I've felt like I have something that is missing from my life. Ever since I split with my ex of 9 years 3 years ago I haven't been the same. My tastes in food women and even music has changed. I have always been a man who likes white chicks and never had a thought of being with any other race or ethnicity. Now I prefer to be with a woman of color or mix race. My sexual desires have become more intense and my heart seems to have grown softer. I'm going to be 46 in a few months. Am I going through a mid life crisis is anyone else out there feeling the same changes in themselves. please I can't be the only one....