BDSM Dating in Murphysboro

I am looking for a lady to hang out with and see where things go. And the southern Illinois area, Western Kentucky or west or middle Tennessee. I travel a lot ,those areas.
So those are all on the table. I want to see where things go. It does not have to necessarily be intimate, but if it leads to that great if not, that’s OK. I’m looking for new friends primarily first before anything.