YOU HAVE A DRIVERS LICENSE, CAR, MEANS OF INCOME, PLACE TO RESIDE
(I am merely looking for someone with, at the very least, the same amount of adult responsibility that I have. I cannot believe that I have to request this, but the amount of people, my age and older that have none of those is astounding.)
My tag line is pretty much how I wish to live my life, and is also a quote from one of my favorite movies.
I have been involved within this lifestyle for all of my adult life about 20 years of experiences and as always, the journey has led me down many paths, and it is always ever changing.
Im smart enough to know what I want and need, and open minded enough to know that I still have much to learn.
I have become jaded with the lifestyle over my years of involvement, and perhaps I do have a bit of a chip on my shoulder.
While I may identify as submissive on the lifestyle spectrum, it does not mean that I am this way with random internet strangers. Take the time to talk to me, show interest in wanting to know me, and the rest will follow.
I am only seeking long term situations. I would, for the right match, make of them the axis that my world spins upon.
I have been on the submissive end of the spectrum for the majority of my involvement in the lifestyle. Some of my happiest times were when I was involved in a 247live insubmissivegirlfriendwife.
I have also experimented, and found a fondness, for the top end of the spectrum for situational play. This is usually just for play or fun. For me, it can almost be described as being a service top.
For me, the lifestyle is so much more than the physical. For me the mental and connection is more important than the physical.
I am NOT motivated or focused on sex and physical play. If you are only here to get your rocks off, please, just pass me by.
On the physicalkink side of things, the activities I enjoy, in time with someone, range from flogging, cell popping, sensation play, orgasm , deep thuddy play, and especially on the top side - tease and denial.
For non-kink interests...
I am a taphophile at heart and am genuinely intrigued by, obsessed with, addicted to, have a strong appreciation and respect for etc. all things regarding taphophilia, death, dead things, mourning, grieving, cemeteries, etc. These interests CAN and DO filter over into my kink life in varying degrees. Always happy to talk more in private about them.
I do have hobbies (addictions), inlcuding WoW (TaphNoir1200), horror movies, industrial and metal music, bellydancing (to industrial and metal music), reading, coloring, enjoying nature, crocheting, playing various boardcard games and am a VERY casual Magic The Gathering player.
I have a strange sense of humor, use sarcasm as my second language and am a shining example of an introvert.
Im also a hobbyist artist, mainly ting various whimsical things on stone, with a focus on dragon eyes.
I am lightly tattooed, and have small gauges in both of my ears as well as a daith piercing.
Yes, I am pale, chubby, freckled, crazy fuzzy chemo-hair regrowth, I have scars, I have health ailments, I have physical limitations for bondage, and am nowhere near the most gorgeous thing youll see. In saying these things I wish to get the physically focused, all about the look people out of the way.
I also have a few health ailments including Diabetes, Intracranial Hypertension, and am currently in remission from Ovarian Cancer as of 3419.
I am looking for a legit connection with someone for something long term and lasting.
I have NO interest in hookups, merely play partners, etc.
I look forward to any sincere messages.
Lmk!
