Kinky women in San Diego

234 Kinky women in San Diego

pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!

Looking for my Daddy (or Daddies) to be a good girl to (and an occasional brat ?) Want a 24/7 dynamic with someone I can wholly give myself to and build an amazing and beautiful connection with. I want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? Pretty big masochist. Haven't found my limit yet, and am looking for someone that can outstand me with impact play and others. I've never given before, all my partners get tired before I reach my limit ? I'd like to find that limit and push it, see just how far I can take it. Very interested in *** play. Would love for someone to push me to the max of what I can take and send me to a dissociative state or sub space (haven't gotten there yet) and love after care of course. Beat me until I can't take it anymore, and then love me and cuddle me and tell me how well I took it ? Ideally? I'd love to have two Daddies to cherish and love up on me. Whether that is by joining a couple or building up a thruple, doesn't matter. I like to be active in the community, go to munches, dungeons, and events. Looking for someone that wants to be part of the community with me. And always looking for subs. Would live to have a little boy of my own. New-ish to the world of kink, trying to continue to explore and meet people in the community. I've done quite a bit of exploring so far, but always looking for more. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Very big advocate of mental health and am particularly fascinated by the intersection of kink and psychology. Anything else, feel free to ask me ? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ?‍♀️ Soft limits: knife play, brat play/taming, bathroom control, *** play. Hard limits: anything to do with *** or vomit. Anything extremely ***ful or disfiguring. Owner/slave. Breeding, watersports, ***/***. Face slapping. Piercing play. Everything else is pretty much fair game. Got something specific in mind? Ask me. Things I particularly enjoy are bondage/suspension, E-stim, poly, impact play, anal play, double penetration, wax play, temperature play, and sensory play/deprivation. Interested in trying out my soft limits, they tend to fluctuate, as do my hard limits, lol. Updated my test March 2023 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner Ideally would love to find a couple of Daddies to be a little girl to. Wanna make my fantasy come true? Also open for a Daddy as my primary. Don't mind an open relationship and playing with others, but I want to be someone's Good Girl (and occasional Brat ?) open to Mommies too ? want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? And always looking for subs. New to the world of kink, trying to explore and meet people in the community. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ?? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Anything else, feel free to ask me ?? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner

I’m a brat. I’m NOT HOOKING UP OR SEXTING. Trust is a big thing for me, and it takes a bit for me to trust someone. Although once I trust you I am the most reliable and loyal person you’ll know. I have a job. I’m stubborn and will talk back. I tend to over think and can get upset, I also can get clingy. But I’m also sarcastic and playful and I’m a tease and I’ll try and push all your buttons just to get a reaction. Because I love to get into trouble Also I am PLUS SIZED so if you don’t like it you can leave.

I am very devoted, kind-hearted, sympathetic and always ready to help people. I am mature, down-to earth. I value every moment of my life due to my work. I am very positive too and I never lose my temper, by the way).

Looking for someone to share bits and pieces of my life with, understand and support me in my quest for growth and happiness.

I am the kind of woman who believes that life is full of amazing moments and opportunities. I love exploring new places, whether it's cozy cafes in my city or distant countries. If you are looking for passionate and feminine company, you will definitely find it with me 😉 Give me a chance to show you what a real pleasure it can be to get to know me. I am an open girl and ready for real meetings, I always remain honest first of all to myself and to other people. Let's dance, kiss, unravel each other and for sure, immerse ourselves in the ocean of pleasure and passion ❤ I'm waiting for you to play this game of passion and desire with me, where there is no place for restraint and moderation

Lesbian Sub Top/ Bottom Here to Learn! I'm very new to this community and would like to explore a side of myself that I knew was always there, but was afraid to acknowledge. I love being taken care of and told what to do. Words of affirmation and acts of service are really important to me. I need to know I'm doing a good job, but I also need to know when I'm doing a bad job. I'm shy and won't make the first move so MISTRESS, if you're interested, please reach out to me first! I want to be owned! Strict lesbian. So please, no men! Looking to explore my submissive side. I’m androgynous, so I’ve always defaulted to being the dominant top in my relationships, but it didn’t take long for me to dislike sex because of it. Now that I have a better understanding of who I am, I’d like to explore it. I’m a service top and like to be dominated when I bottom by a powerful woman. I like strong women who present feminine. Looking for my mistress!

About me....I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. Its the mental mindfuck, the slight ***, it's how intensely erotic it is to be Owned by an intelligent and creative owner. How would you describe yourself ? I am looking for a submissive man that wants to experience more of the things that stimulate his mind as well as his body where getting inside his head makes him tingle all over knowing that his buttons are being pressed from the inside but the effect is what he is feeling on the outside making him fantasies more and more willing than ever. One where she simply lets go of his preconceived ideas on what a good slave should be and not be judged for the taboo things that his parents and society warned him that he shouldn’t indulge in like his love of cock being used and made to cum repeatedly.. If this is you then get back to me and lets discover just how far you can go into the dark side..

Hi! I’m finally at a place where I can start exploring this other side of me. I’m just a shy, sexually pent up female looking for a man who can own, degrade and guide me, as well as give me affection.

**_I'm a fashion designer and marketer ?✨. Creative and ambitious, I love turning ideas into style ?. Looking for a gentle man who appreciates passion and authenticity ❤️. Let's create something beautiful together!_**

19 Bi I don’t know why anyone thinks I’m a top, I’m just a hot mess with daddy issues not very active- add my snap: aazkadaph VERY into puppy play, please treat me like your dog to use whenever you want~ ❌don’t do meetups ❌ more into flirting and texting then pic exchanges, only send on occasion💕

I'm looking for someone to make my Fantasy come true. I don't have much experience would so i willing to learn if you are patient i would love to up my level look for a Dom how can teach how to be a sub want something slow and fast I don't know what I handle until I try it NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Liberal Vaccinated Polyamorous Parent Nerd Gamer Crafty Neurodivergent Emotionally Intelligent Looking for a relationship, not a ONS, FWB, or play partner

A ittle kinky- hoping to explore my sub side.

Hi! If you’re around, let’s do something fun!! Peace and love ✌️❤️🌈 Follow me :) IG•📸rhyenbow

not here for a tie down. no meets ups. only phone fun. just looking for someone hot to talk to and get wet for. no dates. I’m here to have fun and be goofy. I’d u can’t handle sarcasm, please don’t waist your time. I would really like to find someone who can meet me half way and make me feel good as I make u feel good. tired of one way relationships.

I’m a (moderately) bratty unicorn looking to be tamed. Brat/sub with men and giver/dom with women. I aim to please (when earned). Communicative, intelligent, Daddy’s please Consent, safe words, limits, STI testing, and fun are non-negotiable. Bonus points if you’re a naughty exhibitionist.

I revel in being a slave and being a nasty slut and played with and fucked roughly by multiple people. I'm super naughty and I am 100% a kinky freak! ***, ***, *** and being ***d are the things that make me tick! I love being used to make your fucked up sex dreams come true. I also love just being a fuck sleeve that is here to make you cum. Take me and use me. I desperately want and need to be owned and collared as someone's full time slave. I'm also love making content of my meet's and showing the whole world how inferior I am and how much of a deranged piece of fuck meat I am.

Switch, new to this scene, down to try some new things, I am plus size, let’s chat and get to know each other and see where it goes… ☺️

I create custom ASMR, Audio, and Fetish Art - linked in my twitter bio - go give it a listen and let my voice guide you into the spaces where fantasy and realities intertwine queer, solo poly, domme + switch with few, pansexual, saucy. I work in energetic, sexual, and intimacy healing as my day things. night things are up to you, let’s connect, see how we vibe, + play. **Desires and Fantasies** tell me yours, I bet they’re one of mine

I'm looking to incorporate BDSM into a romantic, long-term relationship. :) I'm honestly quite lazy! I enjoy hanging out at home. I do love doing spontaneous stuff if it includes great food. I just bought a house in 2020 with 3 bedrooms and 2 full baths. I'm hard to engage with mainly because my ADHD keeps my mind going to different things. The current fixation is Hogwarts Legacy, Avatar and RE lol! I have those walkthroughs and shows on repeat. lol! I'm not sending any additional pics of me unless we start hitting it off and it looks promising. I'd rather play video games then pose seductively for a pic. 🤣👌 *I love to drink! If this is a hard limit, please do not message me. :) **I don't want to physically have babies. If you have babies, that's fine.

women to the front pls - i'm looking for safe and ethical hookups/fwbs with people who possess critical thinking skills and people who are at least double-vaxxed and willing to get STD tests. (i am double-vaxxed, 4x boosted, and recently STD tested). i'm not very experienced but i'd like to be. i prefer stone tops or pleasure doms. i just don't want to be in control. i love everything marvel, especially moon knight and spiderman. DO NOT message me if you're "not political." free palestine, sudan, congo, etc. if you don't agree, eat a dick.

I’m 26 and really want to try a sub and dom relationship I’ve been curious for awhile and decided to look around. yes I am married and need this to be on the very very down low I am lonely

Heyy! I'm pretty new to Bdsm (by new I mean very tried anything before) but I have been super interested in it for a while now. My boyfriend and I have been looking to explore new things. We're looking for friends to go explore and hang with. I'm pretty nerdy and super into true crime. My partner is an aerospace engineer who's super into football and racing.

I am very devoted, kind-hearted, sympathetic and always ready to help people. I am mature, down-to earth. I value every moment of my life due to my work. I am very positive too and I never lose my temper, by the way).

I am the kind of woman who believes that life is full of amazing moments and opportunities. I love exploring new places, whether it's cozy cafes in my city or distant countries. If you are looking for passionate and feminine company, you will definitely find it with me 😉 Give me a chance to show you what a real pleasure it can be to get to know me. I am an open girl and ready for real meetings, I always remain honest first of all to myself and to other people. Let's dance, kiss, unravel each other and for sure, immerse ourselves in the ocean of pleasure and passion ❤ I'm waiting for you to play this game of passion and desire with me, where there is no place for restraint and moderation

Looking for someone to share bits and pieces of my life with, understand and support me in my quest for growth and happiness.

**_I'm a fashion designer and marketer ?✨. Creative and ambitious, I love turning ideas into style ?. Looking for a gentle man who appreciates passion and authenticity ❤️. Let's create something beautiful together!_**

Hi! I’m finally at a place where I can start exploring this other side of me. I’m just a shy, sexually pent up female looking for a man who can own, degrade and guide me, as well as give me affection.

Lesbian Sub Top/ Bottom Here to Learn! I'm very new to this community and would like to explore a side of myself that I knew was always there, but was afraid to acknowledge. I love being taken care of and told what to do. Words of affirmation and acts of service are really important to me. I need to know I'm doing a good job, but I also need to know when I'm doing a bad job. I'm shy and won't make the first move so MISTRESS, if you're interested, please reach out to me first! I want to be owned! Strict lesbian. So please, no men! Looking to explore my submissive side. I’m androgynous, so I’ve always defaulted to being the dominant top in my relationships, but it didn’t take long for me to dislike sex because of it. Now that I have a better understanding of who I am, I’d like to explore it. I’m a service top and like to be dominated when I bottom by a powerful woman. I like strong women who present feminine. Looking for my mistress!

pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!

Looking for my Daddy (or Daddies) to be a good girl to (and an occasional brat ?) Want a 24/7 dynamic with someone I can wholly give myself to and build an amazing and beautiful connection with. I want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? Pretty big masochist. Haven't found my limit yet, and am looking for someone that can outstand me with impact play and others. I've never given before, all my partners get tired before I reach my limit ? I'd like to find that limit and push it, see just how far I can take it. Very interested in *** play. Would love for someone to push me to the max of what I can take and send me to a dissociative state or sub space (haven't gotten there yet) and love after care of course. Beat me until I can't take it anymore, and then love me and cuddle me and tell me how well I took it ? Ideally? I'd love to have two Daddies to cherish and love up on me. Whether that is by joining a couple or building up a thruple, doesn't matter. I like to be active in the community, go to munches, dungeons, and events. Looking for someone that wants to be part of the community with me. And always looking for subs. Would live to have a little boy of my own. New-ish to the world of kink, trying to continue to explore and meet people in the community. I've done quite a bit of exploring so far, but always looking for more. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Very big advocate of mental health and am particularly fascinated by the intersection of kink and psychology. Anything else, feel free to ask me ? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ?‍♀️ Soft limits: knife play, brat play/taming, bathroom control, *** play. Hard limits: anything to do with *** or vomit. Anything extremely ***ful or disfiguring. Owner/slave. Breeding, watersports, ***/***. Face slapping. Piercing play. Everything else is pretty much fair game. Got something specific in mind? Ask me. Things I particularly enjoy are bondage/suspension, E-stim, poly, impact play, anal play, double penetration, wax play, temperature play, and sensory play/deprivation. Interested in trying out my soft limits, they tend to fluctuate, as do my hard limits, lol. Updated my test March 2023 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner Ideally would love to find a couple of Daddies to be a little girl to. Wanna make my fantasy come true? Also open for a Daddy as my primary. Don't mind an open relationship and playing with others, but I want to be someone's Good Girl (and occasional Brat ?) open to Mommies too ? want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? And always looking for subs. New to the world of kink, trying to explore and meet people in the community. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ?? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Anything else, feel free to ask me ?? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner

About me....I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. Its the mental mindfuck, the slight ***, it's how intensely erotic it is to be Owned by an intelligent and creative owner. How would you describe yourself ? I am looking for a submissive man that wants to experience more of the things that stimulate his mind as well as his body where getting inside his head makes him tingle all over knowing that his buttons are being pressed from the inside but the effect is what he is feeling on the outside making him fantasies more and more willing than ever. One where she simply lets go of his preconceived ideas on what a good slave should be and not be judged for the taboo things that his parents and society warned him that he shouldn’t indulge in like his love of cock being used and made to cum repeatedly.. If this is you then get back to me and lets discover just how far you can go into the dark side..

I’m a brat. I’m NOT HOOKING UP OR SEXTING. Trust is a big thing for me, and it takes a bit for me to trust someone. Although once I trust you I am the most reliable and loyal person you’ll know. I have a job. I’m stubborn and will talk back. I tend to over think and can get upset, I also can get clingy. But I’m also sarcastic and playful and I’m a tease and I’ll try and push all your buttons just to get a reaction. Because I love to get into trouble Also I am PLUS SIZED so if you don’t like it you can leave.

straight up, im a bbw, I have a breeding fetish. i am not on birth control. I don't want you to be anyone's daddy but mine here lol. I just want to be your cum dumpster. I want you to fuck me until you cant hold it back anymore and explode as deep inside my tight pussy as you can get. I just want my pussy to be fucked and filled repeatedly until its overflowing with cum. This is my first experience with anything that isn't completely vanilla, so bear with me, I will be very protective of my information so if you're gunna get upset I'm not sharing right off don't reach out.

I'm looking for someone to make my Fantasy come true. I don't have much experience would so i willing to learn if you are patient i would love to up my level look for a Dom how can teach how to be a sub want something slow and fast I don't know what I handle until I try it NO STRINGS ATTACHED

Looking for an unmarried hot wife type of thing. I’m not submissive nor am I looking for a sub. Looking for a kinky play partner that happens to be into his partner seeing other guys.

Just a girl who goes through life, looking for fun and an escape from reality Switch, mostly a sub, but I have my dom moments. Rope Bunny to the max

New to SD. Want to explore my sub side. im curious about being a rope bunny and also prey. I'm a retired chef turned filmmaker. My turn ons are intelligence and playful humor.

just here for fun, i have big boobs and no one to hold them ;) I like being dominant, but not all the time please don't ask me to show my face. I'll show you when we meet

I’m looking to explore different kinks and figuring out what I like. I’m super easygoing, a little shy at first, but ready to explore and have some fun 😊 not interested in anything online. Locals only

Book loving dog mom who wants to explore! If you know the names Zade, Sin, or Josh, I think we'll get along wonderfully 😘 But seriously, bikes, tatts, masks, and a hand necklace....that's my vibe. If you think you might be interested, let me know 😉 Also yes I'm married, no I'm not cheating, and yes he likes to join sometimes. MMF, MFF, MMFF, MF

I don't want to be dominate... I find I love to be controlled to an limit ... I want to be taught some new tricks ... I am new and little shy but an open to new stuff ...I love my fiance but I want more so ...id like an more experienced woman to open me up ... show me ropes and a strap on .... i love anal ass well .....or just play .. again I'm new but I know what I want ... I need more n would love for my guy to watch if not it's OK... still looking for that experienced woman.. to literally open me up

I revel in being a slave and being a nasty slut and played with and fucked roughly by multiple people. I'm super naughty and I am 100% a kinky freak! ***, ***, *** and being ***d are the things that make me tick! I love being used to make your fucked up sex dreams come true. I also love just being a fuck sleeve that is here to make you cum. Take me and use me. I desperately want and need to be owned and collared as someone's full time slave. I'm also love making content of my meet's and showing the whole world how inferior I am and how much of a deranged piece of fuck meat I am.

A ittle kinky- hoping to explore my sub side.

Polyamorous with a nesting partner. Looking for new, fulfilling romantic connections with a kinky partner. Not looking for ONS or DADT relationships. Not interested in LDR's. If you are more than 25 miles from me, I'm not interested, don't bother messaging me.

A fem lesbian who’s really into shibari and subbing. Already have the best domme ever :) Let’s be friends!

Ladies: I’m here for you day and night. Sweet or Spicy. Men:Unless you want me to be mean to you, degrade you, or step on your dick, I don’t care to involve myself with you.