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well my name is Jen and I'm single with one daughter but she doesn't live with me, I do sculpture artwork for a living ... I'm looking for a serious relationship with a man who is ready to love and share his life with me forever
Female (60) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Creator of chaos. Polyamorous switch. I have a massive dislike of smokers. I dont drink or smoke weed. I love enthusiastic consent. Definitely a sadomasochist. As a top, I like canes and paddles and emotional/mental fuckery. While I am looking for connection and am open to whatever happens, sex is not my primary concern. Im happy to be a key holder though. As a bottom, I have very few things I dislike. I am in a TPE.
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
✨ Sensual • Open-Minded • Here With Intention ✨ I’m here to explore energy, fantasy, kink, and connection in a safe and consensual way. I’m playful, curious, and creative — and I enjoy stepping into different roles, fetishes, and dynamics… as long as they’re respectful and within reason. (❌ No minors, no bodily waste, nothing unsafe or illegal.) I’m very upfront: My time, attention, and interactions are always compensated. If you want my energy — whether it’s chatting, teasing, roleplay, feet, domination, custom content, or anything else online — then you will need to pay for every single session with cash, Cash App, or Facebook Pay. No exceptions. No “maybe later.” No freebies. Respect my boundaries and you’ll get the best version of me. If you’re generous, consistent, and understand that my time has value, then step forward. If not, keep scrolling. Serious, respectful, paying subs / admirers / kink partners only. Let’s create something intoxicating — on my terms, with clear boundaries, and always with upfront payment.
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Check out our couples profile Just looking to have a little fun and explore new sexual experiences
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Not interested in flings or one night stands. >A little fragile, a little feisty.< I love tattoos and piercings! Demi Bisexual - She/Her Please don't message me being a horny weirdo right off the bat. I'm a person, please don't treat me like a sex object.
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hello guys how are you please reach out if you are interested I am into DDLG BDSM Kinks Handcuffs Being tied up Orgasm Denial Overstimulation Temperature Play Being ***d *** Deprivation Pet Play *** Wax Play Aftercare
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In a poly house, Collared & NOT looking WILL NOT PLAY OUTSIDE OF POLY HOUSE!! Hello everyone! 👋🏻 Looking for friends! she is a sub, little, slave, and pig (would love more little + pet friends!). she has been in the lifestyle for about 12 years now and am always looking to learn more. Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm new to this but am definitely a submissive seeking structure, order, and a steady hand in a dynamic. Still at a stage where I don't know if I'm a hopeless romantic or just wanting to default to following orders and being good for a dom that tolerates me. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone I can build a future with, being theirs and fulfilling eachothers needs. I want to be able to hand the reigns over and give control to my Dom where all I need to do is be theirs and be good for them - albeit I love pushing boundaries and need to be put in my place more often than not because I go too far on everything if left unchecked. My poor roommate has been my 'guidance' (stops me from burning home down. Bought arc welder while left to my own devices) after I had split with my partner and thats whats pushing me to get out there, I want someone to tell me no, tell me why im probably going to be wrong or not, someone to tell me good job and for me to make proud. Uhh anyways yeah thats about it see ya.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Looking for real love
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hi there, I’m 24 years old. I have experimented with BDSM and really enjoy it. I like giving up control and letting others make decisions for me, so I’m looking for my full-time master to help guide me through life and discipline me accordingly. my kinks: breath play, name calling, public ***, spankings, public sex, whips, wax play, deep throat, cock worship, slave training, slapping, belts, rope, canes, role play, nudity, hair pulling, Degrading, and teasing. soft limits: “free use” with your friends, anal, Collaring (will wear publicly just not at work), Fisting, and Knife play.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
First things first ! I love to talk back to see how far it will get me 😈 Masks excite me 🤤 Patient men are hot 🔥 You can't punish what you can't catch 😏 ✨️ Tatted & Pierced Domiants with bikes to the front of the line !! ✨️ 👸 Why is it so hard for a naughty bratty princess to find her king daddy ? 🤴 I'm not looking for ANYTHING discrete , I'm a Princess that should be shown off so why hide me ? Hmm what else ? oh ! just got out of a 4yr relationship with a fake ass, narcissistic, man child of a " Dom " so I will call you out on your B.S. quickly 😘
Female (33) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am new to actively looking for someone within the DD/LG BDSM community. Looking for a DD/Dom that is wanting a long term relationship (hoping this isn’t too much to ask for) that is patient and willing to teach and help me explore & experiences different things to find my liked and dislikes. I have some minimal experience as a Sub but just started the with the DD/LG aspect but I am very excited
Female (43) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I've been known to be "too much"...100% NOT for the weak minded or hearted....im definitely one of a k8nd and loads of fun just know there's a 86% chance ill have you running and hiding...but I'm a good way..😇😇
Female (35) Tulsa, Oklahoma
mischievous, naughty, and not a good girl 😈 pregnant, horny, & craving a cream pie 😉 if you can’t address me as MAHALA then don’t address me at all. Instant Block for anyone who calls me Madeline. That’s my middle name, my first name is there.
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Looking for safe experimental play. Booty call vibes. I am not able to host, please have somewhere figured out for us to meet up 😉 Not available to meet until after thanksgiving 🤗
Female (33) Tulsa, Oklahoma
just here to look around, learn, and post when i feel cute. into soft kink, good banter, and people who respect boundaries. premium content available !
Female (20) Tulsa, Oklahoma
love a good online vibe .❤️but let’s be real - my cyber time ain’t free . if you want to play, it’s Paid only… Respect that and we’ll get along great! 😊
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
That BDSM test is RIGGED! 😒 43% Dominate and 90% Submissive??! 🤨 T H A T ''S N O T M A T H ! ! 🤔 DOMS, DO NOT PASS GO. DO NOT COLLECT $200. GO DIRECT TO DADDY.. @RiggerForRopeBunny
Female (47) Tulsa, Oklahoma
If you love attention we’ve got plenty to give. ✨ you me + him is 3 ✨ we love good food, good drink and good times. Maybe you do too 😊 Vasectomy ✔️ 8.5 size queens you're in luck Skiatook lake 🛥️ on our days off
Female (29) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Domme looking for cool people to connect with whether that's subs, other Dom(mes), or polyam people!
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
hii I'm kaila ♡ I'm 420 friendly😚💨 looking to join a fun couple, find myself a gf or a girl and seeing where it goes 🤞 and maybe a male fuck buddy..tbd ☺️
Female (36) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a single mom with tattoos, thick thighs and pretty eyes. Finding a partner that matches me and has a high sex drive is what excites me. I honestly don’t know what I want out of this yet
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hi! I am 18 years deep into the lifestyle. I enjoy being a rope bunny and *** slut. I have a praise kink but I also love being told how well I take *** so remember that tip tehe tip lol. Also into *** but that has to come from someone I respect. I take care of myself and if mistreated I will drop you without explanation, we are all too old for that shit. I set my filters to show only ones with profile pictures, if none contain your face then walk on home boy! I am a metalhead before anything else and I love roasting back and forth just taking shit. If the attitude isn't apparent by now 🤣 this ain't my first rodeo and no I do not want to train anyone nor do I want a submissive. 🖤🖤🖤
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
**i am collared and NOT looking** On the hunt for open minded PLATONIC friends (especially littles/pets), smoking buddies, events to attend, and maybe some light flirting if the vibes are right! i'm a sub, little, brat, slave, and pet. i've been in the lifestyle for about 5 years now and am always looking to learn more. i love all sorts of books, writing poetry and short stories, baking yummy desserts, drawing, playing piano, listening to music + singing, telling bad jokes, and cuddling. i can be very shy at first but will open up more as we get to know each other. i am 420 friendly. Please do not immediately ask for private gallery access or nudes. You will be mocked and blocked.
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma

New members in Tulsa

✨ Sensual • Open-Minded • Here With Intention ✨ I’m here to explore energy, fantasy, kink, and connection in a safe and consensual way. I’m playful, curious, and creative — and I enjoy stepping into different roles, fetishes, and dynamics… as long as they’re respectful and within reason. (❌ No minors, no bodily waste, nothing unsafe or illegal.) I’m very upfront: My time, attention, and interactions are always compensated. If you want my energy — whether it’s chatting, teasing, roleplay, feet, domination, custom content, or anything else online — then you will need to pay for every single session with cash, Cash App, or Facebook Pay. No exceptions. No “maybe later.” No freebies. Respect my boundaries and you’ll get the best version of me. If you’re generous, consistent, and understand that my time has value, then step forward. If not, keep scrolling. Serious, respectful, paying subs / admirers / kink partners only. Let’s create something intoxicating — on my terms, with clear boundaries, and always with upfront payment.
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm new to this but am definitely a submissive seeking structure, order, and a steady hand in a dynamic. Still at a stage where I don't know if I'm a hopeless romantic or just wanting to default to following orders and being good for a dom that tolerates me. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone I can build a future with, being theirs and fulfilling eachothers needs. I want to be able to hand the reigns over and give control to my Dom where all I need to do is be theirs and be good for them - albeit I love pushing boundaries and need to be put in my place more often than not because I go too far on everything if left unchecked. My poor roommate has been my 'guidance' (stops me from burning home down. Bought arc welder while left to my own devices) after I had split with my partner and thats whats pushing me to get out there, I want someone to tell me no, tell me why im probably going to be wrong or not, someone to tell me good job and for me to make proud. Uhh anyways yeah thats about it see ya.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
well my name is Jen and I'm single with one daughter but she doesn't live with me, I do sculpture artwork for a living ... I'm looking for a serious relationship with a man who is ready to love and share his life with me forever
Female (60) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Not interested in flings or one night stands. >A little fragile, a little feisty.< I love tattoos and piercings! Demi Bisexual - She/Her Please don't message me being a horny weirdo right off the bat. I'm a person, please don't treat me like a sex object.
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Looking for real love
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Creator of chaos. Polyamorous switch. I have a massive dislike of smokers. I dont drink or smoke weed. I love enthusiastic consent. Definitely a sadomasochist. As a top, I like canes and paddles and emotional/mental fuckery. While I am looking for connection and am open to whatever happens, sex is not my primary concern. Im happy to be a key holder though. As a bottom, I have very few things I dislike. I am in a TPE.
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Check out our couples profile Just looking to have a little fun and explore new sexual experiences
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hello guys how are you please reach out if you are interested I am into DDLG BDSM Kinks Handcuffs Being tied up Orgasm Denial Overstimulation Temperature Play Being ***d *** Deprivation Pet Play *** Wax Play Aftercare
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In a poly house, Collared & NOT looking WILL NOT PLAY OUTSIDE OF POLY HOUSE!! Hello everyone! 👋🏻 Looking for friends! she is a sub, little, slave, and pig (would love more little + pet friends!). she has been in the lifestyle for about 12 years now and am always looking to learn more. Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am looking for to meet New people and be friends with I love to spend time with my daughter and play video games and color and read I love to listen to music and sing and dance and watch anime jessica _k202587
Female (37) Tulsa, Oklahoma
love a good online vibe .❤️but let’s be real - my cyber time ain’t free . if you want to play, it’s Paid only… Respect that and we’ll get along great! 😊
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I've been known to be "too much"...100% NOT for the weak minded or hearted....im definitely one of a k8nd and loads of fun just know there's a 86% chance ill have you running and hiding...but I'm a good way..😇😇
Female (35) Tulsa, Oklahoma
If you love attention we’ve got plenty to give. ✨ you me + him is 3 ✨ we love good food, good drink and good times. Maybe you do too 😊 Vasectomy ✔️ 8.5 size queens you're in luck Skiatook lake 🛥️ on our days off
Female (29) Tulsa, Oklahoma
just here to look around, learn, and post when i feel cute. into soft kink, good banter, and people who respect boundaries. premium content available !
Female (20) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m complex and sensitive, sweet and spicy. Looking for something meaningful, deep, and sexy. Very submissive and giving but I also love to be pampered and taken care of. You may use me as you wish but I have expectations and high standards. I love massages, I am diagnosed with hEDS so I’m often feeling tense and achy but it makes me flexible and soft, you’ll enjoy rubbing all over me and will be heavily rewarded. (; I have an insatiable energy about me so beware that you may have met your match in the bedroom! I like to have fun, play, experiment, and connect in an almost spiritual way during sex. Please be on the same level. I enjoy a variety of things but especially love being praised and degraded simultaneously. I’m a very good bad girl. I love being the center of attention and like to be shared, MMF & GBs please. (: If something serious were to develop I would be open to it but as of now I have a lot of life to deal with and some healing to do from my last serious relationship. I have trust issues, will need proof you get tested. I have strong morals, NO SNEAKING. NO CHEATERS. NO LIES. Be authentic. Show me the real you and I will embrace you. Show me a false version and I will reject. I can be fiery if you land on my bad side. I am very understanding and forgiving but please do not test me.
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Looking for safe experimental play. Booty call vibes. I am not able to host, please have somewhere figured out for us to meet up 😉 Not available to meet until after thanksgiving 🤗
Female (33) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a single mom with tattoos, thick thighs and pretty eyes. Finding a partner that matches me and has a high sex drive is what excites me. I honestly don’t know what I want out of this yet
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
~Im a soft mommy dom and a sfw cg(separately) in Oklahoma ~Looking for irl subs/ sfw littles(near me/willing to travel) ~Huge pegging kink ~Have as little experience as possible ~Be UNDER 24 ~Be feminine or willing to be No couples. No doms. No online stuff. No disrespectful brats. and do not text me no wyd and hru. Ask for socials, and no, I won't text you first.
Female (19) Tulsa, Oklahoma
That BDSM test is RIGGED! 😒 43% Dominate and 90% Submissive??! 🤨 T H A T ''S N O T M A T H ! ! 🤔 DOMS, DO NOT PASS GO. DO NOT COLLECT $200. GO DIRECT TO DADDY.. @RiggerForRopeBunny
Female (47) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am very submissive! just looking to see what's out there really lol
Female (29) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hi! I am 18 years deep into the lifestyle. I enjoy being a rope bunny and *** slut. I have a praise kink but I also love being told how well I take *** so remember that tip tehe tip lol. Also into *** but that has to come from someone I respect. I take care of myself and if mistreated I will drop you without explanation, we are all too old for that shit. I set my filters to show only ones with profile pictures, if none contain your face then walk on home boy! I am a metalhead before anything else and I love roasting back and forth just taking shit. If the attitude isn't apparent by now 🤣 this ain't my first rodeo and no I do not want to train anyone nor do I want a submissive. 🖤🖤🖤
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Domme looking for cool people to connect with whether that's subs, other Dom(mes), or polyam people!
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
A pregnant mama. ready to explore. Desiring men, women or couples to experience play dates and experiences with. exhibitionist.
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma

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