[Updated : 1/12/25]
# **Disclaimer**
• Pause — before you send that creepy ass message about all the things you want to do to me, keep in mind that I will report you for it. Offensive language is a *** of FET’s community guidelines. If I don’t know you, I am not comfortable with being sent sexual messages. No, you will not get nudes from me and no, I will not engage with your fantasies over text. Please look elsewhere if you’re just trying to get off.
• I am NOT looking for a long distance relationship. I WILL ignore any messages from people over 100 miles away. DO NOT BE SURPRISED WHEN YOU ARE IGNORED FOR NOT UNDERSTANDING THIS. I do NOT make exceptions about this. It is nothing personal, LDRs are simply a hard limit for me.
• I can’t change my username, so I’ll clarify here that I am not currently a slave and I do not have a Master. Please do not refer to me as a slave. That being said, I was a slave in the past and I took great pride in my role, and I am very much so open to being one again with the right Master.
# **Intro**
Welcome to the Candy Kingdom :) I'm Princess Vanellope. I'm 19 and am trying to save to go to college within the next few years. Long term I want to be a journalist, and much further down the line I want to be a stay at home mother/tradwife. I am proudly bisexual and solo polyamorous.
# **Boundaries**
1. Mutual Respect:
the foundation of consent.
2. Open-mindedness:
the foundation of maturity.
3. Honesty:
the foundation of trust.
Pushing these boundaries will result in one, clear warning. If the specific behavior does not cease, I will respectfully cut ties or, depending on the severity of the situation, block permanently. I will tell you if I'm not okay with something well before it should ever become an issue. My boundaries are also my values, all of which I live by religiously. I do not disrespect anyone, no matter how cruel they are to me. I am honest in a very gentle and respectful way. If I take issue with something, I will first try to empathize with the other party and see things from their side. Then, I will confront them in a calm, sincere manner, express my concerns, and look for the best solution/compromise.
# **What I’m looking for**
What I care most about is your emotional maturity, self discipline, humility, and trustworthiness.
#### **Teleiophile: A person who is particularly attracted to mature adults**
Since I look for maturity above all else in a partner, I've found that I have quite the generation gap fetish. I especially have a thing for good parents, dilfs/milfs, and those in noble professions. I love hardworking men, and taking care of their needs. I love women who are disciplinary yet love tenderly. The more respect I have for my partner as an individual, the more submissive I will be willing to be with them.
I like productive and meaningful conversations. I can read most people's intentions & values rather well in the small details of how they speak and how they treat me. I prefer to be complimented on my personality rather than my appearance. Truthfully, until I trust that you understand who I am, I do not care if you find me attractive because I have absolutely zero interest in anyone who only sees me for my body.
I am not looking for monogamy at the moment, but long term that is what I want to work towards. As I said, I want to be a tradwife. Ideally I'd like my permanent Master/Mistress to also be my spouse and the parent of my future ***. I want to be collared for life, so please do not make any propositions to give me a permanent collar unless we are already in a committed, successful, long-term relationship.
In the meantime, I am polyamorous, especially since I'm so young and exploring this community for the first time. I have a million things I want to try, and I want to experience many different Dom/Domme's styles. I am not looking for casual play with people that I do not know. I'm looking for partners who are genuine friends before anything else. I don't want someone to have sex with. I want someone to grow with as a person, explore BDSM, and share meaningful, intimate experiences with. I prefer a level of intimacy that is impossible to reach with a stranger. I want there to be an established understanding that we have eachother's best interests at heart before I willingly submit to anyone.
Aside from all that, I do genuinely just want kinky friends. I love getting to know people and hearing their stories. I love individuality and what makes people unique. I care about other's passions, perspectives, and values deeply, and I believe there is something to always be gained from being open-minded. There's a lesson hidden in every experience that can be had. My biggest passion is the pursuit of knowledge and wisdom, so I try to take everything as a learning experience.
# **Kinks & Limits**
The psychological aspect of BDSM is what I’m most passionate about, especially through discipline. I am not a brat and do not get enjoyment from funishments. I prefer punishments to be something I genuinely try to avoid, and accept if I have earned them through misbehavior or disrespect. I love the process of slave training. However, I also love obedience and discipline as they relate to DDlg/MDlg, and not just M/s. Above all else, I am a good girl. I strive to please and satisfy my Dom at any cost.
On the flip side, I am a switch and more specifically a Mommy domme/soft femdom. I do not degrade or cause harm, I prefer a more gentle and affectionate approach to earning one’s submission. That being said, I am not a pushover and I expect obedience and respect from my subs. I love getting creative with punishments. I will administer rules, however these rules are generally for my sub’s benefit and well-being rather than for any selfish desires I might have.
Despite being a switch, I prefer to maintain a consistent style of dynamic with each of my partners. Not to say that switching within one relationship is off the table, but it requires a lot of mental effort for me to change how I view my role in regard to the dynamic.
I’m currently mostly exploring my masochist and rope bottom sides. I love being faceslapped and spanked until I am on the verge of tears and trembling in ***. I’d love to experiment with many different impact toys. I’m hesitant to engage with anything that might draw ***, so for now anything spiked or sharp is off the table, please and thank you. I also am not a fan of extreme genital *** (including nipples). I’ve been tied only a few times now but each time has been incredibly memorable and enjoyable for me. I’ve found that *** and restraint are unbelievably euphoric experiences for me in a consensual context, and I’m perhaps slightly addicted to the adrenaline rush kink provides.
I am also a little though and I would like to make this incredibly clear. Do not ever degrade me in any way while I am age regressed. It would devastate me and break my heart, even if it was with good intentions. I keep my slave and little side far apart. As a slave I yearn for *** and ***. As a little, I ache for comfort and tranquility. Learn to distinguish between the two roles before attempting ANY form of ***.
As much as I love ***, I can’t handle ***. I understand that’s a fine line to walk. Yes, I want to feel lesser than you. No, I do not want to feel embarrassed about myself. Yes, I love to be objectified. No, I never want to be treated like a useless object.
I have many soft limits that I’m more than happy to indulge in for my Dom’s sake. That being said, my hard limits are generally: Burns, ***, genital ***, and permanent injuries. I take my safety extremely seriously, I’m open to some risk aware kink, however I am also a strong advocate of taking lots of precautions and steps to reduce risk.
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# *Tell me you like my fishie lmao it’s my favorite tattoo.*
haha most guys never have a friend to do this with but figure I'll keep trying
I’d love to meet you. We can go to the arcade or mall and just do something fun. Fwbs are a little difficult for me rn so I’d really prefer a nice date and see where it leads us 
