Find kinky women in Indiana

Hello, it's nice to join the kink community, I joined this site to learn more about the world of kink, events and places.I'm excited to make lot of friends. I'm new to kink and have no exposure with women yet im owned, but we are open im not interested in hookup with people with male genitalia. that choice is a trauma driven preference, yes my owner is a man, but he is my safe space. im only comfortable with women I'm also very shy, so sorry if my messages seem dry lol also im Nerospicy 😊
Female (20) Indianapolis, Indiana
DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE SEEKING SEX, ROLEPLAY, OR PIC EXCHANGE. I am straight and demisexual. I am not interested in anything sexual in nature with anyone without getting to know them for a long time first or sugar relationships. I am a little primarily, my little ages ranging from 1-6 years old, but it depends on those around me as well as the environment I’m in. I am only a submissive with a small brat streak, but that brat rarely comes through unless I’m in a bad mood. I am one of those littles that are typically very cuddly, touchy, and crave positive attention, but I also love my alone time and my independence too. I am disabled both mentally and physically due to multiple issues, but the only thing it limits is my energy levels and tolerance to BS. I am always open to questions whether it be about myself, my experiences, or just about kink in general. As long as they are respectful questions, I will answer to the best of my ability and if I do not know, I will find a source for you to find the answer.
Female (25) Warsaw, Indiana
I’m a confident, grounded woman who knows exactly what she wants, and what I chooses to claim, I shape with intention. I’m looking for a submissive partner who craves structure, challenge, and the thrill of surrendering to someone who leads with both strength and care. This is not a casual arrangement. I’m interested in building a long-term dynamic rooted in trust, loyalty, discipline, and genuine connection. I value communication, emotional intelligence, and a willingness to learn. If you desire guidance, training, and the chance to grow under a steady, attentive hand, we may be a perfect match.
Female (33) Beech Grove, Indiana
******not looking right now***** please, no smokers. no scammers, don't ask for material things. I'm sapio-demisexual. look it up. I'm an older BBW with H cups and a love of moderate nipple play. Exploring what feels good. I like men to have chest hair, but this is negotiable. I love to run my fingers thru it. I love the texture. I have ***am. I'd like to talk to you a bit first to see if we click. If you like long hair, mine goes down to my ass. Great for tugging on or burying your hands into or putting up to give that librarian/ teacher look. Hey guys, tease me. Send me a picture of your bare chest with a well defined hard on in your underwear/pants/shorts. My imagination is very good at filling in blanks, and the tease is a big turn-on. -- If I want to see it all, I'll ask. Unsolicited dick pics are likely to get you blocked. If I ask if i should open something and you say yes, you have been warned. -- Don't just start talking and whip that thing out. Show me a picture of you dressed to the 9s. a suit or sharp clothing. (bite my lip). If I wanted to just see cock I would watch porn. I write short sex stories, so I am pretty good at cybersex. I am not likely to start a conversation, so step up people. I don't bite unless you ask me to. I will admit some profiles draw me and I have to comment, but they are few. I'm always looking for more ideas for my stories. You do have to do your part too. Don't grunt at me. I speak fluent sarcasm and bits of other languages: Polish, German, Korean, French, Latin, Greek and Spanish. Some ASL also. *I also like to have conversations about things other than sex. * The girl has toys. Ranging from a sex machine(takes set up time and has a remote app control), glass insertables, various nipple clamps/clips, and a bit more also added some new ones. Love multiple partners(male/female/both). Oh, I'll put this last - I'm a veteran. I can probably come up with a convincing drill sergeant persona if you're interested. Go, Army! I'm involved in veteran programs VFW, DAV, IW, and *** prevention. Reach out and we can talk. Tell me you're a vet and what service. If you read all of this go read it again if you have an interest. then leave me a * with your words.
Female (64) Lebanon, Indiana
Who’s actually real on here? I have been told that I have a laid back attitude and easy to talk to. I enjoy making people laugh and smile. I can be a little silly at times, but I do have a serious side whenever the time calls for it. I do not like drama, but then again ideally, no one should like drama either. Communication is important to me.
Female (40) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am sexy, confident and strong. I know what i like and I will not only ask for it, but I'll beg too! id prefer to be a sub, but im willing to be a dom once i feel comfortable with my dom. i am always in control so letting go and following the commands of someone else is what i prefer. A fire, a drink and some kink...but doesn't have to be that way all the time. Vanilla is good too!
Female (53) Indianapolis, Indiana
Cheerleader with a creative streak — when I’m not on the sidelines bringing the energy, you’ll probably find me in craft club making something colorful. I also did color guard, so yes, I can spin, toss, and catch with style. Looking for someone who appreciates a mix of athletic spirit and artsy vibes. Bonus points if you can make me laugh or join in on a Diy
Female (18) Terre Haute, Indiana
I’m a brat that is interested in bdsm. I don’t have a lot of experience but am knowledgeable. More focused on ddlg and needing a brat tamer. I’m submissive but WILL push the limit, especially more so in person. I’m very sarcastic and rules were made to be broken… 😉😇😏 I am bbw, like a real bbw but I’m not classified as ssbbw, and I’m not just chubby or curvy. I am NOT into couples. I’m sorry, I just like too much attention to share. 😊 Not looking for full 24/7 control but maybe 80/20. I want a guy that pays attention to detail. I am into Monogamy. Sound too vanilla?, keep scrolling. I’m not here to waste my time nor your time. I don’t want hookups. I want to text, chat, meet in person, build trust…. before I allow a guy to use me. Thank you for understanding and staying open minded in our beautiful BDSM world we share. 😘
Female (39) Greenfield, Indiana
I’m 18, attending uni, and I love ***s. I’m just here to meet like-minded people and see if being deeper in the kink community is something I’d like. :)
Female (18) Lafayette, Indiana
I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serious relationship.
Female (55) Eagle Creek, Indiana
I'm new to fetlife. Seeing what different things are out there and what I might want to try. I like to ask questions a lot of questions to understand more
Female (42) Elkhart, Indiana
Optimistic, easy-going, and always down for good conversation. I’m the type who enjoys spontaneous weekend trips just as much as cozy nights in with a movie. I love good food, good company, and people who are passionate about something—anything. Looking for someone kind, genuine, and ready for a connection that feels natural, fun, and real.
Female (50) Leesburg, Indiana
6:06 will describe the kind of person I am lovely and soft minded lady I can rate my kinky's ability on a scale of 3:85 while me performance is 27:09 be smart enough to put the num together and let make a connection I'm open for anything.
Female (45) Michigan City, Indiana
Heyyy f21 here I have a 32size white milk that is in need of being drained to the last drop. I am looking to be cock or to just have fun!! add me on 👻 ***
Female (26) Fort Wayne, Indiana
I am an easy going lady who enjoys good conversations, trying new things, and making most of everyday. When i am not working you will find me outdoors, exploring new places, or hanging out with family. I am looking to meet someone who shares a positive outlook on life, values, honesty and enjoys having fun. let's create a story worth telling!
Female (35) Anderson, Indiana
I am an older female bbw looking for someone that wants to teach an interested subbie some things **Desires and Fantasies** I desire someone that desires me and all my big beautiful beauty
Female (52) Gary, Indiana
Faithful here but 303 5 O quietly open due to this open it means 2 5. 6 will always bring the love 86 to be patient and smart CRACK the code and say hi on what.. app
Female (41) Burns Harbor, Indiana
Were a couple, been together for 8 years. We've recently been trying new things and sharing more about what gets us excited. Very new and moving fairly slow, but still not knocking ideas. Right now we're looking to find a female(s) for a threesome. May or may not be permanent, nothing too often, all agreed dates/times/locations.Rules/subjections talked further in private. Also curious about couples/swingers/girl_guy to join.
Female (28) Hammond, Indiana
I'm here for open-minded, no-strings fun with a strong emotional and physical spark. I'm kink-friendly, into exploring desires, and believe great chemistry starts with honesty and mutual respect. Not looking for forever-just deep connections, wild nights, and safe, consensual play. If you're into that, let's talk and see what trouble we can get into
Female (52) Anderson, Indiana
I am here to find a serious, loving, reliable and loyal man. I would like him to be cheerful and to have a good sense of humor like positive people. i hope he is kind-hearted,caring and proactive man. Say Hi and i will respond back at you.
Female (40) South Bend, Indiana
Curious, confident, and unapologetically kinky. I’m here to connect with like-minded souls who know that desire doesn’t always follow the rules—and neither do I. I'm drawn to authentic expression, power dynamics, and the kind of chemistry that crackles with tension and trust. Whether you’re a seasoned player or still finding your footing, I value open communication, consent, and mutual exploration. I love the cerebral side of kink as much as the physical—mind games, teasing control, surrender, and the space between pleasure and restraint. Let’s skip the small talk and dive into the real stuff. Your kinks are welcome here. Mine? Let’s say I prefer to reveal those one layer at a time…
Female (45) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am romantic, honest, trustworthy, very optimistic, fun, loving, calm, understanding, very affectionate, a strong shoulder to support my partner, dedicated, loyal, good hear ted, a great sense of humor, intelligent.
Female (34) Lafayette, Indiana
hey ! just a neurodivergent college student & mother looking for a dom partner who wants a wetting and *** slut . let’s exchange kinky wetting videos on snapchat or something ! I watch too much true crime to link up irl unfortunately. not looking for anything serious just late night fun ! I really love wetting myself to please others??in public or around my house
Female (22) Greenfield, Indiana
I'm a person with a very kind heart! Well, at least all my friends and close people say this. I do not think it's something special it's just a way I live, I feel and what I want to give to everyone I love! And you know I have so much unspent love inside my heart, that I think my future beloved man will be just bathed in it!
Female (43) Noblesville, Indiana

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I’m a confident, grounded woman who knows exactly what she wants, and what I chooses to claim, I shape with intention. I’m looking for a submissive partner who craves structure, challenge, and the thrill of surrendering to someone who leads with both strength and care. This is not a casual arrangement. I’m interested in building a long-term dynamic rooted in trust, loyalty, discipline, and genuine connection. I value communication, emotional intelligence, and a willingness to learn. If you desire guidance, training, and the chance to grow under a steady, attentive hand, we may be a perfect match.
Female (33) Beech Grove, Indiana
Who’s actually real on here? I have been told that I have a laid back attitude and easy to talk to. I enjoy making people laugh and smile. I can be a little silly at times, but I do have a serious side whenever the time calls for it. I do not like drama, but then again ideally, no one should like drama either. Communication is important to me.
Female (40) Indianapolis, Indiana
Optimistic, easy-going, and always down for good conversation. I’m the type who enjoys spontaneous weekend trips just as much as cozy nights in with a movie. I love good food, good company, and people who are passionate about something—anything. Looking for someone kind, genuine, and ready for a connection that feels natural, fun, and real.
Female (50) Leesburg, Indiana
I am an easy going lady who enjoys good conversations, trying new things, and making most of everyday. When i am not working you will find me outdoors, exploring new places, or hanging out with family. I am looking to meet someone who shares a positive outlook on life, values, honesty and enjoys having fun. let's create a story worth telling!
Female (35) Anderson, Indiana
I'm looking for a partner who is ready for a serious relationship, someone who values family as much as I do.If you're a kind, genuine man who believes in love, commitment, and a future filled with laughter and shared moments, I'd love to hear from you.
Female (45) Evansville, Indiana
Genuine charm, a playful edge, and a soft spot for good chemistry. I’m here for fun, connection, and maybe a little mischief — let’s see where this goes.
Female (25) Bloomington, Indiana
Heyyy f21 here I have a 32size white milk that is in need of being drained to the last drop. I am looking to be cock or to just have fun!! add me on 👻 ***
Female (26) Fort Wayne, Indiana
Faithful here but 303 5 O quietly open due to this open it means 2 5. 6 will always bring the love 86 to be patient and smart CRACK the code and say hi on what.. app
Female (41) Burns Harbor, Indiana
Hi 👋, Chloe is my name. I'm 20’7 Feet tall ,l lost my parents at the Age of 987...09% happiness till I was 61 years of age. It was not easy for me. I want a soulmate, Y'll better be smart and my phone number. Take a very good look at my picture if you find me interesting and win my heart. I will make you the happiest on this earth.
Female (45) Indianapolis, Indiana
My name is Polly Vachon Am from Indiana right now in Deer, WI for my masters in Maternity I’m someone who believes in love at every moment—the kind that lingers in smiles, whispers in the dark, and grows stronger with every shared heartbeat. Life feels more magical when it’s shared with the right soul I have a heart full of love and a spirit that treasures the little things—holding hands, quiet talks, laughter that makes your cheeks ache. I’m loyal, affectionate, and always ready to make someone feel truly special
Female (35) Cartersburg, Indiana
I am romantic, honest, trustworthy, very optimistic, fun, loving, calm, understanding, very affectionate, a strong shoulder to support my partner, dedicated, loyal, good hear ted, a great sense of humor, intelligent.
Female (34) Lafayette, Indiana
I’m 18, attending uni, and I love ***s. I’m just here to meet like-minded people and see if being deeper in the kink community is something I’d like. :)
Female (18) Lafayette, Indiana
I'm here for open-minded, no-strings fun with a strong emotional and physical spark. I'm kink-friendly, into exploring desires, and believe great chemistry starts with honesty and mutual respect. Not looking for forever-just deep connections, wild nights, and safe, consensual play. If you're into that, let's talk and see what trouble we can get into
Female (52) Anderson, Indiana
Cheerleader with a creative streak — when I’m not on the sidelines bringing the energy, you’ll probably find me in craft club making something colorful. I also did color guard, so yes, I can spin, toss, and catch with style. Looking for someone who appreciates a mix of athletic spirit and artsy vibes. Bonus points if you can make me laugh or join in on a Diy
Female (18) Terre Haute, Indiana
Love the Daddy/Princess dynamic, but I am also a bit of a brat. I work a stress filled job where I am aggressive and dominant all day, and when my day at work ends, I need to flip that switch.
Female (41) Greendale, Indiana
I'm a person with a very kind heart! Well, at least all my friends and close people say this. I do not think it's something special it's just a way I live, I feel and what I want to give to everyone I love! And you know I have so much unspent love inside my heart, that I think my future beloved man will be just bathed in it!
Female (43) Noblesville, Indiana
6:06 will describe the kind of person I am lovely and soft minded lady I can rate my kinky's ability on a scale of 3:85 while me performance is 27:09 be smart enough to put the num together and let make a connection I'm open for anything.
Female (45) Michigan City, Indiana
A dreamy, determined, honest, devoted, and caring lady, tired of loneliness, has valid visa to America and an open heart to a faithful and free man.
Female (46) Hammond, Indiana
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Female (50) Cartersburg, Indiana
I'm very early into the divorce process right now from a vanilla marriage. Realized how much I miss the whole BDSM world. I am not looking to be collared anytime soon, but would like to find a Daddy Dom I can trust so playing is more fun and not with fake Doms. I am SilverSparkZZ on FetLife, so far there is still better and I am not checking here often.
Female (27) Indianapolis, Indiana
I am a kind and tender woman. I am usually outgoing, cheerful and curious. I am friendly. If I like someone, I start communicating with them as a friend to find out if we have something in common. I am very enthusiastic, and have the feeling that I have enough energy to inspire the whole world! I am a charming and romantic woman.I am also optimistic and active.
Female (48) East Chicago, Indiana
I'm a sinful and simple woman, don't come at me crazy, no I don't want to see your little ***n, I prefer bigger woman if I'm being honest :P
Female (22) Indianapolis, Indiana
Young, lively, and open to just about anything (see below). I'm eager for instruction, preferring a more submissive role in most things, but will go into a dominant role if desired.
Female (18) Columbus, Indiana

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