Kinky women in North Carolina

2,256 Kinky women in North Carolina

I have been in and out of the lifestyle for around 8+ years. I do have some experience but not a whole lot. Yes I am married to a vanilla husband but he supports my journey. I am a BBW and I am a sensualist meaning I am not into *** at all. I will not do anything online and I do know my limits. I am looking for someone in my city or close by, I do not do long distance. If you do not respect limits then I sure as hell don't respect you so don't get mad at me for calling you out on your bs. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to find more things that I am into, I already enjoy bondage, sensory deprivation, gags, wax and fire cupping. I am looking for a Dom who is my age or older with patience and experience to teach and guide me. The experience part is HUGE for me, I can't say I'm comfortable with someone who doesn't have at least two years experience or more. If you are just starting out then you might want to find a more experienced sub to help you out. I will also add, sorry to say but I'm not looking for sex, I am a greysexual so if that's all you want or think that's all bdsm is about then you can move on.

I try to be positive or find the positive in every situation as negativity drags you down. I have always subscribed to the "Golden Rule" and I will treat others as I hope they'd treat me.

Please read my bio and don’t waste my time 😉. I’m looking for a couple or a third to help me satisfy my fantasy no one older than 45 or younger then 30 will reconsider if you can act mature enough for women like me and must be shaved because I don’t do body hair . I also don’t do cigarettes I have my limits with 420.

I'm new here, married but hubby is very vanilla and me well If I have to eat vanilla then I want some sprinkles. So I'm looking for a strict D to keep me in check. Online only. Im free most of the day to chat. Some evening and nights. Open to new things.

i am owned and have a Master and nothing is done without His permission. He allows me to play and have fun..and I love to have fun NO...I don't do video or phone calls. Don't ask to see my private gallery if we haven't even chatted because you will be denied . I'm still learning what I like but I like it a little rough ... ask and I'll tell more

I am an active person who enjoys cycling and running best. I believe keeping fit is important. I am not interested in games or drama. I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going.

I've come to the understanding that I am more of a Submissive. I genuinely enjoy the feeling of being Dominated by a strong Man, feeling almost *** in his control. I used to believe that being submissive was being weak but at the point I am in my life I see it takes more to relinquish control, especially considering the work I do requires me to always be in charge so it has become the best release for me. **Desires and Fantasies** Well, as discussed, A genuine Dominant Man. One who is a bit husky, larger than me, always watches me like his pet that's getting out of line. A Man who has no problem with controlling Me. Please be Sophisticated, Mature. Understand that this isn't always going to be about sex, I want a Dominant who understands that. I enjoy a DEEP voice. I want you to growl in my ears, take me when you see me getting out of control (preferably in a private place, but lately public-y place makes my heart race!). You HAVE to respect Me. I'm submissive, not a Doormat. I don't like the words "Slave" or "Master", I prefer Babygirl or Good Girl and Daddy 🏽 Please be 35+, also good hygiene and strong understanding of being a Dominant. Thank You.

I’m 30, looking for a dominant man. Someone who can tell me what to do. I don’t want to have control. I do have an issue with not listening but I’m sure for the right person that could be nipped pretty quickly. I’m graduating college and going for my undergrad in the fall. I can hold an intelligent conversation and prefer for my intelligence to be matched. If you aren’t bringing the right energy, I’d prefer you not try. I do like to be tied up and chased. I like to know I’m out of options when I miss behave. For the right person I’m into *** just depends lots of trust is needed for that. (:

I always have issues when it comes to this. I'm me what you see is what you get. don't do games or drama. ask and I'll tell you if you wanna know more

I’m a curvy, bratty, subby, kind natured, polyamorous, married woman who is looking for fairly local friends (or more), and people who can match my energy and pique my interest. I say local because long distance connections are kinda hard to maintain.

INFP-T I have a tiny human who is super smart and cute. I've got severe adhd along with several annoying comorbitities. I am an artist and I make my income as a union Set Decorator. It is a feast or famine kind of career but I am good at it and love it. **When I am on a job that is pretty much all I have time for.** When I'm not I have lots of time. I really enjoy the outdoors as well. I like to take my son mushroom and moss hunting. I am also a huge *** person. My critters have always been a huge part of my life and a major life raft durring rough times. My tiny human care situation is primarily me. Otherwise its me. I am in a deep period of change. I am in a very slow process of moving from Charlotte to Wake Forest. I am seeking true friendship and of course benifits. I also do not intend to be monogamous any time soon nor do I expect my partners to be. I do expect complete candor. While I am not opposed to distance I am not interested if you never intend to meet and you will absolutely need to capture my interest or I will get bored and ghost you. I'd really like to meet folks who are cool letting me be me and want to know me as a human. Someone who likes to spend time together and can comfortably body double (Google ADHD body double) and isn't upset if I don't respond right away or even a few days when I'm busy. Also, if you are likely to be thrown for a loop by me refering to myself as us or we. I am not lifestyle. 420. You enjoy a lively conversation that flows from topic to topic but are also cool with silence. If you feel you are still interested please shoot me a message. I had my foot ran over at work in October and the first bone on my big toe was shattered. The more moderate breaks have mostly healed but the most severe is still healing. If you can't host play time and are afraid to fuck in the forest I am not for you. film = jobs bi/ sapio/ ENM/ Eclectic witch == My Roles == •°•Primal •°•Masochist •°•Rope Bunny •°•Brat == I am not == •°• slave •°• bitch •°• whore •°• degradee •°• doll •°• little updated 11/22/22 - Enjoy your journey. p.s. my subspace is mostly nonverbal

I want a man who will treat a woman with love and respect.

I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even it is hurt. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.

I am looking to fulfill all my desires and branch off into a side of me that I always kept hidden. I’ve had very few to able to feed this appetite of mine and I’m ready to give it a shot. I’m a cross between a Brat and Dom…I have a problem with authority and control is my desire..

Switch looking to explore herself. kinda feeling I want to be submissive again. Could use some friends as well. Demisexual!!!!!!!! Be in my area, no online xx

Submissive Masochist who gets upset when someone's tones changes towards me but likes hand necklaces and being held down. If you're starting the conversation with what you plan to do to me, expect the message to get ignored. Demisexual so I won't meet you without a connection ENM with one dynamic currently

I am never good at these at all. I am the girl next door that is learning what she loves. You will find me most days in jeans and a t-shirt. I enjoy kid like things like video games, board games, and card games. I am down to earth and easy going. Goofy and awkward is how my friends would describe me. I am also told that I can talk and make friends with anyone. I am new to the kink community and am lucky to have a wonderful nesting partner that is helping me in my journey. I am more dominant than submissive, and identify as a soft domme, but I'm curious to explore my submissive side, if I can find the right person.

Wellllllll I’m Heather (aka Heather Nova on OF) (petitenova is my OF username). My kink calling is a Sub/Slave/Brat ??‍♀️??. I’m from a small town in the middle of nowhere North Carolina. I’ve been called a devilish Gemini or a submissive succubus. If you wanna know more or have any questions feel free to ask!! ☺️

I am an ardent and passionate lady with splendor in my eyes and flame in my soul. I am gentle and tender, caring and affectionate. I have a lioness' temper and the playfulness of a cat). My friends say I am charming and glamorous and also very optimistic

In a relationship I am a loyal, loving, fun, unconditional woman. I always listen before judging. I don't like drama. I won't be jealous if you don't give me reasons. I will support you in whatever you need and in whatever way I can. I have emotional responsibility and I expect the same. I will always be beautiful for my man and I will make sure that you want and love me more every day. I will make you smile every day and hug you more than usual when you feel sad. I will take care of you and love you without limits as long as you are the person I want and deserv

39/f married to Joshb83 40/M we are both bi and looking for FWB. We would like to find someone consistent to hang with as well as play with from time to time.

* please read my profile Before contacting me * more important if you cannot speak to me with respect I’m not interested. submission is a gift to be earned. I'm a 57 year old Submissive - Female I’m curvy with large breasts. My friend says if you got it flaunt it so I’m a DDD cup size. I’m Interested in getting to know people and making friends. I found this app while looking into BDSM. I ain’t gonna lie I have experienced prob 2 bad for every one good experience here. Some people don’t put their real profile picture. They put a fake one to catfish. They look one way and when you talk on the phone the voice is not matching up. One told me your a good sub I’m going to reward you by letting you invest with my opportunity. I block Fakes. No time for that. Wasting time letting someone get to know you and getting to know them so they can be fake. Also nothing more aggravating than trying to get to know someone and getting one word answers and acting like they are watching a football game and your disturbing them or something. If you message me be prepared for the convo.

I'm new to this app but I'm 29 and definitely a brat but am very easily turned into a submissive when I'm with the right partner. I want a dominant who has a caring side and is big on after care, but also knows how to put me in my place. I like a mix of rough sex with a bit of passionate teasing and arousing. Kinda 50 shades of grey type of stuff but you know, a lot worse!

I DONT LIKE ANYONE 18-27!!! NOT SORRY!! NOT INTERESTED, I LIKE OLDER MEN AND WOMEN ❤️ I’m looking for a male/female partner! prefer something long term. I’m open minded to new things. PLEASE LIVE CLOSE TO ASHEVILLE NC!!!

I have been in and out of the lifestyle for around 8+ years. I do have some experience but not a whole lot. Yes I am married to a vanilla husband but he supports my journey. I am a BBW and I am a sensualist meaning I am not into *** at all. I will not do anything online and I do know my limits. I am looking for someone in my city or close by, I do not do long distance. If you do not respect limits then I sure as hell don't respect you so don't get mad at me for calling you out on your bs. **Desires and Fantasies** I would like to find more things that I am into, I already enjoy bondage, sensory deprivation, gags, wax and fire cupping. I am looking for a Dom who is my age or older with patience and experience to teach and guide me. The experience part is HUGE for me, I can't say I'm comfortable with someone who doesn't have at least two years experience or more. If you are just starting out then you might want to find a more experienced sub to help you out. I will also add, sorry to say but I'm not looking for sex, I am a greysexual so if that's all you want or think that's all bdsm is about then you can move on.

I'm new here, married but hubby is very vanilla and me well If I have to eat vanilla then I want some sprinkles. So I'm looking for a strict D to keep me in check. Online only. Im free most of the day to chat. Some evening and nights. Open to new things.

I am an active person who enjoys cycling and running best. I believe keeping fit is important. I am not interested in games or drama. I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going.

I am experienced and mature woman who still desire to be happy. I am like a fire and I am very passionate woman. I like active way of life. I like very much Latin American dancing and yoga. you will never see me sad, because I try to smile every time even when it is really sad. I have my own motto - Always smile, even it is hurt. I want to find real and honest man. I like to watch sun sets and I dream to meet a man with whom will meet sun rise.

I am an extremely open, emotional, cheerful and persistent person. I am very sociable, active, tender-hearted, caring and passionate. I live guided with my own principles and I am open to new experiences and new feelings. I am able to love unconditionally and faithfully. I love beauty and don't like monotony. I like style, life rhythm and intelligence.

Please read my bio and don’t waste my time 😉. I’m looking for a couple or a third to help me satisfy my fantasy no one older than 45 or younger then 30 will reconsider if you can act mature enough for women like me and must be shaved because I don’t do body hair . I also don’t do cigarettes I have my limits with 420.

Looking for someone to share bits and pieces of my life with, understand and support me in my quest for growth and happiness.

I am a kind and affectionate person who always strives for an active life. I like communication with people. I am cheerful and purposeful. For me, nature is not only a source of inspiration but also a place where I can completely relax. I love ***s and enjoy their company

In a relationship I am a loyal, loving, fun, unconditional woman. I always listen before judging. I don't like drama. I won't be jealous if you don't give me reasons. I will support you in whatever you need and in whatever way I can. I have emotional responsibility and I expect the same. I will always be beautiful for my man and I will make sure that you want and love me more every day. I will make you smile every day and hug you more than usual when you feel sad. I will take care of you and love you without limits as long as you are the person I want and deserv

Hi I’m Bri, about to turn 20 and am looking for a very strict dominant male to live with and take care of me. In exchange of living at my dom’s house and being taken care of, I will satisfy him with all his needs. I can be expensive at times with makeup, skincare, hair care and clothing, but will not use him for currency of any sort. I am a loyal person and I should receive the same loyalty. I have social anxiety, borderline personality disorder and depression, therefore I can be sensitive at times, and must be nurtured with love and affection. After any form of punishment, I need to be soothed and know that you still care about me. If I am on my period, I am not obligated to do anything sexual or get punished if I have a bad attitude. In the first month, I must have time to get used to everything, so he would need to start slow. Overall, I am very submissive, but my mouth can get the best of me. I tend to have an attitude quite a bit that needs a lot correcting and training. Although I’m not flexible, I enjoy being restrained and punished. I like being degraded, but have limits. I tend to be child like in the sense of I love Disney, My little pony, having a bed time, phone limits and checks, etc. Because I tend to have childlike traits, I must be nurtured and taken care of. I tend to cry when people yell at me. Certain things can really upset me, and should be taken into consideration due to my anxiety and depression. I like to be privately humiliated, like writing on paper what I did wrong, becoming a foot rest, being walked with a leash, etc. I like getting physically hurt. I prefer to be restrained for it but I do have limits. My favorite pet names are Baby and Angel. I am pretty much down for anything but when I’m not, my discomfort should be respected. When it comes to specific instructions, sometimes I may not understand and should be told or shown by my dom with patience. Not everything is sexual. I still want to be nurtured, taken care of, loved on, and rewarded. If I’m bad or break rules I get punished, which means I should be able to get rewarded as well for going above and beyond. I have very simple currency requirements, such as having my own room, having Disney, Amazon Prime, Netflix and Max, being able to buy clothes toiletries, accessories when earned. I don’t need the richest man, but he should at least be able to give me my main necessities. My dom should enjoy spending time with and cuddling me. Maybe watch something with me, play a game with me, or do fun activities with me. I want to be treated like I’m the only girl in the world. I should be able to let my personality and humor shine as I feel comfortable to be myself. I don’t know what else to say so if you’re interested or have any questions, hit me up!!

I am here for a good time not a long time. looking to degrade a few and humiliate a few as well. I am open to suggestions and things you might be interested in. let me know.

Submissive Masochist who gets upset when someone's tones changes towards me but likes hand necklaces and being held down. If you're starting the conversation with what you plan to do to me, expect the message to get ignored. Demisexual so I won't meet you without a connection ENM with one dynamic currently

I want a man who will treat a woman with love and respect.

I am looking for anything really I’m open to trying new things. I have a mask kink, I love to role play, and I like being a sub.

I am sensitive, straightforward , honest , outspoken , passionate , kind , open , wise , able to hear and listen, speak and be silent . In general, my life path has made me a wise and comfortable person. I believe people are the creators of their own life. Patient is a key to everything and everything has it's beginning and the end.

I have been lucky in life and now I am looking to be lucky in love. I am confident, artistic and like being the center of attention. I am a very versatile person, I am interested in many things, these are books, films, literature, photographs, as well as sports. My friends say I'm the life of the party. I am always positive and only surround myself with the same kind of people. I love to laugh and smile as much as possible. However, I do know when and where to be serious and respect that trait in others as well. I am loyal and caring person. I believe in giving to the community and helping others. That's how I would describe myself. However, my family and friends would describe me as spunky, energetic, outgoing and very, very sweet.

I'm kinky, but sending nudes ain't my thing ??‍♀️ Also submitting really isn't for me, if I want it I'm going to ask, no begging and calling anybody sir. You can tie me up and play with me, just don't expect me to be a slave or anything.

Hey everyone ! I’m new to the app. I’m 23 from the NC area. I’m new to the fetish lifestyle but have a few set and stone kinks. I enjoy CNC play , age play , invest play (daddy/daughter, mommy/daughter dynamics) I enjoy rimming and giving oral. I love sloppy wet head and kisses. I love threesome and love eating pussy/sucking cock.

I am a beautiful, young woman looking for a generous Daddy that is interested in an arrangement that fulfills both of our desires and fantasies. If you think you are the man that can handle me the way I need to be, please don't be shy ?

I try to be positive or find the positive in every situation as negativity drags you down. I have always subscribed to the "Golden Rule" and I will treat others as I hope they'd treat me.

Alpha submissive through and through. Running circles around betas in public but will surrender it all in an instant for the right Dom who can tame me. I have a very strong personality and I'm extremely guarded. However if you're lucky enough to be let inside the walls, if you put the effort in to breaking them down, you'll see the real me. Adorably goofy, awkward, funny, a good girl with a touch of brat, and be forewarned, a bit of needy ? ok maybe a lot needy 6' Tall BBW mix of Princess, Good Girl and Brat. I am looking for my Sir. So many wannabes, fakes and jerks out there. I want a loving relationship that is also a D/s dynamic with someone who is age appropriate (34-48) preferably taller than me haha, handsome, and has their life together. Is that so much to ask for? Any canned messages or one line messages will be deleted! NO dick pics! I'm too classy a lady ?

I am an ardent and passionate lady with splendor in my eyes and flame in my soul. I am gentle and tender, caring and affectionate. I have a lioness' temper and the playfulness of a cat). My friends say I am charming and glamorous and also very optimistic

I’m 30, looking for a dominant man. Someone who can tell me what to do. I don’t want to have control. I do have an issue with not listening but I’m sure for the right person that could be nipped pretty quickly. I’m graduating college and going for my undergrad in the fall. I can hold an intelligent conversation and prefer for my intelligence to be matched. If you aren’t bringing the right energy, I’d prefer you not try. I do like to be tied up and chased. I like to know I’m out of options when I miss behave. For the right person I’m into *** just depends lots of trust is needed for that. (:

I am a good innocent girl looking for someone to teach me all about bdsm ?(I’m a physical learner) snap-imkasslol