BDSM Flora Vista

I want to get over relationship and find a restart of myself as a individual with friends a life I choose and gracefully embracing the real woman I love being...I'm sorely unsure how to be single and my needs wants being first priority ...unbelievable and I think I might be shy as well as rusty

Preferably around my age. I'm exploring my daddy Dom side and I'm interested in ddlg.
I'm a soft Dom but I can be firm, especially with brats, (who I do take)