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To find and make friends with like-minded people who can go from just normal hangouts to enjoying other things. To find places to enjoy play time and get to try things I have been wanting to try for a long time. To explore this side of myself that I hadn't had the chance to explore.
Female (37) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a nurse in real life and supervisor of my team. so Caregiver and Dominant in my work life. Single parent since day one. As you can see, I must be in control of my life and others so I would like to find my perfect Dom. He will let me release my control in a safe manner without crossing my limits. And always make sure I’m ok afterward.
Female (40) San Antonio, Texas
I value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you're already halfway there. I'm searching for someone who is genuine, caring, and knows what they want in life. In a partner, I value authenticity, honesty and empathy. Looking for someone who shares my values, who isn't afraid to show vulnerability, and who understands the importance of mutual support and commitment in a relationship.
Female (50) San Antonio, Texas
I don't have Daddy issues, No lies, No games, No BS. I'm independent in most aspects so this is my release, I won't pay you to be my Dom. Must be experienced and knowledgeable of rigging techniques. I don't mess with men under 25.... preferably 35 and over but will make exceptions... No offense but y'all usually don't have enough maturity or experience. I don't do cyber-anything either. Please don't waste my time. Just because you like being in control and/or have a dominant personality, it doesn't make you a Dom with experience. PLEASE know the difference.
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
As a 50 year old woman I have been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for some time but now am in a place to actually learn. I live a ethically non monogamous life.
Female (52) San Antonio, Texas
Went➑➏O miles on my way to New York ,but the road exactly ➎➎➏ I come across ➋➐gas stations and ➍➈road signs ..Hoping to live again ,add the nums and reach me ..I will share you more pictures
Female (49) San Antonio, Texas
Hello There! First and foremost, welcome! Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, here’s a little bit about me. My name is Jax, and we recently moved from Miami, Florida to San Antonio, Texas. I have many different hobbies like video games, different types of music, I’m a huge bookworm and Harry Potter/Disney fanatic, a friend to all ***s, love to cook, and I have a green thumb. Orchids are some of my favorite plants to grow along with perennials. I’ve always said that I would be the happiest living on a farm or in the forest ;) I’m happily married to a wonderful man and we are 100% committed to our relationship but we do play with others since I allow him to have a pet of his own and I’m looking for something more in the friends with benefits side since we started in a new city. We're both healthy and have no STDs at all. I am plus size but curvier with pale skin and nerd glasses. I’m Demisexual and had several bad encounters previously that trust is a must. To me, building a friendship is the most important thing and being Demisexual means that I must be emotionally connected and feel safe with someone to feel attraction to that person and enjoy the kink or sexual part of kinks. I always make it a point to have both of our needs met because this lifestyle is mutual benefit while keeping things safe and I'm open to trying many things while having open honesty from my friends/partners. Communication and honesty are important in any friendship/relationship and I expect honesty upfront. As well, I do whore out my husband as a foot slut so if you wish to have a free foot rub, feel free to reach out ;) he's very interested in getting his reflexology tested. I'm on Discord and Telegram if you want to chat! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Rigger 96% Voyeur 93% Dominant 87% Brat tamer 84% Exhibitionist 80% Submissive 78% Sadist 76% Owner 75% Experimentalist 72% Degrader 68% Rope bunny 68% Non-monogamist 61% Masochist 51% Master/Mistress 45% Vanilla 39% Primal (Hunter) 35% Brat 35% Primal (Prey) 22% Pet 17% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
I'm someone who appreciates the beauty of the world, and I'm always looking for my next travel destination.
Female (38) San Antonio, Texas
I am very kind, friendly, easy going, developed, tender, generous, faithful, optimistic,cheerful,sympathetic and reliable.I love *** and nature very much. I am caring, romantic, sensible. I lead a healthy life style
Female (43) San Antonio, Texas
I have Eight cats I wake at One To Four Am I always go to work At Three Five Seven Am I always Come house at Seven Three Nine Five PM lol I know you can figure it out
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a little looking for a caregiver I like playing outside and swimming I enjoy music and drawing I’m a bit shy sometimes I’m scared of thunder storms I don’t like to listen and have a attitude all the time I like stuffed ***s and my sippy cup and blankie for bed i also like shopping ? stop being weird i don’t want no inappropriate stuff looking for my daddy
Female (21) San Antonio, Texas
Bratty BBW looking for discreet fun. I need to have all of your attention or nothing at all. I have a mouth on me but I’ve never had a complaint. The rougher the better but treat me to the ***. Breeding is a tasty treat…Aftercare is key, still learning my limits so let’s figure them out together.
Female (33) San Antonio, Texas
I’m looking for a long term relationship. But my whole fantasy is wanting an abusive boyfriend. Not just during sex but i want a guy that will *** me take your frustrations out on me… If you Dm me say “strawberries” so i know you read my bio. You must also show me std test results before we do anything intimate.
Female (20) San Antonio, Texas
just a sub looking for some friends
Female (31) San Antonio, Texas
Hi, I’m Phoenix! 🦄✨ A California girl who spends part of the month in San Antonio with my partner (and I’ll officially be moving there later this year 🌵💛). I’m a book lover 📚, hiking enthusiast 🥾, cozy gamer 🎮, and proud dog mom to the sweetest pup, Penny 🐾. My partner and I are looking for a third to join us in a semi-closed triad 💖 (meaning we won’t see a third outside of you but you’re welcome to do as you please with open communication) We’re especially drawn to those with soft, playful energy—femboys or those with an androgynous vibe ✨. Mutual respect and connection are everything to us, and we’re excited to meet someone who’s down for adventure, good vibes, and a whole lot of fun. VERY kink positive I'm a sweet little puppy who loves to play-soft and cuddly one moment, wild and feral the next. A true switch, I find joy in exploring both sides of power dynamics, whether it's through impact play, praise, or a little bit of well-placed ***. My inner little thrives on affection, fun, and a touch of mischief, and I love creating spaces where connection and trust can lead to unforgettable moments. If you're into playful chaos, soft dominance, or exploring the balance of sweet and spicy, we might just be the perfect match. Let’s swap book recs, chat cozy games, or plan our next little adventure 🌈🍷🌙
Female (22) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a newbie to the kinky community (kinda) 😅✨ Looking for someone to teach me a thing or two 🥹 Or someone to bully 🤭 Which ever comes first tbh.. Let’s get a drink? 🍸💕
Female (26) San Antonio, Texas
21 yrs old NOT 20 Anyone want to tie me up, fuck and pleasure me? Please don’t message me if you live far away. I love being eaten out, fingered, and vibrators. Continuous communication and boundaries is sexy! If you message me please tell me what you are looking for! I have a big praise kink❤️ MUST have proof of STD testing and I give head only with a condom on Role playing on text is fun so message me if you want to do that: Tell me what you want to do to me I don’t send nudes Kinky turn ons include: blind folds, all types of gags, being called a good girl, talking me through it, praise, sucking/biting/ licking nipples, and bondage of course If you like to be rough then we aren’t compatible. Please only message me for hooking up if you like bondage when hooking up. Ideally looking for someone experienced in shibari or other tying techniques and rigging! mention the color orange in your DM and I will know you got to the bottom of my description! STD Test place recommendation: Austin Public Health Sexual Health Clinic (512) 972-5430 They have $20 std tests that have a good turn around. Maybe even same day I'm not sure Sometimes they do events with free testing
Female (20) San Antonio, Texas
married to my best friend and loml, not looking for serious, just a beauty to join us from time to time, or allow my husband to watch. 🥰 I have had several UGLY messages from people, so if you don’t have any positive energy to spread, please don’t bother. I would rather provide the pleasure than be on the receiving end when it comes to women. I’m probably the most open person, feel free to ask any questions you might have. Looking to link in SA on 2/27-2/28 ❤️
Female (30) San Antonio, Texas
she/her Horror connoisseur, Brat & Bimbo into dominant relationships and being doted on, looking to tan on boats,have fun road & camping trips and take Hikes with the best views If ur not looking to take me on a date, don’t look. Attracted to every gender expression Ganja girl I’ll read to you & play with your hair! My nails are always long so if you don’t want scratches steer clear I’m very creative & aesthetic driven so ya kno our dates are gonna be cute af
Female (25) San Antonio, Texas
If you are 18-21 yrs DO NOT MSG or LIKE ME. only people 23 + can msg & like me. I get tested regularly: so PLEASE BE CLEAN! last STD/HIV tested: 11/5/24 im clean and safe. No I dont want cyber fun. people in my area/local only please. if you are a submissive Man, or trans No disrespect… No judgement… I DONT WANT YOU. I want a DOM straight man to handle me. Would prefer that you are circumcised. looking for a daddy dom to tell me im theirs and to tell me how they would handle a brat like me who hardly listens. I am into cnc, I love feeling *** & bound, im a chubby plus size woman who is a brat and will sometimes like to be punished. I wouldnt mind being ***d and made to *** orgasm. I find it so hot when daddy tells me “shut up & take it” in my ear Im really looking to chat with only people around me, local to the area please. Otherwise I really wont answer. I would love it if daddy spoiled me like a sd to help me with life. local or online only, trying to spoil myself, but thats up to you. Im into videogames, hello kitty/sanrio, arcade games, plushies/stuffed ***s, I love pets like dogs, I collect Disney items,funkos & Pokemon Cards & play pokemon go. I am into wwe, harry potter, DISNEY, starwars, Dc/Marvel. if you are not interested say it dont ghost thats just stupid. I am a straightforward person. please be nice & dont demand things from me. dont be clingy and constantly msging me If I dont respond. I have toys of my own, like a vibrator, rope cuffs, mouth gags, bed restraints. I am not into having my ass eaten out, or Anal or feet stuff. looking for a daddy dom to tell me im theirs and to tell me how they would handle a brat like me who hardly listens. I am into cnc, I love feeling *** & bound, Iam a brat and will sometimes like to be punished. I wouldnt mind being ***d and made to *** orgasm. I find it so hot when daddy tells me “shut up & take it” in my ear. Ive never had anything bigger than 5 or 6” I enjoy being groped, ***d, fingered, tied, gaged. Favorite position is doggy. Im somewhat opened to a threesome of 2 males. But thats a big maybe.
Female (25) San Antonio, Texas
Hi! I’m Eros, I have a weird obsession with people getting turned on by my body. I am looking for someone I can send pictures to when they ask me! depending how I like you maybe I can send you videos. I am extremely submissive, but I am also pretty bratty… if you want videos of me playing with toys you can send me some~ I’ll send videos just for you~
Female (18) San Antonio, Texas
Hi little ones I’m looking for my life long Sub to use and ***. Dont be shy, I’m also looking for dirty bastards to play games with and chat on Discord. IG: elisa.a.m Discord: sweetteacvnt
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
Domina Ramona Sins A lovely hardcore rocker chick with a sweet side.. if you act right ⛓️⛓️ Who’s my next Sinful Servant? I have a unique style and very versatile. I will hold all your naughty secrets and provide a safe space for you. Prefer longer term subs. Address me by Mistress or Miss. Capital “M” every time. Very experienced, subs/switches may approach. Send an interesting message at least try to get my attention, no time for boring lames.
Female (28) San Antonio, Texas

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I am very kind, friendly, easy going, developed, tender, generous, faithful, optimistic,cheerful,sympathetic and reliable.I love *** and nature very much. I am caring, romantic, sensible. I lead a healthy life style
Female (43) San Antonio, Texas
I have Eight cats I wake at One To Four Am I always go to work At Three Five Seven Am I always Come house at Seven Three Nine Five PM lol I know you can figure it out
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
Went➑➏O miles on my way to New York ,but the road exactly ➎➎➏ I come across ➋➐gas stations and ➍➈road signs ..Hoping to live again ,add the nums and reach me ..I will share you more pictures
Female (49) San Antonio, Texas
I value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you're already halfway there. I'm searching for someone who is genuine, caring, and knows what they want in life. In a partner, I value authenticity, honesty and empathy. Looking for someone who shares my values, who isn't afraid to show vulnerability, and who understands the importance of mutual support and commitment in a relationship.
Female (50) San Antonio, Texas
To find and make friends with like-minded people who can go from just normal hangouts to enjoying other things. To find places to enjoy play time and get to try things I have been wanting to try for a long time. To explore this side of myself that I hadn't had the chance to explore.
Female (37) San Antonio, Texas
I'm someone who appreciates the beauty of the world, and I'm always looking for my next travel destination.
Female (38) San Antonio, Texas
I don't have Daddy issues, No lies, No games, No BS. I'm independent in most aspects so this is my release, I won't pay you to be my Dom. Must be experienced and knowledgeable of rigging techniques. I don't mess with men under 25.... preferably 35 and over but will make exceptions... No offense but y'all usually don't have enough maturity or experience. I don't do cyber-anything either. Please don't waste my time. Just because you like being in control and/or have a dominant personality, it doesn't make you a Dom with experience. PLEASE know the difference.
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a nurse in real life and supervisor of my team. so Caregiver and Dominant in my work life. Single parent since day one. As you can see, I must be in control of my life and others so I would like to find my perfect Dom. He will let me release my control in a safe manner without crossing my limits. And always make sure I’m ok afterward.
Female (40) San Antonio, Texas
Hello There! First and foremost, welcome! Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, here’s a little bit about me. My name is Jax, and we recently moved from Miami, Florida to San Antonio, Texas. I have many different hobbies like video games, different types of music, I’m a huge bookworm and Harry Potter/Disney fanatic, a friend to all ***s, love to cook, and I have a green thumb. Orchids are some of my favorite plants to grow along with perennials. I’ve always said that I would be the happiest living on a farm or in the forest ;) I’m happily married to a wonderful man and we are 100% committed to our relationship but we do play with others since I allow him to have a pet of his own and I’m looking for something more in the friends with benefits side since we started in a new city. We're both healthy and have no STDs at all. I am plus size but curvier with pale skin and nerd glasses. I’m Demisexual and had several bad encounters previously that trust is a must. To me, building a friendship is the most important thing and being Demisexual means that I must be emotionally connected and feel safe with someone to feel attraction to that person and enjoy the kink or sexual part of kinks. I always make it a point to have both of our needs met because this lifestyle is mutual benefit while keeping things safe and I'm open to trying many things while having open honesty from my friends/partners. Communication and honesty are important in any friendship/relationship and I expect honesty upfront. As well, I do whore out my husband as a foot slut so if you wish to have a free foot rub, feel free to reach out ;) he's very interested in getting his reflexology tested. I'm on Discord and Telegram if you want to chat! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Rigger 96% Voyeur 93% Dominant 87% Brat tamer 84% Exhibitionist 80% Submissive 78% Sadist 76% Owner 75% Experimentalist 72% Degrader 68% Rope bunny 68% Non-monogamist 61% Masochist 51% Master/Mistress 45% Vanilla 39% Primal (Hunter) 35% Brat 35% Primal (Prey) 22% Pet 17% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
As a 50 year old woman I have been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for some time but now am in a place to actually learn. I live a ethically non monogamous life.
Female (52) San Antonio, Texas
Switch female looking for her person. I lean more sub. I am open to meeting someone that is Dom/Domme or switch. I was a slave in a 5 year 24/7 TPE relationship. I thrive in a relationship that is dynamic based. I tend to be a “good girl”. there are instances when I am a brat and be a little. typically my little self comes out when very stressed. Bratty tends to come out when I really want quality time, play time and when I need a snacky snack.
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
Hi, I’m Phoenix! 🦄✨ A California girl who spends part of the month in San Antonio with my partner (and I’ll officially be moving there later this year 🌵💛). I’m a book lover 📚, hiking enthusiast 🥾, cozy gamer 🎮, and proud dog mom to the sweetest pup, Penny 🐾. My partner and I are looking for a third to join us in a semi-closed triad 💖 (meaning we won’t see a third outside of you but you’re welcome to do as you please with open communication) We’re especially drawn to those with soft, playful energy—femboys or those with an androgynous vibe ✨. Mutual respect and connection are everything to us, and we’re excited to meet someone who’s down for adventure, good vibes, and a whole lot of fun. VERY kink positive I'm a sweet little puppy who loves to play-soft and cuddly one moment, wild and feral the next. A true switch, I find joy in exploring both sides of power dynamics, whether it's through impact play, praise, or a little bit of well-placed ***. My inner little thrives on affection, fun, and a touch of mischief, and I love creating spaces where connection and trust can lead to unforgettable moments. If you're into playful chaos, soft dominance, or exploring the balance of sweet and spicy, we might just be the perfect match. Let’s swap book recs, chat cozy games, or plan our next little adventure 🌈🍷🌙
Female (22) San Antonio, Texas
I'm a bratty lesbian power bottom looking for my Dom, I want to be tied up and to find someone to go to clubs with possibly 😩 I'm HSV2 positive, and I take my medicine. Just looking for a partner that is accepting or another person who's also HSV positive.
Female (30) San Antonio, Texas
married to my best friend and loml, not looking for serious, just a beauty to join us from time to time, or allow my husband to watch. 🥰 I have had several UGLY messages from people, so if you don’t have any positive energy to spread, please don’t bother. I would rather provide the pleasure than be on the receiving end when it comes to women. I’m probably the most open person, feel free to ask any questions you might have. Looking to link in SA on 2/27-2/28 ❤️
Female (30) San Antonio, Texas
anxious romance reading lesbian here if you're looking for a hookup or fwb, I prefer to be with those who are used to being with women/wear a strap if you're looking for a relationship, I prefer to be with those who are monogamous, don't want kids, and don't live with their parents also my genital preference is v*gina
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
Hi! I’m Eros, I have a weird obsession with people getting turned on by my body. I am looking for someone I can send pictures to when they ask me! depending how I like you maybe I can send you videos. I am extremely submissive, but I am also pretty bratty… if you want videos of me playing with toys you can send me some~ I’ll send videos just for you~
Female (18) San Antonio, Texas
I love to have fun. I'm very open-minded and I love doing daring things. sometimes I'm in the mood for one two maybe even three type of men at the same time depending on the mood I'm in
Female (47) San Antonio, Texas
I am recently divorced and am looking to explore the lifestyle. I am a professional who makes a lot of decisions and enjoys turning my brain off when I am done for the day. I am looking for someone who wants to care for me after work and who would be willing to take control of things for me. I imagine that means a total power exchange? I am a submissive at heart - I thoroughly love serving my man as long as I feel the same level of effort is returned. I have been told that I’m a little and am around the age of 3 when I’m in that mindset. I don’t mind diapers but don’t need them either. My little tendencies come up when I get excited… my ADHD kicks up and I feel like I have the zoomies as I run and giggle and cause havoc. Things I enjoy: - reading erotic novels - puzzles - coloring - scary movies - haunted houses - escape rooms - rollercoasters - traveling - anything outdoors (I love both the beach AND the mountains) - adventures like geocaching and hiking - road trips
Female (48) San Antonio, Texas
***NO MEN***WOMEN ONLY*** Single mom. Not worried about BDSM. Haven't been with a woman in a while. Tired of men. New to SA Looking for friends to hang w. Wouldnt mind having someone to snuggle up to or make out with:), lonely😞 ***NO MEN WOMEN ONLY***
Female (47) San Antonio, Texas
Looking for someone in sa I'm not or don't plan on traveling. couples are fine, someone that can keep it interesting, looking for fwb
Female (37) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a newbie to the kinky community (kinda) 😅✨ Looking for someone to teach me a thing or two 🥹 Or someone to bully 🤭 Which ever comes first tbh.. Let’s get a drink? 🍸💕
Female (26) San Antonio, Texas
I’m looking for a long term relationship. But my whole fantasy is wanting an abusive boyfriend. Not just during sex but i want a guy that will *** me take your frustrations out on me… If you Dm me say “strawberries” so i know you read my bio. You must also show me std test results before we do anything intimate.
Female (20) San Antonio, Texas
(domme) here to dominate you & take what’s mine send yourself bowing down to me so ik it’s REAL if you want to worship feet/ass/tits/body then you’re in the right place :) ask for my twt to see more spicy pics!
Female (23) San Antonio, Texas
hello everyone I'm brand new to this so I'm not really sure what I am into. so for now friends will be nice. males, trans & females friends are welcomed. also I am single so males I am open to dating. and hoping to be I would love to find someone who loves to travel but doesn't want to do it alone. I myself have never been outside of Texas and I would love to see the rest of the world. I am a BBW who is open-minded.I spend most of the time looking after my elderly dad, I am a masseuse ,self employed so I make my own schedule. please keep in mind that I am new to this so I don't have all the terminology down yet.😉
Female (48) San Antonio, Texas

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