Find kinky women in Vermont

My first public play party was in 1982. Back then you had to know someone, who knew someone, who knew someone else, in order to be invited to any scene party. But once you were in, you were in! I recall as a child doing a variety of Dommely/sadistic things with the other kids in the neighborhood. As a ***ager, I would 'borrow' my dad's Variations and Forum Magazines. I was mesmerized with the forum letters about the 'kinkier' side of life! Dad was a harmless pervert, may he rest in peace, and I loved his library! Mom on the other hand, was extremely missionary! Although, I always wondered if she bought all those vibrators under her bedside, or dad! In college dating with kinky interests was difficult! I heard many times, "you wanna do what to my what? you're weird!" I thought I was the only one that had this 'twisted nature'. Finally, a couple of years out of college, I replied to ads in the Boston underground papers. Thus, the first BDSM play party. I'll never forget that night! Myself, another woman and seven guys! I was in awe when they were tying each other to suspension pulleys, an examining table, and the first Saint Andrews cross I'd ever seen! The teasing and ***ing by today's standards was quite simple, no ten's units, no 16 plait signal whips, no needles, honestly, just a few vibrators and toys! I remember being scared to death, and incredibly excited the entire night! I felt connected! Finally, I wasn't the only kinky pervert! What a life changing event! My new found comfort carried over to a few short term relationships in the next couple of years. Unfortunately, I finished out the 80s and early 90's in two consecutive vanilla multi-year relationships. Having felt alone with my kinks, at the end of the second vanilla relationship, I vowed to not go into a relationship without BDSM being a common factor. Several short term relationships, the introduction of the internet, spending time in Boston with other like minded kinksters, and my own natural creativity helped me move along the learning curve quite rapidly! Since that time I've lived to my vow. No vanilla partners! I confess that my view of BDSM has changed completely in the past two decades. I remember so clearly when having a new toy felt like it made me kinkier. Yes learning mummification, rope tricks, whip control, needle play, suspension all are great skills. But I don't feel that it's the skills or the toys that make me better. I do, however recognize deep within side me is a control gene. The same one that I had at the age of 9 while tying up the 'boy down the street'. I remember at the end of the first long term vanilla relationship, having a serious conversation with my partner. When I said, quite sincerely that I wanted slaves, I was immediately told I was sick and don't ever let anyone hear me talking that way! I honestly, felt completely at ease with my desire. That was about the eigh***th nail in the coffin of that relationship! I don't self define as a bondage queen, needle nut, cane commando, or *** princess! I can do all of those quite well. But, my single tail prowess is not me entirely. What makes me flourish is being in control. From simple tasks such as appearance, sleep habits, self esteem, to holding the end of the rope that will either release you or tighten you, as I see fit. If you have the need to find the depths of who you are, not just wanting to try, this *** trick or that new latex, then I will certainly love crawling into your being to dig out the truest of you! Is your mind ready for me?
Female (67) Mendon, Vermont
I want to be played with punished trained and used I am a bdsm slave with a daddy looking for a female Dom My roles: Puppy Little Brat Wanna be slave
Female (20) Lyndon Center, Vermont
I’m currently in a relationship . My man is currently living away from me and has told me to focus on me and my own needs. I am in a vanilla relationship and miss the lifestyle. I’m not completely sure what exactly I’m looking for on here. However I do know I’m looking for friends and not looking to jump/rush into anything . I want to see who’s out there and see if I can find a real connection with someone.
Female (47) Colchester, Vermont
I am a natural submissive. ideally I am looking for a long term Dom who is strong enough to handle me but also one who will care for me. Submission is a gift and I long for a man to deserve my gift. The greatest pleasure I know comes from the pleasure I give Him.
Female (40) Burlington, Vermont
Walking Magritte reference, enigma, neurodivergent....way easier to get to know me if you just ask me questions. My ultimate fantasy is choosing a random destination, hanging out there for a set amount of time and my dom comes and tracks me down and if he finds me he does what he wants with me and if he doesn't I win a reward. large scale spicy hide and seek
Female (28) Florence, Vermont
39 year old kinky BBW with a nice ass and big tits looking for some fun! I like men but would like explore more with women right now. message me if you want to know more or meet. Want to help me make content for onlyfans? https://onlyfans.com/sexyginger425.
Female (39) Forest Dale, Vermont
plus size submissive. I enjoy choking, restraints, spankings, and love when I slide into subspace, tears streaming release. I love aftercare as well.
Female (41) Brattleboro, Vermont
**PLEASE READ** Hello first let me introduce myself, my name is Anna but you can call me whatever you so choose. I am 34 years old, married. Discretion is a MUST I am still figuring out what all I am into and interested in. My likes and my dislikes. I am very new to all of this. I do know i like being dominated, i like when the man takes control. I myself am very submissive and looking for my daddy. Idealy i find someone who i click with and likes and wants the same things, someone who is willing to take care of me and me take care of them. Is that you? Well what you waiting for send that message daddy...
Female (35) Burlington, Vermont
I am limiting who I talk to and am closing my existing play circle because this site can be overwhelming. Feel free to follow me or like/comment on pics, but I may not respond to messages simply because there’s too many. Apologies in advance. Additional content available on FetLife, same name…that’s my preferred platform. Here for fun! If you know me outside of this app, no you don’t and let’s keep it that way. If you’re looking for someone to play Mommy, I’m not your girl. I also will never use the term Daddy in reference to someone I’m playing with. I am not sub outside of the bedroom, but a switch with women and generally sub with men. Both an exhibitionist and voyeur. She/Her, 5’5” and curvy with lots to hold onto (and you better hold tight). Discreet (except with sharing my own pics), DDF w/ regular testing, salpingectomy, vaxxed and boosted. Non-smoker, social drinker, 420 friendly but don’t partake. No cig smokers. Divorced, unattached, non-monogamous, unicorn- interested in singles, couples, or groups for ongoing ENM FWB fun. I am not looking for emotional attachments or LTR but not opposed if they happen. I love to make out, cuddle, and have meaningful conversations in addition to playtime. I do have a life outside of this including 2 fantastic pre-*** boys that I share custody of. My playtime doesn’t impact them and their time with me so please be patient. Be prepared to communicate to me for a while before even considering meeting up, I want to know more about you and am not just some f*** If you’ve made it this far and still interested , message me with your favorite non-sexual scent/smell
Female (38) Montpelier, Vermont
Writer, crafter, amature photographer, audiophile. Follow me for spicy short stories and poetry. Etsy shop SecretTreasuresByJae Instagram JaeArdenCreates X(Twitter) Jae_Arden Currently looking for LTR with a Dom or switch. Open to monogamous MF or poly MMF or MFM. Not interested one night hookups or long distance please. Pronouns: Good Girl/Eldritch Horror
Female (40) Windsor, Vermont
Only looking for BIsexual women who want a 3 way to be a cum slut for me and a boyfriend that's it. one time thing only maybe if I think the vide is right I'll keep. U around my rules only when it comes to 3 ways. Alpha female brat with a dominate brat tamer/ degrader Both interested in BDMS. Absolutely no swingers I Dont want ur ratched ass man and ur not touching mine unless I say so my man my rules
Female (23) Lyndon, Vermont
Just a fun, little bit wild, adventurous girl looking for a lady friends to have some fun with. love to go explore new places, have fun and laugh with everything we do, and fulfill some fantasies I’ve always wanted to try. ?? I have a man, so no men please. he is also a lot of fun and would love to see me fulfill them as well. ?
Female (38) Craftsbury Common, Vermont
hey I'm have a praise kink and I love petplay I'm looking for like minded friends possiblely more if we click
Female (23) Burlington, Vermont
My Daddy is loaning me out to use as you see fit. Now accepting applications.
Female (47) Montpelier, Vermont
Wanna know the difference between me & a mosquito? 😈🤪🤭 Looking for a fun arrangement(s) that is entirely stress and drama free! Happy to host for a sexy snuggle sesh 🤪😈 open to all connections! Hugeeee movie buff who enjoys acting like a feral gremlin when she finds shiny rocks outside 😂😂
Female (24) Sheldon, Vermont
Just a shy girl getting used to her dirtier side. Looking for friends and fun! feel free to reach out to chat sometime. I am 4/20 friendly. love reading and gaming. I am also in a relationship with my gorgeous lady
Female (23) Saint Albans, Vermont
Am I a naughty little slut that wants to please her daddy? ABSOLUTELY! Am I willing to give, and give, and give, and not receive. GO FUCK A COUCH! ??? I am a fantasy/Syfy lover. I play videogames, watching/reading, anime/manga. I like being active, doing stuff outside like hiking, kayaking,shooting guns.... I work a lot as a housekeeper. I love getting tattoos and will keep getting them until I am mostly covered. I am sober so not into being around people who drink or use. I smoke cigarettes rite now but am looking to quit in the future. I'm ok with people smoking green. I am pagan. I enjoy being around fellow weird people.
Female (35) Burlington, Vermont
I'm 40 recently single I moved up here from Saint Louis where I was born and raised for a relationship that ended up being toxic. I'm fun have a great sense of humor and down to earth. I'm very adventurous and kit going due to my up bringing which is another story. So I left and decided to be independent and go wherever life takes me. I want to find someone that I could start a life with . I'm looking for a long term relationship. I'm I'm just going to put it out there right in the beginning but I think besides having a friendship there should be a physical connection. I feel like I'm a queen and I wa r to be wanted and adored. I know what zj bring to the table. if you don't like to be affectionate and have a good sex life then j cant waste my time.I know what I want and deserve and sex isn't everything but it's important to have a good sex life
Female (40) Montpelier, Vermont
Shy at first Introverted extrovert Not the hookup type, I need an emotional connection Looking for a relationship (long distance is fine) or strictly a online flirtationship. Very interested in D/s dynamic (I am a bratty sub).
Female (27) Rutland, Vermont
Ultimately would like to find a Poly or ENM relationship ?, but open to exploring different relationships. Single, recently divorced from my husband of 7 yrs, together 11. 1 child (premee, didn't survive; Im doing great now.). *Tested clean, tied my tubes & vaxed. *420 FRIENDLY. I'm looking to explore my more curious side now that I'm single. Interested in light B**M. Enjoys: *Being ***d, spanked (not excessively rough), light to medium *** anywhere. Wants to explore: *Restraints, rope bondage, anal (w/ the right person),hot wax, FF, FM, FFM, MFMF, MFFM, possibly MFM. I have WhatsApp, snapchat (Preferred), will provide once comfortable
Female (38) Brookfield, Vermont
I'm really bad at the whole "write a description about yourself" thing.. but here goes ? I'm super weird, love coffee, going to the gym and running. Sunrises are my solitude. Reading grounds me (I'm a book worm). I've been in the lifestyle a while and need a Dom who knows the importance of a solid dynamic, not just the kinks. I need a MAN. Possessiveness and territoriality are a huge turn on. I tend to come off bratty and I love to push buttons, but with the right person all I want to do is be good girl and please. I have a lot of little tendencies and have been leaning more towards DDlg in the lifestyle ❤️ I don't share pictures of myself publicly but am happy to in messages if we hit it off ☺️
Female (31) Brattleboro, Vermont
New to BDSM looking to learn more and find my interests. Looking to date before I find play partners I am attracted to intellectually, and build trust over time. Must discuss hard/soft limits, safe words, and aftercare. Privacy required due to my job. Will send a picture after chatting.
Female (37) Corinth, Vermont
iso fwb! i'm a sub-leaning switch, 5'4", curvy 195, decent ass, great love handles, and even better tits. I tend to like things rougher (fingers deep & hard inside me, clit rubbed hard, nipples played with hard), and i'm into most things like I love to be slapped, ***d, gagged all that good rough stuff and I like spit play, bondage, bdsm, public sex, impact play, both praise and degredation-but also honestly any talk is hot to me, sadism/massochism, sensory deprecation and totally down to try new things!! Also no real penises in my vagina or asshole but down for giving/recieving oral and fingers or my dildo are always welcome inside me. message me & see if we vibe💋
Female (27) South Burlington, Vermont
Most interested in education/ networking.
Female (42) Burlington, Vermont

New members in Vermont

I’m currently in a relationship . My man is currently living away from me and has told me to focus on me and my own needs. I am in a vanilla relationship and miss the lifestyle. I’m not completely sure what exactly I’m looking for on here. However I do know I’m looking for friends and not looking to jump/rush into anything . I want to see who’s out there and see if I can find a real connection with someone.
Female (47) Colchester, Vermont
I want to be played with punished trained and used I am a bdsm slave with a daddy looking for a female Dom My roles: Puppy Little Brat Wanna be slave
Female (20) Lyndon Center, Vermont
My first public play party was in 1982. Back then you had to know someone, who knew someone, who knew someone else, in order to be invited to any scene party. But once you were in, you were in! I recall as a child doing a variety of Dommely/sadistic things with the other kids in the neighborhood. As a ***ager, I would 'borrow' my dad's Variations and Forum Magazines. I was mesmerized with the forum letters about the 'kinkier' side of life! Dad was a harmless pervert, may he rest in peace, and I loved his library! Mom on the other hand, was extremely missionary! Although, I always wondered if she bought all those vibrators under her bedside, or dad! In college dating with kinky interests was difficult! I heard many times, "you wanna do what to my what? you're weird!" I thought I was the only one that had this 'twisted nature'. Finally, a couple of years out of college, I replied to ads in the Boston underground papers. Thus, the first BDSM play party. I'll never forget that night! Myself, another woman and seven guys! I was in awe when they were tying each other to suspension pulleys, an examining table, and the first Saint Andrews cross I'd ever seen! The teasing and ***ing by today's standards was quite simple, no ten's units, no 16 plait signal whips, no needles, honestly, just a few vibrators and toys! I remember being scared to death, and incredibly excited the entire night! I felt connected! Finally, I wasn't the only kinky pervert! What a life changing event! My new found comfort carried over to a few short term relationships in the next couple of years. Unfortunately, I finished out the 80s and early 90's in two consecutive vanilla multi-year relationships. Having felt alone with my kinks, at the end of the second vanilla relationship, I vowed to not go into a relationship without BDSM being a common factor. Several short term relationships, the introduction of the internet, spending time in Boston with other like minded kinksters, and my own natural creativity helped me move along the learning curve quite rapidly! Since that time I've lived to my vow. No vanilla partners! I confess that my view of BDSM has changed completely in the past two decades. I remember so clearly when having a new toy felt like it made me kinkier. Yes learning mummification, rope tricks, whip control, needle play, suspension all are great skills. But I don't feel that it's the skills or the toys that make me better. I do, however recognize deep within side me is a control gene. The same one that I had at the age of 9 while tying up the 'boy down the street'. I remember at the end of the first long term vanilla relationship, having a serious conversation with my partner. When I said, quite sincerely that I wanted slaves, I was immediately told I was sick and don't ever let anyone hear me talking that way! I honestly, felt completely at ease with my desire. That was about the eigh***th nail in the coffin of that relationship! I don't self define as a bondage queen, needle nut, cane commando, or *** princess! I can do all of those quite well. But, my single tail prowess is not me entirely. What makes me flourish is being in control. From simple tasks such as appearance, sleep habits, self esteem, to holding the end of the rope that will either release you or tighten you, as I see fit. If you have the need to find the depths of who you are, not just wanting to try, this *** trick or that new latex, then I will certainly love crawling into your being to dig out the truest of you! Is your mind ready for me?
Female (67) Mendon, Vermont
I am a natural submissive. ideally I am looking for a long term Dom who is strong enough to handle me but also one who will care for me. Submission is a gift and I long for a man to deserve my gift. The greatest pleasure I know comes from the pleasure I give Him.
Female (40) Burlington, Vermont
Wanna know the difference between me & a mosquito? 😈🤪🤭 Looking for a fun arrangement(s) that is entirely stress and drama free! Happy to host for a sexy snuggle sesh 🤪😈 open to all connections! Hugeeee movie buff who enjoys acting like a feral gremlin when she finds shiny rocks outside 😂😂
Female (24) Sheldon, Vermont
Just a shy girl getting used to her dirtier side. Looking for friends and fun! feel free to reach out to chat sometime. I am 4/20 friendly. love reading and gaming. I am also in a relationship with my gorgeous lady
Female (23) Saint Albans, Vermont
iso fwb! i'm a sub-leaning switch, 5'4", curvy 195, decent ass, great love handles, and even better tits. I tend to like things rougher (fingers deep & hard inside me, clit rubbed hard, nipples played with hard), and i'm into most things like I love to be slapped, ***d, gagged all that good rough stuff and I like spit play, bondage, bdsm, public sex, impact play, both praise and degredation-but also honestly any talk is hot to me, sadism/massochism, sensory deprecation and totally down to try new things!! Also no real penises in my vagina or asshole but down for giving/recieving oral and fingers or my dildo are always welcome inside me. message me & see if we vibe💋
Female (27) South Burlington, Vermont
plus size submissive. I enjoy choking, restraints, spankings, and love when I slide into subspace, tears streaming release. I love aftercare as well.
Female (41) Brattleboro, Vermont
Walking Magritte reference, enigma, neurodivergent....way easier to get to know me if you just ask me questions. My ultimate fantasy is choosing a random destination, hanging out there for a set amount of time and my dom comes and tracks me down and if he finds me he does what he wants with me and if he doesn't I win a reward. large scale spicy hide and seek
Female (28) Florence, Vermont
Only looking for BIsexual women who want a 3 way to be a cum slut for me and a boyfriend that's it. one time thing only maybe if I think the vide is right I'll keep. U around my rules only when it comes to 3 ways. Alpha female brat with a dominate brat tamer/ degrader Both interested in BDMS. Absolutely no swingers I Dont want ur ratched ass man and ur not touching mine unless I say so my man my rules
Female (23) Lyndon, Vermont
My Daddy is loaning me out to use as you see fit. Now accepting applications.
Female (47) Montpelier, Vermont
New to BDSM looking to learn more and find my interests. Looking to date before I find play partners I am attracted to intellectually, and build trust over time. Must discuss hard/soft limits, safe words, and aftercare. Privacy required due to my job. Will send a picture after chatting.
Female (37) Corinth, Vermont
Shy at first Introverted extrovert Not the hookup type, I need an emotional connection Looking for a relationship (long distance is fine) or strictly a online flirtationship. Very interested in D/s dynamic (I am a bratty sub).
Female (27) Rutland, Vermont
Ultimately would like to find a Poly or ENM relationship ?, but open to exploring different relationships. Single, recently divorced from my husband of 7 yrs, together 11. 1 child (premee, didn't survive; Im doing great now.). *Tested clean, tied my tubes & vaxed. *420 FRIENDLY. I'm looking to explore my more curious side now that I'm single. Interested in light B**M. Enjoys: *Being ***d, spanked (not excessively rough), light to medium *** anywhere. Wants to explore: *Restraints, rope bondage, anal (w/ the right person),hot wax, FF, FM, FFM, MFMF, MFFM, possibly MFM. I have WhatsApp, snapchat (Preferred), will provide once comfortable
Female (38) Brookfield, Vermont
Am I a naughty little slut that wants to please her daddy? ABSOLUTELY! Am I willing to give, and give, and give, and not receive. GO FUCK A COUCH! ??? I am a fantasy/Syfy lover. I play videogames, watching/reading, anime/manga. I like being active, doing stuff outside like hiking, kayaking,shooting guns.... I work a lot as a housekeeper. I love getting tattoos and will keep getting them until I am mostly covered. I am sober so not into being around people who drink or use. I smoke cigarettes rite now but am looking to quit in the future. I'm ok with people smoking green. I am pagan. I enjoy being around fellow weird people.
Female (35) Burlington, Vermont
I am limiting who I talk to and am closing my existing play circle because this site can be overwhelming. Feel free to follow me or like/comment on pics, but I may not respond to messages simply because there’s too many. Apologies in advance. Additional content available on FetLife, same name…that’s my preferred platform. Here for fun! If you know me outside of this app, no you don’t and let’s keep it that way. If you’re looking for someone to play Mommy, I’m not your girl. I also will never use the term Daddy in reference to someone I’m playing with. I am not sub outside of the bedroom, but a switch with women and generally sub with men. Both an exhibitionist and voyeur. She/Her, 5’5” and curvy with lots to hold onto (and you better hold tight). Discreet (except with sharing my own pics), DDF w/ regular testing, salpingectomy, vaxxed and boosted. Non-smoker, social drinker, 420 friendly but don’t partake. No cig smokers. Divorced, unattached, non-monogamous, unicorn- interested in singles, couples, or groups for ongoing ENM FWB fun. I am not looking for emotional attachments or LTR but not opposed if they happen. I love to make out, cuddle, and have meaningful conversations in addition to playtime. I do have a life outside of this including 2 fantastic pre-*** boys that I share custody of. My playtime doesn’t impact them and their time with me so please be patient. Be prepared to communicate to me for a while before even considering meeting up, I want to know more about you and am not just some f*** If you’ve made it this far and still interested , message me with your favorite non-sexual scent/smell
Female (38) Montpelier, Vermont
Most interested in education/ networking.
Female (42) Burlington, Vermont
hey I'm have a praise kink and I love petplay I'm looking for like minded friends possiblely more if we click
Female (23) Burlington, Vermont
**PLEASE READ** Hello first let me introduce myself, my name is Anna but you can call me whatever you so choose. I am 34 years old, married. Discretion is a MUST I am still figuring out what all I am into and interested in. My likes and my dislikes. I am very new to all of this. I do know i like being dominated, i like when the man takes control. I myself am very submissive and looking for my daddy. Idealy i find someone who i click with and likes and wants the same things, someone who is willing to take care of me and me take care of them. Is that you? Well what you waiting for send that message daddy...
Female (35) Burlington, Vermont
39 year old kinky BBW with a nice ass and big tits looking for some fun! I like men but would like explore more with women right now. message me if you want to know more or meet. Want to help me make content for onlyfans? https://onlyfans.com/sexyginger425.
Female (39) Forest Dale, Vermont
I'm 40 recently single I moved up here from Saint Louis where I was born and raised for a relationship that ended up being toxic. I'm fun have a great sense of humor and down to earth. I'm very adventurous and kit going due to my up bringing which is another story. So I left and decided to be independent and go wherever life takes me. I want to find someone that I could start a life with . I'm looking for a long term relationship. I'm I'm just going to put it out there right in the beginning but I think besides having a friendship there should be a physical connection. I feel like I'm a queen and I wa r to be wanted and adored. I know what zj bring to the table. if you don't like to be affectionate and have a good sex life then j cant waste my time.I know what I want and deserve and sex isn't everything but it's important to have a good sex life
Female (40) Montpelier, Vermont
Just a fun, little bit wild, adventurous girl looking for a lady friends to have some fun with. love to go explore new places, have fun and laugh with everything we do, and fulfill some fantasies I’ve always wanted to try. ?? I have a man, so no men please. he is also a lot of fun and would love to see me fulfill them as well. ?
Female (38) Craftsbury Common, Vermont
I'm really bad at the whole "write a description about yourself" thing.. but here goes ? I'm super weird, love coffee, going to the gym and running. Sunrises are my solitude. Reading grounds me (I'm a book worm). I've been in the lifestyle a while and need a Dom who knows the importance of a solid dynamic, not just the kinks. I need a MAN. Possessiveness and territoriality are a huge turn on. I tend to come off bratty and I love to push buttons, but with the right person all I want to do is be good girl and please. I have a lot of little tendencies and have been leaning more towards DDlg in the lifestyle ❤️ I don't share pictures of myself publicly but am happy to in messages if we hit it off ☺️
Female (31) Brattleboro, Vermont
Writer, crafter, amature photographer, audiophile. Follow me for spicy short stories and poetry. Etsy shop SecretTreasuresByJae Instagram JaeArdenCreates X(Twitter) Jae_Arden Currently looking for LTR with a Dom or switch. Open to monogamous MF or poly MMF or MFM. Not interested one night hookups or long distance please. Pronouns: Good Girl/Eldritch Horror
Female (40) Windsor, Vermont

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