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I joined the lifestyle about a year ago. In this time I have discovered that age matters very little. I want a man who is physically fit. I want bodybuilder chest and arms, a good looking man, great smile, a personality that can take sarcasm. He needs to be strong physically and mentally. I only want big cocks. that doesn’t mean I want a cocky man! I am not looking for romance. I’m looking for a man who has big enough muscles that I can feel safe while being twisted into wonderful dimensions. I have multiple orgasms once I start, and I know what turns me on. don’t be offended if you don’t make it hot. I have a lot of personal things going on and sex is my outlet. I want men who will test for STDs and STIs, who will wear a condom, and make sure I orgasm to the point where I don’t have to explain myself. I require a sexual empath. just because I seem like a slut, doesn’t mean I want to be treated like one by complete strangers. Show some respect for yourself and make a good impression. if your “introductory conversation” is something that was lead with the wrong head, just consider yourself to be ignored.
Female (40) Portland, Connecticut
Sensual hedonist, fun & funny caregiving Mistress and playful pleasure domme. Fluid demisexual with a flair for the dramatic and a twisted sense of humor. Foodie. Artist. Roleplay. Creative. Enjoys the finer things and loves to share. Mischievous. Exotic. Educated. Striking. My words hold power. My hand holds firm. I don't need toys--I have you.
Female (53) Avon, Connecticut
Looking for that special man who enjoys the outdoor activities, conversation, spending time with one another, who is honest and sincere, and appreciates the simple pleasures of life.
Female (52) New Haven, Connecticut
Hello my name is Rose! I am demisexual While I am normally on the more dominant spectrum of things I have switched to more submissive roles before. With that being said I am not looking for any companionship as I am currently tied up with two subs already. I am very open for having conversations and making friends with so don’t be afraid to chat with me. please don’t request my private photos and if you do and I’ve denied you already you will absolutely be blocked.
Female (24) Hartford, Connecticut
Sweet, sassy submissive softly seeking. Sapiosexual, demisexual female looking for kink and connection. A complex bouquet of sugar and spice, lady and tramp. The lioness who seeks her Lion King. Well read, well travelled, looking for her masculine Dominant partner in crime. Intelligence and manners are a must. I only ask for what I bring to the table as well. Flirtatious and fun, with a yearning for emotional connection. I enjoy the finer things, and the simple pleasures. Forehead kisses and smacks on the ass. A love of reading and champagne. A killer backgammon game, and a great cook. If you don’t think that what lies between my ears, is just, as if not more important than what lies between my legs, we won’t be a good fit. Some of my favorite kinky fuckery involves bondage, sensation play, wax, medium impact masochism, and teasing. I will be happy to discuss these and other interests in further detail after mutual ground has been determined. Pronouns: she/her/hers Please be between the ages of 45-60, Dominant, male and single/divorced.
Female (57) Enfield, Connecticut
I'm an all-around good vibe!! I'm new to the BDSM scene, hoping to find a patient Dom for a long-term relationship if that's even a thing. Come open me up and show me something new.
Female (42) Ansonia, Connecticut
Am very honest woman I love to cook and I think a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine with great music. I enjoy many types of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country.
Female (56) Milford, Connecticut
I have freckles all over my face, specially when it’s really sunny. I’m also chubby, so if you don’t like freckled, short and chubby girls, you won’t like me. Other than that…I don’t really know what to write here soooooo :-) I want a Daddy.
Female (38) Waterbury, Connecticut
I’m someone who believes in the power of faith, love, and the little moments that make life beautiful. I’m passionate about connecting deeply with others, whether through meaningful conversations, shared laughter, or simply being there for each other. I enjoy spending time with loved ones, exploring new places, and making the most of every day. I value kindness, loyalty, and genuine connections. I’m always striving to grow as a person, and I appreciate someone who shares the same mindset of self-improvement, faith, and positivity. Life’s challenges are easier to face when you have someone by your side who believes in the same things you do.
Female (41) Hartford, Connecticut
Just ask me anything, I’m new to this everybody I just know what I want, so if you ain’t available sexy trans ready to feel my tight pussy or sexy woman ready eat and scissor this wet pussy then I’m good
Female (29) Bridgeport, Connecticut
"Although I am willing to communicate with you, I hope to get to know you better before we meet. After all, there are too many uncertainties in the online world, and I prefer to build on sincerity.
Female (36) Coventry, Connecticut
I am a widow and an independent lady, looking to start dating again and hopefully fall in love. My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give to the right man. I have never tried online dating hoping to make a solid connection worth pursuing so here. Hoping that I can finally meet "the one" and be done with dating all together. I am not interested in anything casual, so please don't message me unless your intentions are good and you want to put in the effort to get to know each other and hopefully build a lasting connection.
Female (49) Norwalk, Connecticut
Turning 50 this month so shower me with photos of gifts you would give me if *** or craft skills were no object based on what you think you know about me from my profile! I am a 30 year veteran of the Northeast American rave scene and a 12 year sacrifice at the altar of house music DJing. I love to dance, but I'm not very good.... picture of someone we're trying to bring back the steps of Motown and Count Line dancing all at the same time but on rhythm! my passion for underground, dance music, DJing, and promoting for it require a lot of dedication during the week and take me away at least one night a weekend. I'm sure you don't mind though because if you're the person for me, you'll either have a good time coming along or have a passion of your own that requires time to yourself or with your ***rs . i'm a little bit crazy all the way and a little bit crazy and a couple of some not so great ways as perimenopause has made me a bit of a looney tune and my ADHD is completely off the wall so to give you eight paragraphs when three words would've done , but at least those paragraphs are going to be hysterical and sometimes it's better to drive around the park then go right to your destination, am I right? I consider myself very liberal, but prefer not to discuss politics until I know someone very well and the topic of the Middle East is 100% off-limits even within my own family. I consider myself a bit of a lyricist and write music to be spoken or song with house, music and even sold lyrics to small local label once, how about that!? ! No drama or horror for me real life is lame enough without adding a fictional characters problem to mine. I do love a good comedy and stand-up comedy, my favorite comics are John Mulaney and John Mulaney. In addition to going out dancing, I do like going out for meals, but I am a nightmare to try and feed because of some stomach issues so just bear with me ! I like short walks along the beach and sunsets as long as I'm in the temperature controlled environment because I am an indoor cat. I would consider glamping if you didn't tell anybody because I know it's embarrassing. I am looking for a long-term relationship with one man who can match my kinky energy and is willing to come along with me on my journey as I discover who I am in the BDSM world. I know I like a little and I know I like to give a little but giving the ouch is more a bratty thing than a dominant thing. I know I like to be bossed around, but I certainly hate being told what to do my one experience with a was a pleasure Dom so frankly I know I have no idea what to expect in reality from the rest of the world because one can't win on every scratcher ticket can one? If it helps, my favorite porn, search terms are electro fuck bondage and bondage orgasm.
Female (50) Chester, Connecticut
Looking for friends longterm subs and dates 4/20 friends to the front of the line Pansex Poly Lets chat about random stuff like anime or cars I’m a friend and a dom Snap lilacs_nsfw2
Female (21) Ansonia, Connecticut
Don’t message me for just sex or sex talk. you will be deleted. it’s annoying, and please love close! Looking for my forever Dom or Daddy! Not looking for just a play partner (I have enough) and not looking for fwb or sex. I want something real.
Female (40) Hamden, Connecticut
I am a very active and cheerful girl, I try to devote at least two hours to sports every day. I believe that it is also very important to give yourself rest, quality rest, so that you are always full of energy, and I am sure that a lot depends on the people around me, so I want to find a man who will be my inspiration, and I will be the same for him. I try to spend every day actively and interestingly, I also try to visit new places and learn new things, I am an active, educated, and cheerful girl.
Female (37) Fairfield, Connecticut
ABDL mommy looking for a little. Nothing more, nothing less. Looking for real life encounters and someone with some experience, although I’m willing to help someone learn. Hit me up if you want to talk.
Female (36) Danbury, Connecticut
Looking for a beautiful woman to make me her facesitting sub and make me worship her ass and pussy while she enjoys herself with my tongue. I don’t have any pictures up at the moment only for identity purposes, but I’ll be happy to share some photos once we get to know each other!!
Female (21) Windsor Locks, Connecticut
Hi all, I’m new to this. Looking to explore my limits and meet new people. Hopefully the community is welcoming and the people I meet will help to open up my own possibilities.
Female (40) Derby, Connecticut
New to most of this. Kind of submissive. kind of a brat. kind of a goddess. kind of dominant. love being a good girl but sometimes fresh. monogamous. I don't share. I don't like to be shared. sweet/softly spoken ***. enjoy some *** and willing to explore more. open to discussion on everything.
Female (42) Vernon, Connecticut
Bratty baby girl but I’ll be good if you deserve it ッ I’m a Reddit and fetlife girl at heart but this place seems cool too! :3 Total Doll & pillow princess, if you don’t like it, DNI ♡ | ☆: .☽ . :☆. ☆: .☽ . :☆. ☆: .☽ . | ♡
Female (21) Danbury, Connecticut
don’t message me if you’re a switch or bisexual. love u but no thanks. not interested in riggers. not interested in up front sexual conversation. I’m also smart. so if you’re looking for a stupid dog girl, I’m not the one ❤️ EXCLUSIVELY LOOKING FOR MONOGAMOUS DDLG RELATIONSHIPS
Female (29) Bridgeport, Connecticut
My profile was banned so I made a new one. Looking for an irreplaceable submissive. Preferably with someone who’s willing to meet up weekly or biweekly.
Female (25) Middletown, Connecticut

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Hi all, I’m new to this. Looking to explore my limits and meet new people. Hopefully the community is welcoming and the people I meet will help to open up my own possibilities.
Female (40) Derby, Connecticut
Looking for that special man who enjoys the outdoor activities, conversation, spending time with one another, who is honest and sincere, and appreciates the simple pleasures of life.
Female (52) New Haven, Connecticut
"Although I am willing to communicate with you, I hope to get to know you better before we meet. After all, there are too many uncertainties in the online world, and I prefer to build on sincerity.
Female (36) Coventry, Connecticut
I’m someone who believes in the power of faith, love, and the little moments that make life beautiful. I’m passionate about connecting deeply with others, whether through meaningful conversations, shared laughter, or simply being there for each other. I enjoy spending time with loved ones, exploring new places, and making the most of every day. I value kindness, loyalty, and genuine connections. I’m always striving to grow as a person, and I appreciate someone who shares the same mindset of self-improvement, faith, and positivity. Life’s challenges are easier to face when you have someone by your side who believes in the same things you do.
Female (41) Hartford, Connecticut
Am very honest woman I love to cook and I think a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine with great music. I enjoy many types of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country.
Female (56) Milford, Connecticut
I am a widow and an independent lady, looking to start dating again and hopefully fall in love. My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give to the right man. I have never tried online dating hoping to make a solid connection worth pursuing so here. Hoping that I can finally meet "the one" and be done with dating all together. I am not interested in anything casual, so please don't message me unless your intentions are good and you want to put in the effort to get to know each other and hopefully build a lasting connection.
Female (49) Norwalk, Connecticut
I joined the lifestyle about a year ago. In this time I have discovered that age matters very little. I want a man who is physically fit. I want bodybuilder chest and arms, a good looking man, great smile, a personality that can take sarcasm. He needs to be strong physically and mentally. I only want big cocks. that doesn’t mean I want a cocky man! I am not looking for romance. I’m looking for a man who has big enough muscles that I can feel safe while being twisted into wonderful dimensions. I have multiple orgasms once I start, and I know what turns me on. don’t be offended if you don’t make it hot. I have a lot of personal things going on and sex is my outlet. I want men who will test for STDs and STIs, who will wear a condom, and make sure I orgasm to the point where I don’t have to explain myself. I require a sexual empath. just because I seem like a slut, doesn’t mean I want to be treated like one by complete strangers. Show some respect for yourself and make a good impression. if your “introductory conversation” is something that was lead with the wrong head, just consider yourself to be ignored.
Female (40) Portland, Connecticut
Just ask me anything, I’m new to this everybody I just know what I want, so if you ain’t available sexy trans ready to feel my tight pussy or sexy woman ready eat and scissor this wet pussy then I’m good
Female (29) Bridgeport, Connecticut
Looking for a beautiful woman to make me her facesitting sub and make me worship her ass and pussy while she enjoys herself with my tongue. I don’t have any pictures up at the moment only for identity purposes, but I’ll be happy to share some photos once we get to know each other!!
Female (21) Windsor Locks, Connecticut
Turning 50 this month so shower me with photos of gifts you would give me if *** or craft skills were no object based on what you think you know about me from my profile! I am a 30 year veteran of the Northeast American rave scene and a 12 year sacrifice at the altar of house music DJing. I love to dance, but I'm not very good.... picture of someone we're trying to bring back the steps of Motown and Count Line dancing all at the same time but on rhythm! my passion for underground, dance music, DJing, and promoting for it require a lot of dedication during the week and take me away at least one night a weekend. I'm sure you don't mind though because if you're the person for me, you'll either have a good time coming along or have a passion of your own that requires time to yourself or with your ***rs . i'm a little bit crazy all the way and a little bit crazy and a couple of some not so great ways as perimenopause has made me a bit of a looney tune and my ADHD is completely off the wall so to give you eight paragraphs when three words would've done , but at least those paragraphs are going to be hysterical and sometimes it's better to drive around the park then go right to your destination, am I right? I consider myself very liberal, but prefer not to discuss politics until I know someone very well and the topic of the Middle East is 100% off-limits even within my own family. I consider myself a bit of a lyricist and write music to be spoken or song with house, music and even sold lyrics to small local label once, how about that!? ! No drama or horror for me real life is lame enough without adding a fictional characters problem to mine. I do love a good comedy and stand-up comedy, my favorite comics are John Mulaney and John Mulaney. In addition to going out dancing, I do like going out for meals, but I am a nightmare to try and feed because of some stomach issues so just bear with me ! I like short walks along the beach and sunsets as long as I'm in the temperature controlled environment because I am an indoor cat. I would consider glamping if you didn't tell anybody because I know it's embarrassing. I am looking for a long-term relationship with one man who can match my kinky energy and is willing to come along with me on my journey as I discover who I am in the BDSM world. I know I like a little and I know I like to give a little but giving the ouch is more a bratty thing than a dominant thing. I know I like to be bossed around, but I certainly hate being told what to do my one experience with a was a pleasure Dom so frankly I know I have no idea what to expect in reality from the rest of the world because one can't win on every scratcher ticket can one? If it helps, my favorite porn, search terms are electro fuck bondage and bondage orgasm.
Female (50) Chester, Connecticut
I am a very active and cheerful girl, I try to devote at least two hours to sports every day. I believe that it is also very important to give yourself rest, quality rest, so that you are always full of energy, and I am sure that a lot depends on the people around me, so I want to find a man who will be my inspiration, and I will be the same for him. I try to spend every day actively and interestingly, I also try to visit new places and learn new things, I am an active, educated, and cheerful girl.
Female (37) Fairfield, Connecticut
I have freckles all over my face, specially when it’s really sunny. I’m also chubby, so if you don’t like freckled, short and chubby girls, you won’t like me. Other than that…I don’t really know what to write here soooooo :-) I want a Daddy.
Female (38) Waterbury, Connecticut
ABDL mommy looking for a little. Nothing more, nothing less. Looking for real life encounters and someone with some experience, although I’m willing to help someone learn. Hit me up if you want to talk.
Female (36) Danbury, Connecticut
Looking for friends longterm subs and dates 4/20 friends to the front of the line Pansex Poly Lets chat about random stuff like anime or cars I’m a friend and a dom Snap lilacs_nsfw2
Female (21) Ansonia, Connecticut
I'm an all-around good vibe!! I'm new to the BDSM scene, hoping to find a patient Dom for a long-term relationship if that's even a thing. Come open me up and show me something new.
Female (42) Ansonia, Connecticut
Hello my name is Rose! I am demisexual While I am normally on the more dominant spectrum of things I have switched to more submissive roles before. With that being said I am not looking for any companionship as I am currently tied up with two subs already. I am very open for having conversations and making friends with so don’t be afraid to chat with me. please don’t request my private photos and if you do and I’ve denied you already you will absolutely be blocked.
Female (24) Hartford, Connecticut
Don’t message me for just sex or sex talk. you will be deleted. it’s annoying, and please love close! Looking for my forever Dom or Daddy! Not looking for just a play partner (I have enough) and not looking for fwb or sex. I want something real.
Female (40) Hamden, Connecticut
Sensual hedonist, fun & funny caregiving Mistress and playful pleasure domme. Fluid demisexual with a flair for the dramatic and a twisted sense of humor. Foodie. Artist. Roleplay. Creative. Enjoys the finer things and loves to share. Mischievous. Exotic. Educated. Striking. My words hold power. My hand holds firm. I don't need toys--I have you.
Female (53) Avon, Connecticut
Sweet, sassy submissive softly seeking. Sapiosexual, demisexual female looking for kink and connection. A complex bouquet of sugar and spice, lady and tramp. The lioness who seeks her Lion King. Well read, well travelled, looking for her masculine Dominant partner in crime. Intelligence and manners are a must. I only ask for what I bring to the table as well. Flirtatious and fun, with a yearning for emotional connection. I enjoy the finer things, and the simple pleasures. Forehead kisses and smacks on the ass. A love of reading and champagne. A killer backgammon game, and a great cook. If you don’t think that what lies between my ears, is just, as if not more important than what lies between my legs, we won’t be a good fit. Some of my favorite kinky fuckery involves bondage, sensation play, wax, medium impact masochism, and teasing. I will be happy to discuss these and other interests in further detail after mutual ground has been determined. Pronouns: she/her/hers Please be between the ages of 45-60, Dominant, male and single/divorced.
Female (57) Enfield, Connecticut
me and my boyfriend are looking for a third to join our relationship I am the submissive in the relationship women only
Female (25) Manchester, Connecticut
hey im Nydia buh ppl close to me call my Ny or Nyd I'm 21 I'm Puerto Rican ND single ladies🙂 buh ona real note I'm really funny ND really down to earth I'm outgoing ND hilarious if I'm comfortable with u I'm shy at first buh behind all the shy I'm a real big crackhead ND good vibes I'ma a gamer I just started my streaming journey with twitch as well
Female (21) Bridgeport, Connecticut
My profile was banned so I made a new one. Looking for an irreplaceable submissive. Preferably with someone who’s willing to meet up weekly or biweekly.
Female (25) Middletown, Connecticut
Blonde, blue eyes, curves in all the right places Looking for fun and self discovery. I am a professional woman and in control in my everyday life, give me a reason not to be. Stimulate my mind and I’ll be putty in your hands. Pics if you earn them 👸
Female (28) South Windsor, Connecticut

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