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Male (26) Columbia, South Carolina

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Adventurous and open-minded, I believe in exploring life and pleasure with curiosity and respect. My mantra? "I'll try anything once." Whether it’s a playful experiment or a bold step into the unknown, I’m here for the experience, the connection, and the fun.

Male (36) Columbia, South Carolina

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I am very VERY Dominant in my everyday personal life, I seek a loyal and honest sub boy to explore some fun and adventure with…I’m not really into *** but if you’re into ***, I will punish you and you will enjoy the *** (that’s if you’re into ***) I do have my Kink Fantasies you would find exciting and be willing to try The list of kinky activities I like to engage in most are Feminization/Sissification (That’s if you’re a sissy) Bondage servitude body worship Sensory Play blindfolds CBT Hanging Fucking machine Bathroom/Toilet training Orgasm control foot fetish Role play Massage Seduction branding Body ***ting Collaring canning Corseting puppy play Rubber both sex and Kink Toys Cage Prison training food Serving ear plug ice and hot wax Light to moderate discipline, light spankings, Edging, Nipple Play, toy play, strapon play, pegging, rope play any many more. It’s up to you about your limits, Tell me your limits and the ones you’re not into out of the kink fantasies i listed, I will except the ones you’re not into, I won’t do it to you

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Hi! I am open to new acquaintances and interesting communication. I am looking for an older man who has already decided on his life goals and is ready to share his accumulated experience and wisdom. I'm 25 years old, and I appreciate intelligence, a sense of humor, and sincerity in people. I love deep conversations on various topics, long walks and spontaneous adventures. I dream of finding a partner with whom I can share both the daily joys and the highlights of my life. If you are a mature man, ready for new emotions and shared hobbies, I will be glad to get to know you better. Let's open a new chapter together and fill it with interesting events and warm feelings. I'm waiting for your message!

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Gay man looking for friends, fun, or something in between. I have a major foot and sock fetish and love playing with men's feet. Outside of that, I'm mostly a nerdy homebody. Love TV, movies, video games, and music. If you'd like to talk, just message me. I can't see likes or spanks

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I'm a kinky submissive bottom guy. I'm definitely looking for friends, preferably geekyish ones, and hopefully a kinky Dom to train me and teach me how to please Him.

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I'm 66 long brown hair unkempt most of the time 5ft 6 170.white bi guy recently evolved . Now a fem CD . when I'm with a guy I'm fully female . I'm taking estrogen and my nipples are poking out and my breasts are starting to grow . I remain as such . I love having a cock and will keep it always .

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Just an easy going person, I’m still figuring out where I lean in this crowd and willing to give anything a try once or twice. Married to a dude and living my best life.

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