The moment you stop the facade that you’re being or have been kind to me, I will happily stop defending myself.

This was not that. I didn’t make this post. I made a comment and member has been attacking me ever since. I attempted to block them, and they still continue, dragging on an endless fight. I don’t think this is an apples to apples comparison. Your post was a discussion you were trying to have thay Read more… someone took private and attacked you - I engaged an existing conversation and someone appeared and immediately attacked me, when I tried to block the user, it didn’t work.

Dude, you have been actively cruel in each comment you love posted about me. Do you regularly use this forum to call out specific members and fight with them publicly? Because that is what is happening

You know. The cruel assumption you made with limited context and then shared on the internet as fact? Libel?

Well gee I appreciate you being rude toward me in public about it instead of sending me a private message or blocking me, like I tried to do.

Implying that I hate the members of this site or that I’m being disrespectful, because of other peoples actions, is ridiculous to me. To me, it is doing the exact thing that people are sharing about here - using an inflated sense of ego and assumptions to attack someone in the community. I say cunt Read more… all the time. I apologize if I offended you, however, your comments made me uncomfortable, and genuinely felt unnecessary. And I do think I should get a fair response to that.

Because a cunt is a broad term for someone being ridiculous. I find it ridiculous that you implied the cruelty of members toward me on this site is something I’m personally responsible for.
There are now a dozen members of all genders saying the same thing, yet you chose to single me out. Is that Read more… not what took place?

It seems like it is both men and women on this site who see the sexual potential on the site and use it as an excuse to just be vile. Glad to see I’m not the only one. I’ll keep in mind what you said about not responding.
I didn’t *feel* ugly before I joined this site. I had pretty good luck on Read more… other apps, just no one really kinky. If finding someone kinky means I have to go through piles of creeps, I don’t know if I can hang. I’m slowly converting to just lurking and posting on the forums.

So, I’m seeing that both men and women are equally receiving cruel responses when they are polite?

That makes a lot of sense. I try to be respectful and sweet with my first message. Like I would be in person. It saddens me to see people not return respect with respect. But I guess everyone’s definition of that is different.