First, please know I’m very new to BDSM and D/s relationships. I’m a creative, smart, fun-loving, kind, empathic, funny Gen X woman. I have a story for how I came to be here and why I’m exploring and I’ll share it with you if we ever get close enough. I do want to state up front: I’m a progressive and a feminist. If those values aren’t yours we won’t work. I don’t do fast. I want to get to know you, and I want you to get to know me. I’ve been traumatized by men in the past, and that’s a deal breaker for me. Take your time or move on—there are plenty of women out there. I know my worth, and I want a man who knows it too.
Okay. Moving on—
I’m looking for a dominant, authentically feminist man who TRULY gets the importance of consent, communication, and emotional availability. I want someone who balances strength with compassion, who values not just the physical connection but also emotional and intellectual bonds.
Romance is also important to me—I want laughter, intimacy, tenderness, and adventure, not just in the bedroom but also in life.
I’m on a journey of self-growth and self-love, and it’s really important to me. I mean what I say, I say what I mean. 🏴☠️And I value deep emotional and intellectual connections. I’m looking for someone who does authentic communication, is a good conversationalist, and believes in accepting people for who they are. I value kindness, respect, and consent in all things and I’m looking for a man who is emotionally available, trustworthy, with these values.
If you’ve read this entire bio, then we may have some good things to start building a connection with. Tell me your favorite meal in your message to me so I know you read the whole thing. I’ve also left a “treasure” for you in the middle of my bio—tell me what it is so I know you’re serious about getting to know me.
