9/17/24 close to Waverly Iowa and looking for a LTR, looking for a tall handsome bearded hunk of a man. staying in this location this winter to help my grandson and his mom. Tired of getting hurt and ignored when giving my all. If I like you I will tell you. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am looking for a dominant man, but sensitive and wants love in his life… If you are not empathetic and sensitive to a woman then I am not for you!
4/8/24 Happy eclipse day! I do need to say I do have many responses, but I need to stress until I find the ‘one’ for me, I will only be looking for FWB. I move around the US and every 3-4 months I move on. I am full time RV living. I go where the wind blows me and I really mean that.
I feel like I am overwhelmed by requests to meet up right away and I don’t ever do that. I need time to get a baseline of who I am talking to and to be comfortable with my potential lovers. I am ENM and do not just see one man. I have many FWB and they all know I have lovers other than them. I have been hurt too many times and I have to control the pace of when we meet. I need to chat on here first, then move to a different platform and then there is a meet and greet in a highly public place. Safety first and if you are looking for a quick fuck with no time for me to be comfortable with you then you’re better off with a pay to play or someone else on here. If I am not comfortable then I will not ever be turned on enough to enjoy anything sexual with you. So please don’t waste my time with, “hey I like your profile let’s get together tomorrow and fuck….” That will never happen and is a total turn off.
If you are looking for NSA I still need to be comfortable with you. If you can’t meet and greet first then I will never meet for sex with you! I need to make this crystal clear because too many want more than I can offer. A lot are looking for a LTR and, unless you can walk away from everything you have right now just to live with me in a RV with 2 dogs and a cat, then you are not my diamond in the rough. If you have underage *** then it is a definite ‘no!’, for a LTR. Your relationship with your *** come before any relationship with me, so that said I need to make it clear that I am not as available in the summer because, I work close to my grandson and he takes up a lot of my time off.
I appreciate all of you that contact me and please don’t take it personally that I can’t make the time to see you. Work Camping is a 24 hour commitment until your official days off you stay onsite if you are needed, so leaving the property for an over night is not an option, and I do not invite men to come stay with me where I work. If you have not heard of work camping watch videos on YouTube and you will understand how I live and why I don’t host. I need to live where I work so I need to know who I am bringing home!!!
3/24 Back in Iowa, was work camping in Kentucky for the winter. Will be work camping about 20 minutes north west or Waverly Iowa til September. Sorry I am not answering all the messages. I pop on and answer a few at a time or I get overwhelmed. I do really try to read every one. I appreciate the time you spent sending me a message and it doesn’t go unnoticed. Please don’t think I gave up on answering you because I do appreciate you
***Only in the United States and not online!!! I am not into a digital relationship! please don’t waste our time with these types of relationship requests…
3/24 Newly divorced and really tired of being with men that are selfish and just do not know what love is! I am not looking for love anymore because I don’t believe some men that are serious about a relationship understand the meaning of love.
***I think I am just going to say if I find someone that is down to earth, loves to cuddle, hold hands, not afraid of PDA, is into kinky sex, wants to have a partner in life, kiss like they do in the movies, camp, go on walks, actually have conversations, want to actually spend time together even if it is just being in the same room, share new adventures with, trust, tell each other we do care about each other daily, can become best friends and learn from each other, I would be happy.
***I have always been the type that I could fall in love with the person I am with no matter what. I just need someone that can respect me and treat me better then the men I have been with.
***I am not someone to pass by so easily and not be noticed. I never had been. I am now getting older and beauty fades. I still need attraction to my partner as I expect they will too. I know I am very likable, honest and trustworthy. I would give to anyone that is in need. The problem is I have been giving for so long I have given up on the theory that you get what you put in! I call bullshit. I have given all my life and I seem to be the one walking away after the guy is done gaining off of me. I don’t need a man, I don’t need someone to take care of me, I don’t need to take care of a man either. What I do WANT is a compassionate, caring, empathetic, sensual and sexual partner. I am past “need” in my life. There is not chance my equal is on earth anyway. But I know there is a close equal out there that can compromise, care and fulfill.
So the unicorn in my dreams he is my height or taller than me, uncut, thick, long, kinky and has the stamina of a lion in heat! BUT, like I said in my dreams… I just would actually be happy with someone that won’t lie to me, use me, hurt me, play with my feelings, must love fat women, and is wanting to spend time together…
I really would like to travel. my dream is to buy an RV and do a work camping job, (like camp host). A full time traveling lifestyle. so if you can not do that it probably won’t work out either. (***I have achieved this! I am living my work camp lifestyle and it’s wonderful!)
Maybe there is one guy, or two, that will be able to fill this position?