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In the lifestyle for almost 30 years, I'm grieving the loss of my Dominant, who is living in a long term care facility. Desires don't end, though. As I heal, I find myself wondering if I will ever again feel an orgasm at the end of a single tail... whether I will ever again know the feeling of complete satiety after screaming for hours as orgasm after orgasm takes over my bound body... and whether I will ever again yield to a man (woman?) who knows how to fully use my body as an instrument for pleasure. **Desires and Fantasies** BDSM is a sexual event, accompanied by *** and pleasure and all the naughty things that reside deep inside. I like all forms of sensation play, bondage, and mindfucks. I am poly, heteroflexible and somewhat of a switch. After years of exploration, I find myself identifying mostly as a sexual submissive, although God knows that there is enough evidence of masochism in my past to fill a two volume Russian novel. I'm not slave material. I won't dishonor my husband giving someone else ownership over me while he is still alive. I am also grieving. I will need to feel some kind of respect for where I am before I can yield too much of myself. To that end, no nude pics and no hookups. I'm not opposed to cyber, but you must be real.
Female (57) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I’m 22 next month! just moved here to Minneapolis! I’m PuertoRican/AfroAmerican. AI’m looking for fwb, especially kinky ones. I have a lot of interests, so don’t be shy to text me and tell me what you like! I’m into all genders, but I am looking to explore more with girls, open to being a dom but I mostly want to be a sub. with MALES I desire to be a SUPER SUB
Female (22) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Hey All! Been in the kink scene for 20 years now!!! Not looking to gain more partners, just looking for flirty friendship & discussion at this point in time. Excitable, laid back, but, out going. I love discussing experiences & bouncing ideas.
Female (38) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I’m still new to this, but I want to learn and explore. Looking for something long-term that lasts. (FWB & ONS do *not* interest me!) Submissive, sometimes bratty. Praise kink. Definitely into DD/LG, pet play, and bondage. ;) !!!Please treat me like your princess, not your wh0re. I wanted to be loved & cared for, not just degraded!!!
Female (21) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Not particularly seeking to meet new people at this time. unless if you possess something extraordinary, and have higher than typical emotional intelligence, I won’t have the time to get to know people or invest in getting to know many people.
Female (43) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I’m looking for one person I can explore with and build trust. ideally a long term relationship. i do not like to share honestly.. I am into older men ?? very new to the world of kink and haven’t explore much..
Female (23) Saint Paul Park, Minnesota
Single mom. Looking for my first Dom or going to events to getting involved in the community.
I'd describe myself like a habenareo pepper rolled in sugar. Sweet and spicy. Ideally, I'm looking to make a connection with someone with whom I can create a safe and comfortable space to explore and experiment with my variety of curiosities.
Female (39) Saint Paul, Minnesota
bratty sub pansexual I love it rough, shibari, full fantasy’s, ***, 3 sums, and am open to most kinks. I hope you have a tarp, I will make it rain for hours when I’m in complete submission. please talk dirty to me, forplay is everything.
Female (35) Saint Paul, Minnesota
sub looking for her dom. please don’t message me if you’re under 25 or over 38. I will just end up blocking you… also please don’t message me if you’re more than 300 miles away. not interested in long distance or exchanging pics only
Female (24) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I use any and all pronouns! (genderqueer) (Recently single so not looking for any actual relationships rn rip) Im an Extrovert with Social Anxiety??, 24, and have ADHD(and many other brain funs!) Looking for everything or anything kind of, I guess???? I have for YEARS had such an INTENSE constant need and want to be more out going, and to have more sexual encounters, but havent ever been able to let myself ever really come even close to even going out places on my own lmao- ? Im still just learning to drive, and I can have people over AT ALL(long story but my household is chill lmao) and I dont even have absolutely any horny friends?? let alone kink friends ?? and would love to at least exchange pics and vids with anyone and MAYBE hopefully have hookups and/or make connections- and am definitely into just being strangers for some fun- BUT ALSO- would really love to make some friends- be it brief pals or potentially long term pals! to both go out and do stuff with and/or chat and exchange advice and knowledge with! :3 (only recently been using reddit! Im u/BigBad4276! rip it was an auto-given name)
Female (24) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I'm sarcastic, especially when crabby. I can swing from extremely literal to deeply whimsical in 2.3 seconds. I can be moody and quiet. I can be bubbly and talk your ear off. I'm curvy/fat/plus size/full figured: not saying this to be self-deprecating. Calling a spade a spade. I'm not changing anything for anyone, I am who I am, quirks and all. I go through random hyperfixations, which can lead to me ignoring everyone and everything for hours or even days. I've identified as kinky longer than not.
Female (38) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Ready to explore, expand, and experience. Safety, consent and communication are important. Vaccinated. Respectful experiences with open minded, kind, and curious people. I would like to experience play with a woman (women). GGG. I have a double sided dildo I’d love to share with a lady… or male. Who wants to hide and “spy” on me masturbating? I have an F-Slider Pro that I adore. I’m thick and comfortable. DDF you must be too. Also, sober AF. I don’t play with partners who are under the influence of any mind or mood altering substances. I am a private person. You do not have consent to use any of my photos.
Female (51) Saint Paul, Minnesota
In an enm relationship, demisexual, and looking for like minded people for friendship, fun, kink exploration, relationship or whatever fits. Let’s try to have some good conversation before diving in. I don't do hookups or random meetups without getting to know someone first, so if you start with some invitation to do so, know you will be ignored. We all adults so let's be respectful ?
I’m a brat, slut and a sub. I love to be controlled. I’m into Consensual Nonconsensual and have always wanted to be taken advantage of and total power exchange. I am also into bdsm, bondage, restraints, hair pulling, face slapping, neck choking and far more.
Female (20) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Not looking for a Daddy Dom...move along please. I'm a goddess, babe, act accordingly. I'll probably get naked if you do ?
Female (46) Saint Paul, Minnesota
22, Scorpio, I love horror movies and my friends are my ride or died :) just looking to have fun! send me *** and I’ll send you tit pics and more ;) findom
Female (23) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I have a crush on >6 feet tall, dark-haired men with beards and huge cocks. I really am 5'11" flat foot, in heels I'm 6'2" I weigh 210 lbs. 40"D x 39" x 45" I'm a big woman. _______________________________________ _______________________________________ If you want my attention share something about yourself and reference something in my profile that is not based on my looks. This is so I know I'm not getting the same generic introduction you give to all the pretty faces you've swiped right on. _______________________________________ _______________________________________ _What I'm Looking For:_ A partner, someone who is in this for the long haul, a best friend who is also my lover. I want a lifetime with you, not just a hookup. I want consistency, trust, permanence, stability, connection, reliability. I want Love. In the bedroom I want you to be in charge, sir. I want to be your woman, your baby girl (not your slut, not your whore). I want you to spank me, *** me, tell me how you're going to fuck me. Passionate kisses, bottom lip biting, hair pulling, leave pretty purple bruises. Fuck me everyway you can imagine. Make me your toy. Flip me around. Tell me to stay. Tie me up, cuff me, spreader bar, flog me. Fuck me so no one else will be able to satisfy me again except you. Make me yours and only yours. I want to please you! Tell me what you want me to do, please sir. I'm a biter. I squirt, if you touch me just right I gush. I need frequent rehydration. Afterwards hold me, cuddle me, forehead kisses, hand holding, our legs intertwined, be sweet to me, cherish me, please, sir. I'll make you breakfast in bed and wash you head to toe. I'll worship you if you make me feel loved and wanted. _____________________________________ _____________________________________ ABOUT ME (non-kink related): During the cold winter seasons when it's just too damn cold to go outside I like to binge TV shows and movies while I knit or embroider or sew or bake. If the weather is pleasant and I have the time and *** I'd like to cross country ski, downhill ski, snowboard, and snowshoe. I enjoy sledding, making snowmen, snow angels, ice skating and being outdoors. If you ice fish and/or hunt, I'd love to learn how! During the hot summer days I like to go swimming, canoeing, kayaking, hiking, just about anything outside. I love camping in the autumn (less bugs). I used to camp in the boundary waters for a week at a time, even when it snows. I'd spend a month out there if I could. I love Halloween and attending "haunted" attractions. I've done scuba diving and snorkeling in the past, but it's been years; I'd love to do it again. I enjoy roller skating, visiting museums, seeing tourist attractions, traveling, attending sporting events (soccer & hockey), walking tours. I like going to the movies, attending plays, concerts, festivals, fairs. I also love days, even weeks of just lounging around inside doing nothing. I am an introvert, down time is important to me. ________________________________________ _________________________________________ My dream is to own 40 acres in the Cascade mountains, raising alpaca, sheep, goats, and chickens while working as a superintendent at a golf course. The chickens will be named "Winner Winner" "Broasted" "Baked" "Fried" and "Alfredo". The alpaca and sheep for are creating yarn. The goat is for making cheese. I want to live off grid as much as practically possible. I have a 65 lbs dog named after a Star Wars character, he is non-negotiable. I like dogs better than most people. I want to own cats and more dogs and name them all after Star Wars characters. I love to travel! I've been to Vancouver, Cozumel, Nassau, all over England and Scotland, Paris, Giverny, Venice, Florence, Rome, Athens, Tokyo, Kyoto, Hiroshima, Honolulu, San Diego, Chicago, NYC, D.C., Grand Canyon, Yellowstone, all over Colorado, and a few other places. _______________________________________ ________________________________________ I love most music, all types (not a fan of rap or country, of course I like some Dolly and Cash). I like big band, classic rock, alternative, folk, classical, pop punk, rock, ska, and most everything throughout the ages. I know Bob Dylan wrote it before Hendrix made it famous. I will choose the Beatles over Elvis every time. I like to read, mostly sci-fi and fantasy. Movies and TV shows I like: Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Marvel universe, comedies, historical, war films, musicals, apocalyptic, geek themed, horror (to a point). _________________________________________ _________________________________________ I am employed fulltime. I have health, dental, and vision insurance, a pension, my own bank accounts, my own vehicle, my own apartment (no roommate). I can support myself and will pay for my own drinks and dinner if we go out. I am in school again, fulltime and working full-time which makes my time to date very limited right now. Please don't get all ***y if it takes me a few days to respond to your messages. I have a 4-year Bachelor's degree from a private college. I'm currently working on obtaining an AAS degree. I am marijuana friendly, but I do not partake; random drug testing for my work (Federal). I have no kids. I don't mind being a friend to your kids, but I do not want to raise your kids. I do not give out my phone number to people I haven't met in the real world. This is for my safety. If I want to see you again after our first meeting I'll give you my phone number. I don't converse in other apps. I don't do Facebook, WhatsApp, SnapChat, Instagram, Twitter, Discord, etc. _________________________________________ _________________________________________ I am an actual human being, like you, with feelings, emotions, hopes and dreams. _________________________________________ _________________________________________
Female (46) Saint Paul, Minnesota
ENM partnered. open to male and female connections. ideally looking for a girly to join me and my main partner. Open to one time or ongoing Carrie/Big dynamic IYKYK
Female (29) Saint Paul, Minnesota
WOMEN ONLY PLZ I’m bold and go after what I want (with consent) I’m a black women, bbw (size 14) curves and fem-dominate . I’m a Sagittarius and tend to like women with some meat on their bones. looking for a FWB relationship that is long term. I am non monogamous fetishes at the moment: big boobs big butts bbw submissive women bratty women
Female (36) Saint Paul, Minnesota
5'7 365 pounds so I'm a very big girl dark brown hair and eyes I walk with a cane due to having MS

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I’m 22 next month! just moved here to Minneapolis! I’m PuertoRican/AfroAmerican. AI’m looking for fwb, especially kinky ones. I have a lot of interests, so don’t be shy to text me and tell me what you like! I’m into all genders, but I am looking to explore more with girls, open to being a dom but I mostly want to be a sub. with MALES I desire to be a SUPER SUB
Female (22) Saint Paul, Minnesota
In the lifestyle for almost 30 years, I'm grieving the loss of my Dominant, who is living in a long term care facility. Desires don't end, though. As I heal, I find myself wondering if I will ever again feel an orgasm at the end of a single tail... whether I will ever again know the feeling of complete satiety after screaming for hours as orgasm after orgasm takes over my bound body... and whether I will ever again yield to a man (woman?) who knows how to fully use my body as an instrument for pleasure. **Desires and Fantasies** BDSM is a sexual event, accompanied by *** and pleasure and all the naughty things that reside deep inside. I like all forms of sensation play, bondage, and mindfucks. I am poly, heteroflexible and somewhat of a switch. After years of exploration, I find myself identifying mostly as a sexual submissive, although God knows that there is enough evidence of masochism in my past to fill a two volume Russian novel. I'm not slave material. I won't dishonor my husband giving someone else ownership over me while he is still alive. I am also grieving. I will need to feel some kind of respect for where I am before I can yield too much of myself. To that end, no nude pics and no hookups. I'm not opposed to cyber, but you must be real.
Female (57) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Hey All! Been in the kink scene for 20 years now!!! Not looking to gain more partners, just looking for flirty friendship & discussion at this point in time. Excitable, laid back, but, out going. I love discussing experiences & bouncing ideas.
Female (38) Saint Paul, Minnesota
sub looking for her dom. please don’t message me if you’re under 25 or over 38. I will just end up blocking you… also please don’t message me if you’re more than 300 miles away. not interested in long distance or exchanging pics only
Female (24) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Single mom. Looking for my first Dom or going to events to getting involved in the community.
bratty sub pansexual I love it rough, shibari, full fantasy’s, ***, 3 sums, and am open to most kinks. I hope you have a tarp, I will make it rain for hours when I’m in complete submission. please talk dirty to me, forplay is everything.
Female (35) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I use any and all pronouns! (genderqueer) (Recently single so not looking for any actual relationships rn rip) Im an Extrovert with Social Anxiety??, 24, and have ADHD(and many other brain funs!) Looking for everything or anything kind of, I guess???? I have for YEARS had such an INTENSE constant need and want to be more out going, and to have more sexual encounters, but havent ever been able to let myself ever really come even close to even going out places on my own lmao- ? Im still just learning to drive, and I can have people over AT ALL(long story but my household is chill lmao) and I dont even have absolutely any horny friends?? let alone kink friends ?? and would love to at least exchange pics and vids with anyone and MAYBE hopefully have hookups and/or make connections- and am definitely into just being strangers for some fun- BUT ALSO- would really love to make some friends- be it brief pals or potentially long term pals! to both go out and do stuff with and/or chat and exchange advice and knowledge with! :3 (only recently been using reddit! Im u/BigBad4276! rip it was an auto-given name)
Female (24) Saint Paul, Minnesota
22, Scorpio, I love horror movies and my friends are my ride or died :) just looking to have fun! send me *** and I’ll send you tit pics and more ;) findom
Female (23) Saint Paul, Minnesota
5'7 365 pounds so I'm a very big girl dark brown hair and eyes I walk with a cane due to having MS
I'm sarcastic, especially when crabby. I can swing from extremely literal to deeply whimsical in 2.3 seconds. I can be moody and quiet. I can be bubbly and talk your ear off. I'm curvy/fat/plus size/full figured: not saying this to be self-deprecating. Calling a spade a spade. I'm not changing anything for anyone, I am who I am, quirks and all. I go through random hyperfixations, which can lead to me ignoring everyone and everything for hours or even days. I've identified as kinky longer than not.
Female (38) Saint Paul, Minnesota
ENM partnered. open to male and female connections. ideally looking for a girly to join me and my main partner. Open to one time or ongoing Carrie/Big dynamic IYKYK
Female (29) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I have a crush on >6 feet tall, dark-haired men with beards and huge cocks. I really am 5'11" flat foot, in heels I'm 6'2" I weigh 210 lbs. 40"D x 39" x 45" I'm a big woman. _______________________________________ _______________________________________ If you want my attention share something about yourself and reference something in my profile that is not based on my looks. This is so I know I'm not getting the same generic introduction you give to all the pretty faces you've swiped right on. _______________________________________ _______________________________________ _What I'm Looking For:_ A partner, someone who is in this for the long haul, a best friend who is also my lover. I want a lifetime with you, not just a hookup. I want consistency, trust, permanence, stability, connection, reliability. I want Love. In the bedroom I want you to be in charge, sir. I want to be your woman, your baby girl (not your slut, not your whore). I want you to spank me, *** me, tell me how you're going to fuck me. Passionate kisses, bottom lip biting, hair pulling, leave pretty purple bruises. Fuck me everyway you can imagine. Make me your toy. Flip me around. Tell me to stay. Tie me up, cuff me, spreader bar, flog me. Fuck me so no one else will be able to satisfy me again except you. Make me yours and only yours. I want to please you! Tell me what you want me to do, please sir. I'm a biter. I squirt, if you touch me just right I gush. I need frequent rehydration. Afterwards hold me, cuddle me, forehead kisses, hand holding, our legs intertwined, be sweet to me, cherish me, please, sir. I'll make you breakfast in bed and wash you head to toe. I'll worship you if you make me feel loved and wanted. _____________________________________ _____________________________________ ABOUT ME (non-kink related): During the cold winter seasons when it's just too damn cold to go outside I like to binge TV shows and movies while I knit or embroider or sew or bake. If the weather is pleasant and I have the time and *** I'd like to cross country ski, downhill ski, snowboard, and snowshoe. I enjoy sledding, making snowmen, snow angels, ice skating and being outdoors. If you ice fish and/or hunt, I'd love to learn how! During the hot summer days I like to go swimming, canoeing, kayaking, hiking, just about anything outside. I love camping in the autumn (less bugs). I used to camp in the boundary waters for a week at a time, even when it snows. I'd spend a month out there if I could. I love Halloween and attending "haunted" attractions. I've done scuba diving and snorkeling in the past, but it's been years; I'd love to do it again. I enjoy roller skating, visiting museums, seeing tourist attractions, traveling, attending sporting events (soccer & hockey), walking tours. I like going to the movies, attending plays, concerts, festivals, fairs. I also love days, even weeks of just lounging around inside doing nothing. I am an introvert, down time is important to me. ________________________________________ _________________________________________ My dream is to own 40 acres in the Cascade mountains, raising alpaca, sheep, goats, and chickens while working as a superintendent at a golf course. The chickens will be named "Winner Winner" "Broasted" "Baked" "Fried" and "Alfredo". The alpaca and sheep for are creating yarn. The goat is for making cheese. I want to live off grid as much as practically possible. I have a 65 lbs dog named after a Star Wars character, he is non-negotiable. I like dogs better than most people. I want to own cats and more dogs and name them all after Star Wars characters. I love to travel! I've been to Vancouver, Cozumel, Nassau, all over England and Scotland, Paris, Giverny, Venice, Florence, Rome, Athens, Tokyo, Kyoto, Hiroshima, Honolulu, San Diego, Chicago, NYC, D.C., Grand Canyon, Yellowstone, all over Colorado, and a few other places. _______________________________________ ________________________________________ I love most music, all types (not a fan of rap or country, of course I like some Dolly and Cash). I like big band, classic rock, alternative, folk, classical, pop punk, rock, ska, and most everything throughout the ages. I know Bob Dylan wrote it before Hendrix made it famous. I will choose the Beatles over Elvis every time. I like to read, mostly sci-fi and fantasy. Movies and TV shows I like: Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Marvel universe, comedies, historical, war films, musicals, apocalyptic, geek themed, horror (to a point). _________________________________________ _________________________________________ I am employed fulltime. I have health, dental, and vision insurance, a pension, my own bank accounts, my own vehicle, my own apartment (no roommate). I can support myself and will pay for my own drinks and dinner if we go out. I am in school again, fulltime and working full-time which makes my time to date very limited right now. Please don't get all ***y if it takes me a few days to respond to your messages. I have a 4-year Bachelor's degree from a private college. I'm currently working on obtaining an AAS degree. I am marijuana friendly, but I do not partake; random drug testing for my work (Federal). I have no kids. I don't mind being a friend to your kids, but I do not want to raise your kids. I do not give out my phone number to people I haven't met in the real world. This is for my safety. If I want to see you again after our first meeting I'll give you my phone number. I don't converse in other apps. I don't do Facebook, WhatsApp, SnapChat, Instagram, Twitter, Discord, etc. _________________________________________ _________________________________________ I am an actual human being, like you, with feelings, emotions, hopes and dreams. _________________________________________ _________________________________________
Female (46) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I'd describe myself like a habenareo pepper rolled in sugar. Sweet and spicy. Ideally, I'm looking to make a connection with someone with whom I can create a safe and comfortable space to explore and experiment with my variety of curiosities.
Female (39) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Not particularly seeking to meet new people at this time. unless if you possess something extraordinary, and have higher than typical emotional intelligence, I won’t have the time to get to know people or invest in getting to know many people.
Female (43) Saint Paul, Minnesota
Not looking for a Daddy Dom...move along please. I'm a goddess, babe, act accordingly. I'll probably get naked if you do ?
Female (46) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I’m a brat, slut and a sub. I love to be controlled. I’m into Consensual Nonconsensual and have always wanted to be taken advantage of and total power exchange. I am also into bdsm, bondage, restraints, hair pulling, face slapping, neck choking and far more.
Female (20) Saint Paul, Minnesota
In an enm relationship, demisexual, and looking for like minded people for friendship, fun, kink exploration, relationship or whatever fits. Let’s try to have some good conversation before diving in. I don't do hookups or random meetups without getting to know someone first, so if you start with some invitation to do so, know you will be ignored. We all adults so let's be respectful ?
I’m still new to this, but I want to learn and explore. Looking for something long-term that lasts. (FWB & ONS do *not* interest me!) Submissive, sometimes bratty. Praise kink. Definitely into DD/LG, pet play, and bondage. ;) !!!Please treat me like your princess, not your wh0re. I wanted to be loved & cared for, not just degraded!!!
Female (21) Saint Paul, Minnesota
WOMEN ONLY PLZ I’m bold and go after what I want (with consent) I’m a black women, bbw (size 14) curves and fem-dominate . I’m a Sagittarius and tend to like women with some meat on their bones. looking for a FWB relationship that is long term. I am non monogamous fetishes at the moment: big boobs big butts bbw submissive women bratty women
Female (36) Saint Paul, Minnesota
I’m looking for one person I can explore with and build trust. ideally a long term relationship. i do not like to share honestly.. I am into older men ?? very new to the world of kink and haven’t explore much..
Female (23) Saint Paul Park, Minnesota
Ready to explore, expand, and experience. Safety, consent and communication are important. Vaccinated. Respectful experiences with open minded, kind, and curious people. I would like to experience play with a woman (women). GGG. I have a double sided dildo I’d love to share with a lady… or male. Who wants to hide and “spy” on me masturbating? I have an F-Slider Pro that I adore. I’m thick and comfortable. DDF you must be too. Also, sober AF. I don’t play with partners who are under the influence of any mind or mood altering substances. I am a private person. You do not have consent to use any of my photos.
Female (51) Saint Paul, Minnesota

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