"Wisdom doesn't come from knowing anything. It comes from feeling everything. "
**Do not ask for my location. I will end the conversation abruptly.**
***seeking online friendship only***
After 25 years in "kink", I've learned most people are so lost in the world of alpha, beta, dom, sub, master, slave, top, bottom, kinks, in the bedroom, 24/7...Yada Yada, Yada. This prevents the evolution of the spirit, mind, body, and authentic connection with others.
We are all primal energetic beings, submissively dominant or dominantly submissive at all times, depending on what we're actively working towards. Tantra teaches that we all possess this constant energy flow with every energetic, sensual output in our environment. None of us are ever dominant all the time or submissive all the time. Energy doesn't work that way.
In order to build a successful relationship, we must submit to building self-awareness of our own primal make-up before we can ever truly satisfy another. I learned this the hard way, as do so many others I've met along the way. Again, this is not about how we label ourselves because we all must submit to the dominance of another's need, regardless of whether we're being tied up or doing the tying.
So, I wish everyone would drop the labels believing it's all part of their identity like all the other silly labels that "vanilla" society conditions us to box ourselves into...and instead, focuses in on their primal connection to those they match with naturally.
The main reason I wish for this is because, as a social worker, I've studied and worked with cult leaders who depend on "kink" culture to do harm, as well as helped traffick survivors who were taken on the basis of a "kink" label. They believed they'd met their dom or master, groomed to follow some submissive role full of expectations, which led them to so much danger...all because of a damn label.
So, I ask anyone who's been in the lifestyle for many years and considers themselves knowledgeable, to reevaluate their use of the divisive labeling system of "kink" culture, in order to see the harm it's actually doing. "Kink" was created for elitist, *** hungry societies, certainly not for our benefit. This is a big reason the monetary side of "kink" has become so prevalent on these apps. Please open your eyes.
Thanks for providing your leadership in a more functional and protective way.
On a personal note, I enjoy writing erotica as well as everything to do with erotic hypnosis, tantra, and ritualistic energy play. Mind play is far tastier than any sensual touch. Brings you closest to the roots of our origin. I say, absorb me as I feast on your arrogance. Show me your best "alpha" pose. We will dance the dual of principle, and you will always lose.
I look for transparency, integrity, and a quick-witted mind in others. Those who can fathom and fortify a fruitful friendship. Those who enjoy exploring all sides of energy work. I love the dark and dirty of a person but also the innocence that binds us all.
To those who feel the need to impose yourself in a distasteful way, word of warning. Do not insult either of us by approaching my space and using my authentic energy to generate some temporary gratification you could find literally anywhere else. I am actively in healing mode. I will show you who you are before you ever make it far, so show some self-respect and please, move along.
