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Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.
Female (29) Moline, Illinois
I'm bi and a switch😋( I'm mostly a subby😉) I'm most defently a book girlly📚📚 (like a lady I read my smut) I me love a good old fashion hand necklace anytime the're the best accessory 🤭 I don't mind playing or more 😋 send a message and I might just reply but be RESPECTFUL about it 😉 ps I most defently have a weakness for voice notes 🥴 and I do smoke(and I get quite bratty and sassy when I do😝😉)
Female (25) Casey, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. We have fun taking our pics and they turn out too good not to share, right? I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. Not a slut, just sexy. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together 8 years ago. Married 5 years ago and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever. I am not that type of girl; never have been. Posting is just a fun dirty little thing we do. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do this for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I am over getting attention. I do it for him.
Female (48) Chicago, Illinois
I might not respond to casual greetings like "Hey." If you need a script to approach me, I can only say my personality is too strong for you to handle. Sorry. Don't ask for nudes. I'm under no obligation to send you extra photos. If you're a stranger telling me "Make me cum," you'll always remain a stranger. I'm not your free sex doll—I'm a paying customer on a dating site. If this is our first contact, don't call me a whore, slut, or similar terms. I won't engage with arrogant or rude individuals. Thanks, but I also don't want to watch strangers masturbate on video calls. No time-wasters. If you're a masochist or want me to command you, my command is: Get lost, baby. Anyone who eats sushi, because consuming rotting corpses underground is the root cause of the zombie apocalypse. That's common sense. I can tolerate "Mmm-hmm" sounds at most—this shouldn't need saying, but clearly kids don't get it. I dislike buns, skinny jeans (dudes, we can see your junk squished like sandworms—you're ruining male appeal), and tattoos. But if I genuinely like someone, these superficial things fade away. Ultimately, I want someone kind-hearted yet a little dirty-minded—a soulmate. As for long-term relationships, I want what we all want: to be loved, supported, cared for, adored, inspired, valued, protected, seen, heard, and respected. For these things, I'd gladly belong to you and follow your lead. If I don't reply, please forgive me—this site is too busy! With hopeful anticipation;
I’m a lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in dominating physically, mentally, and sexually; in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the pleasure of giving up control. I’m seeking someone ready for something real—a long-term FLR D/s dynamic rooted in trust, desire, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Someone who finds joy in serving, pride in pleasing, and purpose in belonging. If you’re only exploring or seeking something brief or casual, I may entertain it—with the proper token of devotion, always. My attention is only for those who recognize I am a Goddess. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring Sex Therapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a BBW straight up. If that’s an issue then please move on. Hopefully that will not be the case one day but for now it is. Looking to get my feet wet as a Sub. I like a man who tells me what to do. I like dirty talk- a man who tells me what a slut I am. I like being restrained and being used. If you play with my nipples a lot I will squirt. I love sucking cock, would love to try more face fucking. One of my fantasies is to be in a stockade and have one cock in my mouth and another in my pussy so I am open to a threesome (preferably 2 guys but willing to try another girl as well) in the future once I feel comfortable. Currently just into chatting. Not sure how I feel about meeting up yet.
Female (32) Palos Hills, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
meowwwwwww =(^.^)= i’m ivie welcome to my page :’) it’s so nice of you to stop by! I’m a 27 yro full-time student who likes to try new things! i’ve been a dom, i’ve been a switch, and now i want to try to be a sub. releasing control can be hard for me :( so I’ll need someone who can really get my mind numb and make me feel safe. Vanilla: I value curiosity a lot so I’m always trying and learning something new! I’ve developed alot of interest and hobbies because of that. Some of my current loves are: Writing The Beatles Plaster sculpting Good food Cosplaying Anime Singing The Criterion Channel Kink: I am discovering what I am into all over again. I thought I was only into breath play, rough sex, ***, *** and leading, but I’m moving into a much softer era. I still want to be fucked roughly and somewhat degraded but I also want to give total subbing a try. I want forehead kisses while I get stretched. I am very interested in being a kitten and trying a ddlg dynamic. Not mandatory though still doing *** and cucking :’)
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I am just new and curious out here seeking for something real and interesting ... I've got less idea of how things work on here and also the terms on here .. I am a matured and open minded woman who like to surround myself with positive minded individual as i pride myself as one.
Female (49) Morris, Illinois
While waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one.. life is too short.. looking for fun, sex slave, bdsm, hook up, sex relationship, naughty and kinky
Female (47) Chicago, Illinois
I am a calm, balanced lady with a good sense of humor but unfortunately not a paid member on here ,just leave a det ail if interested .I have a docile, calm character. I don't like conflict and prefer to solve everything in a good way.I adore flirting, I love to smile, I listen to compliments. I prefer to do what I love in my life. And not what is fashionable, prestigious or belongs.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
Hi there. I'm Mandi. I am 34, tall (6'3") and curvy. I am looking for no strings, discreet fun with dominant men (21-45) in the Roscoe, IL area. I am strictly Submissive. Message me if you'd like to know more. **NOT INTERESTED IN ONLINE PLAY**
Female (34) Roscoe, Illinois
Submissive by nature, calm in spirit. I’m here to explore the dynamics of this lifestyle with the right person, with the intention of building a genuine long-term connection. I value trust, patience, and emotional maturity.
Female (50) Chicago, Illinois
Hard work has paved the way for my success, but I also want to enjoy the fun of life with my friends.
Female (37) Chicago, Illinois
I want a Daddy dom who will take care of me and my needs and I'll do the same for him. I'm a little and I like being called baby, baby girl, and princess but only by my dom. I will not answer to you if you're not my dom. If you can't honor that then you'll be blocked. If you're in a relationship don't bother messaging me because I'll just delete it and block you. I'm into bikers and men with tattoos. I'm not looking for a fwb. I overthink everything so if that's s problem then I don't know what to tell you. I also feel like I don't deserve what I'm looking for but I can't help that. I'm also not on here very often anymore so if you message me and I don't reply back for a while, don't be a whiny ass bitch and put me on your ignore list 😂
Female (38) East Peoria, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
Last updated: 6/22/25 ! new account ! hii im vivie (vivian). im 19 and in an M/s dynamic. We are mostly monogamous, however I am allowed to have girlfriends/femme play partners. I am mostly on here looking for new friends in my area, as I've had a lot of success on this site in the past. let me make this abundantly clear-- I am not interested in ANY man other than my Master. I am his property first and foremost, and I will not be playing with anyone that my Master does not approve of. If you have further questions about using his property, his profile is linked below. Basic info: I'm very artistic, I love ***ting and making zines. I love to learn and watch lots of scientific/historical video essays. We are very 420 friendly, he doesn't partake but I do and I would love to have a smoking buddy. I'm a silly goose, I love making people laugh and having fun. My favorite show is Spongebob, I might have a slight obsession with it. Kinks: I am a sub leaning switch. I love the disciplinary/psychological aspects of BDSM. As a slave, I find fulfillment in serving my Master through many small but consistent tasks like cleaning and cooking. I'm very much so into taboo fantasies, like corruption and age gaps. Oh and if you couldn't tell, I'm a foxgirl! Being a kinkster is an important part of my identity for me, and there's so much more that I'm into that I'd love to discuss, but I'll leave that for you to ask about ;P What I'm looking for: As I said, I'm mostly looking for friends, however ideally I'd like a girlfriend. Bonus points if you are: -a cat owner -25+ years old (the older the better hehe) -familiar with BDSM and general community expectations -open to threesomes with me & my Master -a kemonomimi/pet player -a Mommy Domme -a stoner -willing to help me learn how to cook -a pretty girl that likes kissing pretty girls none of these things are required! please just be yourself and we will respect your boundaries
Female (19) East Dubuque, Illinois
I’m new to this but very interested. I like to be told what to do. Looking to experience some of the things I only read about in smutty books. I don’t got no STDs if you got em stay away. Also i’m not necessarily plus size but i’m also not skinny, so if you only like skinny girls that’s not me sorry.
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I'm looking for a Sexual Dom with whom i can experience the lifestyle in an ongoing way. I'm not looking for rough sex hook-ups. I'm looking for someone with experience who can mentor and guide me. I am married, and my husband is aware of, and ok with, this This is what I'm learning about myself so far: I'm definitely a sub In training, but think i have traits of all of these: bedroom sub, domestic discipline, princess, and brat
Female (52) Hoffman Estates, Illinois
I'm very open minded and I don't like to put people in a box before I really get to know them . I'm very spontaneous and a bit of risk taker . I love going to the gym and also enjoy surfing
Female (40) Bull Valley, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I'm on here looking for a Daddy/Pleasure Dom. I've been in the Dom/Sub lifestyle for over 10 years. I will not respond to d**k pics, nor ask me for nude pics of myself. I want to build a strong, secure, respectful dynamic. I don't want any drama, I'm too old for that. Please be a gentleman. If you are respectful to me, I will give that and more in return. I know my worth and I value myself.
Female (45) Quincy, Illinois
I value respect, consistency, and clear power exchange. Whether kneeling in silence or actively serving, this one gives without resistance. My focus is obedience, grace in servitude, and learning the nuances that please my Dominant most.
Female (38) Bolingbrook, Illinois

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Hello and thank you for visiting my profile. I’m new to experiencing this type of thing but am not new to liking or being interested in it. I am very shy and will open up after a while. Partly for why I hid my face in my profile. I’m looking for friends mostly. I’m not able to drive because of my disability. I also live with my parents because of my disability. Sorry if this is a dealbreaker. I’m looking for couples and singles right now.
Female (29) Moline, Illinois
Submissive by nature, calm in spirit. I’m here to explore the dynamics of this lifestyle with the right person, with the intention of building a genuine long-term connection. I value trust, patience, and emotional maturity.
Female (50) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a BBW straight up. If that’s an issue then please move on. Hopefully that will not be the case one day but for now it is. Looking to get my feet wet as a Sub. I like a man who tells me what to do. I like dirty talk- a man who tells me what a slut I am. I like being restrained and being used. If you play with my nipples a lot I will squirt. I love sucking cock, would love to try more face fucking. One of my fantasies is to be in a stockade and have one cock in my mouth and another in my pussy so I am open to a threesome (preferably 2 guys but willing to try another girl as well) in the future once I feel comfortable. Currently just into chatting. Not sure how I feel about meeting up yet.
Female (32) Palos Hills, Illinois
I am just new and curious out here seeking for something real and interesting ... I've got less idea of how things work on here and also the terms on here .. I am a matured and open minded woman who like to surround myself with positive minded individual as i pride myself as one.
Female (49) Morris, Illinois
A woman who knows how to be gentle, affectionate, like a cat, but I can also be a tigress when you need to protect your loved ones. I love comfort, walks, coffee in the morning and surprises. I love a bright life with emotions, a boring fresh life is not for me. Do you want such a woman to be next to you? Then write to me, we will definitely have something to talk about.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
Am a 90"s style lover, divorced for 6 years now with 2 kids a 23 years old boy and a 20 years old girl
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I will strip away your pride, mock your existence, and reduce you to the whimpering, desperate mess you were always meant to be. You don’t get to be strong. You don’t get to be respected. You get to be laughed at, degraded, and completely owned…
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
I am a calm, balanced lady with a good sense of humor but unfortunately not a paid member on here ,just leave a det ail if interested .I have a docile, calm character. I don't like conflict and prefer to solve everything in a good way.I adore flirting, I love to smile, I listen to compliments. I prefer to do what I love in my life. And not what is fashionable, prestigious or belongs.
Female (41) Chicago, Illinois
I might not respond to casual greetings like "Hey." If you need a script to approach me, I can only say my personality is too strong for you to handle. Sorry. Don't ask for nudes. I'm under no obligation to send you extra photos. If you're a stranger telling me "Make me cum," you'll always remain a stranger. I'm not your free sex doll—I'm a paying customer on a dating site. If this is our first contact, don't call me a whore, slut, or similar terms. I won't engage with arrogant or rude individuals. Thanks, but I also don't want to watch strangers masturbate on video calls. No time-wasters. If you're a masochist or want me to command you, my command is: Get lost, baby. Anyone who eats sushi, because consuming rotting corpses underground is the root cause of the zombie apocalypse. That's common sense. I can tolerate "Mmm-hmm" sounds at most—this shouldn't need saying, but clearly kids don't get it. I dislike buns, skinny jeans (dudes, we can see your junk squished like sandworms—you're ruining male appeal), and tattoos. But if I genuinely like someone, these superficial things fade away. Ultimately, I want someone kind-hearted yet a little dirty-minded—a soulmate. As for long-term relationships, I want what we all want: to be loved, supported, cared for, adored, inspired, valued, protected, seen, heard, and respected. For these things, I'd gladly belong to you and follow your lead. If I don't reply, please forgive me—this site is too busy! With hopeful anticipation;
I would like to find a gentleman who combines generosity of heart with emotional intelligence. A man who is fun, who knows how to laugh heartily and enjoy life's simple moments, while still maintaining depth in his thoughts and conversations. I greatly value the ability to make others feel good through empathy and good humor. I admire intelligence, not only in the form of knowledge, but also in the form of wisdom to make decisions with maturity and vision.
Female (40) Chicago, Illinois
I consider myself a simple woman, nice, easy to get along with, kind, respectful, loyal and very romantic.
Female (53) Chicago, Illinois
I enjoy watching a man soften under my voice. That split second when he goes from stubborn to obedient… that’s the moment I own him. add me on $*** aurvixq
Female (18) Tennessee, Illinois
open, honest and understanding dialogue with your partner is the best safety which extends beyond physical measures. Let's discuss what we are curious about and let's listen to our thoughts and feelings.
Female (51) Aurora, Illinois
Kinda shy person but easy to get along well very simple lady who enjoys both in and outdoors ,*** and nature
Female (52) Chicago, Illinois
Well, my parents taught me to appreciate every moment and cherish the people who matter most. I’m a widow with one beautiful daughter who means the world to me. Family and friends are a big part of my life, and I love to laugh, smile, and make beautiful memories. I’m passionate about cooking, dancing, and spending time near the water—whether it’s a day at the beach or a peaceful boat cruise. The ocean has a way of calming my soul. I believe in kindness, honesty, and enjoying the simple things that bring happiness. I’m looking for someone genuine who values love, laughter, and companionship—someone ready to share life’s adventures, both big and small.
Female (62) Roxana, Illinois
I’m a lifestyle Femdom devoted to exploring the full spectrum of kink and fetish. As a sensual sadist, I thrive on the tension between ache and obedience, on that charged space where surrender becomes inevitable. My power is patient, precise, and inescapable, coiling around you until resistance dissolves. Pleasure for Me lies in dominating physically, mentally, and sexually; in guiding through the art of anticipation, the thrill of denial, and the pleasure of giving up control. I’m seeking someone ready for something real—a long-term FLR D/s dynamic rooted in trust, desire, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Someone who finds joy in serving, pride in pleasing, and purpose in belonging. If you’re only exploring or seeking something brief or casual, I may entertain it—with the proper token of devotion, always. My attention is only for those who recognize I am a Goddess. Outside of fetish, I’m a goth/metal/neo-reggaeton enthusiast, erotic dancer, gamer, aspiring Sex Therapist, fantasy nerd, scientist, and an unapologetic stoner who loves documentaries and horror films. Political awareness is the bare minimum for catching My interest. *mistressxevira everywhere
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I'm very open minded and I don't like to put people in a box before I really get to know them . I'm very spontaneous and a bit of risk taker . I love going to the gym and also enjoy surfing
Female (40) Bull Valley, Illinois
I am an authentic determined woman with a clear vision of what I want to build in my life. I don't let myself be influenced by appearances or prejudices; I believe what truly matters is what you carry within. I like to live with purpose, enjoy the small details, and stay open to new experiences. I'm not afraid to cross boundaries whether physical or emotional if the destination is worth it. Age or distance don't scare me, what interests me is a real connection, the kind that can't be explained it can only be felt. If you're curious to know more about me just dare to take the first step. Sometimes the best stories begin with a simple hello.
Female (42) Chicago, Illinois
I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are. I am a fair individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest and looking to meet a man that i can spend the rest of my life with in good times and in bad times as well
Female (43) Harvey, Illinois
I love being in control of muscular black men. Be submissive to me at all time no matter what i say or how I say it. get on your knees and kiss my feet. I love to slap men when they disagree
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
Open to kink, but always with trust, intention, and consent. I’m attracted to confident people who understand that the best experiences start with communication and respect. If you value emotional intelligence and a slow, intentional connection, we’re already speaking the same language.
Female (36) Chicago, Illinois
I love spending time with family, friends, and would like to share all of these things and more with someone.I am self-sufficient, independent, emotionally stable and financially secure. Disciplined. Trustworthy. Idealistic. Someone who appreciates good food, good wine, and good conversation. Someone to dine with, travel with, go to the movies with, and laugh with.
Female (39) Broadview, Illinois
Needy, nerdy, and curvy Just looking for fun, flirty banter. Not really looking for more Traveling at the moment. Getting to messages when I can. Not ignoring you 💗
Female (31) Naperville, Illinois
🔥 Playful switch with a wicked imagination & velvet touch. Love trading power, teasing limits, and turning fantasies into pulse-racing reality. Networking? Yes. Swinging? Maybe. Pic swaps? Only if you can handle the heat. 😈✨ Come say hi… if you dare keep up.
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois

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