If you don't have a profile photo or if you're wearing a mask in it, just scroll on by. No cybersex or pen pals.
No married or otherwise committed men. Single only! I am not going to fuck you in your ass with anything, and I'm not going to fuck the first time we meet. I can't make that any more clear. Please don't waste either of our time!
My messages are open because I love to meet and communicate with interesting, intelligent, open-minded people. If that doesn't describe you, please just move along. No sexting!!!!!!!! It is a turn off for me if I don't know you.
Please note, I'm an alpha submissive. I am in control in every aspect of my life. I'm independent, self-sufficient and can fix my own shit. I take care of my farm, ***s and home.
My ultimate goal here is to find a natural, intelligent, Dominant man who can't help me release control and give it to him. Giving someone control who knows how to take control can be the most sensual and erotic experience. It is rare to find a Dominant capable. I crave that kind of submission, and I know how rare and difficult to find it truly is. However, I'm also a masochist and need regular floggings, paddlings and spankings. I sub to a couple Service Tops, but there's always room for another. That is where the D/s relationship I crave will start. My true submission must be earned.
Sex can be great as part of the Dom/sub relationship, but it isn't why I'm here. I haven't had sex in a long time and I don't do hookups or ons. Please note that I am demisexual and sapiosexual. I need a mental connection or my brain shuts my body down. I don't want a serious relationship and fwb is a possibility, but the friendship and connection have to come first. That could take months to foster. So, if you're in a hurry or just want to get laid, please don't waste either of our time.
History - I was in a completely vanilla marriage for almost 25 years. I would say never again, but for a love like we had until he got brain cancer and died, I would give up anything. Before that I had been collared by two different Masters.
Vanilla life - I would rather be outside doing anything than inside. I want to travel everywhere and read everything. I work too much. I'm not your typical tax and accounting person. I don't like wine, but I love wineries.
Things I love - ***s, kayaking, hiking, horse back riding, white water rafting, adventures, dancing (including in the rain), tequila, the smell of horses - rain - flowers - fresh cut grass and fresh tilled earth - a man, friendly people, honesty, intelligence, compassion, letting other people have their own opinions and discussing them, letting other people do whatever it is that makes them happy, positive people, masculine men, gentlemen, women who straingten another woman's crown without pointing out it was crooked, fun people, living in the country, floggers, paddles, candle wax, rope on my skin, short skirts, high heels, all kinds of music, a good party, a quiet night at home, a good movie but I'd rather read the book, getting dressed up and going to a nice dinner and the theater, getting dirty & sweaty working on my land, fixing things, DIY projects, and so many more things.
Things I don't like - judgmental people, ignorance, people who don't think for themselves, poor grammar, mean people, *** cruelty, beans, mushrooms, soda, rudeness, jealousy, and like all women, we don't want to see your dick so please stop showing it to us. Put it in your pictures and we'll go find it when we want to see it.
haha most guys never have a friend to do this with but figure I'll keep trying
