## If you can’t be bothered to read my profile, please don’t message me
I’m a switch and I enjoy different kinks depending on the mindset I’m in and also the partner I’m playing with. If you’re a natural Dom and we connect, I will gladly slip into sub space and follow your lead. If you’re a natural sub and we connect, I will gladly take the reins and guide you exactly where I want you to be ;) I will say up front I am *not looking for a monogamous relationship. I’m not looking specifically for any relationship I’m just looking to find like-minded people and seeing where those paths lead.
I’m pansexual so gender does not matter to me at all :) The age range I prefer is 25-38. Please know ahead of time that although I can be submissive in the bedroom, I still have a strong personality outside of the bedroom and I enjoy getting what I want. I will call you out on bad behaviors. I don’t enjoy phone calls/video so lets stick to either messaging or meeting in person.
## The Domme Role
Fairly new to the Domme role. I’ve had plenty of online experience over several years but fairly little experience IRL over the past year or so. I’ve been researching and attending kink workshops to continuously learn in order to find exactly who I am as a Domme and I’m interested to find a sub who fits into a dynamic with me.
If you’re looking for a highly experienced Domme, I suggest you skip my profile.
After meeting in a vanilla setting and I start to feel more comfortable in our connections, I may start to sprinkle some kink/*** your submission into our meet ups. Examples: spitting into food/drink, having you wear a chastity cage or butt plug while we’re out, dropping things for you to pick up, purposely having shoes untied and making you kneel down to tie them, etc.
We would also be able to work our way into a more private setting for further submission/fun. Bondage, impact play, knife play, ball busting, water sports, anal play/pegging. All of these suggestions (and more) could be on the table once discussed and consent given.
## The Sub Role
As a sub I very much want to build trust beforehand considering the kinks I enjoy when being controlled. I love bondage very much but I do not enjoy ***. Please don’t hurt me :\ but you can tie me up, pin me down, gag me, blindfold me etc. once I trust you enough to do so. Once I submit myself to someone, they can make me do (almost) anything they desire and since I aim to please my Dom, I won’t take much correction. But please understand this type of submission doesn’t happen overnight and it’s definitely not going to happen if your first messages to me are sexual.
I’m a little princess so once I’m comfortable around you I may also slip into my little space sometimes.
I’m also interested in trying pet play but I haven’t explored much of that yet~
Regardless of which role I am in our dynamic, I’d very much enjoy doing vanilla things together such as going to eat, shopping, movies, hockey games, roller skating, playing video games together etc. to build a connection with each other.
I’m also open to attending local kink events together. I would prefer we meet in a casual setting first before any sexual activity is introduced.
If you’ve read this far and you’re interested in taking that first step, send me a message ☺️
Please don’t contact me if you’re looking for something sexual right away as I’ve already explained how I want things to progress.