*On a temporary hiatus. I have a lot on my plate at the moment. I will still pop in occasionally and respond to messages when I can. I am much more interested in a full relationship than FWB going forward. May still consider the possibility, but can we please have something in common other than sex? Something more than vanilla?
Hard limits (please don't try to negotiate, BDSM is respecting boundaries) : Age range, FWB 28-48, relationship 33-43. Local only, I'm not driving more than 30 minutes, maybe moderate exceptions if it leans towards something serious. I also do not want to be the only one traveling. I don't like spit (also super unnecessary, I get and stay very wet easily), I do not do anal, I don't play with women (we can be friends ?), no ***, ***, urine, no marks visible in the workplace- this includes hickeys ( full stop, I will never give second chances, they're unprofessional and childish), no diapers, little play, pup/pony play, not an exhibitionist/voyeurism. Not playing with anyone who uses -hard- ***. I don't play with racist, sexist, heavily religious, hard right, or toxic/sensitive masculinity. LGBTQ+ friendly is a must. I am straight, cis attracted but an ally. I have a hard time enjoying sex with men considerably bigger than me, not weight shaming, I'm a bit chunky so not a high bar, but I like to play in a closer range. For context, my waist is about a guys size 38 if that helps. For serious relations, I'm kid free. I don't have any. I don't like most of them, I won't seriously date anyone with any. Adult kids out of the home are a different matter. Not interested in one night stands. Not here to help you cheat either. I don't have issues with open-poly, but it's not a dynamic I'm capable of.
Condoms until trust is there. I'm on depo, but I have no interest in burning or itching. I get tested regularly and expect the same of anyone I play with.
Now that I've pushed away half the state.
I'm submissive, sorry I don't have it in me to be a switch. I'm attracted to masculine energy (please know there is a difference between healthy and toxic). I love restraints. Ropes, cuffs, or just being physically pinned. Choking if done right. Impact play is fun (as always, if done right). Giving/receiving oral is fun, working on getting better at deep throating, help me practice? I -really- like getting my cervix hit. So unpopular opinion, size matters, motion of the ocean absolutely counts, but I'm not getting to England in a row boat. I do like mild size play. I'm massively curious about trying MFM, but as I don't have interest in reciprocating in the opposite not really a need-need. Have a decent toy collection, definitely working on adding more. Definitely into more, ask?
FWB- more interested in finding a full relationship, not against fwb but really need to enjoy company and want consistency.
Outside kinks, long term relationship would be nice. In that aspect, I like being somewhat domestic, as long as it's not inferred to be my job due to some archaric gender garbage, don't mind indoor cleaning (I am pale and freckle, I hate the sun xD) I love cooking, cross stitching is my old lady hobby, love video games (gamers much appreciated!), reading, cartoons, sci-fi, fantasy, all around huge geek. I have a few too many pets. Must love ***s. I do enjoy the occasional fishing and camping. Museums and the like are awesome. I am a godless heathen, I generally do not enjoy relations with the religious. I am a card carrying member of The Satanic Temple (not Satanism, protection of bodily autonomy). By local standards, I lean left. Not a patriotic bone in my body. Kind of a grumpy old lady, but I'm here to do good, not be positive. 420 friendly, light drinking, occasionally mushrooms.
