Kinky women in Iowa

599 Kinky women in Iowa

Im a very experienced sub, looking for a Dom to play with. Up for almost anything when it comes to the BDSM world. (Device play is best) Bondage, tit play, ***, and so much more. Serious inquires only.

I am married to a wonderful husband. We enjoy kink together and are curious about swinging along with the rest of our light kink. Hard Limits- ***, *** play, bodily fluids except cum, ass to mouth, Tickling anything that could cause bodily *** besides what is in my lists of what I would like to do.... must wear a condom PSA MY ACCOUNT AND PICS ARE NOT TO BE SHARED WITH ANY OTHER SITE OR PERSON OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. I WILL TAKE ACTION AGAINST ANYONE WHO DOES SAID ACTION. NOW THAT BEING SAID LETS GET KINKY!

I am very inexperienced and very new to the app Friends? I'm 19, Demi/Pan, a nerd, fun to be around, creative, funny Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation are def top 3

Hey I'm new to this and some how have two accounts I don't know how it happened but it did. So I'm starting over with this one. I've had an overwhelming amount of messages on the other and can't keep up. I'm really only looking for locals unless you bring me to you. No offense to anyone but I don't just want to look I want to play. I'm definitely: A brat Spoiled Moody at times Funny Love to spoil with Affection if I'm into you. I'm respectful and expect the same back. I could go on but find out yourself. I get that this is a kink site but I'm not just looking for sex. I want passion and lust . Someone to take care of my needs . I need to be worshipped . To feel like I matter. Not just a good time.

BBW Social ? Open/ENM Poly ?? Not a unicorn, please don't try. 2 kiddos, a baby girl and a ***age minion. Hedonist - I like to have a good time, 420 friendly, short but sassy. Looking for friends and more. I'm usually a homebody, enjoy most music, reading, and some gaming. Love a good thriller movie, not so much a fan of gore. I hate most comedy, and I've been accused of not having a sense of humor.

I'm 5'4" not a skinny Minnie. looking for local. have limited availability. ill let you know more as I get to know you. ages 35-55 please! do not come into my messages trying to dom me right away I will put you in your place. this is all about consent! when you block because I didn't respond within minutes shows me everything I need to know. I have a busy life and my phone is not in my hands 24/7.

hi my name is Michaela I am 20 years old and in a relationship with my dom, I am not actively looking for a dom but am open to talking and getting to know each other as friends until further notice as my partner and I want to give it some time before we open up the relationship and yes my partner has a profile but we wish to remain anonymous until said time I am a switch and am bi-curious with LIMITS, and my partner knows I am a little, little age being anywhere between 3-4

I am an intellectual; I require mental stimulation, so bring on the intellectual conversations! I am a sapiosexual. Brains are sexy! I am currently finishing my B.A. in psychology. I enjoy a broad range of interests in art, history, herbalism, wildcrafting, and the sciences. I am a gamer. Ask for my top 5 favorite games! I am an Artist (of many different mediums). I enjoy gardening while listening to audiobooks and/or music. I enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie or two. Cuddling! (I'm a proud cuddle slut; I don't bite, though; only nibble with consent.) X3 Reading/listening to audiobooks. Outdoor activities such as gardening, hiking, going for walks, biking, swimming, camping, etc. I am a proud and practicing Norse Pagan and a Green Witch. Karma is very real, be kind.

Perfect dates are going for a hike, followed by a visit to a new local brewery or trying a new dinner spot and taking a walk nearby. I work hard during the week, fill my weekends with activities, and definitely can be a big ball of energy at times. I’m looking for a guy who can keep up and keep me on my toes, a guy who can say “bless you “ when I sneeze 😌🥰,I’m an easy going person and love long conversation too

I am a submissive , I am broken ... if you want me to explain further just ask.. I have a wheelchair, I have dentures. I'm a single mom.... I won't choose you over them..

hopeless romantic who also has a near insatiable libido. huge sub!! i'm also a little new to this stuff but what i make up what i lack in experience with my passion

General: I like to play violin and piano, watch movies (Horror or true crime), reading and writing Sexual: My cup size is 42DD if anyone is curious. I like it when someone is being rough with me. I have some kinks (CNC, ***, *** and a knife.) I want to do many rounds (never done it before)

Recently single. Just looking for some attention, validation and praise if you would be so kind ☺️

used to be Charles city....phone was stolen everyone I used to talk to I'm looking for again. just a girl looking for her dom

I’m looking for advice. friendship. a teacher. anything that may be helpful on this journey to find myself and figure out who I am. I would consider myself a bratty sub. I constantly feel like I’m missing something and my needs aren’t being met. I’m super shy at first because I feel so out of place lately. I’m not experienced and am in desperation to learn and thrive in my own skin.

I love my ass played with and slapped and touched. so sexy. I am fat!! I love pictures and videos of people I know fucking, AND OF ME fucking. send them to friends also!!!!

I am a 47yr old little submissive. I'm still learning limits and general rules. the world is my playground and I wanna play

I'm bored of Vanilla, I'm looking for someone who can meet my sexual needs and isn't afraid to explore his own. who loves sexting, isn't disgusted by normal human anatomy or selfish in bed. who cuddles, kisses, and doesn't snore. someone who lusts me, but won't bullshit me, if you want to have sex with others, tell me, just don't humiliate me, lie, and make us look bad just so you can get some. dont live a double life, I want you in my bed every night. or I don't want you in it at all. please have work ethic, know how to maintain and build a house. if your past relationships failed because of mistakes and choices you made, don't blame your crazy ex if her actions were the reaction of your deception. own your flaws, show me that I can see you, the real you, believe in me and I'll give my whole heart to you without condition.

12/27/24 Been a while but I am still looking for a LTR. close to Charles city and Waverly Iowa. 9/17/24 close to Charles City, Iowa and looking for a LTR, looking for a tall handsome bearded hunk of a man. staying in this location this winter to help my grandson and his mom. Tired of getting hurt and ignored when giving my all. If I like you I will tell you. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am looking for a dominant man, but sensitive and wants love in his life… If you are not empathetic and sensitive to a woman then I am not for you! 4/8/24 Happy eclipse day! I do need to say I do have many responses, but I need to stress until I find the ‘one’ for me, I will only be looking for FWB. I move around the US and every 3-4 months I move on. I am full time RV living. I go where the wind blows me and I really mean that. I feel like I am overwhelmed by requests to meet up right away and I don’t ever do that. I need time to get a baseline of who I am talking to and to be comfortable with my potential lovers. I am ENM and do not just see one man. I have many FWB and they all know I have lovers other than them. I have been hurt too many times and I have to control the pace of when we meet. I need to chat on here first, then move to a different platform and then there is a meet and greet in a highly public place. Safety first and if you are looking for a quick fuck with no time for me to be comfortable with you then you’re better off with a pay to play or someone else on here. If I am not comfortable then I will not ever be turned on enough to enjoy anything sexual with you. So please don’t waste my time with, “hey I like your profile let’s get together tomorrow and fuck….” That will never happen and is a total turn off. If you are looking for NSA I still need to be comfortable with you. If you can’t meet and greet first then I will never meet for sex with you! I need to make this crystal clear because too many want more than I can offer. A lot are looking for a LTR and, unless you can walk away from everything you have right now just to live with me in a RV with 2 dogs and a cat, then you are not my diamond in the rough. If you have underage *** then it is a definite ‘no!’, for a LTR. Your relationship with your *** come before any relationship with me, so that said I need to make it clear that I am not as available in the summer because, I work close to my grandson and he takes up a lot of my time off. I appreciate all of you that contact me and please don’t take it personally that I can’t make the time to see you. Work Camping is a 24 hour commitment until your official days off you stay onsite if you are needed, so leaving the property for an over night is not an option, and I do not invite men to come stay with me where I work. If you have not heard of work camping watch videos on YouTube and you will understand how I live and why I don’t host. I need to live where I work so I need to know who I am bringing home!!! 3/24 Back in Iowa, was work camping in Kentucky for the winter. Will be work camping about 20 minutes north west or Waverly Iowa til September. Sorry I am not answering all the messages. I pop on and answer a few at a time or I get overwhelmed. I do really try to read every one. I appreciate the time you spent sending me a message and it doesn’t go unnoticed. Please don’t think I gave up on answering you because I do appreciate you ***Only in the United States and not online!!! I am not into a digital relationship! please don’t waste our time with these types of relationship requests… 3/24 Newly divorced and really tired of being with men that are selfish and just do not know what love is! I am not looking for love anymore because I don’t believe some men that are serious about a relationship understand the meaning of love. ***I think I am just going to say if I find someone that is down to earth, loves to cuddle, hold hands, not afraid of PDA, is into kinky sex, wants to have a partner in life, kiss like they do in the movies, camp, go on walks, actually have conversations, want to actually spend time together even if it is just being in the same room, share new adventures with, trust, tell each other we do care about each other daily, can become best friends and learn from each other, I would be happy. ***I have always been the type that I could fall in love with the person I am with no matter what. I just need someone that can respect me and treat me better then the men I have been with. ***I am not someone to pass by so easily and not be noticed. I never had been. I am now getting older and beauty fades. I still need attraction to my partner as I expect they will too. I know I am very likable, honest and trustworthy. I would give to anyone that is in need. The problem is I have been giving for so long I have given up on the theory that you get what you put in! I call bullshit. I have given all my life and I seem to be the one walking away after the guy is done gaining off of me. I don’t need a man, I don’t need someone to take care of me, I don’t need to take care of a man either. What I do WANT is a compassionate, caring, empathetic, sensual and sexual partner. I am past “need” in my life. There is not chance my equal is on earth anyway. But I know there is a close equal out there that can compromise, care and fulfill. So the unicorn in my dreams he is my height or taller than me, uncut, thick, long, kinky and has the stamina of a lion in heat! BUT, like I said in my dreams… I just would actually be happy with someone that won’t lie to me, use me, hurt me, play with my feelings, must love fat women, and is wanting to spend time together… I really would like to travel. my dream is to buy an RV and do a work camping job, (like camp host). A full time traveling lifestyle. so if you can not do that it probably won’t work out either. (***I have achieved this! I am living my work camp lifestyle and it’s wonderful!) Maybe there is one guy, or two, that will be able to fill this position?

Adventure time is here and I am carefully exploring. I am a mom first and foremost, cancer sign and ADHD. Learning as I go :)

🍰 Sugar, Spice, and a whole lot of Depression! 💊 🕹️. 36 ♀️ F ♂️♀️ BiSexual ♊ Gemini 🎨 Art 🍃Nature 🎶Music 🐈 *** Lover🐙 Anime 🎮 Video Games *Updated: 1/10/2025* ⚠️ CHANCES OF ME RESPONDING TO YOUR MESSAGE ARE SLIM. I DON'T OWE YOU A RESPONSE ⚠️ * ⚠️ I have recently had a PAP done, and I am HPV+(Human Papilloma Virus). For the high-risk strains for possible cervical cancer. Not the worst thing I could get but I'm still stressed about it. Also, I have been exposed to HSV1⚠️* ♡ You can look, but you can't touch. ♡ All around, Brat. Submissive for the right people. Still semi new to engaging in kink. ♡ For those who are unaware, you have to earn a Submissives submission. A true Dominant knows this. Once great trust is established, only then will submission be given. So don't approach me thinking I'll automatically be submissive to you. Show me you are worthy of my submission. ♡ Just because I looked at your photos or liked them doesn't mean I want your dick on me or in me!! ♡ I am diagnosed Borderline Personality, Major Depression, General Anxiety. I'm quite sure I'm on the spectrum and have ADHD too, but I haven't pushed myself to do the proper tests. So, I am a rollercoaster of emotions. ♡ Play Age Range : 30 to 40 - I haven't had many stimulating conversations with those in their 20s, so even 25 is pushing it. - Haven't had relations with those in their 40s, so I'm not sure how I'll be with that. ♡ I do not fuck just to fuck. Connection is important to me. If you are here solely for hooking up or NSA(No strings attached)... Im not the right person. I only give myself to people I genuinely care about and who genuinely care about me. It's how my soul works. I'm leaning towards a KTP (kitchen table polyamory) style relationship, ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy). ♡ Mandatory -SSC (safe, sane, consensual) -CCCC (caring, communication, consent, and caution). ♡ More attracted to women/femmes. - For men, I prefer a slim to average build body type Easier on the hips. Not attracted to overly chubby or overly hairy. I wish that wasn't the case because I myself am chubby. ♡ One word messages won't get you very far. (Hi, hey, wyd). It just shows you aren't very engaging with conversation. ♡ More likely to respond to a gentleman. ♡ I don't use snapchat. I have discord or messenger. If I get comfortable enough conversing with you, I may give them out. ♡ I will not do calls or video chats unless I've gotten to know you.(sfw/nsfw) ♡ If you aren't paying my bills or regularly inside me, don't call me pet names. I'm not your baby!!! If the first interaction you have with me is a sexual advance, then I'll most likely block you!! *Don't know how long I'll keep this account. I'm on FetLife under the same username, Sw1tchKitt3n https://fetlife.com/users/15536052

I am a 50-year-old single female. I have been single for three years and now I am looking to expand in my sexuality and my sexual pleasure. I want to really experience not just orgasms but all the sensations of my body. I am new to BDSM and kink. I am bi curious. I would love to find a great connection and expand my sexual experiences.

21+ please - seeking interesting connections to explore. got out of a mono LTR, and i am not currently trying to attract anything closed. I identify as megasexual (need physical attraction to build emotional connection, opp od demisexual), a pillow princess🥺 and size queen😇 interested in free love, solo, parrallel, and 70s type poly; open to couples, only casually. - 90% sub, 0% dom, 10% raccoon🦝 extroverted, chaotic, ***fully clumsy, witty, weird, wild, loud, bright, happy, memorable, are all words used to describe me. I can be dark and gloomy, but only when the world is really getting me down😭 - in a spicy partner, I am looking for dominant attributes only, and I prefer a soft dom personality to anything else😍 -

happily partnered in an open relationship. At this moment in time looking primarily for other couples or group play, but open to playing separately. would love to make connection to Midwest kink/bdsm communities.

I am very inexperienced and very new to the app Friends? I'm 19, Demi/Pan, a nerd, fun to be around, creative, funny Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation are def top 3

Hey I'm new to this and some how have two accounts I don't know how it happened but it did. So I'm starting over with this one. I've had an overwhelming amount of messages on the other and can't keep up. I'm really only looking for locals unless you bring me to you. No offense to anyone but I don't just want to look I want to play. I'm definitely: A brat Spoiled Moody at times Funny Love to spoil with Affection if I'm into you. I'm respectful and expect the same back. I could go on but find out yourself. I get that this is a kink site but I'm not just looking for sex. I want passion and lust . Someone to take care of my needs . I need to be worshipped . To feel like I matter. Not just a good time.

I am a submissive , I am broken ... if you want me to explain further just ask.. I have a wheelchair, I have dentures. I'm a single mom.... I won't choose you over them..

I am married to a wonderful husband. We enjoy kink together and are curious about swinging along with the rest of our light kink. Hard Limits- ***, *** play, bodily fluids except cum, ass to mouth, Tickling anything that could cause bodily *** besides what is in my lists of what I would like to do.... must wear a condom PSA MY ACCOUNT AND PICS ARE NOT TO BE SHARED WITH ANY OTHER SITE OR PERSON OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. I WILL TAKE ACTION AGAINST ANYONE WHO DOES SAID ACTION. NOW THAT BEING SAID LETS GET KINKY!

Perfect dates are going for a hike, followed by a visit to a new local brewery or trying a new dinner spot and taking a walk nearby. I work hard during the week, fill my weekends with activities, and definitely can be a big ball of energy at times. I’m looking for a guy who can keep up and keep me on my toes, a guy who can say “bless you “ when I sneeze 😌🥰,I’m an easy going person and love long conversation too

I am an intellectual; I require mental stimulation, so bring on the intellectual conversations! I am a sapiosexual. Brains are sexy! I am currently finishing my B.A. in psychology. I enjoy a broad range of interests in art, history, herbalism, wildcrafting, and the sciences. I am a gamer. Ask for my top 5 favorite games! I am an Artist (of many different mediums). I enjoy gardening while listening to audiobooks and/or music. I enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie or two. Cuddling! (I'm a proud cuddle slut; I don't bite, though; only nibble with consent.) X3 Reading/listening to audiobooks. Outdoor activities such as gardening, hiking, going for walks, biking, swimming, camping, etc. I am a proud and practicing Norse Pagan and a Green Witch. Karma is very real, be kind.

hi my name is Michaela I am 20 years old and in a relationship with my dom, I am not actively looking for a dom but am open to talking and getting to know each other as friends until further notice as my partner and I want to give it some time before we open up the relationship and yes my partner has a profile but we wish to remain anonymous until said time I am a switch and am bi-curious with LIMITS, and my partner knows I am a little, little age being anywhere between 3-4

I'm 5'4" not a skinny Minnie. looking for local. have limited availability. ill let you know more as I get to know you. ages 35-55 please! do not come into my messages trying to dom me right away I will put you in your place. this is all about consent! when you block because I didn't respond within minutes shows me everything I need to know. I have a busy life and my phone is not in my hands 24/7.

Im a very experienced sub, looking for a Dom to play with. Up for almost anything when it comes to the BDSM world. (Device play is best) Bondage, tit play, ***, and so much more. Serious inquires only.

BBW Social ? Open/ENM Poly ?? Not a unicorn, please don't try. 2 kiddos, a baby girl and a ***age minion. Hedonist - I like to have a good time, 420 friendly, short but sassy. Looking for friends and more. I'm usually a homebody, enjoy most music, reading, and some gaming. Love a good thriller movie, not so much a fan of gore. I hate most comedy, and I've been accused of not having a sense of humor.

hopeless romantic who also has a near insatiable libido. huge sub!! i'm also a little new to this stuff but what i make up what i lack in experience with my passion

Adventure time is here and I am carefully exploring. I am a mom first and foremost, cancer sign and ADHD. Learning as I go :)

I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to things like this, but im eager to learn and try new things♡

Poly & partnered sub in Northeast Iowa. Looking for a long-term connection for kink-specific play.

I am a 47yr old little submissive. I'm still learning limits and general rules. the world is my playground and I wanna play

The hubby and I are looking for a female 3rd or a mf couple to to some spicy things in the bedroom together 😉 hubby is 26 6’1 dad bod Mrs is 19 bisexual bbw very kink friendly clean and drama free we’re both open books so feel free to ask us anything! pretty much down for anything!

I’m a submissive and I’m looking for a serious relationship with a Dom in my area. I’m curious to explore this side of myself with a trusting and experienced Dom. I’m not into anyone 35+ years old.

Taken by my wonderful Daddy Dom but looking to share the love with other D/s singles and couples. I’m a little girl submissive and always on the hunt for daddies and other littles to be friends with.

I am new to this. interesting in learning from people and making friends. Pretty introverted and just trying to expand my comfort zone.

30 years old, recently separated from a long term relationship. Ready to go out and have fun 😉 I like to flirt and message/send pics/videos. looking for someone to join me and my daddy Dom for some group fun time. 😼

open minded, kink friendly, love to be tied up, spanked and ***d! looking for like minded people! More pictures to whoever I connect with.

I'm typically shy and quiet till I get to know someone. Even tho I've been interested is all this for many years I have little to no experience. I've lived in the shadows long enough and am trying to come out a bit now

I enjoy pole dancing, aerial arts, sword fighting, listening to music, and cleaning. some simple pleasures I have are stepping on crunchy leaves, finding pretty rocks, and getting sweet treats. I am a big cuddle bug. my perfect date would be coffee, museums, and lots of cuddles (possibly punishment cause I just know I will be a brat). I will be shy and awkward at first, but once I settle in I’m very much a spicy little gremlin.

21+ please - seeking interesting connections to explore. got out of a mono LTR, and i am not currently trying to attract anything closed. I identify as megasexual (need physical attraction to build emotional connection, opp od demisexual), a pillow princess🥺 and size queen😇 interested in free love, solo, parrallel, and 70s type poly; open to couples, only casually. - 90% sub, 0% dom, 10% raccoon🦝 extroverted, chaotic, ***fully clumsy, witty, weird, wild, loud, bright, happy, memorable, are all words used to describe me. I can be dark and gloomy, but only when the world is really getting me down😭 - in a spicy partner, I am looking for dominant attributes only, and I prefer a soft dom personality to anything else😍 -