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couples: I will not be your sub as I am dominant leaning towards most femme presenting persons. 6'0 tall switch that fluctuates between mommy domme and brat. Pansexual and Demiromantic. I'm into video games, cars, the gym, and tattoos/piercings.
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Because of my size, stature and demeanor I excel at particular types and styles of domination including but not limited to... ABDL, Extreme Corpral Punishments, Lift Carry (depends on weight & height) Interrogations, Race Play and much more. In May of 2018 I was honored to be Mistress of Ceremonies at DomCon Los Angeles for their 15th anniversary and have been a Advisory Board member since 2020. I also love to indulge in role-play/cosplay scenes especially with my Nerdcore subbies. This can be as mild as Frodo Baggins getting a spanking from his sword (Sting) by a Nazgul with a chip on its shoulder to Kylo-Ren being bound in ecstasy filled semi-suspension while being tickle ***d by Darth Vader for being a whiny grandchild. I enjoy all of my scenes but the nerdier ones do tend to hold a special place in my heart. When you come under my heel you will: *Need a strong back for Me to sit on and a soul for Me to crush (your soul is not optional, Mine on the other hand is always M.I.A.) *Revel in the thought of me as your Mistress during O/our time together. Be grateful for every lash I decide to give you. *Do as told and as I see fit. *Respond to any inquiry I ask with complete honesty, I will always do the same. I need a pound or more of flesh that can keep up with a highly sadistic woman so be prepared. *Be ready to be My personal *** puppy/fuck slut and like it especially if the punishment fits the crime. ***My personal hard limits are real *** and real ***s***
Female (45) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In a poly house, Collared & NOT looking Hello everyone! πŸ‘‹πŸ» Looking for friends, and people to flirt with! she is a sub, little, slave, and pig (would love more little + pet friends!). she has been in the lifestyle for about 11 years now and am always looking to learn more. Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
So in short what I am looking for is a man I can have an intelligent conversation with, who can take complete control of me, or give me COMPLETE controland bring back some of the fondest memories I have to call upon,if am lucky enough to find someone that can play that part in my life.I consider safe words a thing to be used when scening or pering a demonstration, I am looking for someone that can read my reactions and I can be secure enough to not need a safe word. Im looking for a full time relationship at this time in my life, but would like to meet someone I can be friends with and possibly have a healthy ongoing physical relationship(not necessarily sex) as well without any games or the other bullshit some people find necessary to deal with in a steady relationship Ill stroke anything but your ego.
Female (53) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a maybe(?) poly BBW nerd. South Park, Star Wars/Trek, Rick and Morty, Firefly, MCU, etc. Still waiting to start my 1st RPG Campaign, dammit. I am newly single from my first poly relationship; it's not for the faint of heart and takes a certain maturity to make it work. I'm a switch, leaning on the sub side. I like a vocal man who practices aftercare, and I enjoy praise, even though I'll probably blush or make a lame joke. I'm looking for another poly relationship where I'm the primary or a monogamous one, but it depends upon the human(s). Possibly a DaddyDom. I'm not looking for a fwb thing, I've got that covered. I'm demisexual so I have to have an emotional connection to be physical with people and for me to get off. Cards on the table, if you don't have the emotional maturity of your age number or good communication skills, then I'm not the droid you're looking for. I'm looking for friendship, fucking, and possibly love.
Female (42) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Pamela, Mistress Pamela.. Thorniapoetess: FET GoddessThornia: X I am a little over 5 feet tall with shoulder length wavy brownish red hair and gray eyes. Chubby/bbw and fairly smart. I have 12 tattoos and 6 piercings. Single mom...mostly introverted. A Kinky Kelly through and through. I am looking for friends/connection..people to explore with.. and to just see what I can see..in an organic type of way. Woman! But also bigender/nonbinary. Born with a vulva/vag, regardless. Demisexual..possibly panromantic/pansexual. I am into bi guys, Findom and big D (not required). I would love to find MY PEOPLE. A life partner, several life partners, a bestie, people to test limits and explore safely with...companions and trusted confidantes. Whatever happens happens! Tulsa rep! Good dental hygiene (healthy teeth and gums, and good breath) and overall hygiene are MUSTS. I have to get to know you if you ever want to meet up. No way around that. Not here for sexting. APPROACH/TRIBUTE FOR FIN: $25 $pammej85
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Beautiful exciting young woman that enjoys the company of a strong but submissive man. The satisfaction I get from making someone listen on command with complete submission, with the understanding of roles and wants is what i'm seeking. A man that is strong enough and financially stable to explore the beautiful mind of a woman in complete control of your wild side. The missions, demands and commands are beyond pleasing!
Female (28) Tulsa, Oklahoma
looking for someone older and experienced as i'm kind of shy. looking for someone straightforward and upfront about what they want. and most importantly i'm looking for fun
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
**i am collared and NOT looking** Looking for open minded friends (especially littles/pets), mentors, events, and maybe some friendly flirting! i'm a sub, little, brat, slave, and pet. i've been in the lifestyle for about 4 years now and am always looking to learn more. i love books, writing poetry, baking yummy food, drawing, playing piano, listening to music + singing, telling bad jokes, and cuddling. i can be very shy at first but will open up more as we get to know each other. i am 420 friendly. Please do not immediately ask for nudes.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
couple looking for a little bit of fun once in awhile. looking for some one who is fun, nice and understanding. hit me up πŸ˜€
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
hii I'm kaila β™‘ I'm 420 friendlyπŸ˜šπŸ’¨ looking to join a fun couple, find myself a gf or a girl and seeing where it goes 🀞 and maybe a male fuck buddy..tbd ☺️
Female (35) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hello I'm 26, mixed and im owned in a poly relationship with my daddy dom... we are looking for playmates that could possibly lead to more. (i wanna try a lot so messageme with your fantasies) Im a baby girl submissive and like most things and have alot i want to try. im a bit of a baby with ***. My daddy is a pleasure dom who specializes in making sure that his playmates are having fun safely and wants to help me learn and embrace kink. Were interested in couples, single women and men who are ok with being screened to talk to me. Please keep in mind I'm owned and only interested in men who hes has talked to and approved. couples or other girls feel free to message. My Limits: *** *** or too much *** My Daddy's Limits: he's straight Let's all have fun, please reach out if you want to play. Thank you 😊
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm poly and demi(which makes poly hard) hard to get to know if u stick around I'm a fun out going person Looking to meet friends in the same lifestyle as me. see where things go from there if u ask what I'm looking for I will delete u from my inbox.
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am a submissive to the highest quality. The BDSM lifestyle is real to me and not a fantasy. Boundaries, respect, and real connection are what I want. Crucial for any relationship. I am always interested in getting to know Dominants in the Lifestyle. Actual Dominants. I like to chat intelligently about the Lifestyle and learn and help others learn. You may DM me if you’d like to talk more about dynamics and perhaps create a friendship. If you’re outside of the ages 38-46, I’m not interested. thank you! please respect my wishes. I am not into being someone’s unicorn nor one night stand. please do not approach me asking for one time hook ups. I enjoy friendship, connection, and deep conversation. communication is 100% important to me. Honesty, sense of humor, intelligence, and attraction are very close behind. 420 friendly, love board games-dancing-movies-traveling **Desires and Fantasies** To have a Dominant who focuses on my pleasure and is less sadistic and more of a Daddy. This is not role play to me. I love to be kinky and live in the Lifestyle when I can, unless working or in public.
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am a unowned service Neko, please read this: I am broken I am mentally unwell when off my medication and suffer from actual brain damage. I can be very socially, awkward and unaware at times… but don’t any of you dare get it twisted I promise you this I have more woth then any one wants to admit I may not be easy or comfortable to always be around but if you actually want honesty, loyalty, truth, compassion, and one who strives for Ernest in there actions, hit me up… I don’t bite much hehe note: I have a very young son he is and ALWAYS will be priority #1 as a single mother so if you have issues with some time having to share my attention, please don’t waste mine or your time, because mine at least is far to valuable to waste anymore, thank you.
Female (28) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a complicated Lady who knows what she wants and knows what she doesn't. living half way between my past and my future I live each month part time in Tulsa Oklahoma and part time in Portland Oregon. I'm bright and very dorky but sexy and unique. I have been dominant and submissive with men and women. a Lady who's a bit of a Brat looking for good kind and clean fun and friends to play with give eachother unique experiences, spoil me if its your thing or let me own you as I wish .. I am incredibly kind and very nurturing you could even describe me as open hearted but do not think me naive. If you don't know what you want I'm not going to teach you. In a relationship with a very loving boyfriend who's also my Daddy I will only fully submit to him unless he requests to watch me fully submit or unless I request it. Tho I will dominate as I please and can play as I wish he will always be part of the experience in some capacity as that is what makes me feel the most comfortable. you can message me directly or his account is linked so feel free to message him if you have the confidence but remember I'm his princess and you just might not be up to the standard... I am interested in moderate to long-term kink dynamics and connections specifically complex friendships and video content networking. not interested in one night stands. additional physical details: message me if you are serious I don't use snap. call me old fashioned but I like to write and talk to eachother. 420 friendly I am an intersex female (ask if don't know what that means) measurements 32 25 34 cup size fluctuating between 32B and 32D usually 32C clothing size XS shoe size 6 I'm only interested if you fit ALL the following criteria. in no particular order: β™‘ preferable male or assigned male at birth however if you are female, a couple or group/event message to ask for comfortably β™‘ *Age* 25-55 men or masculine 25-50 female or feminine β™‘ *Height* male or amab 5'10 and up female or afab no height requirements β™‘ *Weight* men or masculine 120-250 (if taller than average weight isn't a deal breaker) women or feminine 115-200 β™‘ *D Size* 6 inches long and 2 inches wide and up 11 inch long and 4 inch wide limit β™‘ experienced with high stamina and good aftercare. β™‘ you are comfortable hosting and/or traveling β™‘ you understand a true kink dynamic and complex consent dynamics. β™‘ must be clean and tested regularly ( I am ) β™‘ you understand its my body my choice but its our responsibility. β˜†bonus points: bisexual/pansexual or hyper sexual, vasectomy, muscular body, tattoos, piercings, long or well maintained hairβ˜†
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
On the thicker side. I love to read, and watch my shows. New to this, can be a bit of a brat sometimes.
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I have limited experience in BDSM but through personal reflection and growth, I have realized I am a submissive. I identify as a Babygirl, with no age play. I can be a bit bratty sometimes but my ultimate goal is to please the one I am connected to and feel safe with. I am continuously learning and researching BDSM to continue to grow as a submissive and be the best I can be.
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am new to actively looking for someone within the DD/LG BDSM community. Looking for a DD/Dom that is wanting a long term relationship (hoping this isn’t too much to ask for) that is patient and willing to teach and help me explore & experiences different things to find my liked and dislikes. I have some minimal experience as a Sub but just started the with the DD/LG aspect but I am very excited
Female (43) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a fairly open minded person who thrives on information and communication. I’ll try anything twice, with the right information. I would enjoy a partner who put emphasis on foreplay.
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In daily life I'm am dominant person and take control of things, though in the bedroom I like to let that go and be completely submissive. Being honest I don't have very much experience with subs and doms, but I'm curious, and open to learning and experimenting to find what I like.
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
5"5, brown eyes and thick thighs. I love being submissive to the right one, and I'm on a journey of self discovery
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Just a needy, clingy, adorable, playful Little Princess looking for A Daddy/Pleasure Dom .
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma

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Because of my size, stature and demeanor I excel at particular types and styles of domination including but not limited to... ABDL, Extreme Corpral Punishments, Lift Carry (depends on weight & height) Interrogations, Race Play and much more. In May of 2018 I was honored to be Mistress of Ceremonies at DomCon Los Angeles for their 15th anniversary and have been a Advisory Board member since 2020. I also love to indulge in role-play/cosplay scenes especially with my Nerdcore subbies. This can be as mild as Frodo Baggins getting a spanking from his sword (Sting) by a Nazgul with a chip on its shoulder to Kylo-Ren being bound in ecstasy filled semi-suspension while being tickle ***d by Darth Vader for being a whiny grandchild. I enjoy all of my scenes but the nerdier ones do tend to hold a special place in my heart. When you come under my heel you will: *Need a strong back for Me to sit on and a soul for Me to crush (your soul is not optional, Mine on the other hand is always M.I.A.) *Revel in the thought of me as your Mistress during O/our time together. Be grateful for every lash I decide to give you. *Do as told and as I see fit. *Respond to any inquiry I ask with complete honesty, I will always do the same. I need a pound or more of flesh that can keep up with a highly sadistic woman so be prepared. *Be ready to be My personal *** puppy/fuck slut and like it especially if the punishment fits the crime. ***My personal hard limits are real *** and real ***s***
Female (45) Tulsa, Oklahoma
So in short what I am looking for is a man I can have an intelligent conversation with, who can take complete control of me, or give me COMPLETE controland bring back some of the fondest memories I have to call upon,if am lucky enough to find someone that can play that part in my life.I consider safe words a thing to be used when scening or pering a demonstration, I am looking for someone that can read my reactions and I can be secure enough to not need a safe word. Im looking for a full time relationship at this time in my life, but would like to meet someone I can be friends with and possibly have a healthy ongoing physical relationship(not necessarily sex) as well without any games or the other bullshit some people find necessary to deal with in a steady relationship Ill stroke anything but your ego.
Female (53) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Beautiful exciting young woman that enjoys the company of a strong but submissive man. The satisfaction I get from making someone listen on command with complete submission, with the understanding of roles and wants is what i'm seeking. A man that is strong enough and financially stable to explore the beautiful mind of a woman in complete control of your wild side. The missions, demands and commands are beyond pleasing!
Female (28) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a maybe(?) poly BBW nerd. South Park, Star Wars/Trek, Rick and Morty, Firefly, MCU, etc. Still waiting to start my 1st RPG Campaign, dammit. I am newly single from my first poly relationship; it's not for the faint of heart and takes a certain maturity to make it work. I'm a switch, leaning on the sub side. I like a vocal man who practices aftercare, and I enjoy praise, even though I'll probably blush or make a lame joke. I'm looking for another poly relationship where I'm the primary or a monogamous one, but it depends upon the human(s). Possibly a DaddyDom. I'm not looking for a fwb thing, I've got that covered. I'm demisexual so I have to have an emotional connection to be physical with people and for me to get off. Cards on the table, if you don't have the emotional maturity of your age number or good communication skills, then I'm not the droid you're looking for. I'm looking for friendship, fucking, and possibly love.
Female (42) Tulsa, Oklahoma
couples: I will not be your sub as I am dominant leaning towards most femme presenting persons. 6'0 tall switch that fluctuates between mommy domme and brat. Pansexual and Demiromantic. I'm into video games, cars, the gym, and tattoos/piercings.
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
In a poly house, Collared & NOT looking Hello everyone! πŸ‘‹πŸ» Looking for friends, and people to flirt with! she is a sub, little, slave, and pig (would love more little + pet friends!). she has been in the lifestyle for about 11 years now and am always looking to learn more. Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Pamela, Mistress Pamela.. Thorniapoetess: FET GoddessThornia: X I am a little over 5 feet tall with shoulder length wavy brownish red hair and gray eyes. Chubby/bbw and fairly smart. I have 12 tattoos and 6 piercings. Single mom...mostly introverted. A Kinky Kelly through and through. I am looking for friends/connection..people to explore with.. and to just see what I can see..in an organic type of way. Woman! But also bigender/nonbinary. Born with a vulva/vag, regardless. Demisexual..possibly panromantic/pansexual. I am into bi guys, Findom and big D (not required). I would love to find MY PEOPLE. A life partner, several life partners, a bestie, people to test limits and explore safely with...companions and trusted confidantes. Whatever happens happens! Tulsa rep! Good dental hygiene (healthy teeth and gums, and good breath) and overall hygiene are MUSTS. I have to get to know you if you ever want to meet up. No way around that. Not here for sexting. APPROACH/TRIBUTE FOR FIN: $25 $pammej85
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I thrive on the art of temptation. With a subtle smile and a keen eye, I enjoy the dance of teasing and seduction, where every word and movement can ignite a spark. My presence is all about allure and mystery, with just the right amount of intensity to draw you in. Passionate, adventurous, and always open to exploring new dimensions of pleasure and connection, I find beauty in the slow build-up of desire. I believe in the power of trust, communication, and shared moments of vulnerability, and I’m always looking to engage with like-minded souls who appreciate the thrill of anticipation and the depths of connection.
Female (33) Tulsa, Oklahoma
hii I'm kaila β™‘ I'm 420 friendlyπŸ˜šπŸ’¨ looking to join a fun couple, find myself a gf or a girl and seeing where it goes 🀞 and maybe a male fuck buddy..tbd ☺️
Female (35) Tulsa, Oklahoma
5"5, brown eyes and thick thighs. I love being submissive to the right one, and I'm on a journey of self discovery
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I swear to god, if you reach out to me because you want a spank bank or a brainless fuck, I will bite your head off. But if you want to be a nice Daddy and treat a girl right, cum on in. πŸ˜‰
Female (35) Tulsa, Oklahoma
**i am collared and NOT looking** Looking for open minded friends (especially littles/pets), mentors, events, and maybe some friendly flirting! i'm a sub, little, brat, slave, and pet. i've been in the lifestyle for about 4 years now and am always looking to learn more. i love books, writing poetry, baking yummy food, drawing, playing piano, listening to music + singing, telling bad jokes, and cuddling. i can be very shy at first but will open up more as we get to know each other. i am 420 friendly. Please do not immediately ask for nudes.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
looking for a everyday-ish friend where we can talk about mutual interest but also have fun. STRICTLY ONLINE. on the thicker side
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
This is all new experience for me, I have never even had bsdm or kink sex before. I really would love to learn alot about my kink side that's in me...
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm poly and demi(which makes poly hard) hard to get to know if u stick around I'm a fun out going person Looking to meet friends in the same lifestyle as me. see where things go from there if u ask what I'm looking for I will delete u from my inbox.
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
On the thicker side. I love to read, and watch my shows. New to this, can be a bit of a brat sometimes.
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Just a needy, clingy, adorable, playful Little Princess looking for A Daddy/Pleasure Dom .
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a complicated Lady who knows what she wants and knows what she doesn't. living half way between my past and my future I live each month part time in Tulsa Oklahoma and part time in Portland Oregon. I'm bright and very dorky but sexy and unique. I have been dominant and submissive with men and women. a Lady who's a bit of a Brat looking for good kind and clean fun and friends to play with give eachother unique experiences, spoil me if its your thing or let me own you as I wish .. I am incredibly kind and very nurturing you could even describe me as open hearted but do not think me naive. If you don't know what you want I'm not going to teach you. In a relationship with a very loving boyfriend who's also my Daddy I will only fully submit to him unless he requests to watch me fully submit or unless I request it. Tho I will dominate as I please and can play as I wish he will always be part of the experience in some capacity as that is what makes me feel the most comfortable. you can message me directly or his account is linked so feel free to message him if you have the confidence but remember I'm his princess and you just might not be up to the standard... I am interested in moderate to long-term kink dynamics and connections specifically complex friendships and video content networking. not interested in one night stands. additional physical details: message me if you are serious I don't use snap. call me old fashioned but I like to write and talk to eachother. 420 friendly I am an intersex female (ask if don't know what that means) measurements 32 25 34 cup size fluctuating between 32B and 32D usually 32C clothing size XS shoe size 6 I'm only interested if you fit ALL the following criteria. in no particular order: β™‘ preferable male or assigned male at birth however if you are female, a couple or group/event message to ask for comfortably β™‘ *Age* 25-55 men or masculine 25-50 female or feminine β™‘ *Height* male or amab 5'10 and up female or afab no height requirements β™‘ *Weight* men or masculine 120-250 (if taller than average weight isn't a deal breaker) women or feminine 115-200 β™‘ *D Size* 6 inches long and 2 inches wide and up 11 inch long and 4 inch wide limit β™‘ experienced with high stamina and good aftercare. β™‘ you are comfortable hosting and/or traveling β™‘ you understand a true kink dynamic and complex consent dynamics. β™‘ must be clean and tested regularly ( I am ) β™‘ you understand its my body my choice but its our responsibility. β˜†bonus points: bisexual/pansexual or hyper sexual, vasectomy, muscular body, tattoos, piercings, long or well maintained hairβ˜†
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
husband and wife wonts to have sex with couple husband is bored Randy my husband 58 bored.with us am 53 and am satisfied with us but if u can't bet them join them
Female (52) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I have a bf, he's my Daddy, but he is in prison. looking for someone to fill his shoes in his absence. NSA Trying to mentally manifest and draw in Big Dick Energy. I'm accustomed to a certain size bracket. Anything above average to the top of the list. I'm wanting more than the standard white boy issue..
Female (36) Tulsa, Oklahoma
i am very naturally submissive but ive never had that sort of relationship before i am very nerdy! i enjoy sci-fi and fantasy, history, music, crafts, arts, and my dog, Gimli (420 friendly!) my idea person is a kind leader that can help me grow and that i can be a good support to i don’t think im into the non monogamous thing
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am 100% submissive. wanting some online fun. looking to sext and tease. very into DDLG, ropes and restraints and wanting to explore more. need someone who likes to try new things
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm not really into talking. Scenes aren't my thing, and I am just on here for hookups.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma

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