I am in the process of checking off/exploring specific sexual experiences which are currently on my fvcket list, and perhaps add a few others as I learn more about myself, throughout this journey. I completely respect everyone’s position/desires/needs/fetishes, and though mine may not be the same as yours, I expect the same in return.
I’m one who needs to have some sort of connection with those I choose to have sexual relations with, and that connection is less about physical attraction and more about the mind. Be it intellect, humor, or just an all around positive and comfortable vibe. Will I have the occasional random hookup just to scratch an itch, of course. But is very seldom.
Communication and honesty about what it is you want/don’t want is a key to fulfilling all parties involved.
Hygiene is of the UTMOST importance for me. (I have a hypersensitive sense of smell and let’s be honest, no one enjoys going down on anyone who smells funky.)
I’m not looking to be a couples “Unicorn” or “fuck toy”.
I recently began dating a guy who is in the LS and who enjoys watching me with both men and women. However, We are not exclusive nor do we consider ourselves a couple. That said, I say who, when, and what when it comes to this part of MY journey, unless he and I are out together, then the respect for each other’s boundaries will come into play.
Men… trust me, I completely understand that as we get older, our bodies will, sometimes, work against us. I know that E.D. is a legit, and often times, humiliating thing for y’all. And I know, that many of you with this issue, go into a possible sexual encounter with the hope that it won’t happen this time. I applaud your positive thinking but PLEASE, disclose any E.D. issues up front. We, as women, often tend to internalize it and question our desirability. If you’re with a respectable woman, she will not only understand but she will be patient.
Thank you for taking the time to read my bio and feel free to say hi and, respectfully, strike up a conversation. just keep these things in mind, I don’t want any d!ck pics. I don’t engage in sexting with anyone I don’t know. And I’m not looking for any flaky people or text buddy. I want REAL, down to earth people with the ability to not just communicate but who can let their guard down and embrace their freak side. If you’re unable to meet in person within a week or so of establishing a rapport, please don’t waste either of our time. Lastly, if you’re unknowingly stepping out on your partner, DO NOT involve me. (on that note, I will need your partners permission to chat/meet/play, if they’re not going to be part of the party.)
