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Heyo, I'm Chris! I'm new to the community and just starting to dip my toes into being part of it, but I've been wanting to give this stuff a shot for a few years. I'm 23-year-old California guy (Bay Area) with a plethora of odd skills, too many hobbies, a great sense of humor, an absurd range of interests (both kinky and mundane), and really just an all-around alright guy.

I wanna be shown the ropes. Explore things, experiment, have some fun and maybe share a few laughs— really just a chance to indulge in the kinkier side of life without getting degraded or beaten into submission. Lending a hand and serving as a dedicated servant. A simple evening of being bound, gagged, and used as a body pillow/cuddle toy while we indulge in something as mundane as watching a movie or show together. Drawn-out sessions in the dungeon— I'm willing to explore it all! We can pursue it as casually or intense as we want. I'm after the connection and fun, not sexual pursuits and chasing after thrills.

If given the chance, you'll have a goofy, sweet sub on your hands who'll try to make your day better however he can, memorize your likes and dislikes, shower you with affection whenever you want or need it, and do his best to make you happy.

Looking for long-term and monogamous. I'd prefer getting to know each other first, preferably as friends or dating instead of get straight into it. Can't host, as I live with my family due to financial issues.

Looking for a fun and playful friend to meet and get to know. Hopefully will connect with us and we can play together.

Just want a friend maybe more if we hit it up

Hmmm.. need more here. I guess just Don't be shy. I don't bite.. too hard unless you like it like that

I'm looking for a fun luving lady uninhibited by societal norms and willing to try new experiences and pleasures. Also someone That enjoys a large thick BBC working to bring you the most blissful waves of sustained orgasims for hours of pleasure.

You’d be my DoorDasher. Wearing a short skirt. Thong panties showing your bare ass.

I ask you to come inside and put my order on the entertainment center. As you do, you drop your pen and as you bend over and I can see your panties. You notice and get shy and say sorry. I respond that it’s not a problem and I get ready to hand you a tip.

Before I hand you a $20, I start coming on to you and ask you out for a date, but you say it’s not a good idea and that you should leave. I say you don’t have to and reach out to touch you. You push me away, but I come forward. I grab you and start rubbing my hands between your thighs. You push me away, but I’m stronger.

I cover your mouth as I drag you into my bedroom, sure, you’re fighting back a little, but again, I’m strong. Your skirt is now around your waist. You keep pushing my hands away but eventually my fingers are inside of you. You’re so wet.

You know there’s no escape now. You’re fighting back trying to stop me, begging me not to do this, but as my dick slips inside you know you don’t want it to stop. Your eyes roll into the back of your head and you beg me to fuck you again. And again.

Then, I treat you like a queen and make sure you that what just happened was us being completely lost in the moment. I worship your body and make you feel and know that you’re in a safe space.

Sound fun?

Me: Tall. Brown. Fit. Charming. Witty. Sane.

I’ve been extremely fortunate to have met a number of women over this past year. Some have been one night stands, a few turned into multiple dates, and others had turned into something much more.

These experiences have shown me what I’m really looking for and I’m hoping to find someone who’s desire resonates in kind.

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First and foremost, I’m divorced and I’m a dad. Me and my kids are a package deal. I don’t have them full time, but I’m always DAD and I give them my attention and affection in abundance when they need me. They don’t need a mom, the one they have is kinda awesome. Just be a dope ass friend to them, they will appreciate it. If this is a dealbreaker, thanks for stopping by.

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Ok, with that out the way…

I am manifesting a relationship built on open communication, honesty, love, kindness, humility, passion, lust, and shared kinks.

I had someone who I wanted to build this with, unfortunately, things moved so quickly and I went about it the wrong way and things fell apart. Hoping to do it better this time around. I want us to take our time and build a bond where we KNOW we have found our safe space.

I love my life, my career, and social circle. I’m going to find someone who complements my life and I will do the same for her.

I’m not hard to please. Send me music, memes, food and nudes. Come to the gym with me. Let’s be that hot couple that everyone notices. Smell nice, I do. Give me your time, attention and affection. I’ll treat you like a QUEEN and will make sure you are seen, heard, understood, and respected.

As for our sexual compatibility, I’m envisioning a relationship that STARTS with us exploring, acclimating, and elevating our sensuality together, exclusively. Once we are both mutually ready, we would invite other couples, or an agreed upon third, and eventually, could lead to encouraged solo play. I don’t want you to be a whore, I want you to be MY whore. I would want you to experience the touch of others, knowing that YOU know YOU belong to ME and they are just an instrument WE use to bring you pleasure, just as YOU would want that for ME. We lust and share OURSELVES with others, but we only LOVE on each other…

I’m in no rush. I plan to be very selective as I want this to be a long term thing. I WON’T settle for someone unless she is patient, charismatic, sexy, open-minded, kinky, and submissive.

I hope this has caught your interest. I can’t wait to meet you.

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Me: Asian/Black, 5’11”, Fit, Tatted, Kinky.
I’m witty, charismatic, and kind.

You: 24-36, sexy, submissive, HWP.

I live alone in San Jose.

*I’m not actually looking for a wife. We don’t need a contract that ***s us to be together. I will CHOOSE you daily. Please reciprocate.

Let's be naughty and nasty

Straight athletic hung vers mixed male looking for hung ts woman that needs a Tru friend with the possibility of evolving to more later. . In or around bay area , preferably sj. Or is able to host for meetup. Very kinky sexual saggitarrius for a freak like me....

52M Caucasian submissive/switch, 5'9", 182lbs, can send pictures privately, just ask me for one

Desires and Fantasies
Dirty talking, roleplay, sapiosexual, verbal ***, femdom, phone/cam/texting and lots more if we meet up... If you like degrading or edging that's interesting. Curious about: wrestling.

Looking for something long term and really want to be held at night and want someone
To love during the day hit me up ladieZ San Jose California

If you like what you see hit me up and let’s link. If not keep it pushin.

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Experienced Dominant seeking local female service sub for some work to earn rewards and praise.

DM's are always open to all for a chat, however the service role requirement is female.

Happy hunting

Hello everyone. I am a Dominant of 12 years seeking a submissive for lifestyle relationship. Structure and guidance to be given.

Please take a look at my profile and see if it interests you...id love to chat about experiences or what i offer.

== Results from bdsmtest.org == (taken 2023-07-09)
100% Dominant
98% Rigger
94% Sadist
94% Daddy/Mommy
86% Master/Mistress
79% Owner
78% Primal (Hunter)
75% Voyeur
72% Brat tamer
70% Non-monogamist
54% Degrader
53% Experimentalist
49% Vanilla

Do you have boots, maybe leather toys or gear, that you want cleaned up properly? Do you want to learn how to bootblack? Or do you have a kinky scene in mind?

Let me do it for you, while also giving some basic training so you can continue it yourself while having some kinky fun at the same time.

Have an idea for a kinky leather toy or piece of gear you want, but can’t find the right one or it’s too expensive?

Let me know and we can figure something out, then later put it to the test after I make it to your kinky and debaucherous specifications.

Mami

I just want one woman and only one to love hold for live and to grow as people and as gardeners of cannabis

Looking for someone who has a huge breeding kink and loves a hairy man. All I want to do is fill you full of my seed over and over without pulling out

I am a Daddy Dom, Soft Dom who loves to get to know my sub partner. Explore things between us, set rules and so forth. It all starts with us getting to know each other. Rule 1, the submissive can request or ask anything and they will be heard. Let's start there.

Don’t really wanna go home yet my hit the bar somewhere in downtown or something willing to travel, if u can host we might take the party into bedroom

What is there to do in San Jose? Or who’s trying to have a good time tonight? Have a room in downtown