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MistressTae
MistressTae
Goddess Domme Mistress - In Durham, NC Do you love feet, especially mines? I need a certified PUSSY Eater! This BBW Princess LOVES having her PUSSY and ASS ate! DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do! What?s a FemDom to do???? I have this fantasy?.i want a group of subs! I want them all naked at my feet willing and wanting to please and impress me. I want to direct them to suck and fuck each other while I watch with a drink in my hand?.I think I will call it game night. Now I just need a guest list. Let me know if you want to play?.
Female (55) Durham, North Carolina
Triangle855440
T************0
Newish in town, looking to make some like minded friends for fun times. Currently interested in exploring with just females right now. But always on the lookout for a guy for dating/LTR or fwb (but emphasis on the friends part). Typically prefer White guys, so 🤷🏾‍♀️
Female (34) Durham, North Carolina
TheMistressD
T**********D
🥰Hey there, lovely souls! I’m diving back into this thrilling BDSM world and ready to connect with fellow kinksters who appreciate a little spice in their lives. 🌶️ I’m no stranger to the scene, having immersed myself as a playful sub and a true brat 🤪, but now I’m excited to explore my newly embraced dominant side. 💫 But hen the moment calls for it, I can seamlessly transition from taking charge—making you submit on your knees—to embracing my softer side as a “good girl” for Daddy. 😏 As a confident BBW, I’m all about celebrating 🎉 my curves and owning my sensuality! With the guidance of some incredible Dom mentors, I’ve discovered that my dominant style aligns beautifully with the nurturing energy of a Mommy Dom 🧑‍🧒🥰 style—a sweet blend of nurturing and playful dominance that brings out the best in my partners. If you’re ready for a connection filled with fun, laughter, and a sprinkle of mischief, let’s chat! Whether you’re looking for playful banter or something deeper, I’m here to create magic in the moment. 💖✨ 🗒️: I'm very interested in connecting with couples in the BDSM community who have an open relationship or marriage. I'm looking for friendships and learning experiences. I'm also open to meeting anyone who can help me explore experiences outside of conventional norms. currently looking for long term relationship - to build on
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
AlissaCheyenne
A************e
I'm a switch but I'm more so Dom, if you're a good slutty boy then we'll get along just fine ;) If you're looking for a new dommy mommy I got ya baby😘
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
CutiePie1738
C**********8
i’m a little looking for a daddy who is also very submissive and loves to try things out. i would like a daddy who will actually love me and not use me as a toy
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
DarkStarFallen
D************n
I don’t use this site very often. if you would like to contact me, find me on fetlife.com - Same username, DarkStarFallen Also, if your profile states “Here for a good time, not for a long time”, then we will most likely not be a good match. *********************************************** I’m a proud Luciferian (NOT A SATANIST, don’t worship Satan!!)- Check your religious baggage at the door, por favor! 😉 - Love a good play on words! I am basically a 25 year old stuck in a 41 year olds body. I love to have fun, be adventurous, very spontaneous, and continually trying to learn everything I can about myself and life’s mysteries. I am a pretty easy going and laid back kind of chick. I LOVE to laugh, flirt and tease, and have witty conversations. Some of my kinks are: • Submission (To Sir’s) • Masochism • Impact Play • Bondage • Sensory Play • Edge Play • Sapiosexual • Demisexual == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 94% Slave 94% Masochist 89% Experimentalist 68% Voyeur 27% Degradee 24% Exhibitionist 18% Vanilla 18% Pet 3% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat 0% Boy/Girl 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Switch
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version. There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it. If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.
Female (55) Durham, North Carolina
ParanormalSmutWriter
P******************r
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (48) Durham, North Carolina
rosie_18
r******8
I am looking for a daddy dom. Someone that will take care of me when I’m in little space, but someone that will also dominate me in the bedroom.
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
LittlePrincess21
L**************1
** I am POLYAMOROUS please please please if that’s all you read and you’re mono then save us both the time** I currently have a DD boyfriend and am looking for a woman as a primary partner for me that is a sub for him as well. As a sub I identify as a little/brat, masochist and prey. Finding another sub that is similar would be awesome and even a switch who would domme for me and sub for him. He has a family so taking some of my neediness off his plate would be amazing 😊 Outside of that I am poly, auDHD, spoonie (it’s definitely big for me to talk about physical can and cants but it doesn’t stop me very often), witchy, and nerdy in my own way. Not going to lie because it’s absolutely not fair to anyone, life is giving me a little bit of a go of it for the last 6-8 months. It’s starting to look up and get better but that doesn’t mean I’m not still working through the struggle that was thrown in my path. I have lost a lot more than I ever want to or wish upon anyone. Be patient with me. I deserve to be treated like the princess I am and will take no less just because times are hard and I need support.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
VioletGardenia
V************a
Just don’t bore me. I am a disabled sensual woman who is liberal as fuck and most likely going to hell in most people’s religion. Looking for a daddy or a hot girl to make out with. Could that be you? Oh and if you are a cis straight able-bodied white American man, chances are we won’t mesh.
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
masochistbabe
m***********e
I’m a single woman that is also a bit of a masochist. I am in search of a ltr with someone that sexually fulfill that or someone to pass the time until the ltr comes along!
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
MstrssFluffyButt
M**************t
Hey there! 👋 I've been married for 11 years and am in a happy, healthy relationship. My husband and I have been polyamorous in the past and are figuring out if we want to jump back in. Either way, we're new to the Triangle area and would love to make some new friends and check out some kink events. As for me, I'm nerdy - I love video games, anime, reading, board games, and crafting. I am on the fluffy side, so more curves to squeeze and cuddle! 😘 (I am trying to get back into eating healthier and going to the gym, so if you want to be accountability buddies, hit me up!) I love openness and honesty, and deep conversations with like minded people. I'm also incredibly goofy and silly at times, and love to laugh. If you think we might click or if you know of local groups/events that could be up my alley, feel free to reach out! Would love to chat and get to know you. 🥰
Female (39) Durham, North Carolina
8675309nc
8*******c
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina

New members in Durham

MistressTae
MistressTae
Goddess Domme Mistress - In Durham, NC Do you love feet, especially mines? I need a certified PUSSY Eater! This BBW Princess LOVES having her PUSSY and ASS ate! DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do! What?s a FemDom to do???? I have this fantasy?.i want a group of subs! I want them all naked at my feet willing and wanting to please and impress me. I want to direct them to suck and fuck each other while I watch with a drink in my hand?.I think I will call it game night. Now I just need a guest list. Let me know if you want to play?.
Female (55) Durham, North Carolina
Triangle855440
T************0
Newish in town, looking to make some like minded friends for fun times. Currently interested in exploring with just females right now. But always on the lookout for a guy for dating/LTR or fwb (but emphasis on the friends part). Typically prefer White guys, so 🤷🏾‍♀️
Female (34) Durham, North Carolina
CutiePie1738
C**********8
i’m a little looking for a daddy who is also very submissive and loves to try things out. i would like a daddy who will actually love me and not use me as a toy
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
AlissaCheyenne
A************e
I'm a switch but I'm more so Dom, if you're a good slutty boy then we'll get along just fine ;) If you're looking for a new dommy mommy I got ya baby😘
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
TheMistressD
T**********D
🥰Hey there, lovely souls! I’m diving back into this thrilling BDSM world and ready to connect with fellow kinksters who appreciate a little spice in their lives. 🌶️ I’m no stranger to the scene, having immersed myself as a playful sub and a true brat 🤪, but now I’m excited to explore my newly embraced dominant side. 💫 But hen the moment calls for it, I can seamlessly transition from taking charge—making you submit on your knees—to embracing my softer side as a “good girl” for Daddy. 😏 As a confident BBW, I’m all about celebrating 🎉 my curves and owning my sensuality! With the guidance of some incredible Dom mentors, I’ve discovered that my dominant style aligns beautifully with the nurturing energy of a Mommy Dom 🧑‍🧒🥰 style—a sweet blend of nurturing and playful dominance that brings out the best in my partners. If you’re ready for a connection filled with fun, laughter, and a sprinkle of mischief, let’s chat! Whether you’re looking for playful banter or something deeper, I’m here to create magic in the moment. 💖✨ 🗒️: I'm very interested in connecting with couples in the BDSM community who have an open relationship or marriage. I'm looking for friendships and learning experiences. I'm also open to meeting anyone who can help me explore experiences outside of conventional norms. currently looking for long term relationship - to build on
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
masochistbabe
m***********e
I’m a single woman that is also a bit of a masochist. I am in search of a ltr with someone that sexually fulfill that or someone to pass the time until the ltr comes along!
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
MstrssFluffyButt
M**************t
Hey there! 👋 I've been married for 11 years and am in a happy, healthy relationship. My husband and I have been polyamorous in the past and are figuring out if we want to jump back in. Either way, we're new to the Triangle area and would love to make some new friends and check out some kink events. As for me, I'm nerdy - I love video games, anime, reading, board games, and crafting. I am on the fluffy side, so more curves to squeeze and cuddle! 😘 (I am trying to get back into eating healthier and going to the gym, so if you want to be accountability buddies, hit me up!) I love openness and honesty, and deep conversations with like minded people. I'm also incredibly goofy and silly at times, and love to laugh. If you think we might click or if you know of local groups/events that could be up my alley, feel free to reach out! Would love to chat and get to know you. 🥰
Female (39) Durham, North Carolina
VioletGardenia
V************a
Just don’t bore me. I am a disabled sensual woman who is liberal as fuck and most likely going to hell in most people’s religion. Looking for a daddy or a hot girl to make out with. Could that be you? Oh and if you are a cis straight able-bodied white American man, chances are we won’t mesh.
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
DarkStarFallen
D************n
I don’t use this site very often. if you would like to contact me, find me on fetlife.com - Same username, DarkStarFallen Also, if your profile states “Here for a good time, not for a long time”, then we will most likely not be a good match. *********************************************** I’m a proud Luciferian (NOT A SATANIST, don’t worship Satan!!)- Check your religious baggage at the door, por favor! 😉 - Love a good play on words! I am basically a 25 year old stuck in a 41 year olds body. I love to have fun, be adventurous, very spontaneous, and continually trying to learn everything I can about myself and life’s mysteries. I am a pretty easy going and laid back kind of chick. I LOVE to laugh, flirt and tease, and have witty conversations. Some of my kinks are: • Submission (To Sir’s) • Masochism • Impact Play • Bondage • Sensory Play • Edge Play • Sapiosexual • Demisexual == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 94% Slave 94% Masochist 89% Experimentalist 68% Voyeur 27% Degradee 24% Exhibitionist 18% Vanilla 18% Pet 3% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat 0% Boy/Girl 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Switch
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
LittlePrincess21
L**************1
** I am POLYAMOROUS please please please if that’s all you read and you’re mono then save us both the time** I currently have a DD boyfriend and am looking for a woman as a primary partner for me that is a sub for him as well. As a sub I identify as a little/brat, masochist and prey. Finding another sub that is similar would be awesome and even a switch who would domme for me and sub for him. He has a family so taking some of my neediness off his plate would be amazing 😊 Outside of that I am poly, auDHD, spoonie (it’s definitely big for me to talk about physical can and cants but it doesn’t stop me very often), witchy, and nerdy in my own way. Not going to lie because it’s absolutely not fair to anyone, life is giving me a little bit of a go of it for the last 6-8 months. It’s starting to look up and get better but that doesn’t mean I’m not still working through the struggle that was thrown in my path. I have lost a lot more than I ever want to or wish upon anyone. Be patient with me. I deserve to be treated like the princess I am and will take no less just because times are hard and I need support.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version. There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it. If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.
Female (55) Durham, North Carolina
8675309nc
8*******c
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
rosie_18
r******8
I am looking for a daddy dom. Someone that will take care of me when I’m in little space, but someone that will also dominate me in the bedroom.
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
ParanormalSmutWriter
P******************r
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (48) Durham, North Carolina

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DaytonLady
Looking for a kinky date tonight!

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yourhotblonde
new here - in atlanta

hi i just downloaded this app idk how it works but im in atlanta if anyone is interested in coming over tonight!
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kcmomma3
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looking for something serious!
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In need of discipline

This babygirl is in need of a strict firm daddy or mommy to make her mind. If you’re interested in that position add me on snap at rebelgurl28 and also send a voice message when you add me. Thank you
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rosewood25
Please

I need a Sugar Daddy to take care of me so I can take care of him 😉
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Babydoll222111
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wild-kitty
Kinks

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pleasureMEplease
Deeply desired- tantric pleasure partner

Looking for someone (38 y.o. or over in the northern DC or MD area), healthy and stable to experience a long term sexual relationship with. Explore kinks and learn each others sex languages.

I’m turned on by care, consent language, good listeners, fast learners, good hygiene and someone who can ask for what they want and thank me for taking care of myself if I say no. Humor and intelligence a big plus. Let’s get to enthusiastic yes!

I’m STD free and would like to keep it that way so sharing current test results is important.

I’m bi, so what’s in your pants is sure to satisfy me if the chemistry is there.

No ONS, looking to build a healthy lasting sexual relationship.
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san-jose442319
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Kinkybabydoll99
Checking out the app for the first time

I'd like to meet someone who will push my boundaries, and let me explore my kinky side. I've been many who would love me to guide them into the kink lifestyle, but this time I need someone else to take the lead. I crave the loss of control.... But I'm also a brat at heart.
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milskiprety
Looking for a serious reationship

Looking for a meaningful connection that could lead to a serious relationship.
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AliW04
Seeking a gentle soul: a submissive women who crav

I’m looking for a woman with a soft heart and a submissive spirit—someone who finds joy in trust, tenderness, and the kind of love that feels like home. Experience doesn’t matter; if you’re new to this, I’ll guide you with patience and care. I believe in cherishing, protecting, and leading with a firm yet understanding hand. I can be stern when needed, offering structure and control, but always with respect and warmth. If you crave a deep, unshakable bond built on trust and devotion, let’s create something beautiful together.
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cumsluttrainer
Sex slave

I need someone who will practically bow down to me and obey me no matter what I say and always do as I say and when I say it if my standards aren’t met with my chosen slave they must be aware they will be punished.
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briwaco
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ValentineSub
I can be fisted

I can be fisted if the hand is slender like a woman’s. I found that out last night…. Tear me up ladies
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AnimeKitten
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caytiebug93
Come spoil me

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prettygirl7014000
feet pictures

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Monica-5679
Love honesty faithfulness

I’m a woman who values love, respect, and honesty above all. I’ve been through my fair share of challenges and heartbreaks in the past, but I’ve learned from each experience and now look at life with a heart full of hope. I’ve decided to let go of past wounds and focus on the present, opening myself up to the possibility of creating something beautiful with someone who shares the same values. I’m here with nothing but good intentions—looking to build a meaningful connection with a genuine, kind, and respectful man. My past doesn’t define me, but rather, it has shaped me into someone stronger, more compassionate, and more ready to embrace the future. I’m excited about the idea of making new memories, sharing moments of joy, and building a real, loving relationship with the right person.
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abigailfuggart
A true Dominant does not need to shout

I am Mistress Abigail, a leather and PVC glad goddess who delights in inflicting acts of sadism, domination and seduction on sissies, submissives and slaves from all walks of life. I’m as tall as a skysc***r in my sexy high heeled boots, with my silky-smooth brunette hair and hazel chestnut brown eyes, which have the ability to bore into your very soul. But don’t just take my word for it.

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