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The things I enjoy have a lot of possibility, and that changes depending on how we mix. No must-haves. Common ground is more fun. Some favorites are bondage (getting and giving), sensation play of all kinds, from rabbit fur, silk, candlewax, to scratchy play, knives and more (giving and receiving), and anything fun we can think up together. I seriously enjoy play parties and dungeons, small groups, and the outdoors.
My style is sensual intimacy, touch & sensation play. I feel comfortable with letting dynamics evolve organically, & I can be submissive or dominant or neither. It all depends on the energy between us. On my submissive side, my willingness to please competes with my revelry in pleasure.
I am open to the natural flow. Power dynamics open for negotiation. I admire masculine dominance described as an odd mix of controlling with indulging, and I would never consider *** or objectification or the fantasy of non-consensuality. My dominant side enjoys imagination expressed in playful ways, pleasure, nurturing, and fun. Imagine an energized exchange charged with ferocity & intensity generated by being fully present with ourselves. I'm all about making us feel good, alive, high.