ME?” Don’t be misled, She is not one of those fake dress up doll Insta-dommes, findommes or a stripper with a whip. She despises people that selfishly take advantage of those who are sincere in their desire to serve. She desires obedience, loyalty and service over *** and tributes...but She does LOVE red-soled shoes. However, the humble act of service, adoration and supplication genuinely means more to Her than material things. She wants what is best for you and will guide you if you trust Her to do so. Even with fitness monitoring or cage checks, it is all part of Her plan for your betterment.
Sincere, sane and service oriented submissives are encouraged to fall at Her beautiful and perfect feet for Her inspection and review, as She would one day like a staff of loyal supplicants, perhaps at Her manor house or a female-led collective of some sort. However, Goddess will not make time for truly pathetic, time wasting, wank-addicted, worthless wannabe subs. Goddess desires strong supplicants, those who are secure and proud of who they are. They are confident & have their own self worth as well as talents to offer in service to Her, making Her life as comfortable as possible. As it should be. They are also to be hygienic, polite, safety-minded and tidy because they are a reflection of Her. She also leads a very busy and very private vanilla life, so you must be patient. Everything is on HER terms, as it should be. She believes in female supremacy, but not idealistic feminism. She does however, enjoy interacting and befriending like-minded females, as well as friends in the scene of all stripes (She does enjoy giving out stripes!) and while guarded and reserved at first, the lucky few will find that She is a good friend in addition to being a loving, warm, friendly and sometimes silly person.
She is as loyal to Her property as Her property is to Her, so no swingers please and NO HOOKUPS. She needs an emotional connection, it is much too easy for Her to just find a male (or female) to fuck. Speaking of fucking, long ago She realized the power of a big strapon cock and wields one with skill and authority...and genuine pleasure. She, like ALL female dominants who embrace their power, is not a fetish dispenser. You are not to be selfish or self-centered as you are there for HER pleasure, not the other way around. She is always to be treated with the respect and honor She rightfully deserves. She will not be dommed or topped in any way, She does not submit. Her commands and Her desires will not be denied. You will find that the words “No Goddess” will vanish from your vocabulary.
Mesmerized by Her body, fascinated with Her mind and bewitched by Her beauty. Listen, obey, worship and serve. Her big, enticing beautiful blue eyes will pierce you, She’ll see into your very soul or right through you, if you displease Her severely or lose Her trust. Stay locked and stay focused and as your addiction grows, you will soon see your proper place at Her feet, eagerly awaiting Her guidance and tasks, begging to be locked and at Her beck and call. Pleasing Her will become your pleasure. She genuinely does know what is best, and you will see in time that She is to be trusted implicitly and without question. She has helped to guide me around or over a number of life’s hurdles, which has only served to strengthen my faith and fealty to Goddess. The path to true devotion is paved with sincere words, followed by sincere actions. Above all, She knows that submission is a gift and does not take that for granted.
It takes courage to do so, but the rewards are boundless and long lasting. If you can endure it, She will take you to what you believe is the edge, then push you just a bit more. She does enjoy pushing boundaries, particularly because it is a challenge. She experiences the emotions of others deeply, and can read and sense energy, more than anyone I have ever known. She enters your body and experiences Her dominance through you, so rest assured, you are safe in Her caring responsible hands. She feeds off the energy of these exchanges, even when it isn’t in person. She is also highly observant, insightful and honest. She loves to make plans and have structure that She creates of course, as well as rules and protocol that are to be followed with no excuses, Her high standards must always be met. But, She holds these standards just as high (or perhaps higher) for Herself. More evidence that She walks the walk and talks the talk...do you have what it takes to follow obediently at Her heels? It is not easy, but trust me, the effort is worthwhile. There is no one else whose boot I would rather be under.
Her interests include:
FLR
BDSM
Control
Military Uniforms
Corporal punishment and discipline (including all manner of hitty and stingy things)
Flogging
Impact play
Sadism/Masochism
Begging/Pleading
Blindfolds
Master/Slave
Power Exchange
24/7 Lifestyle / TPE - Total Power Exchange
Wax Play
Wartenberg Wheel
Cropping
Spanking
OTK Spanking
***
Boot Blacking
Soft/Hard limits
Rough sex
(High) Protocol
Aftercare
Edgeplay
Breathplay
Supervised activities
Choking
Males in panties
Males in heels
Males in ties and suits
Well groomed males (shaved)
Sissification
Collar/Leash
Consent /Consensual Non Consent
Having Her outfits designed and selected for Her
Leather
Latex
Cuffs
Gags
Eye contact restrictions
Eye level restrictions
Verbal worship (Adoration/Flattery)
Domestic Service (Includes cooking, cleaning and making Her lunching!)
Being Chauffeured
Female Led play parties
Being dressed
Being bathed
Fetishwear, corsetry & footwear
Sensory deprivation
Bondage & Immobilization
Rope Bondage & Shibari
Tease & Denial
Ruined orgasms
Orgasm denial
Prostate Orgasms
Public Play
Milking
Sensation Play
Remote dominance & control
Complete submission
Slavery
Pegging/Anal play/Butt plugs
E-stim play
Violet wands
DommeSpace/Subspace
Energy exchange
Worship (of all types)
Foot fetish / Foot worship
Pedicures
Subtle acts of public D/s
Being wined and dined
Being pampered
Being massaged
Training/Teaching
Chastity
Cuckold
Having multiple pets serve Her at once
Controlling multiple pets at once
Ignoring
CBT
D/s
Mental fuckery
Germanophile
BWC