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I’m looking for a sweet, sexy and playful sub/babygirl. I am open to all levels of experience but the teacher in me prefers inexperienced subs who want to learn the ropes. While I am not a sadist, as long as my partner is enjoying it, I will help her explore any and all limits with lots of aftercare, praise and cuddles afterward. While I do have rules and structure, I want it to be fun and pleasurable for us both. I like forming a strong mental connection with my sub and with those who are also into ddlg, I often form strong emotional connections as well. I have lots of attention and affection for my sub. I love creating a safe and judgment-free for my sub to explore anything she desires, under my direction of course. I love all aspects of D/s, ddlg, brat taming and helping those who identify as little explore littlespace. I work in a private office in Manhattan and live alone in Brooklyn with a cute pup. I’d love to learn more about you and what you’re looking for.

Disclaimer: I’m looking for a real life connection. Nothing against those who like online play but it leaves me frustrated and I need a real life component to complement the online play.