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A true submissive quietly experiences true pleasure in the praise and rewards earned by her own need to serve and please her Dom in everything she does.
To be clear if I deem a punishment is required to modify bad behavior I will not hesitate to do so. And my experience has provided me with a library of punishments, I believe that some behaviors cannot be effectively modified without including a degree of ful punishment, not all punishment requires *** to be effective.
If you are interested in learning more about my personal experiences then you will reach out to me, to dismiss your desire to gain a deeper understanding of your own needs only denies you of the possibility of true happiness.
Again let me be clear, who I seek is a submissive woman who is truly submissive in every aspect of her life, not only a sexual submissive.