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I'm relatively new to this scene. I'm interested in both the dominant and submissive aspects of relationships. For those of you familiar with German idealism I identify with the transcendent dialectic, or in other words I find that the role reversal of the (dominant, self-actualized) slave and narcissistic yet dependant master is an interesting dynamic worth exploring both in sexual relationships but philosophically as well. If any of this catches your attention message me, and at the least, we could have a philosophical debate lmao.. (I was off my tits during the composition of this bio thingy, if you couldn't tell already)...