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I enjoy being a slut online. Chatting, playing, sharing photos and videos. I am passionate, sensual, and love to serve. I can also be a bit of a brat at times. But my true goal is to provide pleasure in a happy, positive way. I love to have fun. I am a BBW so if that is not your cup of tea, that is completely fine. please just walk on by. I believe in treating everyone with basic human respect. we all have our likes and dislikes. I believe in lifting people up, and can respect that everyone likes different things. I don’t judge and will never kink shame. I look for the beauty in each person, usually found under their skin. I am always exploring and evolving and find new kinks I like or things I am just no longer into. I enjoy chatting with people however I need mental stimulation just as much as physical. I am not looking for an IRL hookup or relationship right now. I am just looking for some online fun and friends. I do enjoy passion, exhilaration, intensity and some *** with my pleasure. Not all the time, but it can be fun occasionally. Having said that I am not a *** slut. I also am not into ***. I bruise easily and find some bruises artistic and colorful. But I will not participate in consistent impact play or leaving marks. I do recognize when my body needs to heal. And there are other fun things to do in the meantime. Feel free to ask me anything. I am not always on here but when I am I enjoy chatting.
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m mostly on here looking for a long-term dom in-person experience or a kinky causal hookup/date with a dom But open for cyber fun/pic exchange I’m new to BDSM world but willing to learn & have fun exploring my kinks/fantasies on here See where it leads me 💋😈 Feel free to message me
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m an intuitive, magnetic, and self-assured individual who places deep value on authentic connection, emotional intimacy, and both personal and spiritual evolution. BDSM, for me, is far more than just physical activity—it’s a meaningful avenue for expression and connection. That said, I genuinely enjoy the play itself and am deeply engaged in the lifestyle. I’m drawn to experiences that invite emotional presence and mental attunement, whether the connection is rooted in friendship, romance, or something in between. My style of play is diverse—I appreciate intensity and edge when the mood calls for it, but I’m equally fulfilled by soft, tender, and emotionally nurturing scenes. There’s something profoundly satisfying in sharing vulnerability, affection, or even a playful laugh with someone in the middle of a scene. At times, I’m also pulled toward the shadowy, more introspective aspects of the human experience—delving into psychological or emotional terrain with curiosity and care, always within a space of mutual trust and safety. What matters most to me is connection across multiple levels. I thrive when a scene leaves both my partner and me feeling emotionally enriched, mentally engaged, and, in the right dynamic, spiritually aligned. Simple, sensual play can absolutely be joyful and bonding—but I’m most drawn to experiences that allow for depth, discovery, and transformation. I engage in kink for many reasons: to bond with cherished friends or lovers; to share joy and laughter; to explore the landscape of the mind and heart; to release, heal, or grow; to deepen power dynamics within lifestyle relationships; and to honor something greater through spiritual practice. For me, BDSM is not just an activity—it’s a powerful, life-affirming expression of self and relationship. It’s a meaningful, evolving part of who I am. who do i like to meet, i will like to meet a sub who know the difference between strenght and sturbborness, i want someone with solid sense of self worth someone who is happy being who is he. naturally he will be the complement of what i want and he most enjoy pleasing his lady, his not the type who judge and his ready to embrace all of me. I'm drawn to a submissive who understands the distinction between true strength and mere stubbornness—someone grounded, self-assured, and content in his own skin. He knows his worth and stands confidently in who he is, without the need for pretense. Ideally, he’s a natural complement to my energy—eager to please, not out of obligation, but out of joy and devotion to the woman he serves. Judgment has no place in his heart. Instead, he embraces openness, vulnerability, and the full spectrum of who I am—body, mind, and spirit.
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
The Power You Crave, The Discipline You Need I am not here to entertain requests, I am here to be served. Submission is a privilege, not a right, and only the truly devoted earn my attention. If you wish to kneel before me, understand this: obedience is mandatory, and proving your worth is also. I take pleasure in control, discipline, and molding you into something useful. Are you ready to surrender completely, to be trained, tested, and owned. 📍 Sessions by arrangement, for the truly devoted 💌 Approach with respect or don’t approach at all Do you dare to serve? Let’s find out.
Female (29) Boston, Massachusetts
Men in our time often expect that a woman in a relationship will perform his functions. Probably there are many modern girls who behave like men. And this is wrong. A man should still be a man. Therefore, in the relationship, I would not want to be strong and determined I hope that my man will soon be found
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a woman who has a lot of empathy. I love to talk a lot with my partner, talking about likes, dislikes and projects that each one wants. I am one to share a lot at home and anywhere as long as it is with my family or my partner. I am characterized by being a homey woman.
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
Curvaceous Irish girl Indian complexion light skin BBW long legs soft nice breasts sweet smelling beautiful smile fun mood lovable gal love to meet new acquaintances for returning and always having a good time thank you XOXO hugs and kisses let's have a good time let's chat
Female (42) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an adventurous, open-minded soul who thrives on connection and exploration. As a switch, I revel in the dynamic thrill of taking control just as much as surrendering it to the right partner. Role play and rope play ignite my imagination and passion, allowing me to delve into the seductive dance of power and pleasure. While I don't seek *** for myself, I have a certain flair for delivering it when the scene calls for it. I'm on a journey of self-discovery in the world of BDSM and would love a partner who's eager to join me, helping refine my skills and explore the depths of this tantalizing lifestyle together. telegram: @queenlisa509 snap: @lisa.marcellus
Female (28) Boston, Massachusetts
i believe life is best lived with a blend of laughter , curiosity , and meaningful moments . whether its cozy night in the good Book or spontaneous road trips .
Female (58) Boston, Massachusetts
I love to explore new things I am interested in relationships based on mutual respect, trust, and open communication. I value a partner who supports my goals and dreams, and with whom I can share the joys and challenges of life. I am attracted to relationships that are filled with love, understanding, and shared interests
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a 21 year old girl, I'm skinny, big butty, small tits, naturally brunnet but I do have blond highlights, my eyes are light brown. I'm a sweet baby girl, with low experience, but lots of fire looking for a daddy. To teach and train me how to be a good submissive. I want someone caring who can teach me slowly and respect my limits. Sometimes I like to be a little brat and be punished with slaps in my butt or face. I want a daddy to use resTraints. That treats me like a baby girl, take care of me and protect me as yours.
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a Pro Domme, as well as a woman, just looking for new friends and maybe a connection. I love this lifestyle and the amazing people I have met, both professionally and personally. My journey has allowed me to meet fellow kinksters and BDSM enthusiasts from all over the world. While I am not currently looking for any subs/slaves/play partners/lovers, I am always open to new friends. I believe a dynamic, if meant to be, will form organically. Feel free to message me, however if I find your message creepy or disrespectful, you will be blocked. I only offer online sessions to certain subs and slaves. I will be back in London this spring, Australia this summer, Korea and Japan this fall. While I’ll be meeting up with current friends, I would love to meet up with some new friends. XO~ M
Female (49) Boston, Massachusetts
Brat Advocate | Timeout Abolitionist | General Ball of Joy 😤🤭 Hi there, I'm Mishka - a sweet, incredibly nerdy, deeply kinky s-type. I'm passionate about everything from books to board games, TTRPGS, learning, languages, deep conversation, media analysis, film, cooking, gardening and more. Casually looking for a kind, intellectual d-type but searching for connection first as my dynamics start with shared interests and great conversation. Kink runs deep with me and is a part of my everyday life. I'm open to all sorts of connections but I tend toward gentle Dominants with wild appetites who display affection and control in equal measure, especially Daddy Doms, Owners, Tamers and those looking for a treasured toy. Please do: be attracted to curvy women, be open to experimentation, be interested in connecting on a level that's more than physical. Connection first - message with something you're passionate about. Just in case it needs to be said: lefty, witchy, not interested in moderates or those right of center. Current interests: Daddy or caregiver top, some interest in dollification, objectification, praise, sensuality, ownership, breeding, sensory overwhelm, pleasure masochism (forc*d orgasm/mindbreak), degrad*tion, bondage, CNC, conditioning. Not interested in dominating anyone. Come find me in the lobby chat!
Female (29) Boston, Massachusetts
*if you don’t have pics i’m NOT going to chat with you* i CANT host. i've been loving myself more lately and want to share it!! looking for a tease?? here i am 😋😋 i love testing my limits and boundaries, and how far they can be pushed!! i love trying new things sexually!!! i love to be teased back!! looking for a consistent play partner(s), *IN PERSON!! NOT INTO:* random/anonymous hookups, online relationships, cybersexting or long distance. send me a message, i’m an open book 😘😘
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
My name is Goddess Jasmine.👸🏻🇮🇹 I'm a fiesty italian Dominatrix with many different kinks. But I'm always down to explore and try new things. My favorite kinks are ***, degrading, cbt, chastity, ass worship/body worship, mindfcking, tease & denial, sissification, feminization, ***d bi, cuckold, and more. Pretty, entitled girls like me live a comfortable, luxurious life on easy mode. I love having a nonstop conveyor belt of simps to break, rewire, and mold into obedient play toys. Once you submit, I will become your #1 priority. No more decisions, no more independence. Just me using you however I see fit. And I always get what I want. Side note, Victoria's Secret is a fav of mine, so be prepared. I love lingerie, and you love to worship me. It's a win-win. I'm not really looking for anything in particular, but I'm always open to adding a new sub to my stable. Only if we are a good fit and the chemistry is there. You MUST be ready to listen and follow my rules. Lack of communication, lying, and being disloyal are dealbreakers for me. Lastly, I will ALWAYS be in charge and never ever looking to switch. So i'm not sure why my inbox is flooded with men who are strictly dominant.🤢 But I promise you, you're wasting your time, so don't even bother.😘
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m an absolute fiend for giving blow jobs. I have a lot of interest in the bdsm world but I have never acted on them. I’m curious to see this side of sexual life as it’s not spoken about much and I hate that Please don’t message if your over 40 Also if u wanna know what I look like I’ll send through chat just don’t wanna anyone I know to see me.
Female (25) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m 5’10 and curvy. I’m a natural sub but with women theres something sexy about controlling her pleasure so I consider myself a switch. I want to play and experience more connections than I have. I love men and women equally and am open to meeting couples. I’m craving that sexy person to tie me down, and play with me, until I’m begging them not to make me cum again. Not looking for a one night stand… compatibility is key. Does anyone else get off on how much experience (and how that experience manifests in all kinds of kinks and pleasures) your partner has? I’ve watched and been turned on by so much, now it’s time for me to experience things myself. And btw, kissing is extra sexy and turns me on…especially with someone dominant! **Desires and Fantasies** bondage, orgasm control, sensory play/deprivation, toys, PnP, rope & electrostim toys ;)
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a brat who knows I deserve to be spoiled. I take delight in humbling the privileged, reminding them that I embody Goddess Lilith and Mother Eve. Honor your queen with an offering—empty your accounts in my name.
Female (41) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a strong, powerful, beautiful warrior goddess here to fulfill, your fantasy of being a submissive, slave, or pet... if you would like to be a client of mine for play, please be ready to experience the greatest domme around!!! I gravitate towards the elite slaves, who are ready and willing to do whatever I say to please me!!!
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
esp/eng please don’t call me any pet name without asking first, i find it to be cringe. really big on connection and communication. switch, I would like to explore topping more. i adapt to my partners needs. safe words are necessary. Dom/mes require aftercare as well. I also enjoy anime, goth things, spooky things, soft things, girly things, learning new facts.I’m also here to network ^^
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
In an open relationship.Not looking to change my situation. Partner is A-Okay w me being on here. Looking for someone to have ongoing fun times with, both in and out of the bedroom. NOT A HOOK UP OR 1 NIGHT STAND.
Female (43) Boston, Massachusetts
honestly looking for someone to experiment with and try new kink stuff. most of all I want to be cut into and play with ***. just be nice to me im nervous!!!! ^_^ also would love to find a dominant for cnc roleplay I'll try most things, just ask ... just no ***
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
So I'm happily married but I'm on here to chat with people and just see what this whole other world is about. I'm not really looking to meet up unless it's just for a drink.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts

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I’m an intuitive, magnetic, and self-assured individual who places deep value on authentic connection, emotional intimacy, and both personal and spiritual evolution. BDSM, for me, is far more than just physical activity—it’s a meaningful avenue for expression and connection. That said, I genuinely enjoy the play itself and am deeply engaged in the lifestyle. I’m drawn to experiences that invite emotional presence and mental attunement, whether the connection is rooted in friendship, romance, or something in between. My style of play is diverse—I appreciate intensity and edge when the mood calls for it, but I’m equally fulfilled by soft, tender, and emotionally nurturing scenes. There’s something profoundly satisfying in sharing vulnerability, affection, or even a playful laugh with someone in the middle of a scene. At times, I’m also pulled toward the shadowy, more introspective aspects of the human experience—delving into psychological or emotional terrain with curiosity and care, always within a space of mutual trust and safety. What matters most to me is connection across multiple levels. I thrive when a scene leaves both my partner and me feeling emotionally enriched, mentally engaged, and, in the right dynamic, spiritually aligned. Simple, sensual play can absolutely be joyful and bonding—but I’m most drawn to experiences that allow for depth, discovery, and transformation. I engage in kink for many reasons: to bond with cherished friends or lovers; to share joy and laughter; to explore the landscape of the mind and heart; to release, heal, or grow; to deepen power dynamics within lifestyle relationships; and to honor something greater through spiritual practice. For me, BDSM is not just an activity—it’s a powerful, life-affirming expression of self and relationship. It’s a meaningful, evolving part of who I am. who do i like to meet, i will like to meet a sub who know the difference between strenght and sturbborness, i want someone with solid sense of self worth someone who is happy being who is he. naturally he will be the complement of what i want and he most enjoy pleasing his lady, his not the type who judge and his ready to embrace all of me. I'm drawn to a submissive who understands the distinction between true strength and mere stubbornness—someone grounded, self-assured, and content in his own skin. He knows his worth and stands confidently in who he is, without the need for pretense. Ideally, he’s a natural complement to my energy—eager to please, not out of obligation, but out of joy and devotion to the woman he serves. Judgment has no place in his heart. Instead, he embraces openness, vulnerability, and the full spectrum of who I am—body, mind, and spirit.
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
Men in our time often expect that a woman in a relationship will perform his functions. Probably there are many modern girls who behave like men. And this is wrong. A man should still be a man. Therefore, in the relationship, I would not want to be strong and determined I hope that my man will soon be found
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a woman who has a lot of empathy. I love to talk a lot with my partner, talking about likes, dislikes and projects that each one wants. I am one to share a lot at home and anywhere as long as it is with my family or my partner. I am characterized by being a homey woman.
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
The Power You Crave, The Discipline You Need I am not here to entertain requests, I am here to be served. Submission is a privilege, not a right, and only the truly devoted earn my attention. If you wish to kneel before me, understand this: obedience is mandatory, and proving your worth is also. I take pleasure in control, discipline, and molding you into something useful. Are you ready to surrender completely, to be trained, tested, and owned. 📍 Sessions by arrangement, for the truly devoted 💌 Approach with respect or don’t approach at all Do you dare to serve? Let’s find out.
Female (29) Boston, Massachusetts
Curvaceous Irish girl Indian complexion light skin BBW long legs soft nice breasts sweet smelling beautiful smile fun mood lovable gal love to meet new acquaintances for returning and always having a good time thank you XOXO hugs and kisses let's have a good time let's chat
Female (42) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a 21 year old girl, I'm skinny, big butty, small tits, naturally brunnet but I do have blond highlights, my eyes are light brown. I'm a sweet baby girl, with low experience, but lots of fire looking for a daddy. To teach and train me how to be a good submissive. I want someone caring who can teach me slowly and respect my limits. Sometimes I like to be a little brat and be punished with slaps in my butt or face. I want a daddy to use resTraints. That treats me like a baby girl, take care of me and protect me as yours.
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m mostly on here looking for a long-term dom in-person experience or a kinky causal hookup/date with a dom But open for cyber fun/pic exchange I’m new to BDSM world but willing to learn & have fun exploring my kinks/fantasies on here See where it leads me 💋😈 Feel free to message me
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an adventurous, open-minded soul who thrives on connection and exploration. As a switch, I revel in the dynamic thrill of taking control just as much as surrendering it to the right partner. Role play and rope play ignite my imagination and passion, allowing me to delve into the seductive dance of power and pleasure. While I don't seek *** for myself, I have a certain flair for delivering it when the scene calls for it. I'm on a journey of self-discovery in the world of BDSM and would love a partner who's eager to join me, helping refine my skills and explore the depths of this tantalizing lifestyle together. telegram: @queenlisa509 snap: @lisa.marcellus
Female (28) Boston, Massachusetts
i believe life is best lived with a blend of laughter , curiosity , and meaningful moments . whether its cozy night in the good Book or spontaneous road trips .
Female (58) Boston, Massachusetts
I love to explore new things I am interested in relationships based on mutual respect, trust, and open communication. I value a partner who supports my goals and dreams, and with whom I can share the joys and challenges of life. I am attracted to relationships that are filled with love, understanding, and shared interests
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
I enjoy being a slut online. Chatting, playing, sharing photos and videos. I am passionate, sensual, and love to serve. I can also be a bit of a brat at times. But my true goal is to provide pleasure in a happy, positive way. I love to have fun. I am a BBW so if that is not your cup of tea, that is completely fine. please just walk on by. I believe in treating everyone with basic human respect. we all have our likes and dislikes. I believe in lifting people up, and can respect that everyone likes different things. I don’t judge and will never kink shame. I look for the beauty in each person, usually found under their skin. I am always exploring and evolving and find new kinks I like or things I am just no longer into. I enjoy chatting with people however I need mental stimulation just as much as physical. I am not looking for an IRL hookup or relationship right now. I am just looking for some online fun and friends. I do enjoy passion, exhilaration, intensity and some *** with my pleasure. Not all the time, but it can be fun occasionally. Having said that I am not a *** slut. I also am not into ***. I bruise easily and find some bruises artistic and colorful. But I will not participate in consistent impact play or leaving marks. I do recognize when my body needs to heal. And there are other fun things to do in the meantime. Feel free to ask me anything. I am not always on here but when I am I enjoy chatting.
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
honestly looking for someone to experiment with and try new kink stuff. most of all I want to be cut into and play with ***. just be nice to me im nervous!!!! ^_^ also would love to find a dominant for cnc roleplay I'll try most things, just ask ... just no ***
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
*if you don’t have pics i’m NOT going to chat with you* i CANT host. i've been loving myself more lately and want to share it!! looking for a tease?? here i am 😋😋 i love testing my limits and boundaries, and how far they can be pushed!! i love trying new things sexually!!! i love to be teased back!! looking for a consistent play partner(s), *IN PERSON!! NOT INTO:* random/anonymous hookups, online relationships, cybersexting or long distance. send me a message, i’m an open book 😘😘
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a brat who knows I deserve to be spoiled. I take delight in humbling the privileged, reminding them that I embody Goddess Lilith and Mother Eve. Honor your queen with an offering—empty your accounts in my name.
Female (41) Boston, Massachusetts
Hello naughties of all flavors. New here but I have been in the fetish/BDSM world for years. **Male subs to the front of the line.** I am an experienced Domme and currently considering subs. Approach with respect and humility. If your profile is empty, I will probably not respond. I am a sensual Domme and disciplinarian. I specialize in beginner subs. Not much of a sadist or humiliator, but definitely strict. If this is your kink: happy to check out your pics and profile, and chat briefly to see if we match. for subs with potential, there is an application and consultation process. Ask me more. Oh c'mon, nothing to be afraid of 😏😉
Female (43) Boston, Massachusetts
Craving a connection that blends elegance, control, and quiet devotion. I appreciate those who understand the unspoken language of power and are eager to serve in ways that are not physical. Discretion is expected. Tribute is understood. Let’s keep it soft, sharp, and silent. #DiscretionOnly #PowerExchange #ObedienceIsLuxury #TributeOnly #FindomVibes
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
So I'm happily married but I'm on here to chat with people and just see what this whole other world is about. I'm not really looking to meet up unless it's just for a drink.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
In an open relationship.Not looking to change my situation. Partner is A-Okay w me being on here. Looking for someone to have ongoing fun times with, both in and out of the bedroom. NOT A HOOK UP OR 1 NIGHT STAND.
Female (43) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a prisoner of hope who believes in the best and sees the good in people. I’m relationship ready. Looking for a happily ever after, my forever KINKY MATE, which doesn’t mean perfection, it means two people willing to work hard on their love no matter what. Attraction is a feeling, Love is a verb. If you are willing to put into, I believe you can have both forever.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
I work hard at a job I love … and in my off-hours, looking to add some flirtation and to explore my submissive side. I don’t have too much kink experience at this point so hoping to find someone(s) I like and trust enough to help me change that. . Very curious and observant; also cautious and can be somewhat shy at first. I love learning, pleasing, and following directions, especially when praise is on offer. Crave psychological tension, anticipation, sensory experiences. More restraint; less impact. . I also welcome hearing about any fun Fet app experiences you’ve had. I love stories. . ages outside 34-54 blocked from messaging.
Female (44) Boston, Massachusetts
My name is Goddess Jasmine.👸🏻🇮🇹 I'm a fiesty italian Dominatrix with many different kinks. But I'm always down to explore and try new things. My favorite kinks are ***, degrading, cbt, chastity, ass worship/body worship, mindfcking, tease & denial, sissification, feminization, ***d bi, cuckold, and more. Pretty, entitled girls like me live a comfortable, luxurious life on easy mode. I love having a nonstop conveyor belt of simps to break, rewire, and mold into obedient play toys. Once you submit, I will become your #1 priority. No more decisions, no more independence. Just me using you however I see fit. And I always get what I want. Side note, Victoria's Secret is a fav of mine, so be prepared. I love lingerie, and you love to worship me. It's a win-win. I'm not really looking for anything in particular, but I'm always open to adding a new sub to my stable. Only if we are a good fit and the chemistry is there. You MUST be ready to listen and follow my rules. Lack of communication, lying, and being disloyal are dealbreakers for me. Lastly, I will ALWAYS be in charge and never ever looking to switch. So i'm not sure why my inbox is flooded with men who are strictly dominant.🤢 But I promise you, you're wasting your time, so don't even bother.😘
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
looking for older male and or female to be kinky for I’m submissive and freaky message me I want to call you daddy and I can be kind of a lil brat ☺️
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
confident daddy doms are extremely attractive to me. one that doesn’t have to be mean but knows when to be masculine..one that doesn’t need to yell or loud to be heard and obeyed..one who enjoys fulfilling *** fantasy’s and role play while at the same will gently remind me of my consequences when I’m misbehaving
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts

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