Hi, I’m new to this community but have been into kink long before I knew what it was. I have done things by myself, with and without toys, but not with anyone else. I don’t have much experience with vanilla stuff either. However, I am into and curious about a lot.
I don’t like playing mind games when getting to know someone so please just be up front and I will do the same. It might take me a while to respond though as I have ADHD and can be pretty forgetful and ***terbrained at times. I am a pretty chill laid back person and tend to just go with the flow. I value good meaningful conversations just as much a joking around and having fun. I tend to be more reserved social situations, tending to listen more than talk. When alone and comfortable with someone then I tend to talk a lot more.
I'm STD/STI/disease free. I don’t smoke or do ***.
I am looking for someone I can build trust and connection with before meeting. Respecting any limits and boundaries I set is the most important and attractive thing a guy can do. However I do want someone who will encourage me to indulge in the fetishes I have, things I am curious about, and show me new things you think I might be into. I believe trust and obedience should be earned not expected. I want a man who initiates and is able to communicate what he wants and expects from me. Im looking someone who will be direct, honest, and open to exploring a variety of things with me.
If you can’t put some effort into you profile you would be wasting your time messaging me. I’m NOT looking for NSA, FWB, one night stands, or Pic Exchange. If you message me asking for any of them I will just delete you message. Please be respectful in you message we are all humans and should be respected as such outside of any established dynamics or negotiated scene.
As far as my main kinks and fantasies go:
I’ve been into omorashi for as long as I can remember. I am not into ABDL.
I also like being praised, comforted, and taken care of. I’m a Little/Middle but not all the time.
I am really in to erotica and erotic audiobooks. I am trying writing erotica and writing out my fantasies and sharing them on here. Any advise from authors would be welcomed.
I love dirty talk/text and would love to hear or read your fantasies.
I enjoy cunnilingus and fingering.
Outside of kink:
I love anime, some of my favorites are Assassination Classroom, Code Geass, and Hunter x Hunter. I also like watching Criminal Minds, House, NCIS, and Chicago Fire/PD/Med. I love Thriller, Horror, and Mystery movies. I love listening to regular audiobooks as well, mainly fantasy, crime, thriller, mystery and romantic fantasy. I love art of all kinds, making and viewing. I work in retail. I love the beach and want to live near the beach year round.
I am neurodivergent, I have diagnosed ADHD. Please be patient with me as this leads me to be forgetful and take some more time to respond as I get distracted very easily. This does make conversations with me pretty fun once we get to know each other. It makes me pretty spontaneous and almost always up for an adventure, weather it’s to the beach or just to the ice cream shop.
Thank you for reading. Feel free to message me if you got this far.
