DO NOT SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST IF I HAVE NEVER MEET YOU IN PERSON, IT WILL BE DENIED
I WILL NOT RESPOND TO DICK PICS OR SEXUAL MESSAGES. IF YOU WOULDN’T TALK THAT WAY TO A STRANGER YOU MEET IN REAL LIFE, WHY DO IT HERE? JUST BECAUSE THIS IS A FETISH SITE DOESNT MEAN CONSENT AND RESPECT SHOULD BE TOSSED OUT THE WINDOW.
DONT CALL ME BABYGIRL, PRINCESS, BABY, SWEETIE OR ANY “CUTE” LITTLE NAMES YOU THINK ID LIKE BECAUSE IM A LITTLE. TITLES ARE EARNED.
Now that that’s out of the way….
Hiya!!!???? Im Ella!!! Flower Child, Aries♈️?, long hair, dope vibes, Artist, belly dancer, 420 friendly, Bisexual, romantic demisexual (only interested in a sexual relationship where the connection is deep and their is romance), poly, also…not gonna lie I’m territorial/jealous ?) fun, loving, Hufflepuff, video games, books, cartoons, movies, Marvel and DC, ***ting and picnicking out in nature, thrifting , shopping, metaphysical shop shopping, binge watching tv shows that pull you in, reading, drawing, trying new foods, cosplaying, yogee, exploring the world, service sub ( with the right don/dommee), princess?, Little ????,babygirl ?, rope bunny?, primal prey?, cuddle slut ?
Working on exploring my wants and needs, finding myself, taking it slow, becoming more comfortable with the skin I’m in, curious, wants to ask tons of questions and explore this world
If you’re just trying to have sex. I'm not what you're looking for. I’ll ignore your message. I'm here for friends, events, practicing/enforcing boundaries, growing as a person and a meaningful romantic partner/ Mommy/Daddy/switch
Don’t ask to meet me in the first couple of messages you write me. Sure fire way you’ll never hear from me again.
My Little: I love being a little. I love my pacis. I love my stuffies. I love being able to be small, feminine, safe and ***. ? That's such a beautiful thing, I can't explain it. Just to be able to let go and let someone else lead/care for me/make decisions for me and help me with things that make me anxious. If you want to become my Mommy/Daddy or Caregiver and can’t help me better my life AND it becomes clear you’re just trying to fuck, you aren’t worth my time. To show someone my full little side is something I can only do when I really really really trust someone and that takes time. I get very small and very *** and not everyone deserves to see that side of me. But to let someone take care of me while I’m in little space and show them love ??? ?, that’s amazing ❤️. I'm also a service sub (love providing acts of services to show my love and care but I like being respected and shown similar acts of services in return), princess?, and a robe bunny. I like to brat a little. Something I only really do if I feel safe and silly. Starting to like punishment (funishment) and certain levels of ***. (Wanting to increase my *** tolerance)
Being a Dom or a sub for someone is something I'd only do after getting to know someone on a deep level. I'm not going to dive into anything fast, I take my time. If you think taking MONTHS OR EVEN A YEAR OR TWO of time to get to know someone is to long BEFORE ENGAGING IN ANY DYNAMIC leave me alone, I'm not for you.
Stuff I like to do in Little Space
little space/being little is mostly non sexual for me
be needy/feeling wanted
little age is 3-4
wearing onesies/thigh high socks
using pacis
coloring
playing with legos
cuddling stuffies and Daddy
playing at parks
watching cartoons (Steven Universe, Hilda, Owl House, My Little Pony, etc)
being held
playing on my floor mats
being read to
taken on “field trips”
baths?
being taken care of
being talked to sweet/kindly
Being spanked/punished for bratting
being treated like a sweet little princess
I really want a Mommy,Daddy, or Caregiver that wants to do platonic activities with me (cooking, baking, having non sexual fun)
— soft limit - diapers - wore one once, never actually went in one
Help me stay little?
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/377HFV6AH44VS?ref_=wl_share
If you bought me something, let me know in a message
Primal: Wanting to explore my more primal side. Another way to give in, let go and live in the moment, unmasked…???? I love being out in nature even if spiders freak me out! I also love:
love being chased/being prey
CNC primal play - love to explore that
Deep gutteral Growling ?
scratching
Hair pulling
Telling me I belong to Daddy
Slapped
Being aggressive with little ole me ?
Wanna help keep me wild?
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3O5JAZ38SDO3K?ref_=wl_share
If you bought me something, let me know in a message
Flower Child: Kinda talked about it above: Hippie, long hair, crystal loving, sage burning, hammock in the yard, 420 friendly/educated, fur momma, belly dancing, Artist, dope vibes, yoga loving, love to read and learn, witchy absolutely!
Wanna help keep the hippie in me alive?
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/11JJS1CQNR23H?ref_=wl_share
If you bought me something, let me know in a message
Please don't ask me:
pics of myself (I like to be safe)
For sex
to meet me/ take me out as a little if I barely know you
very detailed sexual DDLG acts
don’t call me names like babygirl, sweetheart, sexy, princess, baby, little one, etc. You haven’t earned it just how the title Sir and Daddy have to be earned
What I want in a Mommy,Daddy or Caregiver
Mommy/Daddy Dom and Caregiver - I want to be taken care of
Primal Predator
Pleasure Dom
A hint of sadist doesn't hurt (to much)
Rope Rigger
Impact play
Sensual play
Switchy - I wanna be mistress and Mommy - I like to be more submissive then dominant, but definitely like experimenting with both
All races and sizes welcomed☺️
Financial stability - I want to be taken care of, don't gotta be rich, just willing to care/show effort
Effort - effort doesn't have to involve ***, just effort, show you care
Single or poly - i would like our relationship to become more, looking for LTR.
What I am looking for:
info about cool events involving:
--shirbari
--101 classes
--spirituality
--cool stuff
--psychology of kink
book recommendations (from education to sexy romance)
platonic friends and meaningful relationships
Education
Conversation and connection
People who think playing Pokemon Go is an acceptable form of exercise
Homies that frolic
more Hufflepuffs
more littles to hangout with ????
Fun game I’m playing, if you actually took the time to read my entire “about me” because you actually want to get to know me, have a real relationship/friendship/conversation/connection with me and understand that I don’t do casual sex, send a ? in the first message you send me, if you don’t I 100% sure will ignore your message.
Unfortunately waayyy to many creeps are in my inbox and don’t seem to understand what demisexual is. Or will try to get to know me just to see if they can be the exception, the answer is no. ????