I am married to an absolutely wonderful woman, and we have many amazing ***. I've known for quite sometime that I am a sub at heart. My wife has always been substantially supportive in helping find myself, and I'm hoping we can take that next step toward learning how to pragmatically live a D/s life (as often as is practical). My wife is naturally dominant, but also an introvert. And being Gen Xers, we both grew-up with minimal tolerance for anything outside 'normal' boundaries. So we feel we need a little coaching and/or some patient partners while we explore what we want for our future.