***Warning this is hella long. If you expect to play, fuck me or have me fuck you; I expect you to have read this. Why? Because it's a roadmap. You'll see how I think and be able to read my personality. I hate having to explain myself over and over. You read this and we can skip a whole chunk of boring conversation. I'm a very fun eager sub but I believe the best experience comes from knowing parameters, so buckle up buttercup ! Also there's a LOT that I still haven't talked about and that I'm happy to chat about, so take this as a cheat sheet bc knowing it will help you get my pants off or skirt up that much sooner ???****
Looking to get Spanked, Spoiled, and to try out a LOT of different new kinks with a new Dom. (I do play with women and couples, but my current search is to find a consistent FWB Dom whom I can build trust with so I can really stretch my kink legs and see what I'm capable of.)
Im a 5'9, Bi, Latina (Chilean born but raised in US) BBW (300+) with brown ( purple undertone ) hair and eyes. My body is a pear-shaped build with a belly (which I'm rather self conscious about), 40D breasts, a bit of an ass and some "wiggly bits". I've been told I have "sexy eyes" and a great laugh. I understand quite a bit about kink lifestyles so I wouldn't call myself vanilla; but I'm new to physically experiencing certain things such as what I'm listing myself for.
Open to ONS, short and long term fun. Know that in true ADHD form I'm beyond horny and sex as kinetic play is a big YES for me, but I ask a lot of questions in the beginning to make sure I clarify my play boundaries and don't mess up yours.
Looking for those within the DC Annapolis Baltimore triangle. Know a couple things upfront: I don't pay... If we vibe, I have a high sex drive, I'm eager, and I consider myself adventurous...advantage YOU?
I can promise that indulging my bratty princess side winds me up more to be a fun horny sub who loves to suck the life out of you through your cock and please you for pleasure, punishment, and praise in return. The words "Good Girl" drive me ? ? ?
I can't host. I don't mind driving a bit to get to someone but on our first meet, (which hopefully will lead to first funsies if we have paced ourselves right) I like to meet in public first and see if we vibe in person. You'll decide where we go and by the end I'll let you know if we should get a room.
***You're doing well! Here's some cheat code stuff : ***
Some things about me:
*I am NOT a fan of dick pics*
If that's all you have on your profile or all you can think to send me, you've immediately irritated me and turned me OFF. It's one thing if I asked for it, but y'all are sending these too often unsolicited. Let there remain some mystery.... through clothing is fine-- IF I ask for it! Otherwise, I'm more of a strong/fit body, piercings, tattoos, EYES and smile gal.
I'm generally a cheerful person and I have a good sense of humor. I like ***s (fav is the elephant) and sailing or kayaking (water is my happy place). I'm the type of person that will jam out in the car and not care if other people are looking at me. ( I can't promise I'll always get the lyrics right and sometimes my harmony is off but I still enjoy it on a good day!)
Regarding me sexually:
I enjoy giving and receiving oral, don't lick ass but love a guy who does, can handle and generally enjoy anal, can also sometimes squirt and get multiple orgasms. RN I don't kiss or offer my pussy to other men. I prefer a Dom but if that Dom wanted to switch once in a while I have the ability but would want to discuss boundaries ahead of time. Im generally open minded and if we have agreed to something beforehand, I'm happy to throw your interests in the mix, but I don't like being surprised by something I was or didn't know if I'd be keen to do or have done to me.
* Faites attention! *
Important!:
I like getting spanked. I can be a bossy, loud, strong willed person outside of the bedroom and having to submit to a man to be chastised and disciplined REALLY gets my gears going. I like it as foreplay but I also like the idea of finding someone who can discipline me in sessions if he becomes a steady Dom. I have a relatively decent tolerance to ***, impact play - if paced correctly - takes a bit of effort because it can be tough for me to break into tears and, as a masochist, I like to sink into the ***. You'll have to have a sadist side and understand that important balance of teasing and punishment. if you're one of the naturals I'll be full sub putty in your hands or across your lap
What am I looking for?
Looking for someone 25-55. Drama and Disease Free. If you sleep around (no judgement) or are poly I don't play unless I can see proof of clean STI test. I don't mess with health stuff and take hygiene and that stuff seriously. I have been with different types of guys with different abilities so I don't judge. I just ask that I get to see a face and body pic. Full truth, I'm out here to get physical. I am attracted to many types and sizes of people, but if I'm not attracted to you A. I can't help it, it is what it is, and B I will be so respectful and do my best to gently let you know we may not be meant to cross paths in that way. Please respect that.
Interested in MD locals, or those willing to come to me and meet somewhere, I can't host or travel. I like a guy taller than 5'8 and with some muscle because I'm a bigger chick and I like to be handled a bit. (Now that can be hot athletic gym muscle or a BIT of a beer belly farm muscle, it really depends on your manners and charm. my fav body type are Ruggers. ??)
Sorry but-- I'm not the biggest fan of crazy bushy beards or long beards-- a couple weeks worth of growth or stubble is fine but if you can braid it or compete with it, I don't think we were meant to get together. It's an overwhelming sensory thing for me and I get the jibblies and can't focus on fun.
Some things that are important to me in this search:
*Respect, Manners, and Boundaries are key for me*
*I'm not on here to play games, or get ghosted when I ask about us meeting. I'm not here to solely sex chat and have you disappear. Nor am I trying to mess around with anyone, my words are honest. I'm looking for a chance at chemistry. *The vibe!* If there is some, and it works out, I promise I can be a lot of fun. Whether it's short term fun or becomes longer term, I'm open to possibilities.
*Also going to throw this out there, if we are planning to meet, please just show up when we plan. My extra fun time is precious and I don't like taking the time to do all the things women have to do in our society to prep for funsies and then have someone be a no show. My pics are a get what you get deal. I look that way and I am the age I listed. I'm a BBW woman and I have curves in many places. If you show, and I'm not your type-- we are all adults and I'd rather someone be respectfully blunt than waste my time waiting for a person who won't show. It's so beyond rude... and y'all, I'm horny AF most of the time, so not showing just ruins a night I could've been getting some?
*I like a good flirt and I like attention. Once I'm comfortable I'm happy to send photos. If I seem hesitant it's because I work with kids and don't want screenshots of myself "out there" on the net. *
* Im not on here to help anyone cheat. If you have a partner or more they need to know you and I are talking/meeting/ playing and they need to be ok with it.
*I'm married, we are ENM, he wants nothing to do with the sexual side of my life but wants me to be safe. I ask that he have a screenshot of your license, license plate, or some version of id that can identify you by your true name if I play with you. Note: saying no to this is a deal breaker, it has saved me from harm before.
* RN I don't kiss or offer my lady bits for penetration. Love gettig oral, being toyed and fingered, happy to use my mouth and my ass yours to have fun with. Come on me or in my mouth- but otherwise, please be ready to put a condom on. I will give oral without one and swallow if you have the clean STI test.
Regarding health stuff : I hope to meet with someone who has been vaccinated and is disease/std free. I have had mine as well as boosters, and am disease/ std free.
I am 420 friendly and and enjoy a drink from time to time. If you smoke cigarettes or cigars, please take precautions to clean up and chew gum or eat mints and use mouthwash before spending time with me, I'm not a fan.
Please be ready to share a face and non x-rated pic when/if we chat if it's not already in your profile. I work in a job with kids so I may hold off on showing my full face pic right away until I feel comfortable, but I will if I feel like you're cool and I'm interested in getting to know you better.
I'm absolutely all about safety, respect, and communication. I can be blunt and overly eager to talk sometimes due to my ADHD. I also may not be able to chat until after 830pm most nights because we have a family and I don't want things showing up on my phone that my gremlins could see. I ask for patience and gentle reminders to slow down if we chat and I talk too fast/ too much at once.
I have same name and chat on the app that sounds like what you do to a ⚽ and my snap is the same but minus one of the double p's. if you message, have a screenshot of your profile so I know you found me on here.
I look forward to meeting you guys on here and hope y'all are having a nice day.
