Find kinky women in Connecticut

Hello my name is Rose! I am demisexual While I am normally on the more dominant spectrum of things I have switched to more submissive roles before. I want to relearn how to be more in touch with my submissive side. With that being said I am not looking for any subs as I am currently tied up with two subs already. I am very open for having conversations and making friends with subs so don’t be afraid to chat with me. please don’t request my private photos and if you do and I’ve denied you already you will absolutely be blocked.
Female (24) Hartford, Connecticut
Am very honest woman I love to cook and I think a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine with great music. I enjoy many types of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country.
Female (56) Milford, Connecticut
I am a widow and an independent lady, looking to start dating again and hopefully fall in love. My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give to the right man. I have never tried online dating hoping to make a solid connection worth pursuing so here. Hoping that I can finally meet "the one" and be done with dating all together. I am not interested in anything casual, so please don't message me unless your intentions are good and you want to put in the effort to get to know each other and hopefully build a lasting connection.
Female (49) Norwalk, Connecticut
I joined the lifestyle about a year ago. In this time I have discovered that age matters very little. I want a man who is physically fit. I want bodybuilder chest and arms, a good looking man, great smile, a personality that can take sarcasm. He needs to be strong physically and mentally. I only want big cocks. that doesn’t mean I want a cocky man! I am not looking for romance. I’m looking for a man who has big enough muscles that I can feel safe while being twisted into wonderful dimensions. I have multiple orgasms once I start, and I know what turns me on. don’t be offended if you don’t make it hot. I have a lot of personal things going on and sex is my outlet. I want men who will test for STDs and STIs, who will wear a condom, and make sure I orgasm to the point where I don’t have to explain myself. I want your dick to stretch me!
Female (40) Portland, Connecticut
Sensual hedonist, fun & funny caregiving Mistress and playful pleasure domme. Fluid demisexual with a flair for the dramatic and a twisted sense of humor. Foodie. Artist. Roleplay. Creative. Enjoys the finer things and loves to share. Mischievous. Exotic. Educated. Striking. My words hold power. My hand holds firm. I don't need toys--I have you.
Female (53) Avon, Connecticut
I'm an all-around good vibe!! I'm new to the BDSM scene, hoping to find a patient Dom for a long-term relationship if that's even a thing. Come open me up and show me something new.
Female (42) Ansonia, Connecticut
Just ask me anything, I’m new to this everybody I just know what I want, so if you ain’t available sexy trans ready to feel my tight pussy or sexy woman ready eat and scissor this wet pussy then I’m good
Female (29) Bridgeport, Connecticut
I have freckles all over my face, specially when it’s really sunny. I’m also chubby, so if you don’t like freckled, short and chubby girls, you won’t like me. Other than that…I don’t really know what to write here soooooo :-) I want a Daddy.
Female (38) Waterbury, Connecticut
Sweet, sassy submissive softly seeking. Sapiosexual, demisexual female looking for kink and connection. A complex bouquet of sugar and spice, lady and tramp. The lioness who seeks her Lion King. Well read, well travelled, looking for her masculine Dominant partner in crime. Intelligence and manners are a must. I only ask for what I bring to the table as well. Flirtatious and fun, with a yearning for emotional connection. I enjoy the finer things, and the simple pleasures. Forehead kisses and smacks on the ass. A love of reading and champagne. A killer backgammon game, and a great cook. If you don’t think that what lies between my ears, is just, as if not more important than what lies between my legs, we won’t be a good fit. Some of my favorite kinky fuckery involves bondage, sensation play, wax, medium impact masochism, and teasing. I will be happy to discuss these and other interests in further detail after mutual ground has been determined. Pronouns: she/her/hers Please be between the ages of 45-60, Dominant, male and single/divorced.
Female (57) Enfield, Connecticut
haii I'm new to the community and just looking around!!! Into all gender identities, nothing makes me swoon more than someone who has their shit together. I want to find more community events and learn more on becoming someone who sells kinky services :-))
Female (19) Torrington, Connecticut
Turning 50 this month so shower me with photos of gifts you would give me if *** or craft skills were no object based on what you think you know about me from my profile! I am a 30 year veteran of the Northeast American rave scene and a 12 year sacrifice at the altar of house music DJing. I love to dance, but I'm not very good.... picture of someone we're trying to bring back the steps of Motown and Count Line dancing all at the same time but on rhythm! my passion for underground, dance music, DJing, and promoting for it require a lot of dedication during the week and take me away at least one night a weekend. I'm sure you don't mind though because if you're the person for me, you'll either have a good time coming along or have a passion of your own that requires time to yourself or with your ***rs . i'm a little bit crazy all the way and a little bit crazy and a couple of some not so great ways as perimenopause has made me a bit of a looney tune and my ADHD is completely off the wall so to give you eight paragraphs when three words would've done , but at least those paragraphs are going to be hysterical and sometimes it's better to drive around the park then go right to your destination, am I right? I consider myself very liberal, but prefer not to discuss politics until I know someone very well and the topic of the Middle East is 100% off-limits even within my own family. I consider myself a bit of a lyricist and write music to be spoken or song with house, music and even sold lyrics to small local label once, how about that!? ! No drama or horror for me real life is lame enough without adding a fictional characters problem to mine. I do love a good comedy and stand-up comedy, my favorite comics are John Mulaney and John Mulaney. In addition to going out dancing, I do like going out for meals, but I am a nightmare to try and feed because of some stomach issues so just bear with me ! I like short walks along the beach and sunsets as long as I'm in the temperature controlled environment because I am an indoor cat. I would consider glamping if you didn't tell anybody because I know it's embarrassing. I am looking for a long-term relationship with one man who can match my kinky energy and is willing to come along with me on my journey as I discover who I am in the BDSM world. I know I like a little and I know I like to give a little but giving the ouch is more a bratty thing than a dominant thing. I know I like to be bossed around, but I certainly hate being told what to do my one experience with a was a pleasure Dom so frankly I know I have no idea what to expect in reality from the rest of the world because one can't win on every scratcher ticket can one? If it helps, my favorite porn, search terms are electro fuck bondage and bondage orgasm.
Female (50) Chester, Connecticut
Don’t message me for just sex or sex talk. you will be deleted. it’s annoying, and please love close! Looking for my forever Dom or Daddy! Not looking for just a play partner (I have enough) and not looking for fwb or sex. I want something real.
Female (40) Hamden, Connecticut
I think we're looking for the same thing here? Or are you going to surprise me and you're selling your house here?Just kidding. I'm not much shy to write , I guess that's why I'm kidding. What can I tell you about myself? I am a charismatic young woman who loves to travel the world, learn new things and exploring the world around me. I value every moment of life. I believe that every situation in a person's life allows him to make a choice in which direction to move.So, If you want to try something new, I will support you and do it with you! Also, If you feel sad, I will definitely cheer you up and If you have a playful mood, I will share it with you.
Female (44) New Haven, Connecticut
I am a very active and cheerful girl, I try to devote at least two hours to sports every day. I believe that it is also very important to give yourself rest, quality rest, so that you are always full of energy, and I am sure that a lot depends on the people around me, so I want to find a man who will be my inspiration, and I will be the same for him. I try to spend every day actively and interestingly, I also try to visit new places and learn new things, I am an active, educated, and cheerful girl.
Female (37) Fairfield, Connecticut
Looking for friends longterm subs and dates 4/20 friends to the front of the line Pansex Poly Lets chat about random stuff like anime or cars I’m a friend and a dom Snap lilacs_nsfw2
Female (21) Ansonia, Connecticut
I am someone who takes care of myself and values self love. I think it is important for every person to have time for self-love. I am very calm. I don't get angry or upset very easily. But I dislike people who are loud, aggressive and not polite. I am a good listener. I am not talkative when I am not around with my friends. I like going to temples and giving merit when I need peace and tranquility. I have a very simple dream of having a loving and happy family with the person that I love
Female (48) Meriden, Connecticut
ABDL mommy looking for a little. Nothing more, nothing less. Looking for real life encounters and someone with some experience, although I’m willing to help someone learn. Hit me up if you want to talk.
Female (36) Danbury, Connecticut
Looking for a beautiful woman to make me her facesitting sub and make me worship her ass and pussy while she enjoys herself with my tongue. I don’t have any pictures up at the moment only for identity purposes, but I’ll be happy to share some photos once we get to know each other!!
Female (21) Windsor Locks, Connecticut
I demand respect, and in turn will give it back to you in kind. I demand a level of etiquette, and expect that if you are going to reach out to me that you better start it with the greeting of the day. The more you learn to appreciate me, the more submissive I can be. But I will get real dominant when you purposely do things to me that do not please me, and I will sincerely punish those who do not please me as I wish. I can be your mistress or your submissive (with a hint of dominance). You decide.
Female (36) Enfield, Connecticut
heyyy hellooo up here 👋 I. AM. NOT. A. 🦄 Very Demisexual with a touch of androsexual. A little old Fashioned Waiting for a Worthy Owner Looking to give my submission to someone one of a kind, an experienced rigger that isn't afraid of an alpha female. A gentleman that takes things slow. The ideal person will know basic shibari knots, know what he likes, be very sure of himself and confident. Cuffs and other restraints aren't the same as a love for rope. Seriously. Please don't message me saying you will learn how to tie if that's what I want. You should love rope as much as me, don't want to do it only because it makes me happy. I'm looking for a mutual shared kink. I won't respect you unless you challenge me. If you don't have time to tame a shrew then I'm probably not for you. Strict, serious, with a pinch of sadistic *** giving. Maybe you get a little excited when I start to cry? I want more than just sex. I want consistency. I'm not here for your work trip night cap. currently a doll sitting on a shelf. Need that one-of-a-kind connection. A real D/s dynamic. Mold me, make me the best version of myself. Imprint on me, make me yours. I want to think about you almost all day. Concentrating on my tasks should be a challenge since I want to live to serve you. I want to earn it when you say good girl. Not a quitter, the harder the challenge the happier I will be when I finally get your praise. Only tied up 5 times. I still have that new car smell. Warning labels and everything you need to know to getting the keys to my castle: If you don't know history and get all your education from tik tok, let's not waste our time. If you needed help from chat gpt to write your profile, sure message me, I love to laugh. Go ahead and tell me all the nasty things you want to do to me. Putting the cart before the horse will make me less attracted to you. I prefer gentlemen. Nothing hotter than a man with restraint. When I look into your eyes and I can tell you want me but you make me wait. Not looking for a one-night stand, thanks. Not looking for penpals, as I need firm physical guidance to be trained. Sorry you 20 somethings so pretty to look at, but really, I'm a woman with life experience.. Currently practicing ENM. I have a submissive partner. Looking to be monogamous with one other, a dominant experienced in shibari. *Not interested in having another submissive.
Female (36) Middlefield, Connecticut
thicc queen looking to be filled 😈 need to vibe on a friend level first (!) into all music, Mario kart, vegan food, art, traveling, beaches, new stuff. would like to date, looking for that LTR (ladies, men, and thems!) so ask me out like a good respectful Daddy/Mommy. I’m not into one night stands or hookups. new to exploring my kinks be patient very into DD/lg play, little play, HUGE praise kink, being cuffed, and being spanked. don’t ask me for my snap, I’ll give it to you if I feel like it.
Female (29) Hartford, Connecticut
Looking for my forever daddy. I don't like anything too hard-core. He should be just as giving as he wants to get and it Must stay in the bedroom!!
Female (41) East Hartford, Connecticut
Looking to explore more than what is provided at home. No intentions of changing anyone's situation. No drama. My plan is to play with several partners safely.
Female (46) Glastonbury, Connecticut

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Am very honest woman I love to cook and I think a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine with great music. I enjoy many types of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country.
Female (56) Milford, Connecticut
I am a widow and an independent lady, looking to start dating again and hopefully fall in love. My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give to the right man. I have never tried online dating hoping to make a solid connection worth pursuing so here. Hoping that I can finally meet "the one" and be done with dating all together. I am not interested in anything casual, so please don't message me unless your intentions are good and you want to put in the effort to get to know each other and hopefully build a lasting connection.
Female (49) Norwalk, Connecticut
I joined the lifestyle about a year ago. In this time I have discovered that age matters very little. I want a man who is physically fit. I want bodybuilder chest and arms, a good looking man, great smile, a personality that can take sarcasm. He needs to be strong physically and mentally. I only want big cocks. that doesn’t mean I want a cocky man! I am not looking for romance. I’m looking for a man who has big enough muscles that I can feel safe while being twisted into wonderful dimensions. I have multiple orgasms once I start, and I know what turns me on. don’t be offended if you don’t make it hot. I have a lot of personal things going on and sex is my outlet. I want men who will test for STDs and STIs, who will wear a condom, and make sure I orgasm to the point where I don’t have to explain myself. I want your dick to stretch me!
Female (40) Portland, Connecticut
Just ask me anything, I’m new to this everybody I just know what I want, so if you ain’t available sexy trans ready to feel my tight pussy or sexy woman ready eat and scissor this wet pussy then I’m good
Female (29) Bridgeport, Connecticut
Looking for a beautiful woman to make me her facesitting sub and make me worship her ass and pussy while she enjoys herself with my tongue. I don’t have any pictures up at the moment only for identity purposes, but I’ll be happy to share some photos once we get to know each other!!
Female (21) Windsor Locks, Connecticut
Turning 50 this month so shower me with photos of gifts you would give me if *** or craft skills were no object based on what you think you know about me from my profile! I am a 30 year veteran of the Northeast American rave scene and a 12 year sacrifice at the altar of house music DJing. I love to dance, but I'm not very good.... picture of someone we're trying to bring back the steps of Motown and Count Line dancing all at the same time but on rhythm! my passion for underground, dance music, DJing, and promoting for it require a lot of dedication during the week and take me away at least one night a weekend. I'm sure you don't mind though because if you're the person for me, you'll either have a good time coming along or have a passion of your own that requires time to yourself or with your ***rs . i'm a little bit crazy all the way and a little bit crazy and a couple of some not so great ways as perimenopause has made me a bit of a looney tune and my ADHD is completely off the wall so to give you eight paragraphs when three words would've done , but at least those paragraphs are going to be hysterical and sometimes it's better to drive around the park then go right to your destination, am I right? I consider myself very liberal, but prefer not to discuss politics until I know someone very well and the topic of the Middle East is 100% off-limits even within my own family. I consider myself a bit of a lyricist and write music to be spoken or song with house, music and even sold lyrics to small local label once, how about that!? ! No drama or horror for me real life is lame enough without adding a fictional characters problem to mine. I do love a good comedy and stand-up comedy, my favorite comics are John Mulaney and John Mulaney. In addition to going out dancing, I do like going out for meals, but I am a nightmare to try and feed because of some stomach issues so just bear with me ! I like short walks along the beach and sunsets as long as I'm in the temperature controlled environment because I am an indoor cat. I would consider glamping if you didn't tell anybody because I know it's embarrassing. I am looking for a long-term relationship with one man who can match my kinky energy and is willing to come along with me on my journey as I discover who I am in the BDSM world. I know I like a little and I know I like to give a little but giving the ouch is more a bratty thing than a dominant thing. I know I like to be bossed around, but I certainly hate being told what to do my one experience with a was a pleasure Dom so frankly I know I have no idea what to expect in reality from the rest of the world because one can't win on every scratcher ticket can one? If it helps, my favorite porn, search terms are electro fuck bondage and bondage orgasm.
Female (50) Chester, Connecticut
I am a very active and cheerful girl, I try to devote at least two hours to sports every day. I believe that it is also very important to give yourself rest, quality rest, so that you are always full of energy, and I am sure that a lot depends on the people around me, so I want to find a man who will be my inspiration, and I will be the same for him. I try to spend every day actively and interestingly, I also try to visit new places and learn new things, I am an active, educated, and cheerful girl.
Female (37) Fairfield, Connecticut
I have freckles all over my face, specially when it’s really sunny. I’m also chubby, so if you don’t like freckled, short and chubby girls, you won’t like me. Other than that…I don’t really know what to write here soooooo :-) I want a Daddy.
Female (38) Waterbury, Connecticut
ABDL mommy looking for a little. Nothing more, nothing less. Looking for real life encounters and someone with some experience, although I’m willing to help someone learn. Hit me up if you want to talk.
Female (36) Danbury, Connecticut
haii I'm new to the community and just looking around!!! Into all gender identities, nothing makes me swoon more than someone who has their shit together. I want to find more community events and learn more on becoming someone who sells kinky services :-))
Female (19) Torrington, Connecticut
I am someone who takes care of myself and values self love. I think it is important for every person to have time for self-love. I am very calm. I don't get angry or upset very easily. But I dislike people who are loud, aggressive and not polite. I am a good listener. I am not talkative when I am not around with my friends. I like going to temples and giving merit when I need peace and tranquility. I have a very simple dream of having a loving and happy family with the person that I love
Female (48) Meriden, Connecticut
I think we're looking for the same thing here? Or are you going to surprise me and you're selling your house here?Just kidding. I'm not much shy to write , I guess that's why I'm kidding. What can I tell you about myself? I am a charismatic young woman who loves to travel the world, learn new things and exploring the world around me. I value every moment of life. I believe that every situation in a person's life allows him to make a choice in which direction to move.So, If you want to try something new, I will support you and do it with you! Also, If you feel sad, I will definitely cheer you up and If you have a playful mood, I will share it with you.
Female (44) New Haven, Connecticut
Looking for friends longterm subs and dates 4/20 friends to the front of the line Pansex Poly Lets chat about random stuff like anime or cars I’m a friend and a dom Snap lilacs_nsfw2
Female (21) Ansonia, Connecticut
I'm an all-around good vibe!! I'm new to the BDSM scene, hoping to find a patient Dom for a long-term relationship if that's even a thing. Come open me up and show me something new.
Female (42) Ansonia, Connecticut
Hello my name is Rose! I am demisexual While I am normally on the more dominant spectrum of things I have switched to more submissive roles before. I want to relearn how to be more in touch with my submissive side. With that being said I am not looking for any subs as I am currently tied up with two subs already. I am very open for having conversations and making friends with subs so don’t be afraid to chat with me. please don’t request my private photos and if you do and I’ve denied you already you will absolutely be blocked.
Female (24) Hartford, Connecticut
Don’t message me for just sex or sex talk. you will be deleted. it’s annoying, and please love close! Looking for my forever Dom or Daddy! Not looking for just a play partner (I have enough) and not looking for fwb or sex. I want something real.
Female (40) Hamden, Connecticut
Sensual hedonist, fun & funny caregiving Mistress and playful pleasure domme. Fluid demisexual with a flair for the dramatic and a twisted sense of humor. Foodie. Artist. Roleplay. Creative. Enjoys the finer things and loves to share. Mischievous. Exotic. Educated. Striking. My words hold power. My hand holds firm. I don't need toys--I have you.
Female (53) Avon, Connecticut
Sweet, sassy submissive softly seeking. Sapiosexual, demisexual female looking for kink and connection. A complex bouquet of sugar and spice, lady and tramp. The lioness who seeks her Lion King. Well read, well travelled, looking for her masculine Dominant partner in crime. Intelligence and manners are a must. I only ask for what I bring to the table as well. Flirtatious and fun, with a yearning for emotional connection. I enjoy the finer things, and the simple pleasures. Forehead kisses and smacks on the ass. A love of reading and champagne. A killer backgammon game, and a great cook. If you don’t think that what lies between my ears, is just, as if not more important than what lies between my legs, we won’t be a good fit. Some of my favorite kinky fuckery involves bondage, sensation play, wax, medium impact masochism, and teasing. I will be happy to discuss these and other interests in further detail after mutual ground has been determined. Pronouns: she/her/hers Please be between the ages of 45-60, Dominant, male and single/divorced.
Female (57) Enfield, Connecticut
*DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE A MALE DOM LOOKING FOR PLAY. I AM ONLY LOOKING FOR SUBS. I conduct lifestyle sessions. I can do in person or distance. You should always approach me with Mistress Aliana. if you don't want your message will be ignored. Hi, im Mistress Aliana :) I am a 30 year old African American women living in Queens. I am a Pro Dominatrix. Im looking for a sub to serve me and make me the center of their life. I specialize in: Spanking, Flogging, JOI, CEI, CBT, Sissification, ***, Wax PlayAss Worship, Feminization, Pet Play, TPE, Face Smothering, ***s Twitter: @thealianaj
Female (30) Bridgeport, Connecticut
poly woman, separating from nesting partner at the moment. very sub, pinch of brat. Looking for someone to explore how deep my sub tendency can go... I an VERY secure in my day to day, but want to find someone I can trust to let go with. I will not tolerate any bs, and have the support system to verify.
Female (29) Lebanon, Connecticut
Looking to explore more than what is provided at home. No intentions of changing anyone's situation. No drama. My plan is to play with several partners safely.
Female (46) Glastonbury, Connecticut
30y.o intersex female in process of selecting gender to remove male parts! I am lesbian and love trans men and cisgender women single and ready to mingle! freak in da sheets, and love hookups
Female (30) Hamden, Connecticut
I am not hiding my identity here, if you know me you already probably know this about me, I’m an open book. Really looking for a connection that is consistent. I am down to hook up but my time is limited and I will give preference to people who take me on a date. The second I feel hidden, I’m out. I’m not about that. Genuinely looking for a good partner, monogamous or primary ENM. I am a happy mom and supportive human to the people in my life and a freak in the bedroom. Please don’t pretend to be looking for more to gain my time. Be honest if you are looking to hook up.
Female (35) Windsor Locks, Connecticut

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