I am seeking a woman who is truly a pleaser - someone who finds that she derives much of her own fulfillment from pleasing her Dom, and from giving over control to him even as he pleases her. I am not interested in some kind of mindless slave, but rather someone who is a person in her own right. She should have a mind and a sense of humor, and should not be afraid to use them at the appropriate times. I am looking for someone who will flourish under my guidance, not who seeks to lose herself in me. All ages, all races, all sizes.