Find kinky women in New York

Let me make this VERYYYYYY clear. Before you message me read this! - I am a mom to a 5 year old. I am not the most attractive person in the world either. I definitely have a mom body with the stretch marks and all. I do have a relationship, ask me questions about it I am an open book (it’s kind of messy) I will explain if you ask Don’t reach out to be an ass towards me because that’s not going to get you very far with me I can promise you that
Female (36) Amsterdam, New York
____________________________________________________________ # Welcome to My Little Corner of Indulgence Hi there! My name is Kris, I’m 34, and a Southern belle who looks sweet and innocent on the outside, but I’m all naughty and pink on the inside. 😉 :bite: I’m here for online fun only—no in-person meetups. While New York is like a second home to me, I currently live in the South and prefer to keep my exact location private for discretion (especially since I show my face here). I’m looking for partners who are genuinely intrigued by my unique erotic fantasies. Strangulation through consensual or CNC scenarios is my one and only kink, and I love exploring the sensations tied to my neck fetish. Everything else, from restraint to roleplay, only excites me when it’s connected to this. I’m not interested in oral choking, airway obstruction, or other forms of breathplay. ____________________________________________________________ :collar: # Rules & Boundaries - **Virtual-Only Interaction:** I’m here to explore my fantasies through roleplay and conversation, not in person. See FAQs below for my reasons why. - **No Photos or Videos on Demand:** I share private content like photos, stories, and roleplay when I choose to—not when demanded. - **Respect My Privacy:** I do not share personal information or socials to avoid interruptions in my personal life. - **Keep It Relevant:** If your interest lies outside my stated kink, we won’t be a match. - **Don’t Be Pushy:** I respond when I can. Demanding replies, getting impatient, or being rude is an instant dealbreaker. I have had many people (men) be rude to me on this site when not getting what they want. Again, no skin off of my back, this will only get you blocked. I am not yours to control in this way. ____________________________________________________________ :handcuffs: # How to Impress Me **Want to catch my attention? Here’s how:** - **Be Creative:** Share something bold, intriguing, or exciting. Are you curious about my fantasies after reading my profile? Did something spark your interest? Tell me! - **Make Me Laugh:** A great sense of humor goes a long way. - **Be Thoughtful:** A message that’s just “hi” or “how are you?” is unlikely to stand out. Show you’ve read my profile and put in effort. - **Bonus Points:** Make me feel a spark—whether it’s a clever message or something that turns me on. Creativity wins every time! ____________________________________________________________ :ghost: # How to Get Ghosted - Sending one-word messages like “hi” over and over. - Getting sour or impatient if I don’t respond right away. - Being pushy, entitled, or demanding. - Remember, I’m here to enjoy what I like—not to serve as anyone’s personal genie. Respect is a must. ____________________________________________________________ :lick: # What I Offer **If we connect, you’ll gain access to:** - **Exclusive Photos:** Updated periodically with private content. I accept almost all requests to view my private gallery. Comments on any of my photos will also stand out if I see something I like. - **Erotic Writing:** Stories centered on my kink. - **Private Roleplay:** Crafted with creativity and aligned with my fantasies. ____________________________________________________________ # _**FAQ**_ 1. **Are you available for private roleplay?** Yes, I offer private roleplay based solely on my fetish. Please respect my availability and boundaries. 2. **Why don’t you explore your kink in person?** My partner is uncomfortable with my extreme fantasies, so I am permitted to explore them virtually only. Additionally, meeting strangers for this type of play is unsafe for obvious reasons. 3. **Will you share personal information or social media?** No. I keep all interactions on this platform to maintain privacy and avoid disruptions in my personal life. 4. **Can you send photos or videos?** I share photos and content periodically, but not on demand. Please respect this boundary. 5. **Why haven’t you responded yet?** I manage a busy life with work and personal commitments. I respond as promptly as I can, but my notifications can be overwhelming. If you find this frustrating, feel free not to interact. ____________________________________________________________
Female (34) New York, New York
I'm all about having fun this new year and making out more time to party with my community and also influence some newbies lol. I'm a switch but I'm more dominant and I'm a big rigger when it comes to Shibari. Looking to get a new sub this year majorly for LC parties and would love to meet more kinksters like me.
Female (37) New York, New York
I want a strict forever daddy it’s all ive ever wanted preferably close by a daddy will do little things like call me before bed idk can I not have both it’s not fair
Female (25) Canandaigua, New York
hey I’m Kamora I’m 24 and I do prefer older guys not looking for anything serious more of one night stands and if I do enjoy it maybe friend and Benefit and or a dom as well but I recently had a baby almost three weeks ago and once I’m cleared to have fun I am interested in exploring my sexual kinks and I am more of a submissive I love being told what to do might be hesitant at first but I will definitely do it
Female (24) New York, New York
Women also want a partner who puts full trust in them. By putting full trust, they can be more open and free in living the existing relationship. A relationship without full trust will only be a burden and a sense of disappointment in it.
Female (37) New York, New York
I’m someone who loves bringing positive energy wherever I go, and I take pride in making people feel comfortable and valued. I have a curious mind and a passion for exploring new places, trying new things, and diving into creative projects that spark my imagination. Humor and wit are part of my charm—I enjoy making others laugh and finding the fun in everyday moments. At my core, I’m kind-hearted, driven, and deeply value meaningful connections with the people around me. Life’s an adventure, and I’m here to embrace it fully.
Female (25) Flushing, New York
I would say I love to tease and take the lead just to test boundaries. I'm still a sub but pretty bratty and want to get punished for not following orders. I want a possessive Dom who loves putting thier sub in their place. I'm a good sub tho and will do anything for my Dom. Please call me a good girl ❤️. To explain it better,I'm pretty much a Dom who loves to get dominated by a stronger possessive Dom. Put me in my place if your up for the challenge ❤️❤️.
Female (22) Buffalo, New York
Spontaneous adventurous Supreme Queen. I’m a bit of a sapiophile seeking out other adventurous wayfarers to sojourn these kink fun fetish plains and spaces. I dare say that I’m Not one for the faint hearted. Approach with caution in willing supplication. **Desires and Fantasies** I have always fantasised about owning folks; I’m that dominatrix with her own island and resort equipped with lifestyle themes, tools, toys, equipment and dungeon; amongst other activities and what not. I’m a Countess, always thinking about creating a kink, Fet and Bdsm community exclusive of vanilla or society’s ignorance. Baddest Black Amazon Goddess. Ha! 🏿😈
Female (34) New York, New York
Hello all my name is Luna. I love meeting and getting to know new people. Always friends first and see what happens. ** I will only be around people that are fully vaccinated!** I want to do more exploring and have as many experiences as possible. I would consider myself more of a sensation whore then a *** slut. When I am in little space I identify as a little girl NOT A Baby! I enjoy typical little girl things however a lot of my vanilla interests overlap with my little space. I would absolutely love to be a goth princess. I identify as bi and have been out since I was 18. I have mostly been with straight men. I would like to explore this side of me with other types of people especially women. As for my vanilla interests I'm a bit of a geek, a goth and a metal head. I love going to shows. l also enjoy cosplay and going to cons. I am always open to suggestions for new cosplays.
Female (37) New York, New York
Only send me a Message if you are in THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA lustful, seductive, and cruel. I enjoy causing suffering, suppressing climaxes, demeaning, and embarrassing others. It would be ideal if you made it apparent in your introductory messages just how much you could help me. You really need me, even though I don't need you.HAHAHAHAHA I'm sure you don't expect me to treat you like a slave because you identify as one. Life is a constant game of give and take; you have to give to get.
Female (26) Syracuse, New York
slut me ouuuut??✨ grade A attention whore💞 I like showing off my body to strangers online, what can I say?🙂‍↔️ sooo like my pictures, tell me what you’d do to me, and tell me I’m pretty.. please🥹
Female (24) New York, New York
just a little looking for affection :) if i’m online i’m likely in littlespace hehe softgirl i like pretty words and actions that back them baby me ????? i like flowers, reading, dresses and the cold. amateur hiker, part time good girl and full time cuddler my love language is all of them wants someone to help me navigate the big girl world chubby/plus size girl if you’ve read this, tell me how you take your coffee :)
Female (27) New York, New York
I'm a sexy dominant woman seeking a serious submissive man for discreet LTR. Where we explore and practice our fetishes. My top fetishes are, oral, bondage, edging, pegging and role play.
Female (42) New York, New York
my name is clementine! i am a class of '24 student who is going to buf state to study marine biology. *i cannot drive to you, you must pick me up!* what you're really here for: there is not a dominant bone in my body, i love pup-play and full-weight facesitting or anything torturous haha :) choking, slapping, face-spitting, f0rced acts & bdsm are all huge turn-ons.
Female (18) Buffalo, New York
?Hello everyone! I'm Lexxi born and raised in Buffalo NY, (?DIE HARD BILLS FAN!!!? #BILLSMAFIA?) I'm an exotic mix of Colombian, Cuban and Russian! I'm 5ft tall, thick, tattooed and pierced! I've been a Dominatrix for the last 15 years professionally! I love BDSM, and also love being an amateur video model! (ask about my videos!! ?) I'm bisexual and love the company of an open and grounded woman!! (also looking for a female to join in my company as a adult photo and video model!!!) I'm college educated with a BA in Behavioral and criminal psychology with my Major in sexual psychology! Also certified to tattoo and pierced, certified in massage therapy, I do all my own photography amd graphics as well as all production of video as well as editing! !! I'm the owner of Sweet Sinns Entertainment & Sweet Sinns Apparel!!! (first line coming this fall!!!!) I'm really a very all over the place female i am quick witted, funny, and enjoy all aspects of sex and think it should be explored (as long as it is between two consenting adults)!!!! anythinb I may have missed feel free to ask!!! ?????????????????????? BTW- I LOVE BEING SPOILED WITH LINGERIE AND SEX TOYS!!! SPOIL ME WITH THOSE THINGS AND ILL BE A VERY GOOD GIRL! ??????????????????????
Female (35) Buffalo, New York
Hey hey everyone ! I’m a 24f who’s completely unsatisfied ? just looking for some fun when I want it ??‍♀️☺️ im not interested in meeting In person but I am interested in spicy chat ☺️ also I have no pfp because I don’t want to meet locals or cross paths with someone who may know me but message me and I can send you a pic of me ♥️ I’m a Big Girl. Please don’t reach out if your not interested in bigger women. Send me dirty voice notes ??
Female (25) New York, New York
***READ*** Please just be realistic and chat as if I am a person. It will go much more smoothly and farther 😊 I hate that I have to say this 🙁 But it’s gotten so bad. suck, bite, nurse, latch, swell. Dirty, verbal, anal, spank DADDY with the ability, experience, etc. to dominate me as he desires. Here’s the kicker boys-Who also is very happy to pleasure me mutually to have that control. No Masters No Owners No Entitlement mentality No DICK pics unless I want one. I will ask you. 💋 I’m not willing, won’t and not going to Canada. Please respect that. Not pegging
Female (38) Buffalo, New York
Hello everyone I am a passionate and positive woman. I believe in destiny. I look forward to meeting someone who connects with me As for my situation I graduated from a well-known university. Currently my career is stable and successful. In my spare time I like reading, traveling, sports, etc. These hobbies broaden my horizons and enrich my inner world
Female (32) New York, New York
Size queen and bratty princess. More into gentle doms and a good dynamic with someone who can handle my bratty side.
Female (25) New York, New York
I am highly intelligent, well read and mature. I am a caring lady with a good sense of humor. I think it's never too late to try something new in your life. I need someone who knows what he wants from life and a relationship and will not stop at anything to reach it, conquer me and never let me go.
Female (39) Bronx, New York
Just a curvy tattooed chick and her slave looking for some fun. We can raise demons or make sacrifices to the old gods, whatever the mood calls for.. Consistency is key! I don’t respond to messages with no pics or only dick pics. So if you’re trying to message me include your face in the message. We are looking for an hot bisexual Daddy Dom for occasional playtime sessions. If that sounds like you send me a message. 😈😈
Female (33) Cicero, New York
"I'm looking for somebody I can call boo. Looking for the only one who I can give my all to. Tell me if it's you, you, you. What you wanna do, do, do? Make a move." -Promise by Ciara
Female (34) Buffalo, New York
*DO NOT ASK ME THINGS THAT ARE ON MY PROFILE, READ IT PLEASE?* ~Flirting, charm, and good conversation is very important. If you can provide all three, you've got my attention. ~I am not here for drama, disrespect, or foolishness. Please go elsewhere with that. ~Boundaries must be respected and listened to, I have no control over what happens if you do not do as such. ~let’s vibe, talk, see what we can create~ **I WILL NOT...:** -send you pictures. -meet up after 1 conversation. **ABSOLUTLY NOOOO** -***, -***s; irl or roleplay, -***; irl or diaper/baby roleplay, -raceplay; no slave or owner shit, -sounding, -feeding with food **Desires and Fantasies** -MMF -FFM -roleplay at a club/bar -graveyard sex? -Breeding roleplay -BDSM lifestyle, traditional lifestyle play
Female (28) Catskill, New York

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I'm looking for obedient and docile slaves that want to be owned, trained, dress up, and be dominated by me. I know you want to be owned, trained, and served by a real hot and sexy mistress like me. CBT, bondage, panties, pegging, face-sitting, nipple-***, ass-foot worship, ball bursting, ***, Bdsm session, hookup, fetish, role-play, domme, dominance at any time, mummification, chastity, orgasm control, and wrecked orgasm are among the things I enjoy. whole human restroom, customs, and cuckold I am the fiery femme fatale you have been searching for; I am self-assured, seductive, intelligent, sarcastic, and merciless. I will ruthlessly punish insubordination, which I do not tolerate.
Female (34) New York, New York
hey I’m Kamora I’m 24 and I do prefer older guys not looking for anything serious more of one night stands and if I do enjoy it maybe friend and Benefit and or a dom as well but I recently had a baby almost three weeks ago and once I’m cleared to have fun I am interested in exploring my sexual kinks and I am more of a submissive I love being told what to do might be hesitant at first but I will definitely do it
Female (24) New York, New York
I’m someone who loves bringing positive energy wherever I go, and I take pride in making people feel comfortable and valued. I have a curious mind and a passion for exploring new places, trying new things, and diving into creative projects that spark my imagination. Humor and wit are part of my charm—I enjoy making others laugh and finding the fun in everyday moments. At my core, I’m kind-hearted, driven, and deeply value meaningful connections with the people around me. Life’s an adventure, and I’m here to embrace it fully.
Female (25) Flushing, New York
Ultimately, I want to be sculpted into the perfect Barbie doll. That is my dream....to be the perfectly attractive woman that arouses you, fully irresistable. If you are attracted to perfectly plastic girls, why not create one for your personal enjoyment? I am currently a virgin bimbo! No, I have not done anything yet. But I want to do absolutely everything. You bring the resources, I bring the commitment, my body, and my obsessions.
Female (26) New York, New York
I'm all about having fun this new year and making out more time to party with my community and also influence some newbies lol. I'm a switch but I'm more dominant and I'm a big rigger when it comes to Shibari. Looking to get a new sub this year majorly for LC parties and would love to meet more kinksters like me.
Female (37) New York, New York
Size queen and bratty princess. More into gentle doms and a good dynamic with someone who can handle my bratty side.
Female (25) New York, New York
Hello everyone I am a passionate and positive woman. I believe in destiny. I look forward to meeting someone who connects with me As for my situation I graduated from a well-known university. Currently my career is stable and successful. In my spare time I like reading, traveling, sports, etc. These hobbies broaden my horizons and enrich my inner world
Female (32) New York, New York
Commanding yet compassionate, I embody the perfect balance of strength and elegance. As a natural leader, I thrive in creating spaces where power dynamics are not only respected but celebrated. With an innate understanding of control, I seamlessly blend intellect, intuition, and charisma to forge meaningful connections. My world revolves around respect, trust, and the art of devotion—each interaction carefully crafted to reflect mutual empowerment. Confident, stylish, and unapologetically authentic, I invite those who value strength in femininity to step into a world where boundaries are redefined, and desires are explored ***lessly.
Female (35) New York, New York
Hiiya , I’m juicystar . Come ttm. I like to be treated like princess and my favorite thing about me is I’m funny and I have a squishy face and butt 😙. Open to connect 🌙 I am 18 !💫 Full time college student
Female (18) Queens Village, New York
i Am a Dom woman looking for someone who wed to be controlled.. who is looking to listen to me ? 😏 I am into meet ups . not looking for any relationship unless it’s clients.. thank you
Female (28) Brooklyn, New York
my name is clementine! i am a class of '24 student who is going to buf state to study marine biology. *i cannot drive to you, you must pick me up!* what you're really here for: there is not a dominant bone in my body, i love pup-play and full-weight facesitting or anything torturous haha :) choking, slapping, face-spitting, f0rced acts & bdsm are all huge turn-ons.
Female (18) Buffalo, New York
I'm looking for a relationship that's built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication. I value honesty, empathy, and a sense of humor. I'd love to find someone who is confident, kind, and authentic, and who shares similar interests and values. I believe that a healthy relationship should be a supportive partnership that allows both individuals to grow and thrive. I'm not looking for perfection, but someone who is willing to work through life's ups and downs together. Ultimately, I hope to find a connection that feels like home – a sense of belonging and acceptance that makes me feel seen, heard, and lovedforwhoIam.
Female (52) Buffalo, New York
can you be my daddyyyy 👀 lol no fr .. Hiii I’m Nayaa (20) .. I’m new to being open in this community 🥰 I wanna experience the Dom/Sub as well as a brat lifestyle !! (yes I’m bratty af lol 😩)
Female (20) Brooklyn, New York
Just a curvy tattooed chick and her slave looking for some fun. We can raise demons or make sacrifices to the old gods, whatever the mood calls for.. Consistency is key! I don’t respond to messages with no pics or only dick pics. So if you’re trying to message me include your face in the message. We are looking for an hot bisexual Daddy Dom for occasional playtime sessions. If that sounds like you send me a message. 😈😈
Female (33) Cicero, New York
My main kinks are ddlg/cglg as well as dom/sub and I'm looking for other people who are interested in this lifestyle/dynamic to chat with as I'm not very experienced and I'm still exploring things that I'm into/could be into. Feel free to message me, I'm pretty friendly as long as you're not weird right off the bat. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Ageplayer 100% Brat 100% Little 98% Submissive 98% Rope bunny 92% Degradee 74% Pet 64% Slave 60% Masochist 53% Experimentalist
Female (18) Brasher Falls, New York
5 men and 6 women took 1 trips 4 miles 8 days with 5 lost. 6 sick and 4 healthy 5 quit whiles 3 resigned*//SMS/*Or Call*** loramelissa11atgmaildotcom
Female (48) New York, New York
I am an e-slut and need help keeping myself in the right head space.. looking for online only friends to help keep me in line.. my big dumb bimbo tits deserve daily ***, my asshole deserves to be stretched and trained, and i deserve to be degraded and humiliated on the internet in front of everyone.. draining cock is my only purpose and if i stray from that my punishment should be severe.. message if interested..
Female (35) Albany, New York
I am witty, cheerful, I have a lot of love and tenderness that I want to give to a man who will be next to me. I am very romantic and passionate and I want to find a man who is ready to be next to a woman like me.
Female (44) Flushing, New York
I am open and honest, I believe in life long relationship, I believe in true love and strong feelings such as respect and trust, which should be present in the relationship between a man and a woman. I am loyal and devoted. I am hard-working and goal-oriented. I would say that I am an optimist by nature and try to live my life enjoying every minute of it.
Female (56) Buffalo, New York
At my age, I am at the peak of my life, a life I have lived with passion and determination. I am a woman of contrasts, with a unique blend of kindness and boldness.
Female (44) Brooklyn, New York
I'm a sexy dominant woman seeking a serious submissive man for discreet LTR. Where we explore and practice our fetishes. My top fetishes are, oral, bondage, edging, pegging and role play.
Female (42) New York, New York
I am very easy-going and open-minded person, with good sense of humor. I have an inquiring nature, always open for new knowledge. Also I am very active and communicative. I am passionate if to speak about love, and I am able to give a lot to my man. I am very defoted and faithful. I am able to support my man and not to leave him in difficult life situations.
Female (35) Flushing, New York
I am a spiritual, quirky and kind person. I am always pondering something existential. I love deep conversations. I enjoy pushing and exploring my limits and partners limits in some kinky play. I like ropes and breath play and love exploring other things. I like all kinds of people but have a strong preference for women and lgbtq people.
Female (23) Bellerose Manor, New York
Very dominant women looking for a sub to take control over to be my pet that well kiss the ground I walk on If you want to see my beauty just ask it’s the only thing you will get out of me Keep in mind in person sessions is not free
Female (22) Buffalo, New York

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