I realized recently that I want a Dom. Not a full time Dom but one just mainly in the sexual aspect. Maybe a Bull/Dom? I want and need to be the main sexual focus. I have my own personal life and don’t want that to change. I need someone that maybe has a demanding job or appreciates being on their own but is still looking for a sub for consistent play to fulfill their sexual desires. Honestly, if I’ve learned anything over the past few months none of this is written in stone and there can be exceptions to the rules. In addition, just when I think I know what I want, then I find something I want more. We are ever evolving which is great and can also be frustrating as fuck. The amount of times I’ve had to start over in the last few months is, if anything, a testament to my resilience to find what I need and crave.
So far I’ve come up with the following list of characteristics I view my ideal Dom to have and meet. This person must also be ok with involvement of my husband. My husband does not have to be involved in every single aspect but he appreciates seeing me with other men and enjoys the dynamic. He would want to give suggestions on how he wants to see me used.
Lives about an 1 hour driving distance from me.
Lives alone and is not married or in a relationship. I prefer going to a house as opposed to a hotel. I like daily contact and for the most part if you’re already partnered up then you can’t give me the attention I crave. Unless this person you are with knows about me and what you do with me.
Can meet at least once a week on the regular.
Can make me squirt on command.
Over 6’ tall. 200-250lbs. 35-45 years old. I say this as an ideal but I’ve fucked lots of different body types of men. Personality and if we click will almost always outweigh height, size, and age.
Ok with chatting daily. Good morning / good night texts etc. Just like daily check ins. It doesn’t have to be all day every day. If we do, then that’s also fine.
Provides instructions like what to wear or what to do when I come to you.
Pushes me to do things I never did before but they somehow know I’ll like.
Take me out. Not all the time, but dinner and drinks every once in a while to show me off. Things like that.
Aftercare like cuddling and regular vanilla sex.
I’m sure there will be more to add, but let the search commence. If you feel like we’d be a good fit, please message me. ?
I realized recently that I want a Dom. Not a full time Dom but one just mainly in the sexual aspect. Maybe a Bull/Dom? I want and need to be the main sexual focus. I have my own personal life and don’t want that to change. I need someone that maybe has a demanding job or appreciates being on their own but is still looking for a sub for consistent play to fulfill their sexual desires. Honestly, if I’ve learned anything over the past few months none of this is written in stone and there can be exceptions to the rules. In addition, just when I think I know what I want, then I find something I want more. We are ever evolving which is great and can also be frustrating as fuck. The amount of times I’ve had to start over in the last few months is, if anything, a testament to my resilience to find what I need and crave.
So far I’ve come up with the following list of characteristics I view my ideal Dom to have and meet. This person must also be ok with involvement of my husband. My husband does not have to be involved in every single aspect but he appreciates seeing me with other men and enjoys the dynamic. He would want to give suggestions on how he wants to see me used.
Lives about an 1 hour driving distance from me.
Lives alone and is not married or in a relationship. I prefer going to a house as opposed to a hotel. I like daily contact and for the most part if you’re already partnered up then you can’t give me the attention I crave. Unless this person you are with knows about me and what you do with me.
Can meet at least once a week on the regular.
Can make me squirt on command.
Over 6’ tall. 200-250lbs. 35-45 years old. I say this as an ideal but I’ve fucked lots of different body types of men. Personality and if we click will almost always outweigh height, size, and age.
Ok with chatting daily. Good morning / good night texts etc. Just like daily check ins. It doesn’t have to be all day every day. If we do, then that’s also fine.
Provides instructions like what to wear or what to do when I come to you.
Pushes me to do things I never did before but they somehow know I’ll like.
Take me out. Not all the time, but dinner and drinks every once in a while to show me off. Things like that.
Aftercare like cuddling and regular vanilla sex.
I’m sure there will be more to add, but let the search commence. If you feel like we’d be a good fit, please message me. ?
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