I’m looking for a local Dom who could be on the obedience app with me and help me reach my goals both in and out of the bedroom. I’m married but my husband is vanilla and he reacted poorly when he found out I needed this. So discreet play will be required. It unfortunately does mean also no marks. I love bruises and wish I could wear them but it brings up questions. I can be a bit of an attention whore. My schedule can be difficult I have 2 jobs. I have a sensitive gag reflex but I’m trying to work on it.