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can you be my daddyyyy 👀 lol no fr .. Hiii I’m Nayaa (20) .. I’m new to being open in this community 🥰 I wanna experience the Dom/Sub as well as a brat lifestyle !! (yes I’m bratty af lol 😩)
Female (21) Brooklyn, New York
**IF YOURE NOT WILLING TO EXCHANGE PHONE NUMBERS AND TEXT after chatting here; please do not bother me.** i’m just a regular gal. trying this as an alternative to tinder/dating apps in search for intentionally good sex/companionship. mutual respect and protection are a must. i’m sensual and passionate. i’ve never done bdsm. but I like when I can be in charge in the beginning and then at some point surrender and let you be in charge. I think i’m identifying as a brat the more I read/explore? i’m feisty and outspoken; that translates to the bedroom. I guess I am a bad girl and looking for a man to turn me into a good girl in a passionate, seductive, fun, respectful way.
Female (37) Great Neck, New York
Well if you are slave/sub don't be shy just message lets explore it together, And if you are a dom don't waste your time to message me coz I'm not interested to become your slut
Female (28) Queens Village, New York
____________________________________________________________ # Welcome to My Little Corner of Indulgence Hi there! My name is Kris, I’m 34, and a Southern belle who looks sweet and innocent on the outside, but I’m all naughty and pink on the inside. 😉 :bite: I’m here for online fun only—no in-person meetups. While New York is like a second home to me, I currently live in the South and prefer to keep my exact location private for discretion (especially since I show my face here). I’m looking for partners who are genuinely intrigued by my unique erotic fantasies. Strangulation through consensual or CNC scenarios is my one and only kink, and I love exploring the sensations tied to my neck fetish. Everything else, from restraint to roleplay, only excites me when it’s connected to this. I’m not interested in oral choking, airway obstruction, or other forms of breathplay. ____________________________________________________________ :collar: # Rules & Boundaries - **Virtual-Only Interaction:** I’m here to explore my fantasies through roleplay and conversation, not in person. See FAQs below for my reasons why. - **No Photos or Videos on Demand:** I share private content like photos, stories, and roleplay when I choose to—not when demanded. - **Respect My Privacy:** I do not share personal information or socials to avoid interruptions in my personal life. - **Keep It Relevant:** If your interest lies outside my stated kink, we won’t be a match. - **Don’t Be Pushy:** I respond when I can. Demanding replies, getting impatient, or being rude is an instant dealbreaker. I have had many people (men) be rude to me on this site when not getting what they want. Again, no skin off of my back, this will only get you blocked. I am not yours to control in this way. ____________________________________________________________ :handcuffs: # How to Impress Me **Want to catch my attention? Here’s how:** - **Be Creative:** Share something bold, intriguing, or exciting. Are you curious about my fantasies after reading my profile? Did something spark your interest? Tell me! - **Make Me Laugh:** A great sense of humor goes a long way. - **Be Thoughtful:** A message that’s just “hi” or “how are you?” is unlikely to stand out. Show you’ve read my profile and put in effort. - **Bonus Points:** Make me feel a spark—whether it’s a clever message or something that turns me on. Creativity wins every time! ____________________________________________________________ :ghost: # How to Get Ghosted - Sending one-word messages like “hi” over and over. - Getting sour or impatient if I don’t respond right away. - Being pushy, entitled, or demanding. - Remember, I’m here to enjoy what I like—not to serve as anyone’s personal genie. Respect is a must. ____________________________________________________________ :lick: # What I Offer **If we connect, you’ll gain access to:** - **Exclusive Photos:** Updated periodically with private content. I accept almost all requests to view my private gallery. Comments on any of my photos will also stand out if I see something I like. - **Erotic Writing:** Stories centered on my kink. - **Private Roleplay:** Crafted with creativity and aligned with my fantasies. ____________________________________________________________ # _**FAQ**_ 1. **Are you available for private roleplay?** Yes, I offer private roleplay based solely on my fetish. Please respect my availability and boundaries. 2. **Why don’t you explore your kink in person?** My partner is uncomfortable with my extreme fantasies, so I am permitted to explore them virtually only. Additionally, meeting strangers for this type of play is unsafe for obvious reasons. 3. **Will you share personal information or social media?** No. I keep all interactions on this platform to maintain privacy and avoid disruptions in my personal life. 4. **Can you send photos or videos?** I share photos and content periodically, but not on demand. Please respect this boundary. 5. **Why haven’t you responded yet?** I manage a busy life with work and personal commitments. I respond as promptly as I can, but my notifications can be overwhelming. If you find this frustrating, feel free not to interact. ____________________________________________________________
Female (34) New York, New York
I am a loving woman, sincere, responsible and understanding. I am in love with life and I try to lead a healthy life. When I am in a relationship, I am romantic, loving, caring and loyal. I am good-hearted and very sincere too
Female (39) Brooklyn, New York
I’m looking to explore my sexual side after focusing too much on work. I grew up very religious and prudish until recently when I decided I’ve hit my 30s and need sexuality in mind life. I’m in charge at work and have to handle everything, so I’d like to experience the complete opposite and getting totally dominated. Someone who feels intense lust for my look. I guess I’m looking to get roughed up as I’ve been having many cnc fantasies. Yet I’m mostly with my gf and friends that are very sexual.
Female (33) New York, New York
Hey hey everyone ! I’m a 24f who’s completely unsatisfied ? just looking for some fun when I want it ??‍♀️☺️ im not interested in meeting In person but I am interested in spicy chat ☺️ also I have no pfp because I don’t want to meet locals or cross paths with someone who may know me but message me and I can send you a pic of me ♥️ I’m a Big Girl. Please don’t reach out if your not interested in bigger women. Send me dirty voice notes ??
Female (25) New York, New York
I’m tired of using the starter kits! I’m ready to explore..bondage, rope play, handcuffs, blindfold, being with a woman, FFM , MFM , trio, light flogging, being a submissive, and more ???‍♀️ but we can start there… 6 months later and I’m still here! thanks for the education, conversations and meetings that I did have. so that starter kit has grown into a larger ?. interesting that I found a gentleman from another site that has hopped abound the future desires of our bodies and mind. trust is growing and chemistry ⚛️ ?. now what’s left on the old list MFM , scissor a woman
Female (48) Harris, New York
I am an inventive, adventurous, conscious aware gal that is interested in meeting friends who are enthusiastic about life and speak of the possibilities by saying yes to new adventures, new friends, and traveling to new places. Accepting you as you are, and empowering you to be your greatest potential. You will find me outside, even in the winter time. Staying warm is not hard to do, but a warm heart is from companionship. Witnessing a sunrise is an awesome experience and when shared it is intensified. So much beauty is around us in nature and in people.
Female (30) New York, New York
I am an independent Domme, logical, down-to-earth ,assertive and sexy girl who definitely likes to keep life light. I am very outgoing, love to laugh, and find humor every day in this thing we call life.. I believe in honesty, dependablity, doing the right thing, being true to your word, and enjoying life every day. I believe in staying in shape and keeping active. I'm definitely not a couch potato. I enjoy swimming, great music (especially live), working in the yard, any time I can get at the beach, house projects, grilling out/hanging out with family and friends, just to name a few. I'm looking for a mature man, someone who shares my beliefs, values, and outlook on life, someone who is happy in their own life already,someone who will accept me for who I am and share everything together with me while i do the same.
Female (30) New York, New York
my purpose in life is to serve a master. looking for 24/7. I will do anything and everything for you. I have a high sex drive and will do domestic work.
Female (18) Buffalo, New York
Looking forward to meet a loyal and a responsible man who is willing to be committed in a new relationship
Female (39) Brooklyn, New York
My main kinks are ddlg/cglg as well as dom/sub and I'm looking for other people who are interested in this lifestyle/dynamic to chat with as I'm not very experienced and I'm still exploring things that I'm into/could be into. Feel free to message me, I'm pretty friendly as long as you're not weird right off the bat. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Ageplayer 100% Brat 100% Little 98% Submissive 98% Rope bunny 92% Degradee 74% Pet 64% Slave 60% Masochist 53% Experimentalist
Female (18) Brasher Falls, New York
my name is clementine! i am a class of '24 student who is going to buf state to study marine biology. *i cannot drive to you, you must pick me up!* what you're really here for: there is not a dominant bone in my body, i love pup-play and full-weight facesitting or anything torturous haha :) choking, slapping, face-spitting, f0rced acts & bdsm are all huge turn-ons.
Female (18) Buffalo, New York
Wild, crazy and fun!! What more can you ask for!! I’m shy at first so message me. I most likely wont send the first one. Not looking for hookups or FWB looking for LTR
Female (47) Waterloo, New York
description=My name is Julia new on this dating app and i will love to meet new people on here besides am single and am really here seeking for long term relationship to settle down for a great family so whoever is interested and love my profile to talk to me am always open to chat you can drop me your number so we can talk privately and also maybe good chat
Female (37) White Plains, New York
I am up front and honest and I am very much into my sexuality! I am a nymphomaniac which most cannot handle!
Female (48) Penn Yan, New York
I am highly intelligent, well read and mature. I am a caring lady with a good sense of humor. I think it's never too late to try something new in your life. I need someone who knows what he wants from life and a relationship and will not stop at anything to reach it, conquer me and never let me go.
Female (39) Bronx, New York
I want a strict forever daddy it’s all ive ever wanted preferably close by a daddy will do little things like call me before bed idk can I not have both it’s not fair
Female (25) Canandaigua, New York
A travel enthusiast who thrives on exploring new places and cultures. Whether it's hiking in the mountains or strolling through vibrant city streets, I'm always up for an adventure. Beyond travel, I enjoy simple pleasures like hiking, camping, swimming, maybe try a boat tour, seafood
Female (36) Brooklyn, New York
"I'm looking for somebody I can call boo. Looking for the only one who I can give my all to. Tell me if it's you, you, you. What you wanna do, do, do? Make a move." -Promise by Ciara
Female (35) Buffalo, New York
Relaxation isn't just a luxury, it's essential. Hi there, I want you to know that I specialize in stress relief through professional mssage, ensuring a comfortable and calming experience every time
Female (26) Jamaica, New York
*DO NOT ASK ME THINGS THAT ARE ON MY PROFILE, READ IT PLEASE?* ~Flirting, charm, and good conversation is very important. If you can provide all three, you've got my attention. ~I am not here for drama, disrespect, or foolishness. Please go elsewhere with that. ~Boundaries must be respected and listened to, I have no control over what happens if you do not do as such. ~let’s vibe, talk, see what we can create~ **I WILL NOT...:** -send you pictures. -meet up after 1 conversation. **ABSOLUTLY NOOOO** -***, -***s; irl or roleplay, -***; irl or diaper/baby roleplay, -raceplay; no slave or owner shit, -sounding, -feeding with food **Desires and Fantasies** -MMF -FFM -roleplay at a club/bar -graveyard sex? -Breeding roleplay -BDSM lifestyle, traditional lifestyle play
Female (28) Catskill, New York
Spontaneous adventurous Supreme Queen. I’m a bit of a sapiophile seeking out other adventurous wayfarers to sojourn these kink fun fetish plains and spaces. I dare say that I’m Not one for the faint hearted. Approach with caution in willing supplication. **Desires and Fantasies** I have always fantasised about owning folks; I’m that dominatrix with her own island and resort equipped with lifestyle themes, tools, toys, equipment and dungeon; amongst other activities and what not. I’m a Countess, always thinking about creating a kink, Fet and Bdsm community exclusive of vanilla or society’s ignorance. Baddest Black Amazon Goddess. Ha! 🏿😈
Female (35) New York, New York

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I am a calm and gentle girl with my eyes open to the world. I strive to create a future in love and well-being. I do not need wealth and golden treasures. I am accustomed to be happy with little. I wish you all love
Female (29) New York, New York
Hello I’m an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I’m ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (47) New York, New York
1 want to change people. i want them to learn how to feel each other. how to lose and find themselves in the eyes of someone they don't know. and i want them all to feel like they're not alone, that we're all in this together, and i hope that never changes. imagine that. what a beautiful way to live. what a beautiful way to feel, and what a beautiful way to survive.
Female (38) Bronx, New York
Be ready for lifetime fun
Female (35) Rochester, New York
Love and trust are two of the most important elements in any relationship. Love is an emotion that is associated with strong feelings of affection and attachment, and it is a feeling of warmth and caring towards someone.
Female (36) New York, New York
I am a calm person, but at the same time I have a strong character. I am kind, friendly and sincere. I like things clean. I do not like lies. I like ***s. I really want to get ahead, undertake, find a person who values ;;;;me, just as I would do with him. I am a woman who likes to take care of the people I love, I have few friends, I like to take care of my personal life.I like respectful men, who are gentlemen, who are simple, kind, good-natured, attentive to detail, faithful. Likes to play sports and eat well, leading a healthy and calm life. I don't like short men. I like white or dark-skinned men, who like to travel, plans like going to the beach, the movies, having dinner. well i would like us to get to know more about each other if you don`t mind sending me an invite on google chattheresacren3 att g m ail Dott com or Berlibsbae123or text me with your number so that we can chat more.....
Female (38) New York, New York
description=My name is Julia new on this dating app and i will love to meet new people on here besides am single and am really here seeking for long term relationship to settle down for a great family so whoever is interested and love my profile to talk to me am always open to chat you can drop me your number so we can talk privately and also maybe good chat
Female (37) White Plains, New York
I am a loving woman, sincere, responsible and understanding. I am in love with life and I try to lead a healthy life. When I am in a relationship, I am romantic, loving, caring and loyal. I am good-hearted and very sincere too
Female (39) Brooklyn, New York
Hello there! I'm a passionate, adventurous soul who loves to explore new places, experience life to the fullest, and create unforgettable memories. With a heart full of ambition and a mind that is always dreaming, I believe in living with purpose and embracing every moment. I'm confident and independent
Female (35) Brooklyn, New York
Relaxation isn't just a luxury, it's essential. Hi there, I want you to know that I specialize in stress relief through professional mssage, ensuring a comfortable and calming experience every time
Female (26) Jamaica, New York
I am an independent Domme, logical, down-to-earth ,assertive and sexy girl who definitely likes to keep life light. I am very outgoing, love to laugh, and find humor every day in this thing we call life.. I believe in honesty, dependablity, doing the right thing, being true to your word, and enjoying life every day. I believe in staying in shape and keeping active. I'm definitely not a couch potato. I enjoy swimming, great music (especially live), working in the yard, any time I can get at the beach, house projects, grilling out/hanging out with family and friends, just to name a few. I'm looking for a mature man, someone who shares my beliefs, values, and outlook on life, someone who is happy in their own life already,someone who will accept me for who I am and share everything together with me while i do the same.
Female (30) New York, New York
Looking forward to meet a loyal and a responsible man who is willing to be committed in a new relationship
Female (39) Brooklyn, New York
I am an inventive, adventurous, conscious aware gal that is interested in meeting friends who are enthusiastic about life and speak of the possibilities by saying yes to new adventures, new friends, and traveling to new places. Accepting you as you are, and empowering you to be your greatest potential. You will find me outside, even in the winter time. Staying warm is not hard to do, but a warm heart is from companionship. Witnessing a sunrise is an awesome experience and when shared it is intensified. So much beauty is around us in nature and in people.
Female (30) New York, New York
**IF YOURE NOT WILLING TO EXCHANGE PHONE NUMBERS AND TEXT after chatting here; please do not bother me.** i’m just a regular gal. trying this as an alternative to tinder/dating apps in search for intentionally good sex/companionship. mutual respect and protection are a must. i’m sensual and passionate. i’ve never done bdsm. but I like when I can be in charge in the beginning and then at some point surrender and let you be in charge. I think i’m identifying as a brat the more I read/explore? i’m feisty and outspoken; that translates to the bedroom. I guess I am a bad girl and looking for a man to turn me into a good girl in a passionate, seductive, fun, respectful way.
Female (37) Great Neck, New York
Hi! I’m Elina, I’m 22 y.o, kinda introverted and need a bit to open up, but I’m all about laughing and good vibes. I’m here to explore my kinks more, such as the *** side of things! I love praise and giving and getting attention:) I love being submissive to my partner, who is ideally taller and older than I am, with a cute dad bod. I love cuddling with him after some adventures
Female (22) New York, New York
I am a romantic lady, and I am the one who wants to find my soulmate here. I lead an active lifestyle, and I am fond of different activities and spending time with my loved ones. There is really so much feeling in my heart, and I dream of having a man next to me to whom I can give my heart, to whom I can trust completely. I want to have a best friend, a lover, a protector, and a support, a person I can rely on, and I want to see all this in one and only man, to whom I give my heart! I strive for a long-term relationship, and therefore I need a man with serious intentions.
Female (51) New York, New York
I’m looking to explore my sexual side after focusing too much on work. I grew up very religious and prudish until recently when I decided I’ve hit my 30s and need sexuality in mind life. I’m in charge at work and have to handle everything, so I’d like to experience the complete opposite and getting totally dominated. Someone who feels intense lust for my look. I guess I’m looking to get roughed up as I’ve been having many cnc fantasies. Yet I’m mostly with my gf and friends that are very sexual.
Female (33) New York, New York
Just a fun play toy who loves to expirence people and new fun *** and Alcohol is a + Love to party don't gatekeep a good time
Female (25) New York, New York
Well if you are slave/sub don't be shy just message lets explore it together, And if you are a dom don't waste your time to message me coz I'm not interested to become your slut
Female (28) Queens Village, New York
my purpose in life is to serve a master. looking for 24/7. I will do anything and everything for you. I have a high sex drive and will do domestic work.
Female (18) Buffalo, New York
Wild, crazy and fun!! What more can you ask for!! I’m shy at first so message me. I most likely wont send the first one. Not looking for hookups or FWB looking for LTR
Female (47) Waterloo, New York
My name is Yuliya. I am an independent Ukrainian lady. I work as a journalist in the local newspaper and I would like to write my own love story with a serious man. I know that you are very surprised why such a beautiful and a charming Ukrainian girl like me is still single. Many people say that my highlight is my kind heart and simplicity. I am a sensitive, an open-minded, a smart and a well-educated girl with a strong character. I know how to value small things and completely enjoy my life. Some small but important facts about me: I like to write and read poems. I love sunsets and sunrises; my best friends call me a book-worm, because I like reading so much; I believe in love; have a good sense of humor; you will never be bored with me.
Female (47) Flushing, New York
Im new to kink, so still figuring it out. So far...Little/ sub looking for a Mommydom/caregiver to obey nd make proud. Will do prob anything and follow any order to please her and to be called a "Good Girl". I want an actual relationship with her, for her to care about me n build love for me while also setting boundaries, disciplining, and pushing comfort zones. I seek constant reassurance bc abandoning me seems to b a trend. Am i too much for them? Or too "little"
Female (34) Endicott, New York
I am a burning long-haired blonde with deep blue eyes. How can you not fall in love with me? This is a joke. In fact, I am an open person with a good sense of humor. I am a romantic and dream of meeting sunrises and seeing off the sunsets in the arms of my man. The main drawback in me, I consider my naivety and trust in people. From this I often get blows of fate. I hope this dating site allows two lonely hearts mine and yours to meet. Would you like to complete this mission?
Female (36) Flushing, New York

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